Shiddat!!! - Page 7

Loved all the thoughts about Virat's love...His love was truly selfless before she confessed..He was ready to bury his feelings and be her friend forever because he thought that will make her happy.

Once she confessed, everything changed..He started to feel entitled and take for granted..He is still paying the price for not valuing the boon.

My question is will he eventually get over his own understanding of stupid farz and understand the farz towards love

He has realized that it was wrong on his part to let her go but still hadn't understood the reason for her leaving...coz even during the drunk confession, he was asking her why did you leave?

The union will be true if only he realizes these two aspects

Very nice . Yes he took his love for granted.

I feel even P has the same trust n Virat that he will never leave her or expose her come what may.

So she s too confident and family also don't tell her anything. For eg she's back to normal after the court case.

Someone has to remind him about his farz to his kids. Kids r happy for now as they r n the same house with the parents.

This is such a beautiful perspective on V's love for Sai! Very well written and I loved how detailed and gentle you were with words, I had such a great time reading this piece.

Virat definitely did love Sai. In his own way, the way he has been taught by his parents and other family members. As we know, he is a family-oriented person, who resonates many qualities his family members possess.

As Bhavani said, V was much his Nagesh Kaka, who believed in doing the right thing, so does V, but he does those things, which he thinks is right, which may not be right for others. Hence, he let down Sai during surrogacy.

V looks up to his father, so he embodies the qualities of farz and zimmedari more than his love for wife, which is similar to how Ninad was. Ninad never stood up for his wife's mistreatment, and rather msitreated her too, so V got affected y the same, in the rare instances he stood up was because of his sense of right and wrong. V got his sense of forgiveness and lenient nature from Ashwini, who could never question her husband/sister-in- law's atrocities. Hence, V could also not question his own family's wrong doing most of the time, especially regarding Pakhi. Even with her multiple crimes, V just couldn't let go of his leniency unfortunately, he kept on giving her chance after chance and the benefit of doubt. He lost his love ecause of this leniency.

V's love and shiddat maybe Sai, but I feel partly it is also his sense of justice, his desire to be the righteous one who makes the correct decisions. He manifests that he can become a person who doesn't do any unfair action towards everyone, because he is a gentle person who doesn't like confrontation. But sometimes his fairness gets tinged with the glasses of wrong teachings of his family, hence he ends up doing the wrong thing, and doesn't even understand why he is wrong. Hence, we don't get to see him regret as much as we would like to do, because he feels whatever he did, there was no other option to make it fair.

Just my observation of how V is as a person. He manifests the correct things, even gets it, but both his manifestations start to contradict each other. So, he ends up choosing the one that would make his family happy and keep his image intact, a trait he adopted from Bhavani. He will do anything for his family's happiness, even if it meant killing his own. As long as the family honour, image and reputation is intact, he is good.

Let's be honest, when was the last time we even saw him be really, genuinely happy, without either Sai fighting with him or P screeching at him. That guy destroyed his own happiness by not choosing the correct manifestations of his mind.

Just my thoughts.😳

Waao👏👏

This post is not controversial for me at least. Have always believed in the fact - V Pyar karna jaanta hai, nibhana nhi. Remember in Ghadchiroli, Sai offers him to run away. He stands by his farz....just like you mentioned, he becomes selfless even if it makes him hollow from inside.

When Sai came back alive, he kept that love deep buried and covered it with hatred,frustration...reason Vinu's loss. Once that got cleared, his anger vanished and he started to accept his feelings for Sai...n holi it was all in open. Sai's right to get priority is correct as she deserves it. V has learnt his lessons hard, failed Sai many times. Just don't want him to fail as a father.

Thanks for the tag 😊

Originally posted by: Rosyme

Very nice . Yes he took his love for granted.

I feel even P has the same trust n Virat that he will never leave her or expose her come what may.

So she s too confident and family also don't tell her anything. For eg she's back to normal after the court case.

Someone has to remind him about his farz to his kids. Kids r happy for now as they r n the same house with the parents.

Exactly even patralekha is too confident that Virat will never leave her .. and she’s back to her shenanigans.. there is no guilt that she framed a dirty case on Sai n Pulkit both .. who saved her life ..
She came back immediately started screaming at Sai for handling Vinayak

Did you forget a common proven fact "Human wants are unlimited"? Ek se mera kya hoga 🤣

Originally posted by: --Ruchi--

What an amazing perspective on not so amazing show and character!

I don't think writers had these thoughts while building up the storyline. But your analysis is really interesting. Pakhi is pathetic character as she plays victim all the time and does not want to take control of her life rather wants to control others lives be her husband or so called son.

But I would say this character is quite real as we see such people around us.

Loved this post.

Thank you ❤️

I agree. Such characters are real. Because they can be good and bad based on their own convenience and interest. But it is all about how much low and heinous they can be in their bad version.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Wow! superbly put. The caption is absolutely correct.

We discussed several times how Virat and Pakhi's passion/love is similar. But what makes Virat's love beautiful is that, he will reign it if Sai is not willing to take it. He will not give it to anyone else nor makes Sai obligated to receive it.

There is this dialogue he says during Harini's birthday party at the pool when Pakhi ridicules that Sai doesnt love him.

"Even if Sai doesnt reciprocate my feelings, I will not make her feel lesser or obligated to return my love"

Even today, he is begging her to show the love because he is not willing to pressurize her in any way. He is trusting her words during confession and taking the steps forward. If he gets an inkling that Sai doesnt want him, he will stop making efforts. Thats what makes his love worthy for rooting.

Off topic but related to this. I read somewhere related to sociology, why the marital relationship is considered as weakness. Because it is associated with sex, which every religion chastised. Especially if a man stands by his wife, it is termed as weakness. Where as the woman is expected to stand by his man. Because woman's sexuality never existed. :D Woman stands by her husband to "look" after him in his lows. But if man stands by his wife, it is his weakness for sex. These norms are drilled into the minds of society. In any culture, a man standing by his wife over the family or community is looked down upon, considered a selfish act. As you said, if a man cannot give a stable family to his kids, then what is the use? He is essentially spoiling the next generation right? Thats why, it should be a partnership. Make your wife, an equal partner in your duties. You should never be in a position to choose her. It is always you and her together against the world!

Thanks for bringing up that dialogue. That is so much in contrast with P and how she behaves and acts. Like we have discussed earlier. She is still that spoilt brat who feels that every toy in the world is hers, irrespective of who it belongs to, once she sets her eyes on it it belongs to her. That spoilt brat never grew up in mental space. Only physically and hence the carnal desire is also voiced with such authority as if it is another toy 🤣

@Bold - This is so so true Sadhika. And it absolutely makes sense. The society and the environment we grow up influences us subconsciously. The unconscious biases that we often refer to is also derived from the society fed norms and beliefs that are far from truth.

As usual you read my mind 😉 Sai is the next one up. But a lil skeptical since the sentiments are stronger there ;-)

But I have a different thought on her shiddat though. There I gave a bit out.

Don't know if I will be able to finish it up and share it today. Most likely by tomorrow

Originally posted by: Moor278

Beautiful Sherry.. don't have anything to add. ❤️

What you can do however, is add the 'V needs to see Sais breakdown' angle for him to change his approach towards her part. It is also linked to his shiddat 😁

I am on board with you on that theory since ages... but probably the wider audience needs to read it 😉

Thanks Moor for bringing this up. This I will include in the 4th (last) part.