Another unexpected reprieve for Babusahib? - Page 18

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL waise is point pe I remembered one thing I've been meaning to say since many days.....Imlie ki har harkat Adi ko nautanki lagti hai and humesha usko itna bolta rehta hai ki tum nautanki kar rahi ho....but Didi itni MAHA NAUTANKIS karti hai yet Adi never once has the guts to call out that she's doing DRAMA for ATTENTION😆

Yeh saare accusations Imlie ke liye save karne hain....kyun? lol just cuz woh chhoti hai? Didi ke so called "professional accomplishments" ki wajah se you can't call out what a maha twisted nautanki she is? 😆

Dum hai iss baat main😆

Guess it all comes down to again adi feeling that haq to even call out imlie like that ke uska har kuch genuine bhi nautanki lage isse toh keh de moonh pe but didi ke saath 7 saal main itna bhi ease nahi hai ke moonh pe.bol de ke kya naatak hai.. woh formality ke dewar has always been there.. they have so much distance regardless of the happenings now always have had one can see kitna bada gap hai but somehow they thought they were perfect ..*mind bogglung stuff* jahan they don't even have the liberty to.say it as it is in clear wordssss ke.kya hai yeh.. the constant need to bhithao her on pedestal bot be harsh with words. Sure adi called our her stunt but again it wasn't as rough as should have been.. hypothetically had imlie been in the place toh usko kitna sunata usko toh choti choti baat pe sunata hai ke tum.yehi chahti ho na hum tadpein humein dard ho humara test leti ho hahah tum jaan ke karti ho na yeh sab.. rofl but yahan nahi caz they never formed that emotional intimacy jitna marzi dhindora Peet lein and everydayyyyy every bloody day they give us 10 examples of this very thing hahah

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL yeah I was mentioning this in some post earlier in the thread too.....I actually liked that Imlie ne subconsciously use apna ghar maana toh sahi😆.....inadvertently it showed ki she considers all this apna but holds herself back from claiming it.....just like she holds herself back from claiming Adi.

Didi ofcourse instantly seized on that line to guilt trip Imlie and Imlie backtrack kar bhi gayi guilt mein ki nahin nahin, sasural toh bahu ka ghar hota hai...it's all yours😆

Imlie ne innocently hi sahi but demarcation sahi pakda....lol Malini holds herself so aloof and above everyone ki woh C house ko hi uska ghar samjhenge....when you yourself keep leaving your sasural in a fit every few days, toh kaise reh jaayegi perception anymore that it's your house?😆.....log toh yehi sochenge na ki the house you keep running back to ....i.e. your parents ka ghar is the one you actually consider home.

So that way Malini herself is burning her rights on T house being considered her home but dosh obviously Imlie ko degi ki how dare you call it YOUR home😆.

To me it also showed how small hearted Malini is that Imlie just calling that her home makes her feel so insecure like it can't be her home if Imlie ka ho gaya....all this without Imlie even having any official rights in the house.....lol

I think I said it too before but will say it again just caz it is buried somewhere now haha

Didi slipped showed her chota mann and choti soch but then immediately realized oops blunder ho gaya toh when imlie asked ke.woh move kar jaayegi she went back.to so now you think we can be under one roof and I went What the bloody hell is she supposed to think you just pakdooed her choti si baat.. which again is sure her house as she lives there.. koi jaydaad main hissa toh nahi maang lia the place you live in you call home and even otherwise it is very much IMLIE's home she has filled it with khusyiaan she has put effort in keeping the relationships together woh ghara banaya hai imlie ne sacrifices ki hai uske liye pyaar dia hai samjhote kiye hain unlike you just caz you have the label right now doesn't automatically make it yours sirf nameplate se ghar nahi bante uske liye mehnat lagti hai jo aapse toh Ho naa paayegi

Also about the ghar jab yeh khud ko abhi bhi chaturvedi kehti ghumti hain toh kis haq se T house iska hua.. now.i get it maayka hamesha rehta hai to fall back upon it is a safety blanket but only jab tak maa baap.hote hain in most cases. So.yeab while technically c house will be her backup all the time she never made T house her priority either she never gave the C house backup wala status and tried to make T house her own

aap ka toh yeh haal.hai ke aapke biggadte rishte ko bhi koi aur aake sambhale jawab de khud ko responsible bole aap toh woh bhi nahin kar sakti

Waise it ties back to the bridge incident and it makes so much more sense in how she will always always need a 3rd person ka support apne liye yeh kuch kar hi nahi sakti despite her bazillion am.strong I will fight bhashans.. then too imlie had to.come and coax her beg her to save herself she was toh like whatever it is pretty much a parallel to the situation right now she wants a 3rd person to come and solve her marriage issues too caz yeh toh bhaithi hai defeatist banke na poochegi na kuch karegi and mentally will keep.going damn na ghar mera na pati rofl main toh marr hi gayi lol

Originally posted by: MuteButton

They will be absolutely fine after they know the truth - Imlie is going to be loved and accepted. Just saying their perception of Malini is not going to change much.

Everyone else should be okay with it. Nishanth I could care two hoots about. But the only person I see not being okay with Aditya-Imlie is Aparna, at least in the beginning. This woman genuinely believes that Aditya is a lost hope and the only person who can deal with him is Malini. 😆 She thinks No one can love him more than Malini. 😆 But also, Aparna has motherly feelings for Imlie. When she was shot, Aparna could feel the unease within her. So let’s see. In T family I am most interested in seeing Aparna’s reaction.

I don’t think the characters will ever see Malini the way she is showed to the audience so I have no hope there. I would just be happy if T family realize that aditya and Malini are not right for each other. And see the difference between Aditya with Imlie and Aditya with Malini. Phir dhood ka dhood aur paani ka paani ho jayenga. 😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

If Malini knows her relationship is over, why was she so desperately clinging to Adi's hand during her "panic attack" and repeating over and over ki "Yeh mere husband hain"? 🤔😆

So no, I don't think she's given up fully yet....she wants to continue in this limbo and doesn't want to face the truth of Adi being in love with someone of an "inferior" status than her.....that is why she will continue her nautanki of trying to "find answers".

Because breaking it walking away takes courage and she doesn't have that she isn't imlie ke do baat khatam rishta khatam she is a coward at core just like her mother who.stilk suspects but 20 saal nikaal diye aise hi.. caz tag rakhna hai na Mrs.. ka.. it is that tag they can't give up knowing having hunches though again malini ka case is different adi hasn't cheated unlike woh patterns dev

I vaguely remember having this discussion before ke AC had everything naam education piasa all she lacked was courage to get rid of toxicity she chose that and now malini is doing same she has everything too heck she even has family support which ac didn't had as per her one monoligue ke woh apna family se rishta tod ke shaadi ki thi DC se. ...yet she will remains coward heck malini is even a step ahead in that way ke chalo ac ko ek.sec ke.liye benefit of doubt de bhi dia ke jaati kahan and that stopped her or the kid .. what is malini's excuse she has a support in her family no bache vache to.attach her but nahi.yeh phir bhi coward hi rahegi..

Oh and thr best was her telling imlie ke woh bandh gayi hai.. adi se ghar se didi se...didi yeh aapki soch hai..😆 sure she is bandhi but not in the way you were projecting it.. she is bandhi by mann but you were making it out of force.. rishte main bandhna as a prisoner is your trait not anyone else and adi is all about making it free give liberty isi liye aap log fail ho rahe hain not imlie in anyway

Originally posted by: PPak

Very true what you are saying. But that is why Malini's character raises such strong reactions. Makers have managed to create a character which looks close to completely reasonable on the surface - if you see her by the book - but as viewers - you see many more layers that highlight her many flaws. But makers never acknowledge this. I've never been able to figure out if this is brilliantly done intentionally (via screen play and acting) - even though it is frustrating for viewers or if I'm influenced to be suspicious by our love for Adilie and maybe that is maker intent - make what you will of her - but we will never criticise her in show. As someone mentioned yesterday - makers may never resolve this for us - and for me not having characters assessed and locked down is very frustrating - i need to have a character sketch laid down - be consistent and grow or fall. I loved the fact that Adi and Imlie conducted themselves so well in the face of Malini type of weardown...but you never see them having a internal mental discussion on who she really is - instead we get over the top didi jaap and mature understanding person from Adi...which implies it tottaly goes over their head.

Sorry for the rant on topic :)

Word to everything you said. I feel the same too. The disconnect between how audience sees her and the characters see her is so evident, it gets frustrating. And then the way she changes her behavior every other episode. 1 episode imlie is a naukarani and next episode imlie is very important to her. 1 episode she wants to fight for her relationship and next episode she wants to leave home and give up i am like why are none of the characters seeing this, it is happening in front of them? 🤔I just fail to understand Malini half the times causing the frustration. Her thought process is impossible to understand. Even in yesterday’s episode I just could not figure out if she wanted to hear the truth or not. With Aditya she has panic attack and then she round about way wants to hear it from imlie and lastly episode ends with her determination to hear the truth. And the precap makes even less sense. 😆 Is she trying to make Aditya jealous, is she playing mind games to learn the truth, or does she just want a upper hand in affair also to pacify her ego. Pata nahin. 😆🥱

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL yeah I was mentioning this in some post earlier in the thread too.....I actually liked that Imlie ne subconsciously use apna ghar maana toh sahi😆.....inadvertently it showed ki she considers all this apna but holds herself back from claiming it.....just like she holds herself back from claiming Adi.

Didi ofcourse instantly seized on that line to guilt trip Imlie and Imlie backtrack kar bhi gayi guilt mein ki nahin nahin, sasural toh bahu ka ghar hota hai...it's all yours😆

Imlie ne innocently hi sahi but demarcation sahi pakda....lol Malini holds herself so aloof and above everyone ki woh C house ko hi uska ghar samjhenge....when you yourself keep leaving your sasural in a fit every few days, toh kaise reh jaayegi perception anymore that it's your house?😆.....log toh yehi sochenge na ki the house you keep running back to ....i.e. your parents ka ghar is the one you actually consider home.

So that way Malini herself is burning her rights on T house being considered her home but dosh obviously Imlie ko degi ki how dare you call it YOUR home😆.

To me it also showed how small hearted Malini is that Imlie just calling that her home makes her feel so insecure like it can't be her home if Imlie ka ho gaya....all this without Imlie even having any official rights in the house.....lol

So true on hold... Malini never showed the tendency or the apaniyat to that house. Whenever there is a problem, she goes away to her maayka as she is most comfortable there. If she would have considered this her house, she would have stayed here and faced the problems. A sasural does not become a home just because you got married, its take a lot of effort and self conditioning to do make that happen. Imlie went through that test may be intentionally or unintentionally due to circumstance but for her T's house was the only option and she made it her own inspite of all "khari-khoti" that she had to hear from Aditya in the beginning and now its her only home.

The whole hospital scene showed so many shades of their characters but one thing that was the focus was that Aditya -Imlie were a team. It would have been so typical of Imlie to blame Aditya in this scenario but even in that tough moment, knowing the reality, they could both share what they are feeling in such a simple way is so admiring.

Does Malini by any chance drag Imlie into whatever jhol she is trying to cook with that professor? Considering Aditya and Malini’s conversations are anyway incomplete without dragging in Imlie into it 😔

Bumping up with this useless sa theory 😛😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Because breaking it walking away takes courage and she doesn't have that she isn't imlie ke do baat khatam rishta khatam she is a coward at core just like her mother who.stilk suspects but 20 saal nikaal diye aise hi.. caz tag rakhna hai na Mrs.. ka.. it is that tag they can't give up knowing having hunches though again malini ka case is different adi hasn't cheated unlike woh patterns dev

I vaguely remember having this discussion before ke AC had everything naam education piasa all she lacked was courage to get rid of toxicity she chose that and now malini is doing same she has everything too heck she even has family support which ac didn't had as per her one monoligue ke woh apna family se rishta tod ke shaadi ki thi DC se. ...yet she will remains coward heck malini is even a step ahead in that way ke chalo ac ko ek.sec ke.liye benefit of doubt de bhi dia ke jaati kahan and that stopped her or the kid .. what is malini's excuse she has a support in her family no bache vache to.attach her but nahi.yeh phir bhi coward hi rahegi..

Oh and thr best was her telling imlie ke woh bandh gayi hai.. adi se ghar se didi se...didi yeh aapki soch hai..😆 sure she is bandhi but not in the way you were projecting it.. she is bandhi by mann but you were making it out of force.. rishte main bandhna as a prisoner is your trait not anyone else and adi is all about making it free give liberty isi liye aap log fail ho rahe hain not imlie in anyway

Oh lol thanks for reminding me....she said so much WTF crap as usual, it's hard to remember all of it😆

But she really is darkness in every word she speaks....matlab koi bhi achhi baat nikal hi nahin sakti iske muh se....she makes even staying with someone feel like bandhna....being tied to someone...she makes it sound like a trap, a cage rather than being BONDED which is a more positive word to use for being tied to someone......

So yeah, as usual she used her bakwaas twisted talk to make Imlie feel like she was being reeled into some darkness with the way woh "bandh" gayi hai Malini se, Aditya se.....it sounded hella creepy the way Didi said it as always...total soul sucker she is.....Dementors ko bhi maat de de yeh toh.

As you said, iska aur AC ka same haal hai.....khud bhi puri zindagi unhappy rahenge and aas paas bhi sabko unhappy rakhenge while claiming that they are trying to find "answers" and "solutions"

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Waise it ties back to the bridge incident and it makes so much more sense in how she will always always need a 3rd person ka support apne liye yeh kuch kar hi nahi sakti despite her bazillion am.strong I will fight bhashans.. then too imlie had to.come and coax her beg her to save herself she was toh like whatever it is pretty much a parallel to the situation right now she wants a 3rd person to come and solve her marriage issues too caz yeh toh bhaithi hai defeatist banke na poochegi na kuch karegi and mentally will keep.going damn na ghar mera na pati rofl main toh marr hi gayi lol

So much Word to the bold😆.....bas khaali naare lagvaa lo isse about how she's the only one making efforts to "fight" or whatever crap she keeps babbling....but karne pe kuch nahin hota isse....bas baith ke rona hai aur dusron ko paagal karna hai in her twisted mind games.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

While we are at convos - woh bolegi nahin kya ki Rupali ko pata hai? Or will it be a similar reveal like Prakash ki suddenly aa gaya baat karte hue. I want Rupali and Aditya to talk. I want Aditya and Mithi to also talk. Bahut zyaada talking chahiye humen 😆

@bold: +1.....yes, lots of talking is LONG overdue😆. They really need a subject shift from Malini for a bit so I would like it if they talked about Rupi knowing and then Rupi subsequently talking to Adi too.

Jitna Didi sabka bheja fry kar chuki hai is week, woh kaafi hai.....ab maaf karo aur baakiyon ko bhi PERFORM karne do😛