CVs need to stop shoving the narrative of Sai-Virat being soulmates. - Page 4

Originally posted by: archanan14

Have seen you watch with so much patience and humour! Sad that fans are losing interest.

The show does not affect me one bit. Infact this show is one of my cheap thrills. I don't dwell deeper into what is shown or analyse stuff. Probably that's why I enjoy the show. No strings attached. The only thing that I really really don't understand is Patralekha's expression. I feel quantum physics must be easier than this.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I think just for a while they will show Virat being the sacrificial , mahaan ML since they did not know ML would get such a backlash, where they would have to even remove him as a host for Navratris. Now they are trying to establish him back...But that Virat is lost, considering people know how much his sabse pyaari cheez, her izzat and her dignity , him being polite to her is important , even when the so called wife who he has HAQ on is dying.... Its a cycle and if TRPs work, it will remain so...

I have a feeling that they'll skip the whole fake pregnancy drama. Don't want to show Pakhi in bad light now do they. I totally don't care or see for what any cast member except Ayesha is doing, so what's the Navratri thing ? What removal ?

I literally saw the actor playing Virat acting today a little better after a whole month. That was a relief. The mishandling police uniform scares me. I have seen my father treat it with extreme respect and what even is happening with Virat's uniform. I mean anyone could have gotten him a change of clothes. Literally anyone. Well, maybe not Patralekha. It was creepy enough once.

Originally posted by: Potterhead3009

Ghum has literally been the first show I watched in Hindi TV. Never really watched an Indian serial before that. All these famous shows of star plus, finished 10 year and 5 year old ones, I binged while watching ghum. My headspace with shows is really weird at the moment because of this one. 🤦🏻‍♀️

I am.watching a hindi show after longest. Probably after 8-10 years. Also, your IF name, you have a good choice behen, don't get your head wired around this SP one 😊

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

I am.watching a hindi show after longest. Probably after 8-10 years. Also, your IF name, you have a good choice behen, don't get your head wired around this SP one 😊

😂😂😂Thank you. That fandom is only place where my ships have sailed without any disappointment.

The only reason I started watching this is because I saw the very first promo with limited command over hindi. I was searching in YouTube for star world and accidentally clicked star plus. This show's promo plays and my lack of Hindi knowledge made me think it's about a fantasy world where men could have 2 wives. Forgot about it. Cut to some weeks later, I see Kamal Joshi dying. I continued. I know nothing about Virakhi story except bits I gathered from internet. Didn't see their episodes. Idk what to feel about that.😂

I'll keep your advice in mind.

Originally posted by: Potterhead3009

I have a feeling that they'll skip the whole fake pregnancy drama. Don't want to show Pakhi in bad light now do they. I totally don't care or see for what any cast member except Ayesha is doing, so what's the Navratri thing ? What removal ?

I literally saw the actor playing Virat acting today a little better after a whole month. That was a relief. The mishandling police uniform scares me. I have seen my father treat it with extreme respect and what even is happening with Virat's uniform. I mean anyone could have gotten him a change of clothes. Literally anyone. Well, maybe not Patralekha. It was creepy enough once.

Yes the actor playing VIrat was slightly better after days. Thankfully. All he has done in the indifference track was showing disgusted faces to Sai.

I know yaar..The other day they forgot the belt and now this.. The police officers show a great degree of respect towards their Uniform.. Khair anyway. I hope he will get a change of clothes soon, as per BTS.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Yes the actor playing VIrat was slightly better after days. Thankfully. All he has done in the indifference track was showing disgusted faces to Sai.

I know yaar..The other day they forgot the belt and now this.. The police officers show a great degree of respect towards their Uniform.. Khair anyway. I hope he will get a change of clothes soon, as per BTS.

Any BTS scares me. Virat in handsome/striped clothes doesn't usually bode well for us, does it? God save us. I miss his white kurta pajamas.*grumbling in background at Ghum's costume designers*

But unfortunately there are still some who are not accepting his abusive behavior and calling his abuse as love.

And they are melting at his so called tears and believing that he actually loves her .

They are so obsessed With sairat that they actually forgotten his vile behavior.

It's sad! As it has been so difficult for me to digest his monologues and emotions for sai in recent episodes.

Originally posted by: Dee10

Additionally, the makers really need to stop using God's idol or references etc to show their normalization of abusive behaviors. The reference to Ram-Sita for the likes of Samrat and Patralekha; one who forgot his mother because his wife betrayed him and the other who lusts after her BIL. And now the use of bappa to show soulmate connection in an abusive and extremely toxic relationship. Seriously they need to stop doing this. I am not ever religious and yet this pisses me off to the core.🤔

I am very deeply touched by this sentiment.

For I believe my belief in Mahadev and my bro saved me from lot of circumstances even when doc gave up.

This ref to God totally boils my blood

Originally posted by: Potterhead3009

I have a feeling that they'll skip the whole fake pregnancy drama. Don't want to show Pakhi in bad light now do they. I totally don't care or see for what any cast member except Ayesha is doing, so what's the Navratri thing ? What removal ?

I literally saw the actor playing Virat acting today a little better after a whole month. That was a relief. The mishandling police uniform scares me. I have seen my father treat it with extreme respect and what even is happening with Virat's uniform. I mean anyone could have gotten him a change of clothes. Literally anyone. Well, maybe not Patralekha. It was creepy enough once.

I agree the mishandling of the uniform

And the fact that they show a cop indulging in so much physical manhandling and DV deeply upsets me and thank God none of my friends in the forces have come across this 🙈..

It would a terrible insult to the decent ones ...he was telling me that the bad portrayal affects the way the public looks at them. And people think twice before they approach

Originally posted by: maneetarhi

I am sharing my own personal crisis like this emotional abuse. I was a only child and a great start to my career. Suddenly my mom passed away in an accident saving me and leaving me in my father's arms. I was married immediately to a big family and they were very Orthodox. They didn't not allow me for a job and wanted to start family. My husband was always asking me to fulfill family's expectations of poojas and superstitions and if I deferred I was not allowed to talk to my dad and relatives. My husband will not allow me to talk and question my upbringing and insult in front of his family. Over a year and not speaking to any of my family and continuous taunts and tortures, I slipped into depression and had an accident just outside our house. Finally when I woke up in hospital, I asked for my dad and my husband. It was because I was emotional and weak and I wanted two people whom I called family. In reality people never change their mind set and my husband was nice to me for a few days and again I was subjected to same abuse cycle. Now I left that toxic relationship and started to be independent. I am through separation process and sometimes I feel empty but I am at peace. Relationships between spouses doesn't need love for survival but it needs trust and respect. Those words were last said to my husband by myself. When I saw sai saying that in some scene, I started watching it for sai Joshi. I saw myself in that timeline......

I applaud u r courage sweetie for finally walking out Kudos

When I went thru similar circumstances ..so I identify with Sai too very much . But only diff was I had bro and my bff by my side.