DEVA RE DEVA.. the overflowing katora of sympathy - Page 5

Mein toh katora aur baalti leke aayi hun to gift her (Malini) . Jitna bheek maanga hai mange woh uss katori aur balti mein. Kal Imlie ehsaan v lauta degi❤️.

Jo adventurous bridal stunt karte hai, duniya sirf uski value karti hai aur jo log yeh stunt nahi karte unki koi value hi nahi hai ? Koi mandatory criteria hai kya jo woh stunt Malini karke apne aap ko prove karna chahti hai how depressed, traumatized she was?

Adventurous Bridal Stunt karne se value badhegi dollar jaisi aur upar se certified bechari ka tag v milega duniya se Malini ko...Dhanya hai agar koi Malini ki iss harkat se uske liye koi pain feel karta hai🤣

Originally posted by: AreYaar

That might be the only silver lining in all this😆......Imlie can get a clean slate on the khoon ka karz atleast😆

@Lodestar: Didi ki bakwaas they will keep on showing in flashbacks for the rest of the week I'm sure as someone discovers her suicide note.....so up to you if you want to sit through her next level psychotic kaands today.....fair warning, it's quite infuriating and yes, triggering :P

Agree on donating blood thing- I think AC will find the letter and realize that Malini was talking about Imlie. Only she can figure out who Malini was referring to.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

That might be the only silver lining in all this😆......Imlie can get a clean slate on the khoon ka karz atleast😆

@Lodestar: Didi ki bakwaas they will keep on showing in flashbacks for the rest of the week I'm sure as someone discovers her suicide note.....so up to you if you want to sit through her next level psychotic kaands today.....fair warning, it's quite infuriating and yes, triggering :P

I swear I can't explain my happiness at the stupid khoon ka karz always wanted imlie to moonh pe maaro that do boond khoon.. ab didi can't rub it in.. I was like ek.aur bottle intrest deke aaye ke spare rakh lo ehsaan poora.. same to you back to you no return way main..

Ofcourse poora thesis likhi hai it will be played for us on loop to guilt trip us.. except I feel only MICHMICHI

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

I guess I am MORE DISGUSTED at the fact at how shameless tbeh actually are itna sab ke baad bhi adi ke saath hi bhejni hai..on one hand you deem him responsible for your daughter's condition then why just why would you send your daughter again with him...is there any logic in it.. why would you want your kid being in the relationship when you think she is only unhappy why would you not actively try to put sense in the boat's head that nope.it is time to break off and give the brat some sat bhuddhi instead of indulging into the tantrum again

LOL wohi toh...it's all feeling even more pathetic cuz we all know is sab ke baad bhi end result is just going to be Didi returning back to T house with Adi dabaaoed under a new brand of guilt trip.....

Cs will all conveniently forget kya ilzaam lagaaye Adi pe....if their Princess demands it, yeh log do minute mein roll over karke flip karenge and go along with whatever she asks again....baaki side pe Adi ko dhamkiyaan bhi dete rahenge as he hangs around in laachaar mode now I guess.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

I guess I am MORE DISGUSTED at the fact at how shameless tbeh actually are itna sab ke baad bhi adi ke saath hi bhejni hai..on one hand you deem him responsible for your daughter's condition then why just why would you send your daughter again with him...is there any logic in it.. why would you want your kid being in the relationship when you think she is only unhappy why would you not actively try to put sense in the boat's head that nope.it is time to break off and give the brat some sat bhuddhi instead of indulging into the tantrum again

Exactly... if you daughter is taken this big step, wouldn’t you actively pursue and ensure that she does not go back to the person who is responsible for this haalat. Why would you even want your daughter to give him the second chance? plus are they just going to indulge her this behavior, no one so going to question her on this extreme step and how are they going to guarantee that she is not going to do this again or Aditya is going to keep her happy. He knows he can’t but everyone is going to force him and then for every tantrum that she throws because he does show care, they are going to blame him and it’s goes on.... what a vicious cycle

Malini ke liye to excuse ho Gaya, no body listening to me so go to the deep end and everyone will start doing my Pooja

People will never stop victimising women and blindly passing guilty verdict on men.🙄

A relationship is a two way street, the onus is NOT only on the man to keep the woman happy. If Malini has been miserable, Aditya wasn’t dancing with joy either. He literally told his family that he feels ghutan with Malini. But if he committed suicide, would his family give the same bhashan to Malini/her family? NO. The guilty verdict would have been passed on him then too that he wanted to make Malini a widow or something. After this, Aditya is fully justified in walking out with Imlie and leaving his family behind.

A relationship is not a mere transaction, Daadi. It may have been for you and your son, but it doesn’t have to be for everyone. That is no way to live! Malini lost Adi a long time back, because of her failure to communicate with him properly. Is that Adi’s fault also? She had a LOT of chances, to question him...to communicate her fears with him. But she didn’t. Adi grew distant from her, but tried to still communicate with her every single time. Even yesterday, he called Malini that he wanted to come to her and talk. But your poti declined because she didn’t want to hear the truth and did her grand kaand with the intention to bind him with her out of guilt.

Suhaagan banna is not merely wearing chunni, makeup, jewellery & demanding wifely rights from husband. You have to put effort into the relationship. You have to be willing to communicate & listen to your husband and care about what he wants too for a change. You have to be in sync with his emotions. Your poti is a grand failure at that and that’s why her relationship failed. Declaring Adi responsible for her suicide will not change this.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

I swear I can't explain my happiness at the stupid khoon ka karz always wanted imlie to moonh pe maaro that do boond khoon.. ab didi can't rub it in.. I was like ek.aur bottle intrest deke aaye ke spare rakh lo ehsaan poora.. same to you back to you no return way main..

Ofcourse poora thesis likhi hai it will be played for us on loop to guilt trip us.. except I feel only MICHMICHI

seriously that is one thing that was the only good thing about the whole freaking episode that the khoon ka Karz is gone... if somebody can explain me this education karz that Imlie keep giving Malini credit of because other than that one or two conversation, I do not remember Malini ever actively taking interest in her padaai.

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

Agree on donating blood thing- I think AC will find the letter and realize that Malini was talking about Imlie. Line she can figure out who Malini was referring to.

LOL yes, they may save the letter for AC to discover....waise toh Dev-Daadi should also be able to guess which girl the letter is referencing based on the talk Malini had with them but they are both pea-brained too so unse kya expect karna.....perfect timing hai for AC to come guns blazing on discovering the letter😆

Originally posted by: pamk06

Exactly... if you daughter is taken this big step, wouldn’t you actively pursue and ensure that she does not go back to the person who is responsible for this haalat. Why would you even want your daughter to give him the second chance? plus are they just going to indulge her this behavior, no one so going to question her on this extreme step and how are they going to guarantee that she is not going to do this again or Aditya is going to keep her happy. He knows he can’t but everyone is going to force him and then for every tantrum that she throws because he does show care, they are going to blame him and it’s goes on.... what a vicious cycle

Malini ke liye to excuse ho Gaya, no body listening to me so go to the deep end and everyone will start doing my Pooja

Wohi toh where is the conscious.. the absolute lack.of.it.is what is triggering me.. which patents wallet this daughter who needs such serious help on so many levels go back to the very same guy they have accused so seriously in a sec.just caz their despo daughter is saying it now and is desperate for.atgention..and which sasural will take this kind of daughter in law back even on humanitarian grounds too. Everyone will be like see we understand but it is best to keep her away until she is stable.. whi would.want somebody suicidal on their ghar and want a police case.. if they even forget the beizzati and golden alfaaz they used for their beta.

I was just loathing aparna calling adi khadoos and all that too sorry but apana pair dho ke pee lo

ok.. had to brace myself to watch the scenes.. and then read this thread to know the frustration levels to tiffany before posting my 2 cents.

A well thought out plan, timed to perfection and executed well by Malini, who even wrote a note that he is not responsible for her death but that she could not bear to live without his love and share him with another person. This was not based on facts but drew her own conclusions, afraid to hear the truth from Adi and decided to take this extreme step in lieu of hearing his truth.

A weaker, more foolish and manipulative woman to the power of tiffany, I have not seen and God I hope I never will. All she ever wanted from him was love as she has seen her parents living a sham of a marriage... I agree with what the rest of the forum waasis have written here..

Amidst the doom n gloom, the writers were using the same words in diff ways, that was interpreted by Imlie in her sweet little speech with such confidence and by Mun.

The cut between Imlie's speech n Malini's... grand stage setting was jarring... just let us have a moment to enjoy Imlie's victory and savor it... nahi.. they have to flip back n forth... arrggghhhhh... I found it extremely annoying.

How Imlie said she had many chances to change her life whereas Dementor didi wanted one chance with Adi... how she was lucky in general to have been lucky to have met Adi, who was perfect for her, how Imlie wants to share her happiness, her prize with all whereas Dementor Didi cannot share Adi with anyone, not even his family.. he belongs only to her, to lavish attention and praise on her, dance to her tunes, in short be a monkey... on a leash.

At least it was not long drawn out and now Dadi with kanji aankhen.. Anu ki kami puri kar di.. filled her dil's shoes oh so well.... WELL... Anu has some magic.. as she has this ability to transmit her negativity to the rest.. whoever is in her orbit.. her daughter, her sasuma...

I am blown away by the T's.. they are such dumb folks.. no words for them today.. Aparna especially.. could not bring herself to say 2 words.. to her son who is reeling in shock... seeing his wife in full bridal regalia... giving up on life.... I would have expected her to say a few kind words and reassure him.. nahi... they are all stuck in the well that Imlie talked about, in andh vishwaas, in andhera about the reality of their son's marriage, who is trapped in a cage, unable to free himself.

As for Imlie... oh man... that last line was pretty disgusting.. blaming herself for dEmentor Didi sucking the joy out of her big day.

As for any hopes of Adilie having a heart to heart.. is foregone.... not gonna happen... even Rupi did not utter a word or neither did Nishu... I mean when they mean bhaichaara, dosti.. it is all humbug.. you do NOT abandon your brother and leave him alone.. you try to talk or stay with them... they have never undertood him..

This is a parallel to how Imlie said that Adi never understood her and the shoe is on the other foot.. the T's including his parents have never really understood Adi. That was the tragedy I saw in the hospital scene today.

AM glad that Imlie is utharoing the khoon ka karza from her nazook kande.. Sita Maiyya sambhalo hamein, give us the fortitude to bear the coming days ka guilt tripping by Adilie.