So much for Virat not wanting to shirk away from his responsibilities of being Pakhi’s lawfully wedded husband, I just wanted to remind him of a few things today :
- Keeping quiet and making angry faces at your wife when she insults another woman in front of you and your family - is giving her the right to do more. It is your Pati ka farz to ask her to keep her trap shut, especially when she is talking to someone who is the mother of your children.
- Allowing her to taunt you over your behaviour and the way you make her feel is between the two of you for sure, but by being a pushover you are telling her she is right; which she partly is because you have lead her on to believe she is your wife and you have wronged her. That she is the mother of your child you had with another woman but this woman has stolen by fraud. We have said this a million times before but do you realise- that the first time you let her have that illegal surrogacy, and then let her keep it because of the majboori, and eventually kept the real mother away from the baby during pregnancy; and eventually pulling the child from the real mother and saving her from going to jail, joining hands with her in an unforgivable crime and then marry her after that you showed your unsaid loyalty to her- and made her believe you will side and support her always . She can get away with anything she does because at the end of the day , no matter how wrong she is you will be spineless enough to side her either out of guilt or obligation. Yeah what’s between you two, deal with it yourself, but where kids and another human being that is getting effected are involved - it is bloody well your farz to remind her- I am a loser I will side you since it’s my fate, but others don’t deserve this treatment so back off. Time to exercise that Farz Chavan Saab.
- feeling the loving vibe and complete family atmosphere around the mother of your kids and your one true love ? It is your farz to be 100% loyal to that emotion Sir! How can you expect a woman you don’t even consider your wife (first/ex whatever you think of her as in your head), to reciprocate your gestures of affection; authority or imposition knowing fully well, one day you will dump her like a hot potato only to side a woman who has openly humiliated and challenged her and taken you away from- you let the other woman win, not once, but many times- by belittling the so called woman you “love” and can’t live without- you have lost all rights over her. A woman who makes you happy and a woman who is the mother of two of your children that both of you so fondly made out of your love. If you want her isn’t it your farz to, make her feel, happy, secure and confident by your actions, gestures and behaviour. You don’t see how hard it is for her to live in the same house where so many memories were built with you and then tattered into million pieces ? You make her sleep in a guest room, while that very woman who lecherously walked into your bedroom every now and then making lame excuses, eavesdropping on your conversations with your wife is now the legal and official owner of the room that was once a testimony’s of your love. She says nothing but doesn’t mean she doesn’t feel anything. When you can ask her don’t you miss us, why do you hide your feelings, isn’t it your farz to ensure she gets some dignity and respect, from you of all people by not letting her feel awkward. You have kept her in the house for your children but what about what her heart wants ? I’m sure it’s more than just you ! When are you going to atleast ask her, if you can’t perceive or understand it on your own ? Isn’t that your farz ?
-your family is traditional; let’s face it. They are selfish and orthodox. They only think about themselves and what benefits them. Knowing how they are, isn’t it your farz to ensure you seek their permission before you take major decisions related to your life, children and so called ex-partner ? Now they are ready to take back your ex wife because they miss her , need her or have warmed up to her or whatever, tomorrow if this poor girl does something, will you allow them to taunt and accuse her the way you did while she was your wife ? Are you ever going to set those boundaries for them ? Is that not your farz ?
- your children - one knows you are her real baba but she doesn’t know what that means. But your son, he was scared of his real mother who he was taught was a jaadugarni- now thinks she is doctor aunty again- who is Savi’s mummy- between these two layers there is one important step - that of Vinu wanting to know who his real aayi and baba were- that’s what he had set out to find out during Ravan dahan isn’t it ? So now if Sai is his asli mumma , does he know you are his asli baba ? If he doesn’t, wouldn’t he be curious to know who his baba is; wouldn’t he want to ask aunty why she left him and if both of you know each other, and you are Savi’s asli baba where do I fit in ? Is it not your farz to clear that complication in the little child’s head ?
As a human and as an officer you take your farz very seriously , Infact at the cost of hurting your loved ones and family - almost like always ! While you are very easy to forgive yourself feeling self-sympathy that probably lets you sleep at night, I feel not just mouthing lines, but following real farz is what you should focus on now! Pl follow your farz and utaaro your karz ! You have a long long way to go before you hit home Mr. Chavan !
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