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Alright, so I'm in a mood to speak on Rishi's behalf today. I know the writers haven't given me much to work with but I'm gonna try! In all of this, there is only one thing that I can't defend him for- marrying Zara without Indu's consent (oh and the slapping bit yesterday). For the most part, I liked him today. He tried to behave like an adult amidst the terrible circumstances that he's stuck in (couldn't say the same for Zara today- more on her later).
I don't agree with the bit that Rishi wants to eat his cake and have it too. LW and Zara hold different places in ehis life and he is trying to be just towards both of them. Is that so wrong that he is trying to fulfill his promises and responsibilities towards both women? It's not like he wants to romance both of them! The circumstances have not been created by him (again if I ignore the marrying Zara without Indu's consent bit). Its not like he knew that his dead wife was going to return when he married Zara. I know we all want him to decide but honestly if I put myself in his shoes, I don't quite know how I could make a rational decision. His decision will impact 4 lives and I think he realizes the gravity of the situation. To further his grief, it does not help that everyone else around him, including Zara, behaves like a 8 year old. I also liked how he spoke to Indu today. He treated her as a 8 year old and tried to understand her feelings too. Obviously for the 8 year old, life is simple. She wants her mom and dad to be in love and together. How is Rishi supposed to explain to her that people can move on in life and though he may not love her mom the way he used to, he still cares for her. This is very difficult to get across to a 8 year old child and Rishi tried his best.
Regarding Zara, honestly, I think her behavior has been quite immature for the last few episodes. No I can't label her behavior as wrong but it is also does not show any maturity or understanding. Yes I can understand her desire to be with her husband, but does she not see the difficult circumstances that her beloved husband has been thrown into. Does she not see or understand his dilemma? So far she has only acted on her personal motives (again,not wrong to do but if we expect so much maturity from Rishi, then why not Zara?). Today, I thought her behavior was quite childish. Why is she arguing with a 8 year old? If she is disappointed and heartbroken, she needs to sit down and talk things out with Rishi- not prove her point to a 8 year old. Her behavior today makes me even more confident that Zara is none other than Indira- meri life buri hai, meri feelings ko koi nahi samajhta, I am the one who has been wronged the most in life etc etc. all reeks of Indira. I do hope that she decides to walk out of SN, even if Rishi begs her to stay.
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🤗 🤗🥳🤗WOW !! Walden to rescue my man Rishi!!! My second love!!! Thanks buddy!!! you really done it!!I agree with you !! I do not know what cake people are talking about? He does not even have ingredient for it@ bold 1. Exactly .every one who does not like him or disapproves of this decision need to put your self in his shoes. Close your eyes and think about it !!!@ bold no 2 he was great as father today! I just love the way he handle himself !! He did not loose his control or was very understanding of his daughter need. Everynone thinks that he is a bad father and he needs to improve relation ship with Indu. He s tring and tring very hard!! Now they are unhappy because he is bad husband !! Sorry folks but daughter comes first . That's his frist responsibity , because his wife Zara is an adult and can think for herself or should have ability to understand child . After all she is Indu's Step mom too,. So I like him as father !!!@ underline( I wish my phone was equiped for colors it would have been easier for you)I love Zaras character because she was different than Indira. She was stronger and she was rational . She appeared to be supportive and understanding of Rishi and his need. I know they did not take 7 Pheres and did not make any promises but as Rishi wife her first duty is to support him in difficult situation . She should have been more understanding of his needs and not demand her rights. It was not the right time of place !! She wanted Rishi to tell Indu about their marrige before any one else , they why this? It was very damaging !! They need to sit and talk and have rational,plan for every ones favour.I can go on and on and on but I need to stop this Rant. I think separation track is coming up. Rati problely very tired and needs break from double role!! Good acting !! Superb as Zara And Indira !!
Originally posted by: light_28
Walden, i agree 100% with you. Couldnt have said more better. Whatever you said for the behalf of rishi is apt. I still support his acts.
Zara as u said is also nt cumpltly wrong and basicaly above all insecurities that she is feeling,is the insecurity of her identity. She doesnt knw who she is. I think she even doesnt believe herself to be Zara as malik's last words dont allow her to. The only thing with a guarantee in her life nw is Rishi, her official husband. Its lyk she doesnt knw who she was/is yet she is Mrs Rk .How can she leave him ?! And hence such a sudden immature behaviour.
Thats ok but whats irritating me is why they dnt show any investign frm zara about herself ? Before enquirng indira why is she nt botherd to search zara malik khan (i mean her days of treatment after the accident happend to her 8 yrs back) may be all this is yet to cum !
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The fact that she is insecure about her identity has nothing to do with Rishi- I mean Malik told her she was Zara for 8 years so she believed him and now Rishi thought she was Indira so she believed him- Why do Rishi's words mean more to her than MK's? I mean if a 3rd person comes along tomorrow and tells her that she's Sita, she'll believe them too! She needs to separate her identity crisis from the LW situation- they are completely unrelated.I do not want preach . But I do work in Brain trauma field and I understand few things. Right now I think writer are suffering from brain trauma .I have seen lots of people with permanent memory loss. These people do not have indendity of their own , many time they do not trust any one but if they trust any one is usually blind trust because they are desperate for indendity and that's why she trusted MK and he took advantage of her. I am sure he told her that she was orphan. But she was not happy and was not connected with him so she was looking for answer. Rishi came along and she felt connection with him so another blind trust !! she has found her new indendity but she still feels very insecure . She is looking for security and she wants to hang on to it.loosing thier newly found identiy is very threatening to these people that why she is portrait like this. She wants to hold on to Rishi and not share him.,.I want ZARA to investigate but this drama is getting TRPS so we are stuck !!You are absolutely right. Rishi has nothing to gain from this but he will loose a lot with any desicion he makes . He is just tring to be nice to both of them . Does he really has any choice? He did not create this stupid situation. He wants solution that will make every one happy. He is in very bad situation. He will never tell Zara to leave him but she does he will bring her back because by nature he fair man !! ! He will not hurt any one!! Lets see what happens !!! For me it's getting interesting to see Rishi's Dilemma !! I also think that he can have them both. He does not want to be in this situation. To keep them both will be the only happy solution but remember this is Zimdagi ki jang!!OMG I knew it from very first day !!" Life in the woods" walden, Henry David Thoreau. Great man . I loved it . I wanted to ask you about your user name but now I know,, I love him too. He was original non violent peace keeper!!!!!!
Originally posted by: _saumya_
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ROFL!shuttle cock... where do you get these ideas from... to me it was more like a game called donkey . In which two people would throw balls to each other and the third person(donkey) who is standing in the middle would try to grab it.😉in yesterday's episode, Zara and Indu were the ones throwing the ball and Rishi trying to stop it by trying to speak but if it was that easy, it won't make an interesting game. Only difference is Rishi was trying to catch the ball only when Zara would throw it.Finally when Rishi catches the ball, Zara is all shocked as she is the donkey now so she gets upset and leaves the game.🤣
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This sure seems more apt...had I known this, I would have titled the post Donkey 😊