A step in the shoes of Rishi- dont blame b4 u know - Page 12

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Posted: 12 years ago
First point i did not said Shweta does not run the house..!!!
Shweta does run the house and fulfill the housemates needs for the past 8 years.
even i knw that from the first epi post leap..!!!
And also she doing all this for her happiness or she wanted to do it as her duty whatever the reason may be but yes is taking care of sharma family..!!

Second point i did also mention that about Rishi's salaries no idea bcuz it has never been shown so yes may be its negligible or may be he doing charity, or what no one knows...!!!
He is not a person who runs for money bcuz money plays no importance in his and for that also many incidences are ther...!!!!

The only point here i said was that why money issue being discussed when the topic was related to Rishi's pov and his decision of life and how he is facing the life...!!

Agar money matter ko involve kar hi liye toh yeh bhi sonchiye ki for Rishii yes money did not matter and second Shweta apni KHUSHI se serving the family so guess ther would be no point discussing it further..!!

Agar phr b karna chhate ho toh plzzz go ahead will be ready to continue further..!!!!




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Posted: 12 years ago
@Shona : I never said that Shweta is not doing with her own Marzi. Yes , offcourse she is.doing with her own Marzi.

And Neither I said Rishi is not earning. But from ample evidences it is clear , that his income is not substantial let alone sufficient.

My point was never about money , if you see my earlier posts. It is about Ethics & Usool.
The Usool which were so important for Indira , that she even didn't cared for her life.

I really think taking monetary help from Shweta , and not giving her the full status in your life & family is unethical & morally wrong.
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Posted: 12 years ago
@Ashish.: Eshaan might have told about this, but with her only one income as you also said there are three extra people to feed.. Swetha would have not managed... as she is running her own practitioner and also Rishi mentioned that her clinic is not running that good now... About looking after the house hold, CVS did not touch this subject in depth.

One more thing, Nobody forced her at gun point or threaten Swetha to take care of SN, She is doing on her own will.

Rishi never left her in any dark, he always told her and clear the doubts regarding his love to his shreematiji.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Anu_1

@Ashish.: Eshaan might have told about this, but with her only one income as you also said there are three extra people to feed.. Swetha would have not managed... as she is running her own practitioner and also Rishi mentioned that her clinic is not running that good now... About looking after the house hold, CVS did not touch this subject in depth.

One more thing, Nobody forced her at gun point or threaten Swetha to take care of SN, She is doing on her own will.
Rishi never left her in any dark, he always told her and clear the doubts regarding his love to his shreematiji.


@Bold : I never said that. Just see my above response to Shona.

It is ample clear from many evidences that major expenses of house are taken care by Shweta , and she boasts about that and nobody including notorious Munna , has anything to say to that ( otherwise he would have always said , mera chote bhi chalat hai ghar , tu akeli nahin)

Rishi may have cleared her in starting , but if he can't give Shweta the place in his house & life , how can he allow Shweta to take responsibility of house. It is Unethical no doubt.


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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ashish.sachi

@Shona : I never said that Shweta is not doing with her own Marzi. Yes , offcourse she is.doing with her own Marzi.


And Neither I said Rishi is not earning. But from ample evidences it is clear , that his income is not substantial let alone sufficient.

My point was never about money , if you see my earlier posts. It is about Ethics & Usool.
The Usool which were so important for Indira , that she even didn't cared for her life.

I really think taking monetary help from Shweta , and not giving her the full status in your life & family is unethical & morally wrong.



How can you tell It is unethical and morally wrong???????????? Definitely it is not wrong. As she went and fell into that pit, no body forced her.

Nobody forced her at gun point to take care of the Sharma house. This was done by her will only. She knows before what type of status she is going to get. Still she went ahead with that. She knew from the beginning that Rishi life and soul belongs to Indira only. Even Kutumb told her.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Anu_1



How can you tell It is unethical and morally wrong???????????? Definitely it is not wrong. As she went and fell into that pit, no body forced her.

Nobody forced her at gun point to take care of the Sharma house. This was done by her will only. She knows before what type of status she is going to get. Still she went ahead with that. She knew from the beginning that Rishi life and soul belongs to Indira only. Even Kutumb told her.


If one person does something believing something , than to take advantage of that person & situation in your own favor , is unethical & morally wrong according to me.

That is what SN & Rishi are doing with Shweta. If they can't give her the place of Indira ( which Shweta believes she can take , since Indira herself had given her) , why to take Money from her , even if she is willingly giving. They can refuse it plain & simple.

Why don't they refuse her monetary contribution ???

Because they can't survive without it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Ohh okk agar issue ab money nahi raha to coming to the main topic..!!
As i also wanted to talk about the Asal Mudda here now..!!!

let me again pen down few more points..!!!l

At the time of embryo transplant she voluntarily stood up and said will go for it..!
It was her wish and her decision- at that time may be bcuz she too felt she is responsible and was guilty of not telling about Indira's pregnancy to Rishi...!!

And even that time she was made aware not only by Risii but also by kutumb that Rishi's only love is Indira and she can never win her heart..!!!

So now after all that not only she went through the transplant but also had agreed to the agreement where Rishii clearly stated that she will not have any right on the child..!!1

But now Shweta is married to Rishii, is known as Indu's (mom which was not a part of the agreement) so in his own way he did justice to shweta is what i feel..!!!
haan agar yeh kehna ki bcuz Shweta did so much to the \family and his child Rishii should love her back so only one thing Love can never be imposed on ther, you cant force anyone to love anyone..!!!

In the eight years also Shweta never win Rishi's heart, kyui?? kyui ki Rishii ke liye unke shreemati ji ke jagah koi nahi lesakta..!
All wat so for he is doing was only for his daughter's happiness, apni khushi toh apni shreematiji ke saath hi gawa diya unhone, so how can we blame this man..!
he everytime acknowledged shweta's sacrifices and that is the reason Indu till now had no idea about her real mom, it all bcuz Shweta did not wanted Indu to knw the truth..!!!

One more thing when shweta made him realized for a child's good future ther marriage has to be given another chance he agreed then also, why bcuz for his daughter's happiness..!!

But when he tried he got his love back in the form of Zaara, so how can he start a new life with shweta???
agree for some it is not proved zaara is Indira but for Rishii , his feeling , his belief that Zaara is his shreemati ji then i think we too respect his feeling..
A man who was in the dark for 8 years found a source of life with Zaara's entry, so how can he be wrong???

he did what all best he could do for his child, but when it comes to his heart and his love shreemati ji, he will always stand for her as we all knw and are aware of his love towards his shreemati ji...!!!!

Agar aap shweta se pov se dekhoge toh shayad you will a different view, haan agar wohi aap Rishhi ke pov se dekhoge jo ki main post hai) then i am sure saare nahi par kuch points par shayad agree hoge..!!!





Edited by shona90 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
Double posting sry 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
Ashish ji I already mentioned relations cannot b based on money!!!
Rishi believes in love n his love is his shreemathi !
I am not Abel to understand dis usool...y should Swetha b given place in rk's heart? Just becoz she looks after SN?
Well she is staying in SN so looking after it sumwere becomes a normal coarse...
N no relation can b forced on anyone
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: shona90

Ohh okk agar issue ab money nahi raha to coming to the main topic..!!

As i also wanted to talk about the Asal Mudda here now..!!!

let me again pen down few more points..!!!l

At the time of embryo transplant she voluntarily stood up and said will go for it..!
It was her wish and her decision- at that time may be bcuz she too felt she is responsible and was guilty of not telling about Indira's pregnancy to Rishi...!!

And even that time she was made aware not only by Risii but also by kutumb that Rishi's only love is Indira and she can never win her heart..!!!

So now after all that not only she went through the transplant but also had agreed to the agreement where Rishii clearly stated that she will not have any right on the child..!!1

But now Shweta is married to Rishii, is known as Indu's (mom which was not a part of the agreement) so in his own way he did justice to shweta is what i feel..!!!
haan agar yeh kehna ki bcuz Shweta did so much to the \family and his child Rishii should love her back so only one thing Love can never be imposed on ther, you cant force anyone to love anyone..!!!

In the eight years also Shweta never win Rishi's heart, kyui?? kyui ki Rishii ke liye unke shreemati ji ke jagah koi nahi lesakta..!
All wat so for he is doing was only for his daughter's happiness, apni khushi toh apni shreematiji ke saath hi gawa diya unhone, so how can we blame this man..!
he everytime acknowledged shweta's sacrifices and that is the reason Indu till now had no idea about her real mom, it all bcuz Shweta did not wanted Indu to knw the truth..!!!

One more thing when shweta made him realized for a child's good future ther marriage has to be given another chance he agreed then also, why bcuz for his daughter's happiness..!!

But when he tried he got his love back in the form of Zaara, so how can he start a new life with shweta???
agree for some it is not proved zaara is Indira but for Rishii , his feeling , his belief that Zaara is his shreemati ji then i think we too respect his feeling..
A man who was in the dark for 8 years found a source of life with Zaara's entry, so how can he be wrong???

he did what all best he could do for his child, but when it comes to his heart and his love shreemati ji, he will always stand for her as we all knw and are aware of his love towards his shreemati ji...!!!!

Agar aap shweta se pov se dekhoge toh shayad you will a different view, haan agar wohi aap Rishhi ke pov se dekhoge jo ki main post hai) then i am sure saare nahi par kuch points par shayad agree hoge..!!!










WOw Shona🤗 very nicley writtem You stole my words, I wanted to pen down same feeling now.
Edited by Anu_1 - 12 years ago

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