Both are egoistic… separation very much needed - Page 4

Originally posted by: msin

we are not letting you go .. that’s the problem

That is very sweet of you to say ❤️.

I won’t deny that the forum and people are the reason I am still watching the show. I think it is true for many. I feel that we have all got to analyse so much and discuss so much because it is Ghum. The story and the characters have always been like a puzzle. It was quite interesting up to some point but they are just dragging it now for the sake of it. Hope they have planned for something interesting at least after confession. Many who wanted to stay back at least till confession are also finding it difficult to tolerate the drag fest now. Let’s wait to see what is in store for us.

Originally posted by: laksh

That is very sweet of you to say ❤️.

I won’t deny that the forum and people are the reason I am still watching the show. I think it is true for many. I feel that we have all got to analyse so much and discuss so much because it is Ghum. The story and the characters have always been like a puzzle. It was quite interesting up to some point but they are just dragging it now for the sake of it. Hope they have planned for something interesting at least after confession. Many who wanted to stay back at least till confession are also finding it difficult to tolerate the drag fest now. Let’s wait to see what is in store for us.

I get you dear .., after confession.. maybe baby I will leave the show ..there are many angles they can explore .. I am not sure they will bring baby track so soon ..

Originally posted by: msin

I get you dear .., after confession.. maybe baby I will leave the show ..there are many angles they can explore .. I am not sure they will bring baby track so soon ..

I doubt if they will bring the baby track this soon but you never know. Please stay in touch even if you quit the Ghum forum.

About dragging the story..

Frankly speaking I can’t understand why they can’t show Reunion of Jiva Shiva on Krishnashtami. It is a part of their story itself when Virat was saved by Samrat in childhood. Now by showing how Virat saved Samrat the much needed warmth was brought upon between the two. I feel it is essential to show this part.

All other shows are having Krishnashtami track. They also are showing problems between leads as per my little knowledge gained through my mother watching most of the shows.

Now definitely they will push the Sairat story ahead since almost Samrat track got a closure.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

About dragging the story..

Frankly speaking I can’t understand why they can’t show Reunion of Jiva Shiva on Krishnashtami. It is a part of their story itself when Virat was saved by Samrat in childhood. Now by showing how Virat saved Samrat the much needed warmth was brought upon between the two. I feel it is essential to show this part.

All other shows are having Krishnashtami track. They also are showing problems between leads as per my little knowledge gained through my mother watching most of the shows.

Now definitely they will push the Sairat story ahead since almost Samrat track got a closure.

I totally agree to this .. it was a good entry to introduce … samrat … get his issues out … then get it sorted in the dahi handi track ..

This janmashtami Dahi handi has been mentioned in the first week only .. … Neil had spoken about it in the interview… that virat owes his life .. or rather able limbs to samrat .. today he’s an IPS because his bones were not broken… so that was the main reason he sacrificed his love for pakhi .. he always felt a sense of gratitude for this

today they brought back right in time was very masterful of them 👏👏..even Ganpati can be celebrated now that samrat is back .. last year sai lost her dad .. and samrat was missing .. so if she was not celebrating ..

I enjoyed it .. that virat totally ignored her and pakhi during dance .. though Sai did not acknowledge this .. she was busy dancing ..with Kaku 😜

Originally posted by: msin

At this point of the story … audience is getting frustrated… why are the leads being so pig headed … why can’t they get it ..

the problem for Sai is .. virat has said things very effectively.. in the beginning.. and had also reinforced it in the presence of pakhi .. in the initial month of their month .. after that things did change .. but the clarity from virat is not there .. it does come across to Sai that he wants to nibhao the shadi as status quo .. some thing which he has told pakhi to do ..

I hope Sai had worded it clearly to Sunny .. who will tell virat .. virat has obviously heard the tail end of the conversation… even if he had heard the full thing .. it would not have made any difference..

Virat is right now .. only thinking from below his belt .. it has to be his way or no way … he has decided that Sai will be his wife in full or he will go away from her life .. this aadha adhoora friendship deal wali Shadi .. he doesn’t want to get into ..

He’s also right .. it’s been one year .. and he’s getting frustrated with no action

so it’s better they stay away from each other .. once they are away .. then only they decide whether they can live apart … see virat will never get this .. that Sai has a problem with pakhi… he’s an idiot that ways .. Sunny has told him but he will not get it at all .. see he does not even get it that pakhi has a problem with Sai .. there’s something wrong in his emotional quotient ..

When Sai finally gets to sleep with him .. after that she will have to tell him every morning.. I have a problem with pakhi didi. You don’t talk with her.. then he will start saying ok ..

Why is he behaving aloofly with pakhi these days .. because samrat came back after a year and told him clearly without any jalebis .. you cheated me .. you had a past with pakhi …virat wanted to give jalebis type excuses .. but Sammy was having none of it ..

He would have hidden the cafe conversation too but since Shivani Bua heard it from Sai .. he had to tell samrat .. and give him his truth .. that he only considers pakhi a friend nothing else ..

Today this bro mance happened by chance both of them actually were doing nothing to earn it ..

maybe the family members ka prayers ..

Sai has understood pakhi didi ka hidden agenda .. maybe virat does too ( high hopes )

Sai has to decide whether she loves this pigheaded man .. if she does .. then she will have to tell him every morning what she expects … and he will do accordingly..a little bit of separation is necessary for Sai to get this message .. the problem is not that virat can’t do it .. there are some people who are not wired that way to take decisive actions in personal front .. Sai will have to take charge in the relationship.. she will enjoy it .. she can think for both in these home front .. one year of Cniwasis has made her a pro .. who can take on Kaku very well ..

I don’t know 🤷‍♀️ if I am making sense 😂😂

I totally agree with you on most of it. Frustrated!! Yes. They both such blockheads, such dense brain, stubborn to the core. What pleasure in hurting each other and in turn getting hurting themselves. Initially this whole indifference and Sai confused and trying to get his attention was all good. But now this is just being stretched like a chewing gum. Same thing thing going round n round. Mature is not mature enuf to clear of his own mess and problem solver is incapable for solving her own problem!

Their relationship has evolved and so have they, but while they expect the other to see and understand this, they are unwilling to do it themselves.
@ bold - You had me crack up on that one 🤣🤣 . This guy is selectively mature.

I dont think his aloofness is only because of the revelation or Samrat’s presence. He had already started to maintain his distance from her, before Samrat came back. Even if Samrat had not returned, the cafe discussion would have only triggered the same avoidance from him. But its the timing of this that is problem, because now Sai is linking it to Samrat. Or else she possibly may have seen it.
Yes Virat didn’t plan on telling the family about the cafe meeting, and he decided to reveal it only after he heard Sai and Shivani talk about it. But it was the fear of Sai revealing it only, it was what she said. He realised the consequences and complications if Samrat came to know about it from anyone else. And for once he was tired and wanted to clear the air, causing the tension in the family.

Virat is a softy and calmer one and Sai is the bold one here. Poles apart!! So yes, she will be the flag bearer. She will always have to take the lead in this relationship to make it sail smoothly.

Originally posted by: sherry_24

I totally agree with you on most of it. Frustrated!! Yes. They both such blockheads, such dense brain, stubborn to the core. What pleasure in hurting each other and in turn getting hurting themselves. Initially this whole indifference and Sai confused and trying to get his attention was all good. But now this is just being stretched like a chewing gum. Same thing thing going round n round. Mature is not mature enuf to clear of his own mess and problem solver is incapable for solving her own problem!

Their relationship has evolved and so have they, but while they expect the other to see and understand this, they are unwilling to do it themselves.
@ bold - You had me crack up on that one 🤣🤣 . This guy is selectively mature.

I dont think his aloofness is only because of the revelation or Samrat’s presence. He had already started to maintain his distance from her, before Samrat came back. Even if Samrat had not returned, the cafe discussion would have only triggered the same avoidance from him. But its the timing of this that is problem, because now Sai is linking it to Samrat. Or else she possibly may have seen it.
Yes Virat didn’t plan on telling the family about the cafe meeting, and he decided to reveal it only after he heard Sai and Shivani talk about it. But it was the fear of Sai revealing it only, it was what she said. He realised the consequences and complications if Samrat came to know about it from anyone else. And for once he was tired and wanted to clear the air, causing the tension in the family.

Virat is a softy and calmer one and Sai is the bold one here. Poles apart!! So yes, she will be the flag bearer. She will always have to take the lead in this relationship to make it sail smoothly.

Yes they are blockheads… but right now the good part is virat is not budging … he is maintaining his cold stance towards Sai … that’s some development..

Because they used to fight dirty and then make up and be friends… so Sai had no issues hitting very low … but now she’s being careful .. she knows he is just polite with her .. and Is not doing anything more ..

You are right! They need to separate physically. Virat already knows its painful, but Sai needs to realise it. And by staying together, they will only worsen the situation by hurting each other and without realising things. They need to be away from each other to feel the absence and vacuum that will enable them to think kore clearly. It is essential that they dont have each other looming over their head or reaching out for their throats to think more clearly.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

I think he will move as per KD. I am waiting for the day.

He goes for a week or sort of. His birthday track is also when he is away. The only point is when will makers show all this.