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shibz

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Posted: 13 years ago

#31

Nish and kavz.. great analysis👏

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Du_Nish

@Du_Nish

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Posted: 13 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: kavyasam
Even though I grew up conservative, I think letting basic instincts take over after certain age is actually Healthy. For Minors it is a NO. but an adult can get into a relationship before marraige if he / she finds the person worthy, even if they do not marry later. It is healthy for body and mind.

I grew of moderate values kavz and still i felt that emotions are meant to be controlled 😆😆😆

Still think these stuffs r kept post wedding 😆😆😆

But then I understand that at times our body take over our mind - like we said that early 20s - fertility rate is higher than those in early 30s - and nowadays early 20s are meant to invest in education .

Mid 20s it turns to be something natural in kind of hormonal development😆 and most of us are still studyng🤣 🤣 I mean nowadays girls love to grow independent first and then settle in family - at times the question is getting married at this age for the hormonal development or keep waiting when you are actually prepared and ready 🤣😆

Unfortunately nowadays what we say ''SR'' seem nothing as important and dreamy as it carried its meaning in the past 😛

So many of us nowadays will be finding ourselves settle early 30s or late 20s It seems to be amazing in practical approach but then the other side is that even if we are healthy, we carry so less importance for what we used to read in Mills & Boons romance🤣🤣

How unromantic is that :)

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brainychild92

@brainychild92

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Posted: 13 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: Du_Nish

I grew of moderate values kavz and still i felt that emotions are meant to be controlled 😆😆😆

Still think these stuffs r kept post wedding 😆😆😆

But then I understand that at times our body take over our mind - like we said that early 20s - fertility rate is higher than those in early 30s - and nowadays early 20s are meant to invest in education .

Mid 20s it turns to be something natural in kind of hormonal development😆 and most of us are still studyng🤣 🤣 I mean nowadays girls love to grow independent first and then settle in family - at times the question is getting married at this age for the hormonal development or keep waiting when you are actually prepared and ready 🤣😆

Unfortunately nowadays what we say ''SR'' seem nothing as important and dreamy as it carried its meaning in the past 😛

So many of us nowadays will be finding ourselves settle early 30s or late 20s It seems to be amazing in practical approach but then the other side is that even if we are healthy, we carry so less importance for what we used to read in Mills & Boons romance🤣🤣

How unromantic is that :)

notice you're talking about early/mid- 20s and not teens... i'm not saying what they did was correct, but what they did was not something that one should die/commit suicide for! but ya they concentrated on passing on info more ... which i was their friend's fault more than anyone's.. because if the girl didn't force her friend to "bau khao" or "show the mms"nothing would've happened... okay i'm getting sort of off topic...

mera bhi yehi khyal hai... wait! its the most precious thing you have;one that leads to having one of God's most precious gift ever --> a baby-- so you know how sacred it is! yeh baat log kab samjheinge; i don't know!

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Gamayun

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Posted: 13 years ago

#34

I don't know how they could have overcome it. When they do something like this, it becomes a part of life forever. You can run from it, but you can't hide from it.

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kavyasam

@kavyasam

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Posted: 13 years ago

#35

@nisha mujhe phir se bahut kuch kehna hai and that too after u include M & B , it opens lots of gates, 🤣Reserved 😈

ps: I too feel it will be absolutely precious moment to wait and have it with the married person rather than before. :). i was talking abt waiting too long is not healthy physically and emotionally.

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shibz

@shibz

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Posted: 13 years ago

#36

lolz kavz🤣 u need to edit ur spots in KMH2 forum btw😈ek mera bathroom wala topic!!😆

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Du_Nish

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Posted: 13 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: kavyasam
@nisha mujhe phir se bahut kuch kehna hai and that too after u include M & B , it opens lots of gates, 🤣Reserved 😈

ps: I too feel it will be absolutely precious moment to wait and have it with the married person rather than before. :). i was talking abt waiting too long is not healthy physically and emotionally.

Oh dear Kavya, please give me age in what u mean too long 🤣

Yaar even at my age, I still feel it is not the proper age with someone who i duno if he is coming to reside in life 🤣🤣🤣

But I think nowadays , especially living here as housemates, i will give in living in relationship if that is an option 😉

I mean, I think living in relationship will not initally start like sharing same bed , it does start like living like housemates - sharing resources and responsibilities on a house

I think there will be a point of time, the girl and the boy can get cosy if they are thinking in that avenue but if the boy has already his girl- i am not sure i will like to stay with a commited man

I know one of my friends were talking with me about her own experience and was about ''sex without emotion''

The man had his girlfriend in homecountry but they give in because both of them need sex

Guess what - Guy started having feeling for the girl and it seemed mostly like he compared between girlfriend and sexpartner who was better in action and based on that developed feelings for my friend and does not want to let her girlfriend go

In short,my friend said to me, she went in the same old mess - she gave him a damn and trying to move on - but something i realise from her experience - she wants now to get married - to whoever wants to get married with her - she said to me that she has enough of the life of a wanderer - she needs someone fixed

Lol, i know we went completely offtrack 😳but then '' sex = complication'' if you don't know with whom you are on it or if you don't know where you are leading to

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sakmhlove

@sakmhlove

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Posted: 13 years ago

#38

I m totally against the sex bfore marriage.in the epi it was done by two teenagers who dont know the seriousness of this issue.it was silly mistake which they misht realise even widout this mms scandal.today youth should hav control on themselves.regarding this issue i m having indian thinking.the main thing which i dont like in western culture is having so many sexparteners.it is morally incorrect to me.in indian tv shows its the biggest thing.i m in favour of bcoming modern in many ways but not in this way.well i m aware of this fact now a days in india too it is bcoming normal but i dont like this fact.u should share urself physically n spiritually only wid a single person.dont giv opportunity to any guy to use u for his desires.

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kavyasam

@kavyasam

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Posted: 13 years ago

#39

@tanu - I guess most indian girls thing that way and it is right, and some may have a different view and if they are adults then that is not wrong either. it is complicated and depends on what love means to that person and if marriage is for love or just for a legal partner. mera post ka literal meaning mat lena jo page 4 par hai. I was talking with the healthy mind point of view. :D.

@nisha - that is what I too meant if the person is worthy and emotions are involved. not with anyone just for the sake of it. marriage is the institute of sanctity and most boys and girls want to enter it with sanctity. like u said wait for the right person and right time and spend the precious school and college years towards building a better career and life, than get involved in matters like like this. I took the topic offtrack with my post 😆. let me stick to the after effects of this scandal.

Edited by kavyasam - 13 years ago