A step in the shoes of Rishi- dont blame b4 u know

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ashish.sachi

@ashish.sachi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#91

Originally posted by: light_28
Oh Yes ! I know you . I am Roshni. I know you support rishi's character from beginning and I ts great i found a Rishi lover to debate with😉😉Atleast i can be free with my views.I think i ll enjoy this 😊

And By the Way Your Reply hit me one thing which i had forgotten and thanks to you ..You solved my many questions
Exactly as you said, indira didnt choose shweta for her beti.. Correct! Indira never could have thought that Shweta would surrogate their child.. correct ! So doesnt that mean shweta also got into all this by herself.. So suppose Real Indira if comes back will not she see that Shwetha has taken the big responsibility of indu but did not do justice with it.. Will she be happy to see ishaan always underestimated ? Will she not question shwetha that why you didnt tell indu about her real mother.. Why you stopped Rishi from giving love to indu.Why couldnt you trust rishi's feelings ?.Why you stopped my family members to interact with indu ? Dont you think indira will ask these questions when finally she'll see indu speaking rude to her and not accepting her as mother and Rishi as Papa.Will Indira not question shwetha for dominating over SF emotionally.

Regarding Indira's Reaction when she remembers everything. Even I am very curious to know.

How can you say Shweta didn't do justice with Indu? What else she should have done. Forget everything else , Zara herself appreciated Shweta on phone from Mumbai , for good parvarish she has done of Indu.👏Not only Indu , Shweta has also brought Seher as Mother.

Your point of not telling to Indu about her real Mother. I would say that is correct. I don't think a child could understand Complicated Concepts like Surrogacy, Brain Tumour & like. When Indu attains Maturity she can very well be told.

Regarding Ishaan , Shweta has tried to do utmost for him. Even from 1st Episode after leap it is shown , she is caring for Ishaan. It is Ishaan who thinks she is trying to take her bua's place . Even when she is angry on Ishaan , it is because of some genuine reasons like RK getting disappeared etc. When in tension Even Indira used to be angry on child Ishaan , but that doesn't mean she is having ill feeling towards Ishaan.

Shweta hasn't stopped anybody from interacting with Indu , just asked them not to tell her about Indira. Everybody Kutumb , Seher , Ishaan , Indur , Munna interacts freely with Indu.

But that doesn't mean she wants them all to forget Indira. It is she who arranges for Shraad of Indira every year for last 8 years.

Regarding Shweta dominating SF , this is not correct but even if some extent she is doing it is necessitated. Remember same kind of Irresponsible behavior of SN ppl had turned Indira into Hitler. Shweta has not turned into Hitler.

When Indira will return with Memory , she will appreciate all this.

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MONA

@Dear10

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Posted: 12 years ago

#92

RK ne inko rockerz bana diya congo

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ashish.sachi

@ashish.sachi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#93

Originally posted by: dear10
RK ne inko rockerz bana diya congo

He he.😆

Thanks BTW.

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714873

Hibernated

Posted: 12 years ago

#94

Originally posted by: shiin
Sim ausum post, very well said 👍🏼
Completely agree to wat u hav stated!!!
Well Rishi evn before d leap he made it very clear to Swetha not to expect anyting from him Coz he loves nly n nly his shreemathi!!! N I tink he is keeping up to his words nothing has shaken him n his love for his shreemathi remains d same evn after so mny years!!! Swetha choose misery for herself , she choose to giv birth to Indu she was not asked nor any one forced her , she knew she could never get rk's love yet she choose to stay has his wife!
I totally feel RK is right no where do I feel he is evn slightly wrong!
Coming to wats happening after d leap RK is nly listening to his heart, he strongly believes dat zara is Indra nly evn though d reports hav proved to b negative...Dey say alwaz listen to ones heart has heart will alwaz make one move in d right path n dat is wat RK is doing...till now all dese 8 years he had been listening to everyone n doing as such n now he choose to do has his heart says n dere is nothing wrong!!!
Love is an unseen bond which is very strong , unseen yet d strongest n I don't tink any blood report could cum in d way of such a strong bond!!!
Once again loved ur post 👍🏼

awww clara you always speak sooo right sis 🤗

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shona90

@shona90

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Posted: 12 years ago

#95

ohh last time when i came it was 7 pages and now 14 but still the same discussion..!!

Simran must say your post is really rocking 👏 👏

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sonia

@Cloudy.Night

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Posted: 12 years ago

#96

Simu awesome post 🤗 .. each n every words what yot wrote is very true...
I think shweta should move on her life why she doesnt understand dat rk never loves her bec he cant loves anyone except his shrimatijii indira..

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shona90

@shona90

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Posted: 12 years ago

#97

Acha so let me now pen down my take on the discussion going on which was not related to topic

but jispar achii si discussion ho rahi thi..!!!

Rishi taking or asking money from shweta..!!!

acha pehle toh i really don knw in 8 saalon mein kya hua kyui humne toh dekha nahi..

humne wohi dekha jo dikhaya gaya tha post 8 leap, agar kisi ko dikha ya pata hai ki kya huya tha un 8 saalon mei tph plzzz hume zaroor bataiye..!!

Haan agar assumption based hai toh hum hamara assumption b bata dete hai 😃

Rishii working as lawyer thats true bcuz we saw him entering and leaving SN with

the lawyer dress up- ab kaha job kitne salary yeh toh shayad hume cv's se puchna padega

kyui dikhaya toh nahi..!!!

aur shweta a qualified doctor who was assistant of some doctor for neuro surgeon

opened a clinic in the name of Indu and her salary even that is not shown..!

haan but itna zaroor bataye gaya hai ki in dono ki salaries se bhi shayad ghar ke halat sahi nahi huye.. they are still in need of money..

thats the reason jab kisine i don remember kisse) but when they asked shweta about money she said yeh mahine nahi agle mahine dungi something like that so its obvious even Shweta's money not enough to run a family of 7 members..!!!

As far as Rishi's salary again i would say nothing as been shown ki woh paison ke liye work kar rahe hai ya phir for some charity when he does earn but not which could help to run the family..

but does not mean he does not earn bcuz in a scene i remember he did gave money to ishaan for the taxi so paise toh kamate haii par kitne no body has the idea..!!!

aur rahi baat shweta se paise borrow karna well again i would assumption hai toh thik hai kyuki

humne kabhi nahi dekha Rishi asking for money..!!!

haan shweta serving SF no doubt but kyui???

i am sure she too willingly did it bcuz yeh b kahi nahi bataya ki Rishii or anyone else asked

or begged ya phr warned her to stay and serve SF...!!!

jo b kar rahe hai she is doing with her own will itne sab baatein from the SF and all she still

being at that place and doing it toh matlab yehi hai na ki wanted to do so and no body forcing..!!!

toh jab woh khush hai SF family ko serve karne toh hum sabko kya problem hai..!!!!

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Aakanxa

@simplelife

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Posted: 12 years ago

#98

Simran, great post. 👏
u have said it all. 100% agree with u. 😊

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Earnshaw09

@Earnshaw09

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Posted: 12 years ago

#99

' A step in the shoes of Rishi':which means we should think and behave like Rishi.So lets just analyze Rishi's life after his beloved's death.Indira's death not only made a huge gap in the lives of her loved ones,but it made life more unbearable for them;particularly the life of Rishi,who had dreamt of living a normal and happy life with Indira and their child.Fate has been so cruel to them that,before living their dreams,both Indira and Rishi were separated;live has been so cruel that Rishi was forced to share his life with someone else.Inspite of the fact that Indira never really died in Rishi's heart,he had been forced to shut the doors,which led to his Indira's memories.For the past eight years this man has been leading a life he never chose,but others chose for him;and today when he has the slightest ray of hope to be happy again,he is chained in relationships,whether that be a husband to Shweta,or a father to Indu.So what exactly is expected of him?

Shweta wants him to be a loyal husband,even if there is no love in this marriage;Indu wants Rishi to be a 'good papa',who loves her mother,even if he has never ever loved Shweta;the Sharma family wants him to be happy,even if it kills him to realize that the reason for his happiness is gone;and above all,Zara Khan,a look-alike of Indira,whose presence in and around Rishi brings back all the memories of his beloved ,also wants him to carry on with his life normally.But in the midst of all these expectations no has ever asked Rishi what does he want?He is simply a puppet in the hands of all;and ironically,this character is a puppet in the hands of his creator too.

Well,as a husband to Shweta,Rishi might have failed her;as a father too he seems to have failed,but as a person,Rishi has raised himself above all.Because in these 8 years,as a human being,as a man,Rishi could have urged his physical needs with Shweta,which would have made her happy and fulfilled.Shweta complains of being used by Rishi,but in the real sense of the term,if Rishi wanted to use her,he could have easily used her for his personal needs,ending her being pregnant and leaving her now when Zara has come in their lives,who has brought the dead back.This would have been a punishment to Shweta in the real sense,making her life more complicated. But keeping aside one's materialistic needs and still maintaining a relationship like marriage for so long,definitely makes that person great.So for me, Rishi and his love for Indira has raised to a greater pedestal;for me,this man is someone like Shahjahan,who had mourned the death of his wife till his last breath.And as I see Rishi,this is a character,whom the writer and the CVs have juggled with many a times,making him pitiable and week,who has raised above all characters through time.In fact,his love and passion is far more greater than Indira,the protagonist of the drama.And this man deserves to be happy for once at least,even if it is at the cost of the welfare of his daughter.For once he should be given a chance to live,to be respected for the person he is.