Shiddat!!! - Page 12

Originally posted by: Sab07

I would very respectfully disagree to Sai aspect.

I did not see her not trusting ‘universe’ from miscarriage- infact it was completely opposite. She kept faith in universe and Virat and came up with solution to keep him happy. Kept agreeing to everything he unilaterally decided - because she had ‘faith’ that things will fall in place once Vinu is born. To a point that she herself went to make peace with PL. It was her ‘faith’ in universe and Virat that things will be fine now.

But snatching Vinu RIGHTFULLY made her loose that trust. It was not one event but cumulative - she kept going and going and in the end she was still made to loose. As if she didn’t even matter.

One aspect everyone tends to put on back burner in Sai Virat equation is her being orphan. After her Aba in NP only Virat brought sense of familiarity for her, he was a person her aba chose so he had to be nice and I think that trust is what kept her coming back to Virat again and again.

Sai is blamed of mistrust be it in Virat or universe but I strongly feel opposite for her. It was her trust in Virat that she kept coming back everytime after he wringed her-till it came to her child.

With that- I feel Sai feeling so protective of Vinu then was underplayed and misunderstood by many. Everyone want her spousal love to be above motherly love - many gave that as reason for Virat’s action that he cares of Sai not kid.

But - Sai has no family of her own. She is orphan. That child then was her only chance of having blood relationship. At that point it was established she cant be mother ever and she made peace with it. (For me she showed tremendous -sort of looking outof place) level of resilience there)
So for her that child matter- it was her chance of getting that unconditional love and support and relationship that no matter what stands by you. That is qhen she put her foot down and rightfully so.

post leap it was established that she was waiting for Virat to find her. It was when she saw him married to PL - that her ‘trust’ broke- again rightfully.

Basically her husband who assumed her dead went ahead and created a life that she left for. Him and Pl coparenting Vinayak- he was adopted or not doesn’t matter- to me that is huge disrespect one can do to a person who is assumed dead.

She was hopeful Vinu will accept her but when he outright rejected her- It is after that when she questioned- if she is so unworthy of love that everyone leaves her. - again rightfully. Any person would feel that.

Thanks again for sharing your perspective. And I respect that ❤️

When i started writing this I had kept the actions behind. I was mostly talking about desires and its manifestation. It was about exploring this science of universe and energies and their rules against these characters.

So for the actions, if it was me, I would have also walked out too.

Here I was keeping aside her actions and reactions and concentrating more on how she functions on the higher level of energy and universe.

Also, how I see her standing strong after her miscarriage. There is a difference I see in her rebuilding her life every time and her trust in the universe. She believes in herself and her capabilities. She has suffered so much, that she is used to picking up the pieces and starting again. That is her strength. Precisely why she was able to recover from it and think ahead unlike V. Because her life lessons and circumstances taught her that. Kind of ingrained in her.

However, this is independent of her trust in the universe or her fate. She feels that she her life is tough and that is how it is going to be. She has to outlive losses. But she will always rise up. So there is a distrust in destiny and universe that her happiness will be short lived. But she has a confidence in herself that she will sit up after every fall and rebuild from scratch

Originally posted by: Mikis

Once again beautifully written!!

Its so true when you look back at the episodes Sai doesn't trust the universe...

and I've been watching some old old episodes and she at one point questions herself does she love V? is she falling for him? and then talks herself out of it as she knows HE doesn't see her as his perfect partner...she doesn't fit his mold of life partner...

even if you look back at the episode during Samrats return to CN when Sai and Samrat are talking in Sairat room, he asks her openly you dont feel anything for V? and she says I can't because he feels for someone else (or something along those lines) I always found that answer ....odd...

Thank you ❤️

Wow!! You just made that so much more clearer with some references.

Originally posted by: Moor278

For the wider audience 😊

https://www.instagram.com/p/CqdmZTlPdaB/?igshid=OGRjNzg3M2Y=

From the ones I have seen from these, they either don't end up together or there is no fire 😉

And Sadhika will disown V if there is no fire. She has been dreaming about some action for the longest time now. He dare not disappoint.

Originally posted by: A4Anjie

unintentionally came across this - sorry - I may be in minority here - respectfully do not agree with part -2, specially - virat setting sai free !!!!

No , he did NOT set her free - so she can pursue her general interests or other ambitions or other love interests !!!

He made her life so miserable, so painful, so stressed... she gave up on relationship even after accepting deal marriage... falling in love... and having kids with him... she ESCAPED !!!

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

And you don't have to apologise for sharing your perspective even if it doesn't match with mine.

I will just share something, only because I feel my thoughts may have not come out clearly.

One we are talking about two phases. And this "setting her free" was only till confession. The reason he wanted to set her free was only because he thought she didn't love him. But once he knew, he never wanted her to leave.

So while the pre confession incidents were about setting her free, the pre leap one was more about how can you leave me if you love me. She had promised that she would never leave him.

Secondly V is highly emotional guy, who goes to extreme and becomes volatile when it comes to Sai. While he wants to do the right thing for her and set her free for her own good (if she does not love him), he is also unable to bear the separation. His indifference and anger are his way of protecting himself from the heart break. And hence he becomes very conflicting in his dealing with Sai.

This is very evident in the accident post Sam's return. V had been so rude towards Sai, and he didn't care that she had left. But the moment he knew that she had an accident and her life was in danger, he went berserk. Nothing had changed between them, but her life was in danger. Rest everything was same.

Part -3 Sai👏👏

What an analysis Sherry 👏

Sai needs just that shiddat to win over Vinu. Virat is already on the brink. She needs to take that first step, whole universe will come together to support her. She needs that trust in herself first.

Originally posted by: Sherry24

Thanks so much ❤️

Appreciate you sharing your thoughts and it aligns with something I wrote long back about V's character.

Virat is a product of Chavan upbringing. As the son he was taught to be strong and righteous and ensure that the family reputation is kept intact. And the same time he was a softie, with the only support of Ashwini in CN. He was highly influenced by the dynamics of CN. But there was a side to him which had a different thinking process. However, within the CN walls the other side of him became prominent. And his way dealing was avoiding confrontations. He just learnt to bow out rather than argue. This is why he was attracted to P. Because he knew she would fit into his family. He knew the kind of woman that would sync well with his family and will compliment his non-confrontational nature. There was nothing exciting about this relationship, but what appealed to him was the peaceful life he could have with her. Their thought processes matched and she would jell well with the family. Easy life.

When Sai came into his life, the wild side of him met its match. Life with her was not easy. Rather a roller coaster ride, Exciting and adventurous. He liked the thrill. But it also meant that he will not know peace. With the firebrand he had married, there were bound to be arguments and disconnects with him and his family.

Another thing about his character. V's righteous side is too good to be true. They can ether show one to be unrealistic completely with that level of sacrifice or make him realistic with flaws. But with the extreme level of his righteous and sacrificing nature, him doing wrong does not seem right. Surrogacy is the most selfish act on his part. His decision was purely for himself. He wanted a child of his own and P cashed in on that. She created a situation where he felt that he this was his last chance at having his own child. He took away Sai's right of choosing the womb for her child. As a mother she had equal rights.But he took the decision on her behalf, not for her. But for himself.

the other is this abusive persona who takes everything to his ego and always considers himself the right person. This one takes his blessings for granted and imposes pain on the gentle V who is actually innocent in this cycle of toxicity.

virat was actually a flawed and well written character until they decided to show him a complete duffer.