Imlie Aditya Tripathi - Page 13

Rewatched episodes the previous PD track onwards. Having watched those, Aditya on the bridge just became the obvious culmination. On that bridge, he was a man who was not ready to let go and one who could not help himself but hold on to the last remaining indentation that Imlie had left with him. My perception from the day I viewed the episode remained justified.

The last time he was in PD, it was a turning point unlike any other because he decided that Imlie was safe only if he was around. While he could subconsciously not fathom living without her, consciously he had decided that her care was his prerogative. Cue the hospital visits, worry about the stitches, concern about overworking etc etc. all this was happening in parallel with him opening up to her a bit more each day in a way that was not possible with Malini. Rupali hints at his coming home on time every day while pulling his leg the day he misses Imlie and that should have been indicator enough that him missing her is warranted. But now that I rewatched it, it became glaringly obvious. He was already used to having her around but that day, he became flustered as well because he no more had control over her well being with her being at ACs place. And he did the only thing he could thrash around at the people who he decided were the cause of her agony.

By the time Aditya came to PD this time around, he was so knee deep in his connection to Imlie that when her staying back seemed inevitable, Aditya did the only thing he could with that spot of sindoor. Hold on to it. The continuity in that spot on his shirt could have been handled better though.

And lastly the Aditya we saw in the pooja episode is the one who has started listening to his conscience. “Agar yeh sach ka ehsaas hone ke baad bhi tumne usko nahin sweekara aur iss sach ko Malini ke saamne nahin rakha toh yeh sabse bada dhoka hoga”.

He is going to return alone. Imlie will miss him. He will miss her. I do not think he is going to try and bring Malini back on his own but will do so only because the Ts have been destroyed by her leaving. This is an Aditya who is only going to get more selfish in his quest for love.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Btw intresting na full tripathi clan fell apart imlie ke jaate hi.. and the so called ideal life partners 2 din legit do din nahi nibha paaye *cough cough* malini didi.. na sasural na rishta na kuch aur imlie hi inhe abhi tak sambhal rahi thi

Hence I feel Imlie needs to be back to take care of her sasural, its almost in dire straits at this moment..😉 but i am the only one 😛 If Adi goes alone, he is either going to shut his mouth or be a bomb blast, either of which is not going to help....😳

Waise, did you see Nishant's dialogue...Finally a sensible one... he almost seemed like he was so done with Malini and her making his family cry. He was like let her go because after she leaves she realize our kadar 😆 And Dhruv too, was like "take your time" bas eyes roll karna hi baki tha 😆...... These T's boys are so straightforward and have no patience for drama....

BTS nope literally news kaam masala jyada ..plus bundle bhi bahut maarte hai ...it make PPL traumatized😆

Waise let adi give another heart break literally going to screw him up...aaj bhi he was like kahan hoon main kya chal raha hai...😆

Honey that is a bit if your wishful thinking that malini will be able to get time away and reaccess. You think that is possible under the 24x7 hrs scrutiny of AC.. kuch reaccess nahi higa instead her mind will be more polluted with jargon more doubts about her husband and her sasruralis will be filled in her mind by that woman.. she is the type jo khud khush nahi reh paayi and can't see other's happy too so she keeps finding reasons to add distaste under the guise of am doing good for you.. and am not saying AC does this under some.plan no her personality has developed like this ke usko ab aone siwa har baat main keede hi dikhte hain she doesn't realize ki her beti ki shaadi is her beti ki shaadi and no just caz her husband stays away doean mean he is like your husband.. heck this woman doesn't even know for sure ke iske husband ka bhi kuch hua ke nahi she keeps suspecting ke kuch toh hua that changed him they never showed she knows for sure lol 😆

As AY said pehle to acknowledge karna padega this move was wrong. We can feel bad for her without making her a bechari.. but everybody seems to go that route only.. the relationship ship is falling apart but fault toh dono sides se hai.na..if adi did wrong by lying how is she making it right by just walking away like this after a tantrum without actually trying to solve.. not only this situation when exactly has malini put any effort in her relationship...the other day over car matter too it was husband wife thing normal saargument disagreement and she went crying to mama's lap .. she needs to understand this isn't her mom's relationship and yes while she can take her mother in confidence and share with her they fought and what not bit after solving it with her husband on her own.. besides is it really necessary to keep her relationship so much for public these guys have nothing of their own inki koi baat inki nahi hai poora Delhi jaanta hai where is the husband wife ke beech wali baat? Not Not sure this is how relationships work of any kind.. everybody has a bit of personal space in every relationship.. not only husband wife/ partners... even a mom.and child can have a secret aapsi baat one doesn't go tell the husband everything either that they shared with mom.or dad sameway you don't go tell mom.dad everything between you and your husband

Originally posted by: AreYaar

But the point here isn't really about love or how close you feel to a person. Even if she feels she can sense that something is off, why not TALK? When you RUN AWAY from your OWN relationship, then it's just doomed, man.

Issue for me isn't that I need to dislike Malini to root for Adi-Imlie.....not at all. Adi-Imlie are meant to be for reasons totally independent of Malini. I'm objectively pointing out what's wrong with Malini's approach, period. She didn't leave to get space....and once you are married, you can't just run off when you feel emotionally overwhelmed. A marriage is a commitment....you have to see it through even when the going gets tough. Adi lied to her, so if she still considers this a marriage, she should question him, confront him instead of just running off crying ki I FEEL him going away me.....lol what kind of childish way is this of thinking? Only when you feel there is NOTHING left to discuss do you walk away from a marriage. Malini is running away cuz she wants attention, period.

I don't buy her excuses to the Tripathis that she needs to leave cuz she's weighing them down.....lol so is she saying that everytime her and Adi fight or disagree, she will run away cuz she doesn't want to "depress" her sasural waale? 😕 How ridiculous does that sound.....if you can't emotionally handle yourself, why attach yourself to other people's lives and then guilt trip them like this?

Find herself toh tab hoga when people will acknowledge what she's doing is wrong. Yahaan pe toh you are also justifying what she did😆.....so kaise hogi growth? She first needs to understand how unhealthy her approach to her relationship has been for so long and how much both her and Adi have lied to themselves about their relationship.

Bold - I completely agree! But the way you are thinking, that's how every emotionally matured person will think, which Malini obviously is not.

the second one - Thodi si bura laga bechari ki liye! 😆 Her world is falling apart. I seriously hope they don't show her just blindly following AC and turn completely negative. She can turn negative for a bit, but after that some growth in her character would be nice.

Originally posted by: pamk06

@bold: Yes, I think the alter ego conversation did strike a chord in him and kind of made him question his own beliefs. Hence, his immediate reaction was to call Moon and talk to her. He almost sounded desperate to talk to her but he could not bring himself to say things that he himself was struggling with to believe. He wanted to, but he could not and hence his eyes filled with tears because he did not want to lie. Agree that he still does not believe everything but the way he responded to her "ILU" with "I will need one more day and am not reachable now" was almost like he is rationalizing that he needs this one day to end things with Imlie or get a closure with her on this relationship and then go back to Moon and his normal life. Almost similar to what he thought when he stepped down from the bus. It was a day he gave to himself as much as to Imlie, IMO.

You know, they say that "If you love something set it free. If it comes back it's yours. If not, it was never meant to be"

This is what the whole pooja reminded me about. Imlie has never tried to hold on to him, she has only tried to hold on to the rishta and after the bike convo, she wants to set him free from this rishta. She almost bandwagon that she can do it all alone. But the more she insisting that she can manage on her own, the more he wants to give his support. The more she is trying to set him free from this rishta, the more he is trying to get tangled in this relationship. Its almost as if when some body say "No, dont do that", you want to do it. Its almost as if they are working at cross purposes so different, yet so similar to their previous pooja. Basically, the bottom line is he does not want to be free from this rishta and he wants to keep her tied to him in every possible way. Again, his rationalization is one day, one pooja but no this is subconscious trying to bind her to him and if its means connecting their names together so be it.😊

This can be termed as one of his impulsive actions but there was no jijak or doubt in demeanor as is the case with all his impulsive actions. Its only later he realizes the repercussion of his actions. But the one thing to note is that none of his actions or words have commitment attached to it. All his actions are done in a way that he can justify it to himself later, he wants her back for his family, he is supporting her for her career, he is here for the closure, the name was the need of the hour and he is going to totally do it when he is back and in denial. Hence, I might sound like a broken record but Imlie is going to be so hurt.

LOL if he's really going to go for that logic that this one extra day will help him find "closure" to the Imlie chapter and he can go back to his Moon without any confusion, then I'm going to laugh even more. 😆.....Yes, he can try to give these flimsy excuses but the alter ego scene has already exposed his past flimsy excuses very well too so these new ones will be harder to pass muster even for him who is used to compartmentalizing. As I said a day or two back.....soch ko maarna mushkil hota hai....a thought once awakened is hard to put to bed.....Adi has been made to face some of his deepest emotions by his inner conscience....so it's going to be harder for him to lie to himself now.

As for setting someone free....yes, that has been the larger theme of their relationship all along....Imlie has never once tried to hold him to herself....she has been setting him free since almost the beginning of the time they got married😆.....she set him free from having to face the sindoor/MS he put on her....she set him free from having to acknowledge her as his wife....she set him free to go ahead and marry someone else😆.....she hasn't caged him or clung to him at any point in their relationship....so it has been a long time coming that Adi will want to come back to someone who never tried to cage him.....who never tried to suffocate him even though he falsely blamed her for his frustrations for so long.

As for Commitment....well obviously not yet....that is a bigger journey for him given the fact that he thinks he made a commitment to Malini first so he owes it to her to keep it.....his heart is moving towards Imlie but he doesn't yet have the clarity or courage to embrace a commitment to her.....btw I will point out that his heart is already there subconsciously or he wouldn't even be able to do these rituals and give her his name with such calm resolve. He is an expert at making excuses to get his way without acknowledging that he's doing it for himself rather than someone else.....so obviously there is no doubt that there is more hurt in Imlie's future.

But that's the thing....this girl already has below zero expectations....lol yes her heart is attached to him but she has already let go of pretty much all expectations from him and already been through a world of hurt regarding him and Malini....toh aur kya karega😆.....I think she has already braced herself for the fact that nothing he says really has any meaning as of now😆. Unless he does some bigger gesture towards her that starts to make her question what she's come to believe.....time will tell.

Originally posted by: pamk06

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Hence I feel Imlie needs to be back to take care of her sasural, its almost in dire straits at this moment..😉 but i am the only one 😛 If Adi goes alone, he is either going to shut his mouth or be a bomb blast, either of which is not going to help....😳

Waise, did you see Nishant's dialogue...Finally a sensible one... he almost seemed like he was so done with Malini and her making his family cry, that he was like let her go because after she leaves she realize out kadar 😆 And Dhruv too, was like "take your time" bas eyes roll karna hi baki tha 😆...... These T's boys are so straightforward and have no patience for drama....

So true. Nishant did the right thing. He indirectly taunted her that ghar se door jane par hi importance samajh ati hai toh jane do inhe. 😆 Malini's expression were like is he taking my side or not?? 😲😆 She literally behaved like a stubborn child today. Chalo, atleast Tripathi's will live some days peacefully. 👍🏼They definitely needed some break from their so called bahu's tantrums. 😵

Originally posted by: pamk06

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Hence I feel Imlie needs to be back to take care of her sasural, its almost in dire straits at this moment..😉 but i am the only one 😛 If Adi goes alone, he is either going to shut his mouth or be a bomb blast, either of which is not going to help....😳

Waise, did you see Nishant's dialogue...Finally a sensible one... he almost seemed like he was so done with Malini and her making his family cry, that he was like let her go because after she leaves she realize out kadar 😆 And Dhruv too, was like "take your time" bas eyes roll karna hi baki tha 😆...... These T's boys are so straightforward and have no patience for drama....

Hi 5 I want meri imelia back with her BS.. I am not the kind to bay for blood.so I really don't care bihat ho gaya ab waapis chali.. mere reasons isss how.ko dekhne ke bohat alag hai then typical expectations.

Yes nishant was done he has been observing how much this woman is making chachi cry so he was done so.was dhruv ke cool go.. it must be mentally exhausting to be with someone like malini jisko had waqt baby karte rehna padta ho.. I know for sure I can I absolutely cannot am worse than adi when it comes to family drama.. only watching it onscreen the way they baby malini makes my eyes pop out and I feel like banging my head.. no patience for that kind if person in real I would be like jai ho bye good luck

Originally posted by: mayuri099

Bold - I completely agree! But the way you are thinking, that's how every emotionally matured person will think, which Malini obviously is not.

the second one - Thodi si bura laga bechari ki liye! 😆 Her world is falling apart. I seriously hope they don't show her just blindly following AC and turn completely negative. She can turn negative for a bit, but after that some growth in her character would be nice.

LOL so I guess we can agree that emotionally immature actions are not right then? 😆.....

I don't think she's going to turn negative....but as Fary said above, we can point out her own wrong actions without presuming that makes her negative. When she's wrong, she's wrong....us pointing it out doesn't mean we are hating on her.....yes, her world is falling apart and I already said too I felt bad for her on that point....but what she herself did to make the situation worse also needs to be pointed out, right?

Originally posted by: mayuri099

Bold - I completely agree! But the way you are thinking, that's how every emotionally matured person will think, which Malini obviously is not.

the second one - Thodi si bura laga bechari ki liye! 😆 Her world is falling apart. I seriously hope they don't show her just blindly following AC and turn completely negative. She can turn negative for a bit, but after that some growth in her character would be nice.

They aren't making her negative her mother's bakwaas will make her seem more ablabecbari who got the worst deal that is what they are going for not possibly evil.. and that is her mom is here for she will keep hammering it in her head how bechari she is that everyone walks over her how her achai has been taken for granted when it is the opposite . It is chaturvedi and malini who walks over the other party all the time