Both are egoistic… separation very much needed - Page 3

Originally posted by: msin

chatting with you all I feel the issue is not I love you for Sai … she’s getting cold feet to become fully intimate with virat … she’s not there yet … for her it is a not simple I love you to a boyfriend or fiancée .. the day she says I love you .. virat will jump on her… they are already sharing a bed .. and virat has hinted he does not want the pillow between them ..

so she’s keeping herself Shaant saying I don’t love virat .. virat loves pakhi didi .. and telling others ..

virat is getting frustrated also because of this … if both of them were in school .. they would have happily exchanged love notes and chatting on phone

@bold - I actually disagree with this, in the moments of intimacy we have seen between them (the almost kisses that have happened...), Sai has never shied away, or freaked out, it has always been an outside interruption that disrupts the moment. And yes, while Virat has said that he does not want the pillow between them and that he would like them to have a real husband-wife relationship, I don't believe Virat will ever cross the line with Sai or move ahead without her being completely comfortable with it. Just my thought.

Originally posted by: msin

chatting with you all I feel the issue is not I love you for Sai … she’s getting cold feet to become fully intimate with virat … she’s not there yet … for her it is a not simple I love you to a boyfriend or fiancée .. the day she says I love you .. virat will jump on her… they are already sharing a bed .. and virat has hinted he does not want the pillow between them ..

so she’s keeping herself Shaant saying I don’t love virat .. virat loves pakhi didi .. and telling others ..

virat is getting frustrated also because of this … if both of them were in school .. they would have happily exchanged love notes and chatting on phone

I always think that Neilsha know Sairat better.

Originally posted by: ThruMyEyez-Nita

@bold - I actually disagree with this, in the moments of intimacy we have seen between them (the almost kisses that have happened...), Sai has never shied away, or freaked out, it has always been an outside interruption that disrupts the moment. And yes, while Virat has said that he does not want the pillow between them and that he would like them to have a real husband-wife relationship, I don't believe Virat will ever cross the line with Sai or move ahead without her being completely comfortable with it. Just my thought.

He will not the cross the line … if Sai is not in love with him .. but the day she says yes .. he will start seducing her .. the intimacy will increase ..

Kissing or giving a peck to boy friend or even anybody else is way different … from sharing a room with your partner ..

She’s 19 .. ofcourse she wants to kiss her partner … but her mind knows .. the day she says yes .. the expectation will be a lot more .. something in her is holding her back .. she’s only 19 … of course virat won’t force her .. but he may hug her more intimately .. the intimacy will increase rapidly .. and it won’t take much time to go the full way .. so this maybe holding her back some nerves …

Pigheaded people😆 everyone is frustrated after every episode and it's not gonna get better anytime soon according to KD experts.

Seriously both are stuck in their heads and not willing to see the reality in front of them. Virat doesn't wanna see how much Sai cares for him. Even today she was cheering for him and so so happy that he reconciled with Samrat. But the guy is self absorbed in his heart break that he doesn't wanna see all that and get the hint. Similarly Sai doesn't wanna see that Virat's priorities have changed. She doesn't give herself permission to even consider having feelings for the man who's just bearing her responsibilities just coz of the promise he made to her father in his dying moment. So even if Virat himself says that he loves her (which isn't happening either) she probably won't believe. Don't know what will. I'm utterly clueless of how long this misunderstanding is gonna last, definitely not for another 50-100 episodes.

They need a separation indeed. Only that can bring clarity. Let's wait and watch whats in store for SaiRat.

Why would Virat consider cheering for him as love when Sai clearly told Shivani she is not in love with him?How could this be his fault! Did Sai anytime hear Virat say I don’t love Sai? Virat heard that hard truth from Sai herself. Why shouldn’t he believe that and move away?

Virat has enough reason to take the transfer and leave. I hope he leaves faster.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Why would Virat consider cheering for him as love when Sai clearly told Shivani she is not in love with him?How could this be his fault! Did Sai anytime hear Virat say I don’t love Sai? Virat heard that hard truth from Sai herself. Why shouldn’t he believe that and move away?

Virat has enough reason to take the transfer and leave. I hope he leaves faster.

I didn't mean it like he should believe she loves him despite her constant denial. I simply meant that he doesn't see that he means a lot to her.

Virat's main reason for his pain is, not that she doesn't love him. Its the fact that he doesn't mean anything more than a deal husband to her and their marriage literally nothing. It has hurt his emotions beyond comprehension since the anniversary fiasco.

And engulfed in that hurt, he's not seeing how much she cares for him, when she cheered for him, it's only because he's special to her. He's the only family she's got. Its understandable that her refusal of feelings will only make his decision stronger to leave. But will he be really happy after moving away? His heart is only gonna ache and yearn more.

And he assumes that she will be happy without him, which is wrong. Sai isn't gonna be happy, either.

Its obvious that at this stage of their relationship this transfer is necessary and they need this separation. Only then the story will be able to move forward. So I hope the transfer happens soon as well.

In the precap, Sai asks Virat to punish her if he thinks she did wrong by stopping his transfer and Virat looked livid as well.

What will happen according to KD? Is this the Virat locking Sai in the room episode?

So agree with u! The make or break handle is with Sai.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Why would Virat consider cheering for him as love when Sai clearly told Shivani she is not in love with him?How could this be his fault! Did Sai anytime hear Virat say I don’t love Sai? Virat heard that hard truth from Sai herself. Why shouldn’t he believe that and move away?

Virat has enough reason to take the transfer and leave. I hope he leaves faster.

Very true. I hope he leaves faster. Either they sit like mature adults and talk it out CLEARLY without preconceived notions or just take a break. Virat should insist on transfer and leave. Take a short assignment if need be.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Very true. I hope he leaves faster. Either they sit like mature adults and talk it out CLEARLY without preconceived notions or just take a break. Virat should insist on transfer and leave. Take a short assignment if need be.