Just to clarify our take on the new posts that keeps creeping up - Page 2

But adi is nowwhere near to even accept his mistake. Making legit wife to bahut bahut door ki baat hai. Physical intimacy should come at a later stage. Without giving her the proper status and holding hands and taking her picture is just not done.

Originally posted by: abha981

Well i have different take. I was bashed with foul words just because i have a different view. How come people decided that i dont watch the show and just a hater on trp day. Did not all people jump at a conclusion without even trying to understand the whole thing. Same thing will happen in serial...adi imli will be labelled as ema ...before they sit and explain the whole first marriage thing.

I think members should be more civil and tolerant while defending and responding. It cannot be like

Sadda kutta kutta...tuada kutta Tommy🤣🤣

Calling a husband-wife romance as a man romancing a maid would get you that response. You were mocking the FL appearance and not calling her a wife because she is not the accepted bahu. Living in a glass house and throwing stones at others is really not right.

This is a forum. People interpret words differently so if you want people to be civil and tolerant, then you need to do the same and use words carefully. No body is antaryami here or have time to understand the actual meaning behind the words.

Regarding the first marriage, if people watch the show they will know they are married because the CV's play the marriage clip at least one in two episodes. Also, lets cross the bridge when they will be labelled as EMA rather than doing it now. 😊

Originally posted by: abha981

But adi is nowwhere near to even accept his mistake. Making legit wife to bahut bahut door ki baat hai. Physical intimacy should come at a later stage. Without giving her the proper status and holding hands and taking her picture is just not done.

Are you watching the show??

Originally posted by: abha981

But adi is nowwhere near to even accept his mistake. Making legit wife to bahut bahut door ki baat hai. Physical intimacy should come at a later stage. Without giving her the proper status and holding hands and taking her picture is just not done.

Will,

What is justify for you, is not justified with others,

I was ok with Adini romance, and I am ok with Adili now

He is not juggling between the two, he is being true to himself

The only wrong here is he needs to man up and speak but I also justified his silence

And Millani is weak, she don't want to connect the dots, ask the right questions, confront with him, ignoring all the obvious signs, she is not that perfect wife or daughter in low she tend to do drama and making sure that his family know about her greatness and big heart and sacrifices she do for their son making him look even more bad and sulky.

But I still making a little room for a miracle, but also prepared to give up on her anytime soon

Madam please read my post very carefully, i wrote superficial layer it's looking like husband and maid romance. If any member of t family or c family sees it..wouldnt they say the same thing. What is situation in t house adi and malini are married couple and imlie is just working there. The adi holding hands and not being able to keep his hands off imli is looking rushed and needs to be toned down.

Please don't be so judgemental and decide which views needs to bashed and which views need all your love. You think you are right same goes for others. Debate is good...but bot bashing.

Originally posted by: .SNOWWHITE.

is holding hand is the supposed physical intimacy🤔

Imagine the scene.. don't take it personally just an example and inam sorry if I hurt your feelings...just example

Your husband sitting in your bedroom holding hands with a girl who is just working in your house ..wouldn't you loose your mind. Or just brush it off as platonic hand holding

Not every woman is like imlie and not every woman is malini..the circumstances both grew and the kind of familial relationships both had are very different.

The way I see it, malini knows deep down, how her relationship with aditya is spiraling down, she was/is in constant denial about her relationship dynamics with Aditya and is holding on to a thread to save her relationship which she thinks in her mind still exists. She doesn't want to give in to her mother's insecurities about her relationship nor she doesn't somewhere subconsciously turn into her. like I said she's barely holding onto it and wants to turn blind-eye on things that would otherwise be questioned by anyone else.

Now we can't expect every woman to be Jhansi ki raani or in this case bold like imlie..people can be doormats, may not want to confront truth unless shoved right into their eyes..but that doesn't mean they should be subjected to such emotional traumas nor they are undeserving of sympathy. It is more like victim-blaming saying 'ha usne kuch nahi kaha when it was saaf in front of her eyes now she deserves it', that's sad.

Also being in malini's place right now is crazy, the woman is seeing all signs of breakages in her relationships, doesn't want to acknowledge it, wants reassurance from Aditya, and battling a hell of turmoil between her feelings of doubt and guilt for doubting and what does Aditya do? Go rush to pacify imlie and say how she is the one in his life/his first biwi/put sindhoor from malini's/cook for her/play with her not giving two hoots about how Malini could perceive it and the kind of turmoil is putting her through and does this drama of not hurting mun which is frankly grating and thoughtless..

I don't care if imlie is his first wife or second wife, he fell out of love and that's up to him, but what irritates about his character is it's always about his damn feelings, initially it was to get the feeling of control back into his life, he married mun and hurt imlie with all his words, now it is because he realized his sacha pyaar, he wants to believe in his rishta with imlie and blatantly act thoughtlessly in front of malini.

Also not sure what this Thursday wala post is but the moment someone posts some analysis on the show which opposite to praising, people gang up left right center ranting about some silly TRP jealousy. The other day there was an opinion post by the writer where she mentioned her analysis of Aditya is in love and the posts were ganged up with indirect.

Like I mentioned in the other post, Imlie is a triggering subject, how much ever we sugarcoat it, the subject does get polar views. Don't understand why posting a contrary view is so bad.

Originally posted by: abha981

Imagine the scene.. don't take it personally just an example and inam sorry if I hurt your feelings...just example

Your husband sitting in your bedroom holding hands with a girl who is just working in your house ..wouldn't you loose your mind. Or just brush it off as platonic hand holding

Originally posted by: abha981

Madam please read my post very carefully, i wrote superficial layer it's looking like husband and maid romance. If any member of t family or c family sees it..wouldnt they say the same thing. What is situation in t house adi and malini are married couple and imlie is just working there. The adi holding hands and not being able to keep his hands off imli is looking rushed and needs to be toned down.

Please don't be so judgemental and decide which views needs to bashed and which views need all your love. You think you are right same goes for others. Debate is good...but bot bashing.

Yes they will definitely will got caught red handed someday and will face that accusation

But this is the story

If you believe she is his first wife , so the romance even if goes beyond to physical you should be ok with it as it is the normal for a married couple

Yes I am totally with you I don't want them to face this, but if it required by story time line I am ready to it

But I don't know what I would feel if they go their yet

Hence, the hand holding , touching, photo taking I don't feel it is wrong right now