Arzoos dilemna : There really shouldn't be any!!!!! - Page 3

Originally posted by: Ayesha123

I agree with you on that one! It was my fault, I love your posts and I'm staying up to read them when I should have been doing my math😆 I read mindlessly, being ignorant towards the main purpose of your post! Sorry man😊

Originally posted by: ecrivain

Wht an apt post for the track pri..sorry my Like button is not working n once it does I will like ur post too but Wud just wanna say tht , sometimes life has weird n harsh ways of teaching us to take a stand n then to make a living n a LIFE out of it ...

I Undertand ARZOO has been strong n has still been vulnerable to pain n heart break all along , n now life has been unpredictable to her .lBUT wht reMains as a fact is tht amidst everything , relationships tht have been her strength and her support are with her ...n to LESS complicate things she should not actually mix her feelings n emotional trauma and take a wrong decision ..

Zaki whthere He has helped her or not ...has lied or not ..has been a FRIEND ONLY n she should not mistake his love n her friendship to be the sole reason for starting a new life

Infact I am not sure how but I think she shud actually just sit down n sort things out ...😆..too much to ask for is it ?

Originally posted by: dakshaavi

Very well analysed post . Zaki doesn't fit to be arzoo's life partner at all . Neither he is responsible , confident nor a hard working , immature too where as arzoo is totally opposite . By just sugary words and being friendly I don't see zaki knows what arzoo is ?

On the other hand for sahir it's testing water .. It's not just challenge but the truth he wanted to know for himself ... He was overwhelmed to see sincere and innocent love of arzoo and couldn't drag on with the guilt .. So reveals the truth ..like Alvira to

D true love will over come all difficulties and sahir must have thought the same , arzoo will see throught things and accept sahir .

But there is not need like you said that a girl like azoo need to say yes to marry sahir .

Originally posted by: allforlove

Love, love, love you for this post 🤗 👏

Very sane and logical analysis - you have made things crystal clear fact by fact!

The characters, especially Arzoo and Zaki, have become too inconsistent now - we can just wait and watch what happens - it is all in the hands of the CVs now to make or break it!

Also, I would like to add that there is a lot of moral-immoral tirade going on in the forum. For me, I started watching the show for the good story telling and characterizations. That is what still holds me to the show and will do as long as it is gripping. I am not here to learn from Sahir, Arzoo or Zaki how to live my life or decide my priorities. I have better sources for that! Morality is subjective and to some extent, art has to conform to it - but only to some extent. As long as they do not approve something heinous or absolutely disagreeable, I am fine with it. Self-mutilation happening at the drop of a hat and the egg allergy fiasco are indeed disagreeable - they shouldn't really show that on tv 👎🏼

Leaving the 'right' and the 'wrong' apart, Sahir is the most interesting character of the show and his angst and passion are driving it. And that is why, I will always be on Sahir's side - (of course, HC's appeal and acting skills add fuel to the fire 😆). He is the good story for me, he is the one I would like to watch, and I would like to watch his journey with Arzoo - as they had promised they would show. Zaki and Arzoo are simply not interesting enough - at least now! I would have enjoyed it rather if they had given a nice track to Zaki and Zara or Myra or anything else - that could have been nicely tied to SaAz's story too but they have chosen the worst option now. I have nothing against Zaki or his character - I am no one to judge - but I do not want him to barge into SaAz's relationship for the simple reason that it is not good story telling as I see it! This is strictly my opinion - anybody is welcome to disagree 😊

Once again, lovely post 👏

Originally posted by: -vandy-

bang on pri

finally i read an analysis of this track which is not biased in anybody's favour

u just analysed this track in the most tactful manner possible...adressing the pros and cons of everything

u know...i seriously fail to understand y nobody is seeing the evil opportunist in zaki???

a guy who has the mindset of taking advantage of aarzoo wen she is the most vulnerable... he proposed aarzoo...she asked for time to think...what he dos next?...he proposes marriage...and wen she leaves without a reply...he goes to her mom and emotionally blackmails her?

zaki knows arzoo can never refuse nausheen...so he tries the ultimate blackmail weapon...

and here ppl call sahir bad...

thats world i guess!!

there is simply no place for ppl who r outright honest...maybe his ways r not "perfect" but his intentions were always...he can't be sugary sweet like others...but he knows this world...and he knows that what can help aarzoo stand up and face things

had he been seet like others...told her just that he's married and not the full truth of how far he went to break her trust...he would've given aarzoo a false hope to cling on...but he didn't...he loves aarzoo...and wants her love too...but he wants to make sure that before committing to be a part of his life...aarzoo should be well aware of the hardships that come with him...but then...if he's not sugary sweet...he can't be someone who has the right to marry aarzoo

here we have zaki...who can beat the sweetness in sugar candy factory with the sweetness he has in his words...he tells aarzoo the love he has in his heart is enough for both of them...he doesn't expect "a physical" relationship with her...

but isn't he keeping her in an illusion?

how many men we know are oki with the fact that their wives love someone else...and that someone else is staying under the same roof?

we all know...a physical relationship is a necessity of life...no matter how superficial one talks abt it...but its a hard core reality...'

we all know how zaki is...he will definitely sleep aroud with others to meet his needs...but what abt aarzoo?...why should she be deprived of it?

and i don't understand y zaki keeps on enforcing on this "physical relationship" thing???

i seriously want aarzo to see beyond things which r not meeting the eye...zaki is not as saint as he's trying to portray himself...

and sahir is not that bad as he is portraying himself...

Originally posted by: -vandy-

and i loved this...couldn't agree more

On the other hand Sahir gave her confidence ... taught her how talent alone is not enough ... realized her talent and offered her a job despite non sense resignation letter that no boss would tolerate ... guarded her honor many times .. believed her over anam and kurti apa ... on her one message ran to save her (and yes people argue that was the least he could do after breaking her heart but he did, if he was as heartless and bad as he is shown to be he wouldn't bother) ... yet she is made too see all goodness in zaki but she never saw any in Sahir, even before the dhoka thing.

just loving a person is not enough to spend ur life with someone...in reality u need a lot more...2 people become humsafar for life...ur role for each other changes as per the situation ...at times u r lovers...at times the best of friends so that u can confide freely in each other...some moments require ur partner to turn into a parent...to give u the strength and comfort...at times u turn strict...to lead ur partner on the right path...no matter if u end up looking bad...coz as long as ur intentions are for the good of each other...both r just one person to the world...