Shuttlecock - Page 4

Created

Last reply

Replies

90

Views

7.7k

Users

17

Likes

315

Frequent Posters

Heema22 thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
#31
Kanan, great title !! I want to request Sano to award you reward for great tiles on the forum. I read your note and I saw that episode later so I was imagining the game al the way . Very funny with that concept !! It was prefect !!!!!
I told you, more slaps on the way !!
PS. I just watch the episodes on TV and I saw few thing . Symbolism is used by HD writers. Today falling of lizards was interesting . Forget about Kutumb behavior . I think in Indian culture that. Is "APASHAKOON "" bad luck ahead of you !!
Second one was . When ZARA was talking they flashed Rikshaw . Remember they were sitting in that ricksha and she saw RIshi when she closed her eyes!!!!
OMG Indu !!! I hope they improve her character . All adults standing in the room and no one can shut her up? Tape would have been great solution !!!!!!
I think separation track is coming up!! I want Zara out of. SN butvshevwill,return for drama!!!
Now I knows, why 8 yrs of leap? I though it was done for shuti' s age. So they can show her as8 yrs old!! But this was done for the divorse law of 7 yrs of separation one exata year was for safety zone, incase the low is change!!
Edited by Heema22 - 12 years ago
Heema22 thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: Walden

Alright, so I'm in a mood to speak on Rishi's behalf today. I know the writers haven't given me much to work with but I'm gonna try! In all of this, there is only one thing that I can't defend him for- marrying Zara without Indu's consent (oh and the slapping bit yesterday). For the most part, I liked him today. He tried to behave like an adult amidst the terrible circumstances that he's stuck in (couldn't say the same for Zara today- more on her later).

I don't agree with the bit that Rishi wants to eat his cake and have it too. LW and Zara hold different places in ehis life and he is trying to be just towards both of them. Is that so wrong that he is trying to fulfill his promises and responsibilities towards both women? It's not like he wants to romance both of them! The circumstances have not been created by him (again if I ignore the marrying Zara without Indu's consent bit). Its not like he knew that his dead wife was going to return when he married Zara. I know we all want him to decide but honestly if I put myself in his shoes, I don't quite know how I could make a rational decision. His decision will impact 4 lives and I think he realizes the gravity of the situation. To further his grief, it does not help that everyone else around him, including Zara, behaves like a 8 year old. I also liked how he spoke to Indu today. He treated her as a 8 year old and tried to understand her feelings too. Obviously for the 8 year old, life is simple. She wants her mom and dad to be in love and together. How is Rishi supposed to explain to her that people can move on in life and though he may not love her mom the way he used to, he still cares for her. This is very difficult to get across to a 8 year old child and Rishi tried his best.

Regarding Zara, honestly, I think her behavior has been quite immature for the last few episodes. No I can't label her behavior as wrong but it is also does not show any maturity or understanding. Yes I can understand her desire to be with her husband, but does she not see the difficult circumstances that her beloved husband has been thrown into. Does she not see or understand his dilemma? So far she has only acted on her personal motives (again,not wrong to do but if we expect so much maturity from Rishi, then why not Zara?). Today, I thought her behavior was quite childish. Why is she arguing with a 8 year old? If she is disappointed and heartbroken, she needs to sit down and talk things out with Rishi- not prove her point to a 8 year old. Her behavior today makes me even more confident that Zara is none other than Indira- meri life buri hai, meri feelings ko koi nahi samajhta, I am the one who has been wronged the most in life etc etc. all reeks of Indira. I do hope that she decides to walk out of SN, even if Rishi begs her to stay.

🤗🤗 🥳🤗
🤗 🤗🥳🤗

WOW !! Walden to rescue my man Rishi!!! My second love!!! Thanks buddy!!! you really done it!!
I agree with you !! I do not know what cake people are talking about? He does not even have ingredient for it

@ bold 1. Exactly .every one who does not like him or disapproves of this decision need to put your self in his shoes. Close your eyes and think about it !!!

@ bold no 2 he was great as father today! I just love the way he handle himself !! He did not loose his control or was very understanding of his daughter need. Everynone thinks that he is a bad father and he needs to improve relation ship with Indu. He s tring and tring very hard!! Now they are unhappy because he is bad husband !! Sorry folks but daughter comes first . That's his frist responsibity , because his wife Zara is an adult and can think for herself or should have ability to understand child . After all she is Indu's Step mom too,. So I like him as father !!!
@ underline( I wish my phone was equiped for colors it would have been easier for you)
I love Zaras character because she was different than Indira. She was stronger and she was rational . She appeared to be supportive and understanding of Rishi and his need. I know they did not take 7 Pheres and did not make any promises but as Rishi wife her first duty is to support him in difficult situation . She should have been more understanding of his needs and not demand her rights. It was not the right time of place !! She wanted Rishi to tell Indu about their marrige before any one else , they why this? It was very damaging !! They need to sit and talk and have rational,plan for every ones favour.
I can go on and on and on but I need to stop this Rant. I think separation track is coming up. Rati problely very tired and needs break from double role!! Good acting !! Superb as Zara And Indira !!

Edited by Heema22 - 12 years ago
Heema22 thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
#33
. HI Kanan . You and many others are still reminiscing about this. I am kind of getting tired of this !! So I want to vent . Please try to understand my point of veiw!
I want you to be RISHI. nice man. Finally met his love and wants to move on. You are very happy . On top of the word . 8 yrs have passed by. Very depressing life or I no life!!!! He woos the tough girl in very bad circumstance you are married without taking permission from his daughter !!!you are happy dreaming about life with her and dreaming about " one big happy family " you come home to talk to yor daughter and Bomb is dropped on you . Your first wife is back from death . Yor daughter is happy .You want to improve relation with your daughter. What would you tell the Zara ? PLESE come with good answer!! What would you do with some one you just married to? How would you console her?
I was very happly what he said . As a women and in Zaras situation . If he had Said " soory we rushed , My frist wife is back, sorry !! You are mistake !! Bye !!! I think I would have killed him!!
Edited by Heema22 - 12 years ago
TBDRESS thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: Heema22

🤗🤗 🥳🤗
🤗 🤗🥳🤗

WOW !! Walden to rescue my man Rishi!!! My second love!!! Thanks buddy!!! you really done it!!
I agree with you !! I do not know what cake people are talking about? He does not even have ingredient for it

@ bold 1. Exactly .every one who does not like him or disapproves of this decision need to put your self in his shoes. Close your eyes and think about it !!!

@ bold no 2 he was great as father today! I just love the way he handle himself !! He did not loose his control or was very understanding of his daughter need. Everynone thinks that he is a bad father and he needs to improve relation ship with Indu. He s tring and tring very hard!! Now they are unhappy because he is bad husband !! Sorry folks but daughter comes first . That's his frist responsibity , because his wife Zara is an adult and can think for herself or should have ability to understand child . After all she is Indu's Step mom too,. So I like him as father !!!
@ underline( I wish my phone was equiped for colors it would have been easier for you)
I love Zaras character because she was different than Indira. She was stronger and she was rational . She appeared to be supportive and understanding of Rishi and his need. I know they did not take 7 Pheres and did not make any promises but as Rishi wife her first duty is to support him in difficult situation . She should have been more understanding of his needs and not demand her rights. It was not the right time of place !! She wanted Rishi to tell Indu about their marrige before any one else , they why this? It was very damaging !! They need to sit and talk and have rational,plan for every ones favour.
I can go on and on and on but I need to stop this Rant. I think separation track is coming up. Rati problely very tired and needs break from double role!! Good acting !! Superb as Zara And Indira !!

Heema, I knew you would approve but I genuinely liked Rishi today and so my comments:))
I fail to see what Rishi gains out of this situation. I don't get it when people say "he can't have both." It makes it sound like he somehow betrayed or wronged one of them intentionally and this is obviously not the case. Its actually better for him to pick one but he's tryting to be fair to both the women and that's why the "indecision." Instead of criticizing Rishi, I would actually like someone to tell me exactly what they would expect him to do and say in this situation- what they would say to Zara, Indu, and LW exactly. In my mind, he has sort of expressed his decision to Zara already- that he cannot turn his back on LW and her condition. Now the ball (or in Kanan's words the shuttercock) is in Zara's court. She can either stay (I'm sure Rishi will try to convicne her to because he can't see her hurt) or if she has any brains, she'll leave.
@bold- I concur! I can understand Zara's insecurities etc. but in my eyes, she has not shown any understanding or maturity so far in this situation. And her confrontation with Indu today was just a continuation of this immaturity. Her concern for Indu seems to have evaporated. At least Rishi tried to understand the situation from her perspective (thus agreeing to her demand to drop LW to the mental hospital) but I haven't seen her look at the situation from Rishi's perspective even once.
The fact that she is insecure about her identity has nothing to do with Rishi- I mean Malik told her she was Zara for 8 years so she believed him and now Rishi thought she was Indira so she believed him- Why do Rishi's words mean more to her than MK's? I mean if a 3rd person comes along tomorrow and tells her that she's Sita, she'll believe them too! She needs to separate her identity crisis from the LW situation- they are completely unrelated.
TBDRESS thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: light_28


Walden, i agree 100% with you. Couldnt have said more better. Whatever you said for the behalf of rishi is apt. I still support his acts.
Zara as u said is also nt cumpltly wrong and basicaly above all insecurities that she is feeling,is the insecurity of her identity. She doesnt knw who she is. I think she even doesnt believe herself to be Zara as malik's last words dont allow her to. The only thing with a guarantee in her life nw is Rishi, her official husband. Its lyk she doesnt knw who she was/is yet she is Mrs Rk .How can she leave him ?! And hence such a sudden immature behaviour.
Thats ok but whats irritating me is why they dnt show any investign frm zara about herself ? Before enquirng indira why is she nt botherd to search zara malik khan (i mean her days of treatment after the accident happend to her 8 yrs back) may be all this is yet to cum !

Roshni (I think that's your name:), I completely agree with you. Like I said in my reply to Heema, Zara is connecting two things which are completely unrelated- her identity and this issue with LW and this is blinding her.
Yes Rishi tried to convince her that she was Indira but MK tried to convince her she was Zara for 8 years too. Why did she believe Rishi and not MK?? I don't think she wants to ask herself these questions. And yes, it is so odd that they don't show her trying to figure out her real identity. It seems like she wants to remain in denial, afraid that she may uncover something that she doesen't like? (maybe another husband from the past🤣)
Heema22 thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
#36
QUOTE Walden
The fact that she is insecure about her identity has nothing to do with Rishi- I mean Malik told her she was Zara for 8 years so she believed him and now Rishi thought she was Indira so she believed him- Why do Rishi's words mean more to her than MK's? I mean if a 3rd person comes along tomorrow and tells her that she's Sita, she'll believe them too! She needs to separate her identity crisis from the LW situation- they are completely unrelated.
I do not want preach . But I do work in Brain trauma field and I understand few things. Right now I think writer are suffering from brain trauma .I have seen lots of people with permanent memory loss. These people do not have indendity of their own , many time they do not trust any one but if they trust any one is usually blind trust because they are desperate for indendity and that's why she trusted MK and he took advantage of her. I am sure he told her that she was orphan. But she was not happy and was not connected with him so she was looking for answer. Rishi came along and she felt connection with him so another blind trust !! she has found her new indendity but she still feels very insecure . She is looking for security and she wants to hang on to it.loosing thier newly found identiy is very threatening to these people that why she is portrait like this. She wants to hold on to Rishi and not share him.,.I want ZARA to investigate but this drama is getting TRPS so we are stuck !!
You are absolutely right. Rishi has nothing to gain from this but he will loose a lot with any desicion he makes . He is just tring to be nice to both of them . Does he really has any choice? He did not create this stupid situation. He wants solution that will make every one happy. He is in very bad situation. He will never tell Zara to leave him but she does he will bring her back because by nature he fair man !! ! He will not hurt any one!! Lets see what happens !!! For me it's getting interesting to see Rishi's Dilemma !! I also think that he can have them both. He does not want to be in this situation. To keep them both will be the only happy solution but remember this is Zimdagi ki jang!!
OMG I knew it from very first day !!" Life in the woods" walden, Henry David Thoreau. Great man . I loved it . I wanted to ask you about your user name but now I know,, I love him too. He was original non violent peace keeper!!!!!!
Edited by Heema22 - 12 years ago
Heema22 thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
#37
Sorry double post !!
Edited by Heema22 - 12 years ago
Badala thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 12 years ago
#38
🤣
ROFL!
shuttle cock... where do you get these ideas from... to me it was more like a game called donkey . In which two people would throw balls to each other and the third person(donkey) who is standing in the middle would try to grab it.😉
in yesterday's episode, Zara and Indu were the ones throwing the ball and Rishi trying to stop it by trying to speak but if it was that easy, it won't make an interesting game. Only difference is Rishi was trying to catch the ball only when Zara would throw it.
Finally when Rishi catches the ball, Zara is all shocked as she is the donkey now so she gets upset and leaves the game.🤣
innocent.aman thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Trailblazer Thumbnail Networker 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: Heema22

QUOTE Walden

The fact that she is insecure about her identity has nothing to do with Rishi- I mean Malik told her she was Zara for 8 years so she believed him and now Rishi thought she was Indira so she believed him- Why do Rishi's words mean more to her than MK's? I mean if a 3rd person comes along tomorrow and tells her that she's Sita, she'll believe them too! She needs to separate her identity crisis from the LW situation- they are completely unrelated.
I do not want preach . But I do work in Brain trauma field and I understand few things. Right now I think writer are suffering from brain trauma .I have seen lots of people with permanent memory loss. These people do not have indendity of their own , many time they do not trust any one but if they trust any one is usually blind trust because they are desperate for indendity and that's why she trusted MK and he took advantage of her. I am sure he told her that she was orphan. But she was not happy and was not connected with him so she was looking for answer. Rishi came along and she felt connection with him so another blind trust !! she has found her new indendity but she still feels very insecure . She is looking for security and she wants to hang on to it.loosing thier newly found identiy is very threatening to these people that why she is portrait like this. She wants to hold on to Rishi and not share him.,.I want ZARA to investigate but this drama is getting TRPS so we are stuck !!
You are absolutely right. Rishi has nothing to gain from this but he will loose a lot with any desicion he makes . He is just tring to be nice to both of them . Does he really has any choice? He did not create this stupid situation. He wants solution that will make every one happy. He is in very bad situation. He will never tell Zara to leave him but she does he will bring her back because by nature he fair man !! ! He will not hurt any one!! Lets see what happens !!! For me it's getting interesting to see Rishi's Dilemma !! I also think that he can have them both. He does not want to be in this situation. To keep them both will be the only happy solution but remember this is Zimdagi ki jang!!
OMG I knew it from very first day !!" Life in the woods" walden, Henry David Thoreau. Great man . I loved it . I wanted to ask you about your user name but now I know,, I love him too. He was original non violent peace keeper!!!!!!


you narrated rishi dielema perfectly bechara rishi what options he has
actually rishi rooh ki awaz should be redeemed very fast 😊
but as u said this tarck mellodrama is getting trp so i doubt they will make zashi happy😭

if forum dont bash rishi even we are unhappy with rishi behaviour but fault lies to cvc
cvc dont use rishi for mellodrama to hurt zara😭 dont show him rude arrogant as sameer
AllThingsNice thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: _saumya_

🤣

ROFL!
shuttle cock... where do you get these ideas from... to me it was more like a game called donkey . In which two people would throw balls to each other and the third person(donkey) who is standing in the middle would try to grab it.😉
in yesterday's episode, Zara and Indu were the ones throwing the ball and Rishi trying to stop it by trying to speak but if it was that easy, it won't make an interesting game. Only difference is Rishi was trying to catch the ball only when Zara would throw it.
Finally when Rishi catches the ball, Zara is all shocked as she is the donkey now so she gets upset and leaves the game.🤣

😆😆

This sure seems more apt...had I known this, I would have titled the post Donkey 😊

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".