Just to clarify our take on the new posts that keeps creeping up - Page 3

Originally posted by: .SNOWWHITE.

here Adi is holding his wife's hand. Secondly it's a daily soap. I don't have to put myself in characters 😂 place. I just have to enjoy the story if I like or just watch something which entertains me.

Does the second wife know that her husband is already married.what if she caught them red handed??what will be he first line of thought..ema husband with maid??

Originally posted by: abha981

Imagine the scene.. don't take it personally just an example and inam sorry if I hurt your feelings...just example

Your husband sitting in your bedroom holding hands with a girl who is just working in your house ..wouldn't you loose your mind. Or just brush it off as platonic hand holding

I have tried being courteous previously - if you want to continue demeaning people who work in homes, please take your thought process to your posts. We do not intend to circle drains here.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

I have tried being courteous previously - if you want to continue demeaning people who work in homes, please take your thought process to your posts. We do not intend to circle drains here.

MB & Pam, there was this movie 'to sir with love'. did you ever watch it? They show an actual romance between a rich dude and his housekeeper, their journey was beautiful to watch. stuff happens and when people connect emotionally and mentally first, that is something unique and rare, which is the case with Imlie and Adilie.

Nice post Pam.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

I have tried being courteous previously - if you want to continue demeaning people who work in homes, please take your thought process to your posts. We do not intend to circle drains here.

Wow..and this post was s proudly announcing that we are tolerant. How am i demeaning people who work in homes?? Imlie is a househelp in that house which is a fact , she still hasn't been introduced formally as adis wife. She herself said in the beginning she needed work.

Please try to accept opposing views and if not then stop making posts saying we are tolerant and also taking sly digs and making more posts.

Originally posted by: abha981

Madam please read my post very carefully, i wrote superficial layer it's looking like husband and maid romance. If any member of t family or c family sees it..wouldnt they say the same thing. What is situation in t house adi and malini are married couple and imlie is just working there. The adi holding hands and not being able to keep his hands off imli is looking rushed and needs to be toned down.

Please don't be so judgemental and decide which views needs to bashed and which views need all your love. You think you are right same goes for others. Debate is good...but bot bashing.

Lets agree to disagree 😊

Originally posted by: abha981

Imagine the scene.. don't take it personally just an example and inam sorry if I hurt your feelings...just example

Your husband sitting in your bedroom holding hands with a girl who is just working in your house ..wouldn't you loose your mind. Or just brush it off as platonic hand holding

Again are you watching the show because @bold did not happen.

Originally posted by: pamk06

Exactly, we ourselves have defended Malini at one point or another but how do we defend a character who we cannot relate to at any level. They say they feel bad on how Malini is getting treated by Aditya, I feel bad because she is letting herself get treated this way by Aditya. Frankly, I still cannot get past the point that she came back home without any clarification from Aditya on his lie where he clearly indicated that he was lying. How can you even think to start building your relationship when a big crack of a lie is already in your foundation? Guess "forgive and forget" should be the new motto for successful relationships 😆😆

Discuss dang se karenge to batayenge apna view... agar sar pe bandook leke aayenge with no open mind then what is the point of even talking about it. Understand you are new but atleast try to first check the views of the people here before making posts and moral comments and calling us "bullies" **rolling my eyes** here.

I am done man. Ghoom phir ke naukrani pe aa jate hain log. What is with demeaning a profession. People who clean others homes and toilets are people too. People doing a job to feed their family. Basic humanity naam ki cheez hi nahin rahi duniya mein.

And what is with co-relating everything to real life where you hypothetically want to envision your own husband with the maid. Yeh kya hai fetish?

I said this in another post yesterday. If Malini does not have an agency of her own, how in God’s name is that Imlie’s fault? People have zero sense about what being a woman is, let alone a modern woman.

Thread ka mahoul bigaad diya 🤬

Originally posted by: Peanutbolt

Not every woman is like imlie and not every woman is malini..the circumstances both grew and the kind of familial relationships both had are very different.

The way I see it, malini knows deep down, how her relationship with aditya is spiraling down, she was/is in constant denial about her relationship dynamics with Aditya and is holding on to a thread to save her relationship which she thinks in her mind still exists. She doesn't want to give in to her mother's insecurities about her relationship nor she doesn't somewhere subconsciously turn into her. like I said she's barely holding onto it and wants to turn blind-eye on things that would otherwise be questioned by anyone else.

Now we can't expect every woman to be Jhansi ki raani or in this case bold like imlie..people can be doormats, may not want to confront truth unless shoved right into their eyes..but that doesn't mean they should be subjected to such emotional traumas nor they are undeserving of sympathy. It is more like victim-blaming saying 'ha usne kuch nahi kaha when it was saaf in front of her eyes now she deserves it', that's sad.

Also being in malini's place right now is crazy, the woman is seeing all signs of breakages in her relationships, doesn't want to acknowledge it, wants reassurance from Aditya, and battling a hell of turmoil between her feelings of doubt and guilt for doubting and what does Aditya do? Go rush to pacify imlie and say how she is the one in his life/his first biwi/put sindhoor from malini's/cook for her/play with her not giving two hoots about how Malini could perceive it and the kind of turmoil is putting her through and does this drama of not hurting mun which is frankly grating and thoughtless..

I don't care if imlie is his first wife or second wife, he fell out of love and that's up to him, but what irritates about his character is it's always about his damn feelings, initially it was to get the feeling of control back into his life, he married mun and hurt imlie with all his words, now it is because he realized his sacha pyaar, he wants to believe in his rishta with imlie and blatantly act thoughtlessly in front of malini.

Also not sure what this Thursday wala post is but the moment someone posts some analysis on the show which opposite to praising, people gang up left right center ranting about some silly TRP jealousy. The other day there was an opinion post by the writer where she mentioned her analysis of Aditya is in love and the posts were ganged up with indirect.

Like I mentioned in the other post, Imlie is a triggering subject, how much ever we sugarcoat it, the subject does get polar views. Don't understand why posting a contrary view is so bad.

I am totally with you about Millani, that is why I still have this soft edge for here

But also I disagree about Imlie side of your post, she is his first wife and now he had accept this

And yes Adi done wrong, but what the poor man could do, this is his first time loving someone who also being his wife! So he suppose to keep her in the dark or left her just to entertain princess Millani?!

And what about the unjustice that been done to Imlie by her father abd her husband?!

They all deserve to be happy and overcome all this mess, one problem at a time!

Originally posted by: nim_var

MB & Pam, there was this movie 'to sir with love'. did you ever watch it? They show an actual romance between a rich dude and his housekeeper, their journey was beautiful to watch. stuff happens and when people connect emotionally and mentally first, that is something unique and rare, which is the case with Imlie and Adilie.

Nice post Pam.

Thanks dear!! 🤗

Exactly, there are so many movies and books on this, plus this is a classic Cindrella concept that even now I can sit and watch. They do not want see the beauty of a relationship that developed over the course of time... I think it was you who said that Adi-Imlie relationship development is like "kichad se kamal kheela".....but people who have not watched the show come and preach to the choir based on a promo that they have seen. 😆

Originally posted by: abha981

Wow..and this post was s proudly announcing that we are tolerant. How am i demeaning people who work in homes?? Imlie is a househelp in that house which is a fact , she still hasn't been introduced formally as adis wife. She herself said in the beginning she needed work.

Please try to accept opposing views and if not then stop making posts saying we are tolerant and also taking sly digs and making more posts.

You clearly fail to understand basic sentences. If you cannot comprehend the difference between an actual profession and someone acting in a TV show, there is no helping you.

If you want to go on with demeaning other women and feeling great about it in the process, feel free. Not my website anyway.