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Posted: 4 years ago

@arreyaar ...as I said moon " all is well all is well bolte rahegi " and adi ko imlie se pyaar ho jayega ...jahan imlie will be hated from all of them.. especially I guess no one will know they were married so pehle no one will listen to them ..won't be surprised if imlie is thrown out or asked by moon to leave secretly

Adi ka kya hai he will gain sympathy ....first one will be aparna "hayee mere bete pe atyachaar huya ....uski koi galti nahi hai moon blah blah ...

Adoon are like dovey dovey doh hanso ka joda but jab reality hit hogi toh I guess moon will try to take her life ...adi ka pata nahi but imlie will be totally guilt ridden ..

Jab ki I want adi duffer to suffer ...because kya soch ke he jumped in second marriage without divorcing first one ...atleast sach bolke dekh ta rather than spoiling both life and making himself restless ...

I don't think adi family would have reject imlie it was only his ego bas or moon se sacha pyaar karta toh jhoot kabhi nahi bolta 😒especially after being together for 7 yrs ...

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli


And I want to add that even if she doesn't expect any wife wale rights or knows that she isn't gonna get that from him...there is a growing attachment and it is only gonna grow with them being in the same house and him wanting her attention with matters like look at me and talk. Even if she doesn't want to feel anything she can't help it caz of the rishta .. aise toh imlie bhi likes to live in her pretend world ke naam ka rishta hai and all he will never be mine sirf main maanti hoon caz of rasam rivaj but beneath it she yearns for thoda sa affection she wants him to show her like 1% of what she shows to malini and it is again subconscious on her part.. she doesn't want to feel bad or possessive as in he can't she is like ok that is his wife but when it happens in front of her kahin deep inside it pinches and she doesn't exactly know why.. it is honestly very hard to.l explain but that is her subconscious haq over him.. she knows iska nahi hai adi but phir bhi.kisi aur ke saath despite her mind accepting it is normal.and the way it should be chubhta hai.. caz that is the kind of dynamic they have developed... he requires her approval.and attention now subconsciously too and her presence it bothers him.when she isn't around


Oh I totally know what you mean.....it is indeed hard to explain but agar simple words mein bolein toh Imlie ka mann jud gaya hai Adi se.....mann judna aur saath milna do alag baatein hain. Imlie knows she can't expect any saath from Adi cuz he has made his stance on their marriage/relationship clear since a long time.....so on that conscious level, Imlie doesn't have expectations. But on a subconscious level, woh mann judta jaa raha hai beyond her control.....and it is because of that she feels this pinch from time to time seeing Adi ka fake loverboy mode with Malini. She is too naive to understand the context/subtext of the games he is playing. Again, the writers need to be careful with the way they portray Adi since it unwittingly ends up looking like he's leading Imlie on cuz it's a boost to his ego seeing her starry eyed over him.


Waise I also feel Imlie felt worse in this scene not just cuz of the chipka chipki....woh toh she saw on V-day also and kaafi hadh tak she took it in stride😆.....I think it hit Imlie harder to hear him do these grand declarations of "I only love you, I'm only yours" etc. etc.....so wohi difference hai between Rupi and Imile.....Rupi tadap rahi thi for grand gestures of love like flowers, romance....Imlie tadapti hai subconsciously for simple affection from the one jisko isne apna maan liya hai beyond her control....but when she gets to hear that she is nowhere in that horizon for him, usko pinch karta hai.


The last scene was just so many mixed emotions na....mujhe bura bhi lagta hai that she feels touched over things like him saying he made the haldi wala doodh for her....like utne mein hi her heart soars....this girl *sigh*😆.....but overall she was still upset only and didn't want to drink the doodh even after learning he made it for her. Adi sab note kar raha tha isliye he switched into his bossy mode to make her do what he wanted. Shaayad intent na ho but it ended up coming across as thoda manipulative from his side.


It would be awesome if they had a convo about her confusing emotions....Imlie kuch blurt out kar de apni agitation mein hi and then Adi ko lage jhatka....lol....but milega ghantaa....bas Malini didi ki fake mahaanta ka overdose....bleaghh.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


Oh I totally know what you mean.....it is indeed hard to explain but agar simple words mein bolein toh Imlie ka mann jud gaya hai Adi se.....mann judna aur saath milna do alag baatein hain. Imlie knows she can't expect any saath from Adi cuz he has made his stance on their marriage/relationship clear since a long time.....so on that conscious level, Imlie doesn't have expectations. But on a subconscious level, woh mann judta jaa raha hai beyond her control.....and it is because of that she feels this pinch from time to time seeing Adi ka fake loverboy mode with Malini. She is too naive to understand the context/subtext of the games he is playing. Again, the writers need to be careful with the way they portray Adi since it unwittingly ends up looking like he's leading Imlie on cuz it's a boost to his ego seeing her starry eyed over him.


Waise I also feel Imlie felt worse in this scene not just cuz of the chipka chipki....woh toh she saw on V-day also and kaafi hadh tak she took it in stride😆.....I think it hit Imlie harder to hear him do these grand declarations of "I only love you, I'm only yours" etc. etc.....so wohi difference hai between Rupi and Imile.....Rupi tadap rahi thi for grand gestures of love like flowers, romance....Imlie tadapti hai subconsciously for simple affection from the one jisko isne apna maan liya hai beyond her control....but when she gets to hear that she is nowhere in that horizon for him, usko pinch karta hai.


The last scene was just so many mixed emotions na....mujhe bura bhi lagta hai that she feels touched over things like him saying he made the haldi wala doodh for her....like utne mein hi her heart soars....this girl *sigh*😆.....but overall she was still upset only and didn't want to drink the doodh even after learning he made it for her. Adi sab note kar raha tha isliye he switched into his bossy mode to make her do what he wanted. Shaayad intent na ho but it ended up coming across as thoda manipulative from his side.


It would be awesome if they had a convo about her confusing emotions....Imlie kuch blurt out kar de apni agitation mein hi and then Adi ko lage jhatka....lol....but milega ghantaa....bas Malini didi ki fake mahaanta ka overdose....bleaghh.


You see the funny thing is he caught on it reacted on it first and then introspected and negated that nope i must be wrong 😆 when he immediately tried to make up with her by being bossy and diverting her towards entrance exam .. the pee lo and force came out of his impulse only he immediately tried to act as normal with her so she jaane do what she saw.. she couldn't feel the joy after again for a moment she felt special in the moment ke shayad sirf uske liye banaya and the came the genric haan for you both which put salt on her very fresh wound that she isn't his choice can never be.. woh up and down of emotion was so very well done from ST.. and yeh bhuddho apni hi dhun main lage pade tha trying to act normal


Adi ko worry khaye jaa rahi thi he did mention ek dum haq se n shikayat/fikar/care zone ke tumne theka lia hai sabka apna dhyaan nahi rakhti you silly girl but I guess I didn't click for imlie or us then caz of what else we witnessed just before 😆 warna babusahib ka sab phir bhi evident tha.. he never told his moon any of the things like that even then his tone had so much formality and Vachon Shashan woh ek comfortable casualness was missing he said such huge lines but it lacked any emotion or genuine concern even then he was pampering her indulging her but again very put on vibe going on. Hadh toh yeh hai not.once he bothered to.ask.his pyari moon ke ab aap feeling better or no or you should rest ultra movie dikha raha tha to make up for her stupid wish 🤣


While with imlie the moment he saw her his facial expressions changed watch that part again the way worry took over with his are you hurting somewhere why did you come this late and the tenderness in his tone again at that part as if isko hi chot lag gayi hai meanwhile moon ke sarr main takkar maari 🤣



I rewatched just that part again minus the pda and understood it better lol


Edit: forgot to add he expected her to show her pain to him🤣 itne bhare pade ghar main she would come to you only hi babusahib that too to show her pain as if you have given her a reason to do so😆 expectations yeh bhi rakhta hai but maanega nahi

Edited by naadanmasakalli - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago

Can we also take a minute to agree that those two strands/ clumps of hair they leave around Imlie’s face is annoying in the extreme! They left it out of the bandage also

Every time I see it, I want to give her a new hairstyle.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Can we also take a minute to agree that those two strands/ clumps of hair they leave around Imlie’s face is annoying in the extreme! They left it out of the bandage also

Every time I see it, I want to give her a new hairstyle.

Me thinks we will get a scene in the future (maybe far future lol) when Babusaheb will put those strands behind her ear. lol I sound so cheesy but I think there is a reason for all of this. 😂😂

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

Me thinks we will get a scene in the future (maybe far future lol) when Babusaheb will put those strands behind her ear. lol I sound so cheesy but I think there is a reason for all of this. 😂😂


Adi ne agar kabhi aisa kar diya galti se bhi toh Malini will show up there right then with “yeh kya ho raha hai” and Imlie just may shave off her head in guilt ki hawww mere baal Babusahib and DIDI ke pyar ke beech mein aa gaye 🤔🤣🤣

Waise Adi ke yeh sab karne ke chances low hain 😆 He has conveniently delegated each wife for a different purpose. Imlie ke saath emotional bonding, doodh/kaadha pilana, homework karvana. Malini ke saath baaki saari physical related things 🤷‍♀️😂. Well planned life 🤔.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Me thought I was only one who thought she needs new hairstyle ...

She looks good with choti completely hair tied ☺️

Agreed he has well planned life 2biwi ke saath maid free main mili 🤢

Yeah admi kab romance karta hai aur kab emotional hota hai god knows ...he is paal mein Shola pal mein shabnam difficult to predict 😭

Edited by water_83 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

Me thinks we will get a scene in the future (maybe far future lol) when Babusaheb will put those strands behind her ear. lol I sound so cheesy but I think there is a reason for all of this. 😂😂


🤣Malini ke saath kar lega. Imlie ke saath no chance

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


Yes, very true....she makes a big deal out of very small things I think jahaan isko confidence hota hai ki baat iske favor mein hi jaayegi. Like the trophy thing, she knew she could guilt Adi into apologizing.....and then the blow up with AC - wahaan bhi sabke saamne Malini mahaan prove hogayi toh she was able to comfortably give him the cold shoulder for a day or two cuz she was confident ki woh uske paas hi rahega.


But moti roti ke time she didn't have the guts to ask Adi directly ki use moti roti itni kyun pasand hai.....then that apology waali diary entry jiska credit yeh le gayi and didn't have the guts to reveal to Adi who wrote it.....lol and now this situation where Adi looked through her literally.....yeh bhi puchhne ke guts nahin hain is waqt Malini mein cuz she's not confident that it won't break their relationship.


Honestly I think I'm going to need a few epis to get over this level of fakeness and cowardice from Malini.....all her "meri pyari behen Imlie" stuff isn't enough to make up for it in my eyes right now....sab bahut fake lag raha hai despite her show of affection/concern for Imlie....mainly cuz she is lying about what she clearly saw.


Waise what's your theory? Do you think Adi has realized that he overlooked Malini lying on the ground there? 😆.....yeh sab OTT fake PDA is cuz of just AC ka taunt ki he's also trying to make up for literally having leapt over Malini and not seeing her on the ground? 😆.....as usual, makers ne baat vague banaa di taaki they can keep the status quo going.


Ok, I cannot find the original post of this discussion but just continuing here. I guess I was expecting that they would add a layer to Malini but they actually kept both of them in the character. See, from the first we were seeing that there is an issue, Aditya does his groveling act and everything is OK. Today was exactly the same, but now there is a big elephant in the room.


From Aditya side, he is not thinking about his action about Imlie or the why he did it because he is just putting it in under his farz and responsibility category. But not making Malini his priority is pricking him especially as he was the one who forced her to go. He is used to this behavior or this aspect of his relationship where he puts his work in front of her and then overcompensates by showing his care and his feelings (Remember his engagement where he left it for work and the overcompensation). Also, Aditya is a person who chooses not to answer if he does not have a answer as his mantra is bolo to sach bolo warna kuch nahi bola (What a joke that is 🤣). He did not have an answer but he knows he goofed up, not because he helped Imlie, but by not making Malini his priority over work. He is not even touching the "why" because he sees no reason to do it. This is the norm.


From Malini side, I totally agree with you here that she only bring up topic where she knows that the answer will only be a reconfirmation of his love or where she is praised or she is made the focus. During moti roti, she knew his attitude and today she was scared about his answer. The answer might have been an instant denial that "No she is my responsibility" or he might have had no answer. The seconds is what she does not have the guts to face that. I think that the reason though it kept pricking her, she did not have the strength to face it, hence she kept asking for reassurances and confirmations in a roundabout way even bringing up that she will die if the his love ends and was assured by Aditya's reaction.


This is the their khokla relationship and Malini is making it more so by not asking the correct questions or not bringing up the actual issues. She knows there is tanaav but does not have the inner strength to address it or his gut reaction today. She is all Ok with the false assurances that Aditya is providing. May be because she knows he only speaks the truth (🤣🤣🤣) but sadly Aditya thinks he is telling the truth but it is not the truth.


The elephant is in the room, one is choosing to ignore it, the other is not seeing it. As usual they are sweeping it under the carpet but it will keep coming out which is evident in the very next scene with Aditya OTT care for Imlie.

On a separate note, Imlie got her reality check but I loved the last scene where Aditya wanted her to look at him and for once she did not follow through.

Edited by pamk06 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Can we take a moment to appreciate Sumbul’s acting in the last scene? She conveyed an ocean full of disgust after gulping down that glass of milk.


This girl is awesome!! ❤️ Her acting range just keeps on expanding!!

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