Arzoos dilemna : There really shouldn't be any!!!!!

Arzoo Nausheen Khan...how life has changed in two days

Two days ago

She was in love and the person she loved confessed to her
He made her feel special
He proposed marriage
She agreed to his proposal

And then

She was told it was all fake
He was playing with her
He was married
Worst she was molested by a sick taxi driver before she could grasp what had happened

Now
She is recovering from the trauma
She has family support and her mother has assured her she is in no way to blame and she should be brave
However the heartbreak remains

Along with it

Confusion
Heart still beats for Sahir
Trust is fragile
Sahir did not engineer the cab incident.
Alvira claims that her love is conditional and love should overcome obstacles...why did she say that?


She needs space to think...to make sense of things...to become herself again...for the pain of heartbreak to reduce...for the confusion to clear...

On the other hand taking advantage of her fragile state:

Zaki whom she only ever thought of as a friend told her he loves her!
He claimed he would wait forever
He said he only wants to love her and doesn't expect her love and even if she is not his he will be ok
He wants to show her love, need not hurt

But

The next day he proposes marriage
Again told her the same thing about waiting for a lifetime
The next thing he has asked her mother for her hand in marriage!
Arzoo is thinking she can't break Zaki's heart by saying NO ... why is she not thinking all the ways he is playing with her emotions and feelings? Twisting them to his advantage?
Arzoo should consider...

In her current stage of heartbreak it is insensitive of Zaki to push her so much to say the least. He is supposed to be the good guy..the support ..the friend...what is wrong with him?? Why did he have to confess now instead of waiting for her to catch her breath even? He can see her confused state and in the garb of helping he is taking advantage! What else do you say when a guy who promised to be a friend and wait for her answer for a lifetime not only proposed in the next couple of hours but went on to claim her hand from her mother...and behind Arzoos back? What is the hurry? She went to him saying she doesn't know what to think...how to make sense of the situation and clearly mentioned it was about what was the truth about Sahir...and this guy...instead of addressing her concern...tells her to calm down and adds his own contribution to the mix by emphasizing his feelings...and acting like he is so noble...he doesn't want her thinking too much about Sahir as he knows the ice might thaw and then she might decide to give Sahir another chance...he has to be blind to not see that Sahir cares for her too...especially after the cab incident...still he tells Nausheen explicitly that Sahir does not love her and he himself does and goes on emotionally fooling her...why can't he wait?.

And that's not all...he hasn't been honest,,,he hasn't told her about his role in the challenge,..that he knew everything before it started...that he could have stopped it..why?? If he is so good and wants only her happiness how can he keep her in the dark?? How can he not tell her what she needs to know about the man she loves??

And coming to Arzoo...she always thought of him as a friend...when she turned to him for comfort...when she held his hand...when she hugged him..when he sat on her bed...isn't it upsetting or shocking for her to know he wasn't just being a friend but had all these expectations? Besides that this guy is a philanderer...as far as Arzoo knows even one month back he was with Samaira in Paris...

The question is being asked...how can she become a second wife when she despises her father for marrying again...well how can she marry a man who is exactly what her father was...disloyal...running behind multiple women...unable to fulfill responsibilities...remember that he is not working and isn't inclined to either...just saying he knows that about himself is not enough here...fact is that he isn't the ideal life partner in any way for Arzoo in her present state .. wouldn't a today's girl arzoo is made out to be consider what their potential husband does for a living?
And Sahir...told her everything...including the worst things he did...and now he is telling her exactly why he wants to marry her...to save the business and house...

Arzoo will probably say no to Sahir too and rightly so ... why should she marry him to save his business?

But...why should she say yes to Zaki??? He isn't the angel he is making himself out to be either...he is pressurizing her in her vulnerable state...if all he wants is to support her her why is he asking her to marry him and even going to her mother? What he says and what she sees him do is also different! And she realized the night of the cab incident that Zaki had also hidden Sahir's marriage from her...how can she trust him to be a life partner??

Why is it imperative for her to marry specially at this stage to even consider him? She is under no compulsion to do so...no one is forcing her to...so why is she even considering zaki?
People also argue Zaki has been there for her always hence she is confused ... he did so much for her well what did he exactly do? What did zaki do for her except that one rave party thing even there he needed Sahir's help?... the make over? Going to mr mehta was not that big a thing either ... risked her honor by involving her in pregnancy filth? Stole Sumaira's blood samples with her? Slept on her bed with her when she was vulnerable? Taking chance when she is heart broken?

On the other hand Sahir gave her confidence ... taught her how talent alone is not enough ... realized her talent and offered her a job despite non sense resignation letter that no boss would tolerate ... guarded her honor many times .. believed her over anam and kurti apa ... on her one message ran to save her (and yes people argue that was the least he could do after breaking her heart but he did, if he was as heartless and bad as he is shown to be he wouldn't bother) ... yet she is made too see all goodness in zaki but she never saw any in Sahir, even before the dhoka thing.

So even in this comparison Zaki falls short ... and this is the precise reason when cab thing happened Sahir was the first person she thought of ... despite all her friendship with zaki, he did not come to her mind ... Sahir did!

He started the game not sure arzoo loves him that is why he did not think this would hurt her so badly ... and the moment he realized she genuinely loved him guilt started to set in ... till he reached a point where he could not play the game ... he knew he can't have her so to push her away he made sure she hated him ... if he wanted he could get her sympathy even now ... he could tell her about zeenat's coma ... he could tell her about his pain and taking advantage of her love play with her feelings into marrying him for the sake of deal ... instead he chose to tell the truth ... truth that why he did what he did ... and why he needs to marry her!

Sahir is bad but what he is he is out in the open ... not deceiving ... not hiding his own part in the challenge!


Yet I don't say Arzoo has to say yes to Sahir .. .she doesn't and she probably won't either ... rightly so!
But her thinking all good about him, feeling guilty at having to say no to zaki, not seeing how he is imposing himself on her, taking advantage of her weak state doesn't make sense either! The leverage she gives Zaki ... she has never given even half of it when thinking about Sahir even before the dhoka despite knowing he is living with some kind of pain! That considering they are suppose to be Humsafars makes little sense!

Was about to logout...and glad I didn't ..becoz I felt so happy and relieved to read your post...point to point ...spot on Pri 🤗 ...the most apt description of recent events that I have read... 👏
I agree with everything..nothing to add...you said it all..Thank you 😊

Very well put ... an unbiased opinion ... agree she doesn't have to marry sahir but why does she need to even consider zaki? Specially when she just had a heart break ... why should marriage even be an option? ... but she is thinking and giving so much consideration to zaki ... she should have snapped back at him the moment he proposed ... specially keeping in mind the condition she was in ...and he is just imposing and imposing and strong arzoo can't see that? She didn't even get angry when he spoke to nausheen, not even waiting for her answer? She isn't thinking about the kind of life he has lived before ... the fact that he did sleep with sumaira in paris? even if they were drunk and passed out? She is not even thinking when did he change from a casanova to holier than thou? Why he is pushing so much for nikkah if he is really a friend and wants best for her?

Originally posted by: TaanuDeewani

Was about to logout...and glad I didn't ..becoz I felt so happy and relieved to read your post...point to point ...spot on Pri 🤗 ...the most apt description of recent events that I have read... 👏
I agree with everything..nothing to add...you said it all..Thank you 😊

Originally posted by: Suvika.

Great post Priya... You have nailed it very well.

In her current stage of heartbreak it is insensitive of Zaki to push her so much to say the least. He is supposed to be the good guy..the support ..the friend...what is wrong with him?? Why did he have to confess now instead of waiting for her to catch her breath even? He can see her confused state and in the garb of helping he is taking advantage! What else do you say when a guy who promised to be a friend and wait for her answer for a lifetime not only proposed in the next couple of hours but went on to claim her hand from her mother...and behind Arzoos back?

This is exactly the reason none of us are able to trust this Zaki and his feelings no matter how hard the CVs are trying to push it down our throats. They showed him fighting with Sahir to make sure Arzoo is not fooled. OK till then. He seemed like a good friend who had the misfortune to fall in love with the girl who loves his brother. Then they showed him pleading with Alvira to somehow get him married to Arzoo knowing Arzoo loved Sahir. The weirdness started there. And now he is playing a word games with Arzoo totally brainwashing her when she is already down and confused and hurt. What do we make of him? How to believe that he is so good, honest and perfect in every way? And please note, this is the same guy who not long ago slept around and didn't care for any girl. I agree that people do change and they should not be judged by their past actions etc. But such a 180 degree turn so soon and in such an extreme way is damn irritating and confusing.

And as for Arzoo saying yes for either Zaki or Sahir...yes, there is no need. After everything that has happened, she doesn't owe anything to either of them. But this Nausheen taking money from Sarfaraz thing is being added here. So she wants the money to pay back to Sarfaraz and Sahir will give it only if she says yes to the nikah? Is that the route they are going to take? Both love each other and marry for the sake of business and money? And thinking they hate each other??

Originally posted by: prettypri

Thanks Suvika😃.

Yes...Zaki is getting weirder with each episode...and they are actually butchering Arzoos characterisation to accommodate him...and still be doesn't come off as pure as the driven snow which is what they seem to want to portray!

Arzoo should be wary of trusting anyone and considering she has doubts about Zaki...in fact she knows Zaki hid Sahirs truth...she should not encourage him at all but in fact ask him to clarify..

I think Zaki is ensuring she doesn't think about his role or question him by bombarding her like this..it simply doesn't seem normal or positive!

And yes...the route to the marriage seems to be based on anything but love...more hate and misunderstanding if you please...after all this roundabout they hit upon this formula!

Originally posted by: Suvika.

After the kind of betrayal that Arzoo faced not two days back, the first thought when Zaki proposed her should have been... now this guy loves me?? What the hell!! Does he have some hidden agenda too?? Is he out to fool me too??

Instead she is shown to be thinking how she would hate to hurt Zaki.😕 Yes, OK. Zaki is her friend. I get that totally. But he didn't just declare his feelings.. he is pushing and pushing and pushing and pushing. Every single chance he gets he is pushing. Last night she had gone to him as a friend because she had been confused about Sahir. What does this guy do? Push his case again. Forget irritating... its downright creepy.

Priya... the problem here is either her alarm bells have died on her or she has become deaf to their ringing. 😆