Analyze This - Page 2

Originally posted by: Pari117

Hey. At first i want to tell here love is not the seasonal fruit which will change its colour, at first it was shown rishi accepting zara the way she isaccepting zara the way she is, for the world indira was dead, now rishi is standing at juncture where his past and present are both before him, today indira's condition is not that way to discuss these all issues, and she needs rishi the mosttoday indira's condition is not that way to discuss these all issues, and she needs rishi the most, so the acts of rishi were totally just according to me, it would have been cheating only if rishi denied about the love he had for zara, he loved her with true heart, not just because of her body which resembles indira but because of her soulnot just because of her body which resembles indira but because of her soul, so the statement of rishi that he loves zara shouldnt be kept into controversy. So please before questioning rishi, you can question zara why she didn't asked rishi before "if life brings back indira, then whom he ll choosebefore questioning rishi, you can question zara why she didn't asked rishi before "if life brings back indira, then whom he ll choose"

Hey Pari

About Rishi accepting Zara the way she is, how exactly do you mean that? Until well into their acquaintance, until Zara asked him whether he would love her even if she was NOT Indira, he had not for a moment doubted that she was his Shrimatiji. So there, I fail to see the point you are making. If you mean that he did not request her to change her name, her attire, and so on, then I agree. He accepted her as she is, but still managed to impose his image of Indira on her. I mean, she pays the water bill and everyone in the family is convinced that she is Indira. There was also the fact that she resembled Indira in lots of ways.

About Rishi denying his love for Zara, my only question is how does he see this shaping in the future? That is all. I did not get into whether his love for Zara is pure or not. In fact, I really think he is confused about 'love' overall. To clarify, he perhaps has feelings, but cannot distinguish sympathy from love. Happens to many. But because I say this, it neither means that I am questioning him nor bashing him.

About Zara questioning, I think she has been doing it with a fair bit of regularity. She had even left for Mumbai to deliberately put distance between them and find out what she's really feeling.

Originally posted by: Pari117

Hey. At first i want to tell here love is not the seasonal fruit which will change its colour, at first it was shown rishi accepting zara the way she is, for the world indira was dead, now rishi is standing at juncture where his past and present are both before him, today indira's condition is not that way to discuss these all issues, and she needs rishi the most, so the acts of rishi were totally just according to me, it would have been cheating only if rishi denied about the love he had for zara, he loved her with true heart, not just because of her body which resembles indira but because of her soul, so the statement of rishi that he loves zara shouldnt be kept into controversy. So please before questioning rishi, you can question zara why she didn't asked rishi before "if life brings back indira, then whom he ll choose"

Originally posted by: AllThingsNice

Hey Pari

About Rishi accepting Zara the way she is, how exactly do you mean that? Until well into their acquaintance, until Zara asked him whether he would love her even if she was NOT Indira, he had not for a moment doubted that she was his Shrimatiji. So there, I fail to see the point you are making. If you mean that he did not request her to change her name, her attire, and so on, then I agree. He accepted her as she is, but still managed to impose his image of Indira on her. I mean, she pays the water bill and everyone in the family is convinced that she is Indira. There was also the fact that she resembled Indira in lots of ways.

About Rishi denying his love for Zara, my only question is how does he see this shaping in the future? That is all. I did not get into whether his love for Zara is pure or not. In fact, I really think he is confused about 'love' overall. To clarify, he perhaps has feelings, but cannot distinguish sympathy from love. Happens to many. But because I say this, it neither means that I am questioning him nor bashing him.

About Zara questioning, I think she has been doing it with a fair bit of regularity. She had even left for Mumbai to deliberately put distance between them and find out what she's really feeling.

Originally posted by: Walden

</div><div>Pari, I love this question! In the telly universe, one has to be prepared for anything and return of the dead and humshakalsis toh nothing. There should be handbook for these characters: telly serials for dummies. For Rishi- he needs to read "Humshakals and return of the dead" 🤣

Originally posted by: Pari117

first of all i love fair arguements, so i'll right my points and if you cut them you are most welcome,if you cut them you are most welcome, i belive in what i see, so starting it from zero, yes i agree he saw indira in zara and started seeing indira's image in her, and later when he was questioned from zara "if she is not his indira then" he sink within by this statement and avoided confrontation with her, because he himself was confused about it, but further he made it clear he loves zarahe made it clear he loves zara. You said it right sometimes, somewhere we can't distinguish between love and indebtness (instead of sympathy i will use this) he accepted zara, but his past came his way, indira was the biggest part of his life and no doubt, she is the biggest part even today, but with time everything gets changed or modified, i am not saying he forgot indira, but he started loving zara,i am not saying he forgot indira, but he started loving zara, and today definately its indira who needs him the most, zara is self sufficient but indira needs a support, noone can accept such person who can't even take care of themselves, if a mother has denied calling her a daughter, what more can be expected from others. So if rishi is choosing caring indira, i don't find anything wrong here. And regarding his feelings for zara he is clear he own feelings for her And regarding his feelings for zara he is clear he own feelings for her but he can't accept her at present, because now his priority is indira, such issues may put a bad effect over indira, so i'm fine with rishi's acts

@bold-1: First off, I think there was no point in mentioning that I am looking for meaningful discussion. Believe it or not, I was (now I wonder what I was thinking!). For me, its not about holding on to my viewpoint against all odds. I will hold on to it until I am convinced about another viewpoint.

@bold-2: When he admitted he loves Zara, was it because he loved her? Or did he confess because he was scared of losing someone who reminded him so much about Indira? There is a definite difference between the two. We cannot say "its love all the same" and wish it away. So, then, now that Indira is right there in front of him, and he has already married Zara in haste, where does he see his relationship with Zara going? Again, as far as he is concerned, this is Indira because she is partially burned, has brain tumour, and her fingerprints match. He had no answer when Zara asked him "aapka dil bhi yehi kehta hai na?"

@bold-3 and 4: I really don't know about this. He never let go of Indira and I am not sure he loved Zara for the person she was. I think I'll never be able to get this across effectively, but I think he is not clear about his feelings for Zara.

Not once did I touch upon the Lahorewali Indira's need for care and support because that her need cannot be questioned. I had said this in an earlier thread/post that Rishi and Zara's sympathy for the Lahorewali will drive the story forward. We can wait and watch what happens, but its not the most desirable thing because the motivation for these actions will drive them to a result that is different from the intended one.

This was not intended to cut any argument but to present some points that bother me. I would completely agree with Earnshaw. This has turned into mockery all the way.

Originally posted by: Ranjinikishan

what did he say today? he was only silent through out the episode, he just spoke few words that too when he was with zara..he said proofs are saying LW as indira but never said i dont love u anymore..common give him some time..he himself is very shocked..at this point of time he cant leave LW as she is mentally & physically weak..he has to take care of her..btw zara did ask him whether he is believing LW as indira from his heart & he said nothing for that because he still in confusion

He is in such a critical condition aur aap sab usko istarah bash karraheho..really bad..this forum never understands Rishi properly

Originally posted by: Pari117

I support healthy debates which consists of cutting points, so don't take it the other way. Regarding Rishi, its just that he is standing in the mid way of past and present. The one who faces it can only justify it. We keep on thinking why he did dat? Why he chose that? But the real answer lies in "what we would have done if we were at his place" thats all i wanted to say.
I support his acts because he is doing what a normal man would have done.

Thanks for replying me. Tc

@bold-1: Thanks for clarifying...in my workplace, this has a negative connotation. Hence, got a little hyper.

@bold-2:Exactly...my post today was looking at the situation from Zara's perspective. That's all. Because he has married her, the whole situation changes.

PS: Am glad that normal men are not the HD variety. Otherwise, our lives would have been a serious jung!