Narrow Minded - Page 2

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I was disappointed with the reason they came up for Sai to say she doesn’t believe Virat is in love with her . I would be ok if they had mentioned Vaada and deal but making FL say she feels Virat is in love with Pakhi because she saw them holding hands . So narrow minded . Why can’t ex lovers hold hands and if they do then it’s means they ate having affair such low thinking . If holding hand means love then Sai and Virat should be in deeply in live because of their hand romance we have seen so far

It’s Sai who said those words hence it’s ignored like always . Let say if there was any other character saying this then they would be termed as narrow minded person, controlling and what not .

Pakhi is not a random female … there is too much bad blood between Sai and pakhi … the circumstances of samrat returning .. family putting pressure on samrat n pakhi to restart marriage all this has heightened her awareness

Originally posted by: msin

Pakhi is not a random female … there is too much bad blood between Sai and pakhi … the circumstances of samrat returning .. family putting pressure on samrat n pakhi to restart marriage all this has heightened her awareness

Sai will not believe Virat whatever he says or does! So if she had seen him at his house also talking with Pakhi it wud be the same inference for sure!

Even if he doesn't speak to Pakhi also Sai doesn't change her perspective! I really don't know what will make her believe that Virat loves her. Whatever anyone or Virat says or does, she wont believe. Her own dimaag ki batti should light. Dunno how it will happen. How was it in kd? Why and how does she realise that Virat loves her?

Originally posted by: vimeo

Sai will not believe Virat whatever he says or does! So if she had seen him at his house also talking with Pakhi it wud be the same inference for sure!

Even if he doesn't speak to Pakhi also Sai doesn't change her perspective! I really don't know what will make her believe that Virat loves her. Whatever anyone or Virat says or does, she wont believe. Her own dimaag ki batti should light. Dunno how it will happen. How was it in kd? Why and how does she realise that Virat loves her?

Actually the last night before leaving the house, Rono actually brought up the café matter and clarified again that he doesn't love RK and the hand hold was not out of love.

Then Imon went to DIG again to stop the transfer. DIG became the marriage counselor and told he saw the love for her in Rono's eyes (not directly but indirectly). and also the fact that Rono took the transfer without caring Rupkotha's opinion that made Imon believe fully.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

When Virat had suspected Sai he was made to realize that he was wrong and he apologized for it . Sai didn’t go back to him without apology . His actions are shown as wrong but in this case it’s not .

Does having past give spouse the free pass to pass such judgments ? So suspecting with friends, colleagues is not acceptable but with ex it’s just miscommunication.

Pakhi is not a closed chapter or a forgotten ex ... she's very much here and between...so much bad blood is there...

And i guess you didn't understand what i said...

Sai's suspicion is not narrow mindedness in my pov...it's lack of everything in a marriage...there is no trust...no communication...it's not a marriage they are having...

Where did i say having past give free pass...?

i didn't get your last para...so you mean to say..suspecting with friend is okay ?

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

True but Sai would still misunderstand if she hadn’t see them holding hands . Will Sai believe Virat if he hasn’t held Pakhi’s hand ? She would still have trust issues . Hand holding didn’t have much significance but looks like makers want to stretch the misunderstanding using a lame excuse which made it look like Fl was narrow minded

I don’t think audience took Sai as narrow minded .. right now they know she has reasons to be angry … she saw the wrong moments … anybody will be suspicious..

as of now virat has not cleared any doubts in her mind .. in fact he brazenly told her to believe what You want .. so now why is he complaining .. I have told her so many times ..

I think Sai could be called as a narrow minded character if she accuses Virat with some other girl.

Pakhi is not actually ex as she is still present and doing every petty thing to cause problems. She is not a past, she there in present and causing problems for their future.

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Sai knows in back of her mind that if situation arises and Virat is asked to trust and choose sides she would be left alone. As Pakhi still holds importance in his life and no one can deny that.

Audience (the regular trp audience) wont think abt it as regressive content. In fact, even Virat khaand during Ajinkya khaand also will.not be termed as regressive. It will be taken as just jealousy!! But from what I get of Sai, she's pretty forward thinking whenever she wants and regressive otherwise!!

When Virat does some khaand she will be the progressive mata else at all other times she will be regressive!

Call me narrow minded and maybe I am, but I would have reacted the same way in Sai’s shoes. Everyone is telling me that my husband loves me, however my husband hasn’t said anything and then I catch him holding the hands of his ex lover, who he had promised to never let anyone else in his heart, who also told his own wife not to expect anything of him, in the initial stage of the marriage called his lover a pyaari cheez, who even now defends that women regardless of the embarrassment his own wife would face.

it’s hard to see his love when his behaviour doesn’t reflect it.

We as an audience know he loves her and we can see it in his actions because he’s used his words to tell us. However Sai didn’t have the luxury of hearing it so she has only his actions to go by, which if we didn’t know the truth it could have been described as zimmedari or from a place of care or even familial love, it doesn’t necessarily have to be romantic love.

I know people say Action speak louder than words and agree with it, but his actions aren’t consistent, it’s marred with accusations, anger, jealousy, judgement so I can’t blame Sai for not understanding it, for still thinking that he has feeling for Pakhi, because all his actions in her eyes have pointed towards that.

Exactly. Its not narrow minded but a natural reaction of a wife who feels hurt/insecure/affected by her husbands closeness to another woman. She is doing her best to move past it, she keeps trying and everytime she gets her hopes up they come crashing down.

And theres is absolutely no comparison of Sais reaction to pp vs Virats jealousy to random college friend of Sais. Pp is Virats ex lover, lives in the same house as them n hurls taunts/abuses at Sai.