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Sai has only said he was on two boats, not that he was two-timing or cheating. Theres a difference. And Samrat said the same of virat too. Doh kashti par sawaar. Imo its true that hes on 2 boats. On the one hand he tells pp clearly that he has moved on and loves Sai but on the other hand he goes out of the way to protect her image, even at the cost of hurting his wife whom he claims to love. Why?! Pp can fend for herself. He needs to completely cut himself off pp and call her out when she speaks out of turn. He goes too far trying to be courteous , respectful n kind to the person that mocks/taunts/ridicules his wife on a daily basis.

Sai's problem is not that Virat is holding pp's hand but because she feels like he is lying when he claims to have moved on because to her it looks like that he is still emotionally invested in pp but is merely burying his feelings to conform to societal norms/to avoid hurting Samrat/to avoid disappointing his family/and to avoid hurting Sai n forcing himself to nibhao a marriage he doesn't want to. she doesn't want to be his compromise. And thinking all this she tries to leave but he reels her back in and she is getting more n more attached to him everyday and it gets harder for her to brush things away when she feels so much for him...she gets her hopes dashed n gets pushed back everytime she thinks they have reached a milestone in their relationship.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

regarding last para , I feel it’s other way around . Virat is never spared in the show even he makes a mistake and there are tracks where he is made to introspect and apologize . I can’t say the same for Sai . Till date , we haven’t seen her apologize for anything to Virat .

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Today’s last scene was so symbolic. Sai looking at Pakhi staring at Virat and Virat’s attention only on Sai . This actually summarizes the entire misunderstanding and issue between Sairat . Sai sees Virakhi relationship from Pakhi’s POV only and her attention is only on Pakhi . If Pakhi says or does things which makes Sai feel that she hasn’t moved on then she believes it’s the same for Virat as well . Like last scene she is not paying attention to the fact that Virat’s attention is only on her . Even Virat is just focusing on Sai without realizing that Sai focus is on Pakhi and her presence might effect Sai . I do agree with Virat to certain extent that he has cleared that Pakhi doesn’t mean anything to her . He did while clearing Vaada , when she brought up while they were discussing his mission , on anniversary trip etc . I guess she is looking for certain words from him

Wow, this is so true.

What you focus on can change one's perception.

Originally posted by: jyothijssager

please please list out for what all Sai should apologize to virat . I have been a regular viewer of this show from the start and I never felt the way you describe in not only this but many posts. Any girl with sane mind and self respect would not accept Virat even if he puts the world at her feet. Now think if Virat had kept the promise made to pakhi but done things for Sai guiltridden that he is the cause for her fathers death. Then if Sai loved Virat and demanded her wifely rights then what would have Virat labelled her as. But still it would have been not wrong in our view. But here he is doing things for her with full rights as a husband in love with his wife but the joke is he never labelled it as love to her.And when she herself asked for his clarification or openly said he does all things as his duty or because she is an orphan he never tried to justify his actions. He always prioritized on protecting pakhi always and also even apologize to her for the wrong doings that Sai had never done. Though Sai is loud and brash she tried to distance herself to not get into arguments .But she was dragged into it many times by instigating her and when she gave them back she was degraded and shown that she has no worth in the house till date. Virat who claims to love her has time and again shown his indifference to her though he has done many things to her. Should she label it as his love for her?

1. Calling him a murderer of KJ

2. Calling him a two timer multiple times

3. Whenever she eas ride it was being a brash

4. For hiding Devkit matter from him and going behind his back despite him agreeing for reinvestigation

5. Hiding about Pulkit kidnapping from him . As a brother he has the rights to know what made her take the drastic step of getting them married . Even if she doesn’t I can understand but not the other ones

6. For going behind his back and getting the transfers cancelled by calling him mentally unstable . For interfering in his professional matters . I understand why she did that but she was wrong .

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

I have to admit that I didn't like the hand holding and all. Knowing Pakhi's intentions Virat needs to stay away from her. Even though I inderstand that he was just trying to calm her down in a place where everyone was watching them but still as a partner I would have definitely felt bad and jealous.

But I also agree that this kind of dialogues are not discussed because it's Sai who says them. She is bachchi and immature. She also is suffering from this whole third angle thing so we tend not to find it ugly. Koi aur bolta toh people would have bashed that person. In fact if Virat had said the same thing then he would have been bashed left right center. 😆

@Bold that’s the sad part .

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Let me list the things she needs to apologize for

1. Calling him a murderer of KJ

2. Calling him a two timer multiple times

3. Whenever she eas ride it was being a brash

4. For hiding Devkit matter from him and going behind his back despite him agreeing for reinvestigation

5. Hiding about Pulkit kidnapping from him . As a brother he has the rights to know what made her take the drastic step of getting them married . Even if she doesn’t I can understand but not the other ones

6. For going behind his back and getting the transfers cancelled by calling him mentally unstable . For interfering in his professional matters . I understand why she did that but she was wrong .

There are many ways to take this. As in the eyes of Sai till date he is in love with pakhi then how will he move forward with her as a husband.

The next I did not get it

As for brash she is loud, brash, straightforward, truthful , honest etc but immature

She in fact told Virat and asked the right questions to him so he agreed to reinvestigate .But day by day new things were coming to light and Virat tagged her as immature and easily manipulated being.

When pulkit was kidnapped Virat was in the training and as a wife for that matter for you as a deal wife too she was more into Virat safety and did not want to trouble him but she missed him a lot and expected he would have stood by her. The night when she came back after devkit marriage she would have explained and apologised too but did Virat give her a chance .

What do you think mentally unstable refers to in this matter when she uttered , she meant he was going through personal tensions in the family matters or relations and it was true. Are you not watching Virat properly and Neil is performing it so well to you to know that he is mentally disturbed but it is due to the rejection of his wife.

Originally posted by: jyothijssager

in the first place he was the one who asked KJ to take extension and make available for him. I agree KJ asked him to include him but did not Sai say that he is the only one she has as family and her world. He always knew how she wanted to move away from GC as early as possible. When she uttered him as murderer she did not know what exactly happened but is it not true that KJ lost his life to save him.Before attempting suicide when Virat visited her did she not tell that OK you are not responsible. But why she will say sorry when her father took the bullet which was meant for Virat.

There are many ways to take this. As in the eyes of Sai till date he is in love with pakhi then how will he move forward with her as a husband.

The next I did not get it

As for brash she is loud, brash, straightforward, truthful , honest etc but immature

She in fact told Virat and asked the right questions to him so he agreed to reinvestigate .But day by day new things were coming to light and Virat tagged her as immature and easily manipulated being.

When pulkit was kidnapped Virat was in the training and as a wife for that matter for you as a deal wife too she was more into Virat safety and did not want to trouble him but she missed him a lot and expected he would have stood by her. The night when she came back after devkit marriage she would have explained and apologised too but did Virat give her a chance .

What do you think mentally unstable refers to in this matter when she uttered , she meant he was going through personal tensions in the family matters or relations and it was true. Are you not watching Virat properly and Neil is performing it so well to you to know that he is mentally disturbed but it is due to the rejection of his wife.

I have already shared my views about his past so I prefer not to repeat it .

@Bold Yes I am but I guess not many understand what mentally unfit means especially in a profession like police , army . Sai is not qualified enough to call him mentally disturbed or unstable . Having personal issues in life is not equivalent to mentally unfit . That can have serious consequences

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Virat can request 100 things but it was KJ’s decisions to stay back . If anything Sai should have questioned her father not anyone . Being rude to her father’s senior is not something to be appreciated and as an officer Virat deserves apologize for being disrespected infront of his reporters and calling him a murderer . Nothing can be justifiy her attitude .

I have already shared my views about his past so I prefer not to repeat it .

@Bold Yes I am but I guess not many understand what mentally unfit means especially in a profession like police , army . Sai is not qualified enough to call him mentally disturbed or unstable . Having personal issues in life is not equivalent to mentally unfit . That can have serious consequences

I am neither interested to know.

Oh so do you know when death occurs or some trgedy strikes in the army man's family or the people who are working in critical jobs like ongc rig this is necessary that they are mentally fit before they go for work. Though Virat is very professional I always felt he had the gunshot because he was in stress. You know what was going through then. Personal issues create tensions as for any human. She is not qualified but as a wife she told that he is going through so much and has health issues which was true as time being. And this is daily soap and so the liberties are taken.

Originally posted by: jyothijssager

when Virat has the liberty to request KJ to stay back for him and as his daughter does Sai not have the right to react. I agree her way was wrong considering virat being the higher officer but did not Virat say that he considers KJ as family and sees him as a father figure. Then Virat himself gave the liberty. And being in that emotional state and going through so much how do you expect a girl whose life has turned upsidedown and Virat being one of the main reasons apologize .

I am neither interested to know.

Oh so do you know when death occurs or some trgedy strikes in the army man's family or the people who are working in critical jobs like ongc rig this is necessary that they are mentally fit before they go for work. Though Virat is very professional I always felt he had the gunshot because he was in stress. You know what was going through then. Personal issues create tensions as for any human. She is not qualified but as a wife she told that he is going through so much and has health issues which was true as time being. And this is daily soap and so the liberties are taken.