Both are egoistic… separation very much needed - Page 2

They just need to take a break from.each other. Both deserve mental peace.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

They just need to take a break from.each other. Both deserve mental peace.

yeah just like samrat could break away from CNiwas and come back sorted .. they also need a break from Ghum ganja ..

I honestly didn't get what exactly Sai wants to hear from Virat to make her realize his feelings for her. Because when ever he tried to confess, either she belittle him or says she doesn't like such jokes. Now I really didn't get what exactly he can do or say to make her realize his feelings. As you said, may be her ego is not allowing her to accept the truth.

Makers are busy with their dragfest and viewers are busy in justifying their favourite characters mindless behavior.

Just like Virat gave up on Sai, I too gave up on finding logic in the daily episodes. Just watch and enjoy till we can tolerate is the only mantra. ❤️

I think Virat moving away from Sai is a good decision. He should leave . As long as he is around,Sai won’t even try to analyse exactly what makes her feel good in his presence,why he makes so much difference to her .. she just won’t let herself find out the nature of her attraction for him.

I think Virat’s confession would not help even. Sai won’t believe him. Instead she will think since Pakhi is trying to move on, Virat also is compromising though not in love with her.

None of the family members nor would Sunny could make her believe in Virat’s love for. She would feel since they are Virat’s people they are endorsing their marriage.

I understand why Virat said in his monologue he could not give her time. It is becoming difficult for him to stay uneffected in her presence after falling completely in love with her.He is not a saint. He is a matured young man who would like to have not a deal marriage kind of routine but a genuine husband wife relationship with her. So he preferred to move away... he is right in his place.

Sai needs space to introspect and Virat is providing her the same. It should be Sai Joshi now who has to touch her heart strings and realise that she is truly in love with her Virat Sir, I think author did the right thing by making her confess..

Originally posted by: msin

So sweet …there’s no right or wrong …in falling in love .. frankly the day their hormones give up in frustration.. they will confess abd do it ..

Virat is at the end of his tether … Sai ka bhi start hoga .. the moment virat leaves

@bold

honestly, I think at least 80% of Virat's frustration is hormonal 🤣🤣 he is so sexually frustrated and I don't blame him at all for it. He was shown to be a guy who has had a zest for all "good things" in the beginning. Now 1 year of marriage and he is still not able to get a decent hug, let alone a kiss without disturbance; be it didi at the door or Sai's phone! Saniyaas lena padh gaya isko. Itni beautiful biwi mili hai par uski "deal jaap" kei wajah se banda use dhang se ab taadh bhi nahi paa raha hai. Matlab bechara frustrate nahi hoga toh aur kya hoga? 🤣🤣

As for Sai. she is a super late bloomer. Matlab she has made the fact that girls mature early a myth 🤣🤣 By 19, at least har koi itna toh samajh he jaata hai jab koi use approach kare (like Virat does) to intention kya hota hai. yeh bachi, bachi hi rahe gayi aur Chavan niwaasis expect this bachi to have her own set of bachi/bacha 🤣🤣

Another big issue with the two of them is that they never actually listen to the other person...

While yes.. Virat hasn't actually confessed his feelings to Sai explicitly, he has many times told her in "jalebi" ways that he is starting to have feelings for her, that his past no longer matters, etc... but Sai was either not in the right space of mind to listen to it or it was ignored.

And Virat on the other hand, does not seem to get it in his big IPS head, that Sai's problem is his previous/current equation with Pakhi and how her life still seems to revolve around him. Sai herself has no clarity towards what Virat's relationship with Pakhi really is because he has never made it clear in front of her and she has said so many times....

But it seems like everytime one of them opens their mouth, the other turns deaf...so we as the audience are stuck in repeating loop that is starting to get on our nerves.

Originally posted by: Dee10

@bold

honestly, I think at least 80% of Virat's frustration is hormonal 🤣🤣 he is so sexually frustrated and I don't blame him at all for it. He was shown to be a guy who has had a zest for all "good things" in the beginning. Now 1 year of marriage and he is still not able to get a decent hug, let alone a kiss without disturbance; be it didi at the door or Sai's phone! Saniyaas lena padh gaya isko. Itni beautiful biwi mili hai par uski "deal jaap" kei wajah se banda use dhang se ab taadh bhi nahi paa raha hai. Matlab bechara frustrate nahi hoga toh aur kya hoga? 🤣🤣

As for Sai. she is a super late bloomer. Matlab she has made the fact that girls mature early a myth 🤣🤣 By 19, at least har koi itna toh samajh he jaata hai jab koi use approach kare (like Virat does) to intention kya hota hai. yeh bachi, bachi hi rahe gayi aur Chavan niwaasis expect this bachi to have her own set of bachi/bacha 🤣🤣

That’s why ashwini is not wrong when she says Sai is bacchi give her time .. the issue between them is not saying I love you … they are not boyfriend girlfriend… the day Sai confesses .. they will have the green signal to do it as they are married .. ..

That I guess is the thing holding back Sai .. some girl instinct .. virat began with good intentions.. of having a platonic marriage… but he wants a complete marriage .. and in many ways he’s hinting to Sai especially from her birthday celebrations,

I very much agree that a separation is very much needed at this point. Sai does not trust Virat and even if he said things clearly that past is past and he wants real marriage with her and he loves her also, she will go into jalebi mode of deal wali shaadi. So they should separate now. She should realise what Virat means to her. She will realise only when she will no longer has it.

Virat we know now that he totally lacks confidence and will never confess his feelings to Sai.

So as you rightly said @msin, if Sai really loves him she should take charge or let go. Otherwise this show is going round and round like a merry-go-round!!

Originally posted by: ThruMyEyez-Nita

Another big issue with the two of them is that they never actually listen to the other person...

While yes.. Virat hasn't actually confessed his feelings to Sai explicitly, he has many times told her in "jalebi" ways that he is starting to have feelings for her, that his past no longer matters, etc... but Sai was either not in the right space of mind to listen to it or it was ignored.

And Virat on the other hand, does not seem to get it in his big IPS head, that Sai's problem is his previous/current equation with Pakhi and how her life still seems to revolve around him. Sai herself has no clarity towards what Virat's relationship with Pakhi really is because he has never made it clear in front of her and she has said so many times....

But it seems like everytime one of them opens their mouth, the other turns deaf...so we as the audience are stuck in repeating loop that is starting to get on our nerves.

chatting with you all I feel the issue is not I love you for Sai … she’s getting cold feet to become fully intimate with virat … she’s not there yet … for her it is a not simple I love you to a boyfriend or fiancée .. the day she says I love you .. virat will jump on her… they are already sharing a bed .. and virat has hinted he does not want the pillow between them ..

so she’s keeping herself Shaant saying I don’t love virat .. virat loves pakhi didi .. and telling others ..

virat is getting frustrated also because of this … if both of them were in school .. they would have happily exchanged love notes and chatting on phone

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

I think Virat moving away from Sai is a good decision. He should leave . As long as he is around,Sai won’t even try to analyse exactly what makes her feel good in his presence,why he makes so much difference to her .. she just won’t let herself find out the nature of her attraction for him.

I think Virat’s confession would not help even. Sai won’t believe him. Instead she will think since Pakhi is trying to move on, Virat also is compromising though not in love with her.

None of the family members nor would Sunny could make her believe in Virat’s love for. She would feel since they are Virat’s people they are endorsing their marriage.

I understand why Virat said in his monologue he could not give her time. It is becoming difficult for him to stay uneffected in her presence after falling completely in love with her.He is not a saint. He is a matured young man who would like to have not a deal marriage kind of routine but a genuine husband wife relationship with her. So he preferred to move away... he is right in his place.

Sai needs space to introspect and Virat is providing her the same. It should be Sai Joshi now who has to touch her heart strings and realise that she is truly in love with her Virat Sir, I think author did the right thing by making her confess..

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