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I was disappointed with the reason they came up for Sai to say she doesn’t believe Virat is in love with her . I would be ok if they had mentioned Vaada and deal but making FL say she feels Virat is in love with Pakhi because she saw them holding hands . So narrow minded . Why can’t ex lovers hold hands and if they do then it’s means they ate having affair such low thinking . If holding hand means love then Sai and Virat should be in deeply in live because of their hand romance we have seen so far


It’s Sai who said those words hence it’s ignored like always . Let say if there was any other character saying this then they would be termed as narrow minded person, controlling and what not .

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I was disappointed with the reason they came up for Sai to say she doesn’t believe Virat is in love with her . I would be ok if they had mentioned Vaada and deal but making FL say she feels Virat is in love with Pakhi because she saw them holding hands . So narrow minded . Why can’t ex lovers hold hands and if they do then it’s means they ate having affair such low thinking . If holding hand means love then Sai and Virat should be in deeply in live because of their hand romance we have seen so far


It’s Sai who said those words hence it’s ignored like always . Let say if there was any other character saying this then they would be termed as narrow minded person, controlling and what not .

ya, i agree she should have told of the vaada being the roadblock. I liked shivani , she asked the right questions to sai, i wanted someone to ask such types of questions that nobody does so much and goes against his family for a zimmedari. It will be a good way of making her introspect her feelings but the makers love for copying kd may kill it. I am happy that although virat questioned her in front of family, but atleast he didn't insulted her. He will say some things to her which will compel her to take transfer but it will happen in their room so i am happy. About pakhi i will not waste my time because words will be just mean to her. Look at the double standards she does not want sai to interfere in her spousal life but she will interfere in sairat life. About omi that man just crosses his limits always, i would be the most unhappiest man if someone from kaku gang will meet sai in the hospital after accident or something except ninad who has actually changed and had Stopped speaking I'll about his dil.

Virat will have a tough time after realising his rudeness affects on sai and her health. Hope makers play out the track well as well as fast tracked.

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Yes exactly! Agree with your last para! Had it been any one else there wud be such a huge hue and cry!! Or had it been Sai doing the same with a male friend and Virat had told this there would termed regressive and so last season! But na! Its Sai who's saying this! So sab guna maaf!

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Originally posted by: Akash3Rai

ya, i agree she should have told of the vaada being the roadblock. I liked shivani , she asked the right questions to sai, i wanted someone to ask such types of questions that nobody does so much and goes against his family for a zimmedari. It will be a good way of making her introspect her feelings but the makers love for copying kd may kill it. I am happy that although virat questioned her in front of family, but atleast he didn't insulted her. He will say some things to her which will compel her to take transfer but it will happen in their room so i am happy. About pakhi i will not waste my time because words will be just mean to her. Look at the double standards she does not want sai to interfere in her spousal life but she will interfere in sairat life. About omi that man just crosses his limits always, i would be the most unhappiest man if someone from kaku gang will meet sai in the hospital after accident or something except ninad who has actually changed and had Stopped speaking I'll about his dil.

Virat will have a tough time after realising his rudeness affects on sai and her health. Hope makers play out the track well as well as fast tracked.

I am saying it again no one can help Sai and even if Virat confess she won’t accept . Shivani asked right questions and tried helping her but Sai ignored everything she said and gave a lame reason not to believe Virat is in love with Pakhi . Very low thinking IMO .


I guess now for Virat it’s more of self respect . Will he be ok to be with a women who still believes he is cheating on her . Will he ok to propose to someone with that thinking .

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Yes exactly! Agree with your last para! Had it been any one else there wud be such a huge hue and cry!! Or had it been Sai doing the same with a male friend and Virat had told this there would termed regressive and so last season! But na! Its Sai who's saying this! So sab guna maaf!

Agree with you . If there was a role reversal , he would be termed as suspicious regressive controlling husband .
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Posted: 4 years ago
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I am saying it again no one can help Sai and even if Virat confess she won’t accept . Shivani asked right questions and tried helping her but Sai ignored everything she said and gave a lame reason not to believe Virat is in love with Pakhi . Very low thinking IMO .


I guess now for Virat it’s more of self respect . Will he be ok to be with a women who still believes he is cheating on her . Will he ok to propose to someone with that thinking .

No one will help her, except Virat , because sai will not try to even think of it until and unless virat puts pakhi in her place in front of sai, She will think of it as her aadat of living with him that she is attached to him , but for her love realisation virat has to put pakhi on her place. Because no matter how many times virat deny the fact that he does not love pakhi, pakhi's behaviour forces sai to think otherwise and in this both sairat are at fault, Sai not thinks it's pakhi who has always been behind virat not virat is behind pakhi , and for virat he is not able to understand why pakhi interference is causing problem to sai.

Virat has left hopes to propose her , it is on sai to do all. And i dont think Sai thinks virat cheats her because for her he is in love with pakhi, and she is just her responsibility.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Virat had a huge issue seeing a male friend in her room ...sitting on the bed....

Virat disliked even the mention of male friends

..be it aniket or ajinkey...

It's not the first time...makers have shown such regressive mentality....


If sai sees virat with another random female colleague or friend...and accuse of infidelity..yes it's narrow mindedness...

in Pakhi’s case it's not narrow mindedness...it's lack of trust..lack of communication..lack of everything in a marriage...

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Originally posted by: Akash3Rai

No one will help her, except Virat , because sai will not try to even think of it until and unless virat puts pakhi in her place in front of sai, She will think of it as her aadat of living with him that she is attached to him , but for her love realisation virat has to put pakhi on her place. Because no matter how many times virat deny the fact that he does not love pakhi, pakhi's behaviour forces sai to think otherwise and in this both sairat are at fault, Sai not thinks it's pakhi who has always been behind virat not virat is behind pakhi , and for virat he is not able to understand why pakhi interference is causing problem to sai.

Virat has left hopes to propose her , it is on sai to do all. And i dont think Sai thinks virat cheats her because for her he is in love with pakhi, and she is just her responsibility.

Today’s last scene was so symbolic. Sai looking at Pakhi staring at Virat and Virat’s attention only on Sai . This actually summarizes the entire misunderstanding and issue between Sairat . Sai sees Virakhi relationship from Pakhi’s POV only and her attention is only on Pakhi . If Pakhi says or does things which makes Sai feel that she hasn’t moved on then she believes it’s the same for Virat as well . Like last scene she is not paying attention to the fact that Virat’s attention is only on her . Even Virat is just focusing on Sai without realizing that Sai focus is on Pakhi and her presence might effect Sai . I do agree with Virat to certain extent that he has cleared that Pakhi doesn’t mean anything to her . He did while clearing Vaada , when she brought up while they were discussing his mission , on anniversary trip etc . I guess she is looking for certain words from him
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Athiraachu

Virat had a huge issue seeing a male friend in her room ...sitting on the bed....

Virat disliked even the mention of male friends

..be it aniket or ajinkey...

It's not the first time...makers have shown such regressive mentality....


If sai sees virat with another random female colleague or friend...and accuse of infidelity..yes it's narrow mindedness...

in Pakhi’s case it's not narrow mindedness...it's lack of trust..lack of communication..lack of everything in a marriage...

When Virat had suspected Sai he was made to realize that he was wrong and he apologized for it . Sai didn’t go back to him without apology . His actions are shown as wrong but in this case it’s not .


Does having past give spouse the free pass to pass such judgments ? So suspecting with friends, colleagues is not acceptable but with ex it’s just miscommunication.

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