Is nikhil really wrong?

Originally posted by: sami01

well I do admit, reason I got hooked to this show was for excellent storyline of Nikhil and his mother's unique relationship, to me the sceen where he comes home at midnight, alone dejected knowing no one would be there to celebrate his birthday except his sister gunja ...it was a sad and intriguing storyline.

to me Nikhil's character has always held more interest than Laajo's ...so may be Io am looking at it with bit of bias towards my fav character...

Hi ! Sami,

Wonderful post. I was taken through the progression of Nikhil's character. I am with you, Nikhil is my fav. character too!!😳 I am sad that being fair, good hearted, loving and caring , recently he is portrayed as some one with out brains!! only to glorify Laajo!🤢 I just hate it ! Well every person is not perfect and so Nikhil has his insecurities since childhood and we all know the reason. Moreover Laajo is shown as a notch higher for being perfect and this difference in their characters is hurting.

I agree that Laajo has suffered more initially as Jatinder says, but is it because of Nikhil only ?

The answer is No. Laajo knew very well about Nikhil's relation ship with Ishana, but she fell in love with Nikhil..and that was her choice...Nikhil never two timed Laajo and Ishana, he never gave her false hopes but he respected her as a friend and was always there for her. So Laajo suffered for the choice her heart made!! Nikhil's only mistake was being indecisive and confused about such an important institution of marriage. According to me , he has given more to this relationship than Laajo has!! here I am not biased...as Laajo went in pursuit of fame ...Nikhil agreed for the separation though it meant lonliness. He supported her even after that wardrobe malfunction thing and motivated her. In a nutshell, Nikhil has been that invisible force which helped Laajo realize her dream. And now Laajo is being unfair in trampling his dedication and love for her only to prove her professionalism!!😡 and brazenly asking Nikhil to apologize!! I know Nikhil is wrong in interfering in a professional discussion but I don't think any husband would like his wife being scolded in front of him by a third person. It was a concern of a husband and Laajo should have left it at that.

but friends my question is that despite whatever Sagar was saying was right and Laajo was helping Nikhil ,at the end of the day it was about Nikhil's self respect, she trampled it, in heat of the moment she overdid her guru bhakti.

Sorry to say, Laajo has lost it. I was surprised that even after getting back home Laajo wanted Nikhil to apologize to Sagar!! and she was adamant!! This somewhere shows that she is finding it difficult to prioritize her relationship. Here I agree that Nikhil's outrage was wrong as Sagar was right in scolding Laajo, but Nikhil took offence as he loves Laajo so Laajo needed to be considerate. Sometimes we women need to exercise restraint on our emotions as we are the binding force in a family and Laajo being sensible did something insensible!! Here Laajo should make an introspection as to who she owes her success to her mentor or her husband or both , if it is for both she needs to do the balancing act, otherwise situations will arise where she may not have the intention to hurt Nikhil but her behavior may do so. Nikhil's insecurity is her greatest Challenge and I feel they need to sort this out with a hearty talk.

Barkha said a man cannot tolerate that his wife respects another man more than him. I do agree ,we women some times keep loads of balances bec of this.

So true Sami, when it comes to balancing, we women are champions!!😉 We do it on a daily basis, be it at the work place , with family or even with friends. Barkha is acting like a " Chugal khor Aunty"!! 😆 though what she said was right. She is really spying on Lakhil ...she got to know of the fight. Has she shifted outside Nikhil's room or has planted CCTV camera's?!! pathetic woman!!😡 It has become like " Entertainment ke liye kuch bhi Karega"!!! 😡

In today's episode as we expected both of them did not relent at all. In fact Nikhil will think that when he was wronged on press conference scenario ,laajo had made effort to get his mood better but now she is demanding that he apologies to Sagar, that would make him even more insecure, his confidence level has never been high, now when it is at bottom and where he is feeling like a failure laajo's words would be like nishane pe laga hua teer.

Teer to Nishsane pe laga par dekhna yeh hain ki ghayal koun hua!! With Jasmine around everything is possible!! Hope Nikhil doesn't act as a teenager like Hema said, that is to make Laajo jealous trying to flirt with Jasmine. I hope atleast now they show that Nikhil is sensible in this regard.

However I want Laajo to feel insecure!! 😈

What I don't like is Inder's rant about sensible Laajo and all,so she would take care of it, but I feel lately ever since Nikhil found out he loved Laajo,he is the one who is been giving in this relationship, he did not even say a word to Laajo about hiding that she was in Delhi, he has let her do whatever she wanted. Even now he would ,all she needs is bit of love and assurance ,but she is too busy playing Mrs. Right, I am worried that she would mess it herself this time. I feel problem will come to her and Nikhil's ego.

Inder feels that Laajo is Mrs. Right ...I think the C.V's have portrayed her that way...and Inder goes a step ahead to call her panacea . It is an overestimation in my view!! 😕 But Inder is being secretive about his financial crisis now-a-days ...I feel he should talk to Nikhil about it...Everyone is busy underestimating Nikhil which is really sad , then how come we expect him not to be insecure!!

today's episode was wonderful ,I loved Nikhil's expressions when Laajo came between him and Jasmine, he is very good actor...

Jasmine is the need of the hour , to make Laajo understand what it is to be insecure!!😛 Me too loved Nik's expressions...getting too much attention of the lovely ladies...lucky guy!! He looked hot!!😳 Laajo's frown was the highlight...I think Nikhil was enjoying it!!😉 So was I !!😆

so friends what do you think...?

Are makers showing us all are human and slaves to their own vanity...some more like barkha and some less like Saagar Laajo and Nikhil.

even Ayesha and Adi ...all are slaves to their own perceptions and grievances.

Yeah all are slaves...remember " Pride and prejudice" ...everyone has their own perceptions and grieviences...it is to be seen how they can come out of it and make a difference. Till that time we viewers are like " beggars...who cannot choose"!! in Shania's terms...how I wish she was back !! I miss her!!