Imlie Aditya Tripathi - Page 14

Originally posted by: mayuri099

Bold - I completely agree! But the way you are thinking, that's how every emotionally matured person will think, which Malini obviously is not.

the second one - Thodi si bura laga bechari ki liye! 😆 Her world is falling apart. I seriously hope they don't show her just blindly following AC and turn completely negative. She can turn negative for a bit, but after that some growth in her character would be nice.

Yes, you can feel bad for her breakdown but that does not justify her actions. She got advice from both, her mother and Aparna but choose to follow her mother's advice. Again, her mother did not ask her to leave her home, it was Malini herself who decided to do it all on her own. Running away is never a solution to a problem, talking is but she just does not want to discuss. When she knew Aditya was lying, why didn't she called him out at that moment itself. When she was upset with Aditya, why did she run to take his phone? Why not ignore him so that he realizes that she is upset and will not be taken for granted. The thing is her approach to this whole relationship is wrong, the base of this relationship is wrong and her expectations from this relationship is wrong.

I had a friend who had told me that Marriage is like a mountain and a valley, sometime you will have to soar ,sometime you have to fall, but as long as you do not give up, it will be successful. Its a study that never ends and its a test that you have to give everyday so choose your fights.

This was one fight that Malini could have let go till Aditya comes back because it was really not worth giving up on her marriage. By walking off, the blame that was only on Aditya's shoulder will now be shared by Malini too, because she walked out first. She said that she is afraid her husband will not return but now to whom will he return when she herself is missing.

This is an Aditya who is only going to get more selfish in his quest for love.

Newbie here and still trying to catch up on the exceptional content here. I just jumped on the Imlie bandwagon. Haphazardly watching episodes since the beginning. What made me stick with it is the incredible acting of the three main characters each one fighting their own battle.

But just wanted to mention something that probably all you wonderful writers have already thought off. This bit here is what it is going to be all about- Adi already has given the hint where this is heading in the episode where he is demanding Imlie to go and ace her exam. That entire dialogue of you cannot dream with closed eyes, you gotta get up and fight for them. He has basically declared it that if destiny has brought you/him here, there is nothing that can stop them now. I think that was more of a reminder for himself than Imlie. Oh well, myriad thoughts at this point about all the three of them.

What I fear is the classic character assassination on ITV for TRP's. That can sway this anywhere unfortunately. How I wish this was a web series!

This is an Aditya who is only going to get more selfish in his quest for love. (posted by MuteButton on Page 16)

Newbie here and still trying to catch up on the exceptional content here. I just jumped on the Imlie bandwagon. Haphazardly watching episodes since the beginning. What made me stick with it is the incredible acting of the three main characters each one fighting their own battle.

But just wanted to mention something that probably all you wonderful writers have already thought off. This bit here is what it is going to be all about- Adi already has given the hint where this is heading in the episode where he is demanding Imlie to go and ace her exam. That entire dialogue of you cannot dream with closed eyes, you gotta get up and fight for them. He has basically declared it that if destiny has brought you/him here, there is nothing that can stop them now. I think that was more of a reminder for himself than Imlie. Oh well, myriad thoughts at this point about all the three of them.

What I fear is the classic character assassination on ITV for TRP's. That can sway this anywhere unfortunately. How I wish this was a web series!

Newbie here and still trying to catch up on the exceptional content here. I just jumped on the Imlie bandwagon. Haphazardly watching episodes since the beginning. What made me stick with it is the incredible acting of the three main characters each one fighting their own battle.

But just wanted to mention something that probably all you wonderful writers have already thought off. This bit here is what it is going to be all about- Adi already has given the hint where this is heading in the episode where he is demanding Imlie to go and ace her exam. That entire dialogue of you cannot dream with closed eyes, you gotta get up and fight for them. He has basically declared it that if destiny has brought you/him here, there is nothing that can stop them now. I think that was more of a reminder for himself than Imlie. Oh well, myriad thoughts at this point about all the three of them.

What I fear is the classic character assassination on ITV for TRP's. That can sway this anywhere unfortunately. How I wish this was a web series!

Originally posted by: mayuri099

Bold - I completely agree! But the way you are thinking, that's how every emotionally matured person will think, which Malini obviously is not.

the second one - Thodi si bura laga bechari ki liye! 😆 Her world is falling apart. I seriously hope they don't show her just blindly following AC and turn completely negative. She can turn negative for a bit, but after that some growth in her character would be nice.

There's something about the fact that Imlie is the offsetting point of this that makes it hard to kind of understand how I feel about Malini's reactions. Because on hand, her mom's intuition is spot on with Imlie and Adi... but the only reason she honed it on Imlie in the first place was due to her own issues and Imlie being from PD, NOT because anything had happened to make Imlie and Adi seem suspicious. We know Imlie and Adi are already in a "relationship", but Adi was fully committed to Malini at that point, what was the need to start with the doubts AC... And in all honesty, her mom's constant shak speeches set Malini off in the first place.

In a similar vein, Imlie's being present in that relationship is a light shining on the cracks in the relationship that both Malini and Adi have tried to avoid for too long. Malini I feel bad for. She's had a tough few weeks after marriage. She still needs to learn though that when she got married, it was not just to Adi with the family as a plus. She became part of that family too, so for her to run off to her maayka doesn't work as a member of the family. This all set off because Adi yelled at her after he was shot right? Since then she's been all over the place (which I still can understand) but the fact is she's yet to ask the questions that will maybe get her the answers she needs. Because she's running from the truth as she seems to have throughout the relationship. She doesn't like that he's not romantic, it bothers her that his work is above her, she only says before he leaves "I've always let you put your work ahead of me with the expectation that you'd be here if I need you".

She's in need of growth. Growth only comes when we acknowledge what's wrong with what we're doing. I think she would have a much better time coming to terms with herself at the Tripathi's then at her maayka, she should know that her mom will simply add to her turmoil. She can't allow herself to be manipulated by her mom in her relationship which is what's been happening.

Long story short, Malu's a good character, she needs to start introspecting as Adi babu finally did the other day. Until then she'll be putting herself through the ringer.

You need more than platitudes Malini, you need the truth. Be open to it, and then deal with whatever it is.

Ok, Rewatched the epi 4 freaking times to get my bearings together..

I watched all the Epi's from Aditya's Landing in PD

Let's start with Malini here

I do feel for the Woman and Mayuri did act pretty well ,But her fake eye lashes and fake Nails annoyed me to no End . Sometime Natural is good ,no need for fakeness it will take away from actual performance. That's why I like Imlie's natural look .

1. Malini painiting the whole town Red with sobbing saga is wrong on so many levels. We as vieweres know about Adi is with Imlie ,But she didn't know that and he didn't give any reason to doubt him either. She is on and on with Adi moving away from her and all is complete BS and annoying too. She just needs attention and Guilt trip people around her.Aditya didn't leave without telling anyone ,he did tell and also said he needs space too. Why can't she just freaking wait for him to come back. As a wife I would never go to my husbands office asking about his whereabouts when he did tell me where he is going also when she spoke to Editor over the phone he mentioned he went on some personal trip.This shows your insecurity more than your worry.Aditya did called her back when his suppose time is done and mentioned it will take long. He did lie to her about his location ,but with his job discription ,the secrecy comes with parcel and with supposed 7 year long relationship she should be aware of it. Honesty and Communication is lacking in their relationship. I feel it's her upbringing that makes her insecure in every relation. What I feel is she shouldn't have left T's house when she doesn't know the actual reason for Aditya's lie. If Aditya is lying this woman doesn't have any trust on her supposed 7 year realtionship and her husband too. If you respect your relationship you fight for it and not be like looser and guilt trip make every one cry rivers and take the escape route. This is difference between her and Imlie .Imlie did fight for her husband.She said I may not be your wife but you are my husband and she did fight for it. when that came into question ,she saw no point in banging her head to wall and left .That too how without any drama ,chup chap keeping her husband dignity intact and left. Here Malini didn't have a ny reason still she kept her husband's dignity on display. She will be in self pity party from now on.I dread the actual confrontation. after seeing all epi's I did felt bad for her,but not as much because at this point I felt that drama is not needed. my pov.Maybe some forumwasis her can disagree with me.

As for Aditya,

As someone said in forum ,it's 0 or 100 with this guy has no middle ground. Arrey Babu what to do with you. I reserve my comments with this guy ,he is still trying to figure it out. he gave his name to Imlie and he did so many things.i think right now everything is going on implulse. his mind is somewhere he is heart is somewhere else. I know after going to Dilli he will ponder over all these impulses and realizations, then comes the dillema. right now he is in bubble and complete lost state.

I am wondering if Imlie didn't come with him to Delhi, Will he disclose the truth that he was in PD, will there be another lie

As for Imlie

I don't want her to go back to Delhi at this point. Even though Adi is parading wife statement everwhere unless he tells her in clear terms he is her husband all these statements won't do anything for her. I feel like she will go back Delhi to study and won't inform BBSB .I feel like this is one charecter writers are so consistent with charectarization ,Whatever she does viewer can't think it's totally out of her charecter,Everthing she did till now for me seemed true to her charectrization.

Damn i blabbered so much. Sorry if i bored you 😳

Originally posted by: Whatever765

Newbie here and still trying to catch up on the exceptional content here. I just jumped on the Imlie bandwagon. Haphazardly watching episodes since the beginning. What made me stick with it is the incredible acting of the three main characters each one fighting their own battle.

But just wanted to mention something that probably all you wonderful writers have already thought off. This bit here is what it is going to be all about- Adi already has given the hint where this is heading in the episode where he is demanding Imlie to go and ace her exam. That entire dialogue of you cannot dream with closed eyes, you gotta get up and fight for them. He has basically declared it that if destiny has brought you/him here, there is nothing that can stop them now. I think that was more of a reminder for himself than Imlie. Oh well, myriad thoughts at this point about all the three of them.

What I fear is the classic character assassination on ITV for TRP's. That can sway this anywhere unfortunately. How I wish this was a web series!

I love that quote so much. In all honestly in that whole episode, more than the sindoor scene, or the alter ego, I was in love with that scene. That's the passionate, blazing Aditya Tripathi that's been hiding behind guilt and turmoil. The way they shot that scene in front of the gods, as if he was telling her the will of the gods alone and what she has coming in her life!

(Yeah I'm also terrified of that. There's no way to know what the CVs want to happen though, so just have to keep watching and see I guess. Even in a web series they could destroy the characters, depends on their storyline too. I'm just going to watch for now and enjoy the ride.)

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Honey that is a bit if your wishful thinking that malini will be able to get time away and reaccess. You think that is possible under the 24x7 hrs scrutiny of AC.. kuch reaccess nahi higa instead her mind will be more polluted with jargon more doubts about her husband and her sasruralis will be filled in her mind by that woman.. she is the type jo khud khush nahi reh paayi and can't see other's happy too so she keeps finding reasons to add distaste under the guise of am doing good for you.. and am not saying AC does this under some.plan no her personality has developed like this ke usko ab aone siwa har baat main keede hi dikhte hain she doesn't realize ki her beti ki shaadi is her beti ki shaadi and no just caz her husband stays away doean mean he is like your husband.. heck this woman doesn't even know for sure ke iske husband ka bhi kuch hua ke nahi she keeps suspecting ke kuch toh hua that changed him they never showed she knows for sure lol 😆

As AY said pehle to acknowledge karna padega this move was wrong. We can feel bad for her without making her a bechari.. but everybody seems to go that route only.. the relationship ship is falling apart but fault toh dono sides se hai.na..if adi did wrong by lying how is she making it right by just walking away like this after a tantrum without actually trying to solve.. not only this situation when exactly has malini put any effort in her relationship...the other day over car matter too it was husband wife thing normal saargument disagreement and she went crying to mama's lap .. she needs to understand this isn't her mom's relationship and yes while she can take her mother in confidence and share with her they fought and what not bit after solving it with her husband on her own.. besides is it really necessary to keep her relationship so much for public these guys have nothing of their own inki koi baat inki nahi hai poora Delhi jaanta hai where is the husband wife ke beech wali baat? Not Not sure this is how relationships work of any kind.. everybody has a bit of personal space in every relationship.. not only husband wife/ partners... even a mom.and child can have a secret aapsi baat one doesn't go tell the husband everything either that they shared with mom.or dad sameway you don't go tell mom.dad everything between you and your husband

Bold - this is the part I don't understand. How is AC helping Malini in any way? By putting all this shaks and doubts in her daughter's head, without any reason, what will she achieve? I agree that she is filled with so much bitterness that she doesn't realize her daughter's life is completely different from hers and without an inkling of what is actually wrong in that marriage she is interfering and making it worse. It's so sad that this kind of ppl don't even realize that the problem lies mostly with them why their relationships don't work. Instead they go around blaming everyone and everything else under the sun, rather than introspecting.

The second one - that toh I have huge problem with! Every time you have a problem in your relationship you don't go around telling the whole town about it!

They don't know anything yet, still the way they are reacting!! 🤔 What will happen when all the truth will be out in the open?!

Originally posted by: mayuri099

Bold - this is the part I don't understand. How is AC helping Malini in any way? By putting all this shaks and doubts in her daughter's head, without any reason, what will she achieve? I agree that she is filled with so much bitterness that she doesn't realize her daughter's life is completely different from hers and without an inkling of what is actually wrong in that marriage she is interfering and making it worse. It's so sad that this kind of ppl don't even realize that the problem lies mostly with them why their relationships don't work. Instead they go around blaming everyone and everything else under the sun, rather than introspecting.

The second one - that toh I have huge problem with! Every time you have a problem in your relationship you don't go around telling the whole town about it!

They don't know anything yet, still the way they are reacting!! 🤔 What will happen when all the truth will be out in the open?!

AC's perspective is that she is "protecting" her daughter from heartbreak by cautioning her early in her marriage to tie her husband down and not let him stray....but many times I also get the sense that AC would be perfectly happy to see Adi-Malini breaking up and her daughter being rid of a guy who doesn't appreciate her enough😆.

As for what will happen when the full truth comes out? loll Malini will definitely land up in the hospital at a minimum.....after so many breakdowns over much smaller things, the logical conclusion is another anxiety attack whenever she learns the truth ki Adi toh pehle se hi Imlie se married tha and then married her😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL so I guess we can agree that emotionally immature actions are not right then? 😆.....

I don't think she's going to turn negative....but as Fary said above, we can point out her own wrong actions without presuming that makes her negative. When she's wrong, she's wrong....us pointing it out doesn't mean we are hating on her.....yes, her world is falling apart and I already said too I felt bad for her on that point....but what she herself did to make the situation worse also needs to be pointed out, right?

True!! 😛

Originally posted by: AreYaar

AC's perspective is that she is "protecting" her daughter from heartbreak by cautioning her early in her marriage to tie her husband down and not let him stray....but many times I also get the sense that AC would be perfectly happy to see Adi-Malini breaking up and her daughter being rid of a guy who doesn't appreciate her enough😆.

As for what will happen when the full truth comes out? loll Malini will definitely land up in the hospital at a minimum.....after so many breakdowns over much smaller things, the logical conclusion is another anxiety attack whenever she learns the truth ki Adi toh pehle se hi Imlie se married tha and then married her😆

@bold - she never wanted Malini getting married to him in the first place no? AC has an unhealthy obsession with her daughter’s life not mirroring her own; and she thinks that Aditya is another Dev in the sense that he is self-made but not wealthy. Dev was not wealthy either. And PD just adds another reason for her to be extra in everything.