Okay - I also have to get this off my chest. The one reason I have truly truly truly loved this show so much - is because of such careful detailing of its female lead. Its one thing that the industry doesn't have a tenth of its strength of female faces who can 'actually act' to save their life - but really, most often, the character sketches are so ridiculously ... I dunno, black and white? When they are good, they are like demi-goddesses; when they are bad, they like robotic vamps who are programmed to be bad in every sense - no human can be so singularly good or bad, really! Anyway, point is, the characters are OTT - with either no flaws, or nothing but flaws. Gulaal has been real in that sense - very real, because her greatest shortcoming has always been an implicit outcome of her extreme goodness. As Kesar once said - bohot zada meetha bhi zehar ban jata hai - I've been glad that the CVs had taken care to deal with her character at both objective and subjective levels - treating her with respect to her circumstances, and then also treating her case as just an independent entity if things around her were not what they are - and it has helped shape Gulaal's character - a very complex one - quite well. Until now.
I think my greatest complain shall remain hence - of not getting to watch one show on TV wherein I could really not choose a favorite between the leads. Yes I always tend to melt for Kesar - but that's because I'm a girl and I have to fall for a guy character like him, come on! - but if I was just viewing their characters, they have both had equal parts of my hearts. they have both been equally all out for the other and equally bull headed in their own times, and at all points, even when either or both have frustrated me with being so hard headed - I've still found empathy for them, or at least sympathy in their predicament...
Unlike today. Not being able to connect with Gulaal is like such a gap. She's the face of this show - and the center of the storyline. Even the love angle has made shifts, the Gulaal center has been constant - and not being to connect with her perspective at this point is something I wish to fight out but can't! To everything she said or thought or dreamed of today - I could only have a double thought in the back of my head which went, - really?!
On a completely unrelated note - when talli told her saasu maa she had Gullu's sanskar I was going to walk into the screen and remind her the mess Gullu had made of her life. just maybe she would do better to add some Kesar brain to Gullu sanskar and balance out the kinks. But anyway - who cares about Talli!
And again, Kesar giving Gullu a 'toffee' almost made me think of all the shows who go into those nonsensical things to sort of save a sinking boat - trying every ridiculous new antic! This show has such a well built history! Why couldn't he give her Imli as Anjali said?! Dude, if they had to be SO innovative, he could have just gotten a new dress for champa from the kaarkhana - like SERIOUSLY! that would be cute and innovative and still connect to the 'history'... :| What can I say... Kesar is saving the day for me, whatever little he can. I'm happy he is - but sad about losing his equal in Gulaal...