Originally posted by: Dee10
The way they have normalised abuse as a usual normal household thing is just so depressing to watch. The fact they are showing Virat's stubbornness to justify his actions in not being accountable for Sai's mental state is so damn pathetic and pitiful. As well as Sai who was a strong, young and independent girl is now a puppy for keeps running back to her owner irrespective of how the owner treats her. They are showing abuse as normal under the facade of soulmate and true love crap. While many people found that bappa scene where Virat was praying and Sai gains consciousness cute and lovable with the soulmate connection concept, i was still scoffing and cringing at the scene. Virat needed introspection of his actions since he had time away from BFF's influence and could have had a eureka moment of realizing the extent of his misbehavior and its impact on Sai. He had time to question the why's in his marital life. Alas, he is still stubborn as hell and still doesn't know what he has done wrong! 😑
Additionally, the makers really need to stop using God's idol or references etc to show their normalization of abusive behaviors. The reference to Ram-Sita for the likes of Samrat and Patralekha; one who forgot his mother because his wife betrayed him and the other who lusts after her BIL. And now the use of bappa to show soulmate connection in an abusive and extremely toxic relationship. Seriously they need to stop doing this. I am not ever religious and yet this pisses me off to the core.🤔
I was uncomfortable to say the least. The man just a day or two back knowing that she is leaving was torturing her with his 'Sabse Pyaari Cheez', addressed her the same way his toxic family addresses her 'yeh ladki'. Called her names. Not just that taunted her on what she plans to do. And right now is cribbing bout having haq on her all this while.. And he is supposed to know that she is coming back to consciousness . In that case when she had that fatal accident, he was busy participating with his family in calling her names...Where did the soulful connect go then? I feel so terrible, sad and depress thinking Sai will crave for this man and yet I understand as someone also mentioned her personal struggles here, in similar situations.. Sai might get back to him, love her abuser.. But Virat will always be an abuser, emotional and physical. Emotional for always prioritizing his first wife over KBA(Sai).
And what anyway is the point of shouting at KBA,. Were they not discussing Sai's nature, behaviour, her running away from the house just when Sai was being operated. Why show this two faced in treating Patralekha so well one day and only when Sai is dying, treat her like sh**.He is not just abusing Sai, is also giving mixed signals to Patralekha.. Atleast Patralekha has a family and better husband...She needs to get away from here, she still has a chance.
Edited by asmi_joya - 3 years ago
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