CVs need to stop shoving the narrative of Sai-Virat being soulmates.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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The man who has no clue on how abusive his best friend and sabse pyaari cheez has been to his teen aged wife. The man who does not understands the boderline between disciplining a young wife and locking her up in the room. The man who called his family's abuse towards his orphan wife maan , sammaan and pyaar.. The man who gangs up with his ex to bad mouth his brash wife, everytime there is an issue between the two , just because he is hurt, forgetting each and everything she has doen for the family..The man who questioned Aaba's love for his only daughter, who was also her only family...The man who calls torture meted on his wife by his elders as some expectations the bau of the house needs to fulfill...The man who has never understood, what his wife feels on juggling between house responsibilities, her studies, college and the abuse and had further gone ahead to ask her to adjust.. The amn who still has not gathered how difficult it would have been for his young wife with dreams to let all of it go and get back to GC, to the danger she was getting into... The man who failed to understand how his harassment with his pyaari cheez would have affected his wife's mental state. The man who is still calling the atrocities done on his wife as his "HAQ" , the man who never even allowed her to discuss her insecurities, her issues, never understood how his family treatment towards her has changed her till she was on her death bed, gets to know she is getting conscious...🤪🤪

CVs enough with shoving them as some soulmates who can feel each other pain, who have a telepathic relationship. Virat and Sai are not soulmates. Virat treats Sai as he is conditioned to treat a wife in Chavan Niwas...Sai treats him as her family, her world, because she has not been with better men out there.. This relationship is and will remain toxic. Congratulations on turning the love story into Stockholm Syndrome.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

The man who has no clue on how abusive his best friend and sabse pyaari cheez has been to his teen aged wife. The man who does not understands the boderline between disciplining a young wife and locking her up in the room. The man who called his family's abuse towards his orphan wife maan , sammaan and pyaar.. The man who gangs up with his ex to bad mouth his brash wife, everytime there is an issue between the two , just because he is hurt, forgetting each and everything she has doen for the family..The man who questioned Aaba's love for his only daughter, who was also her only family...The man who calls torture meted on his wife by his elders as some expectations the bau of the house needs to fulfill...The man who has never understood, what his wife feels on juggling between house responsibilities, her studies, college and the abuse and had further gone ahead to ask her to adjust.. The amn who still has not gathered how difficult it would have been for his young wife with dreams to let all of it go and get back to GC, to the danger she was getting into... The man who failed to understand how his harassment with his pyaari cheez would have affected his wife's mental state. The man who is still calling the atrocities done on his wife as his "HAQ" , the man who never even allowed her to discuss her insecurities, her issues, never understood how his family treatment towards her has changed her till she was on her death bed, gets to know she is getting conscious...🤪🤪

CVs enough with shoving them as some soulmates who can feel each other pain, who have a telepathic relationship. Virat and Sai are not soulmates. Virat treats Sai as he is conditioned to treat as wife, Chavans Niwas...Sai treats him as her family, her world, because she has not been with better men out there.. This relationship is and will remain toxic. Congratulations on turning the love story into Stockholm Syndrome.

I believe they they have added it recently due to uproar against #SaiRat on social media. People literally spammed Starplus navratri promo with Virat that they had to replace Neil/ Virat with Dhara bhabhi in the next episode. Their creativity is zero, surviving on copy paste... This time all went beyond limits that fans started questions the credibility of ship and if the love exists or not. Virat's redemption cannot be shown properly... Again creativity issues. Hence trying to make audience realise the fact that #SaiRat are indeed the end game.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I think amidst the usual USP of every Indian serial ever, the CVs have forgotten all these days that the star couple needs to have something special for them. Something that'll make them the star crossed lovers. The story they told, didn't have scope for that. No place for quickening heartbeats, cold breezes and electric shocks. They were waiting for an opening. What they felt like was opening appeared, they took it. Unfortunately I haven't seen a more misplaced idea. Every time someone mentions it, I feel my blood boil. They could have taken 101 mature ways to show SaiRat were made for each other. At this point they're just being lazy.

The repercussion of that laziness is normalising of abuse. Emphasising on a repressive value that no matter the circumstances of marriage, husband and wife stay together for lives. This is just pushing the society back into an era where death was the only opening for victims fo abuse.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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It's just their ways to normalise domestic abuse..

Instead of shoving such nonsensical superstitious dialogues they could have have minimise P**,Shivani and pulpit's SS to accommodate Virat's solo sequence where he would recollect how he treated her, their good moments together and their last moments together..I am surprised why so much limitations in creativity 🤢

Today every one so ott.. 👎🏼Shivsni's taunt made no sense neither Bhavani's prayers looked real.. 👎🏼

Only Ninad seemed genuinely worried..

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I am sharing my own personal crisis like this emotional abuse. I was a only child and a great start to my career. Suddenly my mom passed away in an accident saving me and leaving me in my father's arms. I was married immediately to a big family and they were very Orthodox. They didn't not allow me for a job and wanted to start family. My husband was always asking me to fulfill family's expectations of poojas and superstitions and if I deferred I was not allowed to talk to my dad and relatives. My husband will not allow me to talk and question my upbringing and insult in front of his family. Over a year and not speaking to any of my family and continuous taunts and tortures, I slipped into depression and had an accident just outside our house. Finally when I woke up in hospital, I asked for my dad and my husband. It was because I was emotional and weak and I wanted two people whom I called family. In reality people never change their mind set and my husband was nice to me for a few days and again I was subjected to same abuse cycle. Now I left that toxic relationship and started to be independent. I am through separation process and sometimes I feel empty but I am at peace. Relationships between spouses doesn't need love for survival but it needs trust and respect. Those words were last said to my husband by myself. When I saw sai saying that in some scene, I started watching it for sai Joshi. I saw myself in that timeline......

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Originally posted by: maneetarhi

I am sharing my own personal crisis like this emotional abuse. I was a only child and a great start to my career. Suddenly my mom passed away in an accident saving me and leaving me in my father's arms. I was married immediately to a big family and they were very Orthodox. They didn't not allow me for a job and wanted to start family. My husband was always asking me to fulfill family's expectations of poojas and superstitions and if I deferred I was not allowed to talk to my dad and relatives. My husband will not allow me to talk and question my upbringing and insult in front of his family. Over a year and not speaking to any of my family and continuous taunts and tortures, I slipped into depression and had an accident just outside our house. Finally when I woke up in hospital, I asked for my dad and my husband. It was because I was emotional and weak and I wanted two people whom I called family. In reality people never change their mind set and my husband was nice to me for a few days and again I was subjected to same abuse cycle. Now I left that toxic relationship and started to be independent. I am through separation process and sometimes I feel empty but I am at peace. Relationships between spouses doesn't need love for survival but it needs trust and respect. Those words were last said to my husband by myself. When I saw sai saying that in some scene, I started watching it for sai Joshi. I saw myself in that timeline......

Takes a lot of courage to not just step out of marriage but also move ahead all alone, keeping the memories good and bad where they belong. Definitely love is not the only thing in a marriage. I hope more young women realise that, they need not stick to a man, because they are bound to them by a marriage, in situations like this. I value the constitution of marriage myself, but I do understand that no marriage is worth your mental peace, trust , respect and your safety.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shaome

It's just their ways to normalise domestic abuse..

Instead of shoving such nonsensical superstitious dialogues they could have have minimise P**,Shivani and pulpit's SS to accommodate Virat's solo sequence where he would recollect how he treated her, their good moments together and their last moments together..I am surprised why so much limitations in creativity 🤢

Today every one so ott.. 👎🏼Shivsni's taunt made no sense neither Bhavani's prayers looked real.. 👎🏼

Only Ninad seemed genuinely worried..


Exactly they should have reduced the Shivani , pulkit sequences to show virat reflecting .. why Sai left him .. he keeps on saying you didn’t tell me .. but can he go back to last night .. rather the whole day to reflect how he behaved with her .. to add a few flashbacks would not have costed the creatives anything


And why should omi , Sonali , Karishma and paapi be forced to go and visit Sai .. if they have no empathy for her


ninad is her father in law .. he cannot be treating her the same way as he treats Karishma or paapi ..

Today it would have made sense .. if he had told paapi and omi .. Sai us my daughter in law I need to be there to support my wife and son who are suffering..

Why don’t you all stay back and pray for all

Why did they not even change clothes .. it’s ridiculous


ninad should have said this .. my concern for Sai is natural better late than never

Just virat n samrat cannot be sane for me .. why do you expect I should treat Sai the same as others in the family ..

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Potterhead3009

I think amidst the usual USP of every Indian serial ever, the CVs have forgotten all these days that the star couple needs to have something special for them. Something that'll make them the star crossed lovers. The story they told, didn't have scope for that. No place for quickening heartbeats, cold breezes and electric shocks. They were waiting for an opening. What they felt like was opening appeared, they took it. Unfortunately I haven't seen a more misplaced idea. Every time someone mentions it, I feel my blood boil. They could have taken 101 mature ways to show SaiRat were made for each other. At this point they're just being lazy.

The repercussion of that laziness is normalising of abuse. Emphasising on a repressive value that no matter the circumstances of marriage, husband and wife stay together for lives. This is just pushing the society back into an era where death was the only opening for victims fo abuse.

I agree they could have deviated ,but right now they have degraded the show. There is nothing much to watch even w.r.t Sai-Virat. Other stories/characters were never developed to an extent where one should be there to watch them.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Well, you can't blame them for lack of creativity....

This destined to be soulmates was not there in KD

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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I agree they could have deviated ,but right now they have degraded the show. There is nothing much to watch even w.r.t Sai-Virat. Other stories/characters were never developed to an extent where one should be there to watch them.

You know what they say "The higher they raise, the harder they fall". I feel like the show is experiencing its high. Growth usually stays constant until we put righteous efforts into it. Not crooked. They're breaching these ethical and humanitarian standards for TRPs. They've destroyed the lead couple. They turned a grey character into dark villain by making her ignore consent, relationship boundaries, humanity and reality in general. They turned a conservative family into a bunch of crooked criminals. They gave no space to the good characters.

I don't want to speculate the reasons behind these decisions. But the consequences unfortunately are something we need to be concerned with.

The story is not a love story. We know that. It's a dramatic grey story. But changing it into a TRP producing mindless machine is just pathetic.

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