Both are egoistic… separation very much needed

At this point of the story … audience is getting frustrated… why are the leads being so pig headed … why can’t they get it ..

the problem for Sai is .. virat has said things very effectively.. in the beginning.. and had also reinforced it in the presence of pakhi .. in the initial month of their month .. after that things did change .. but the clarity from virat is not there .. it does come across to Sai that he wants to nibhao the shadi as status quo .. some thing which he has told pakhi to do ..

I hope Sai had worded it clearly to Sunny .. who will tell virat .. virat has obviously heard the tail end of the conversation… even if he had heard the full thing .. it would not have made any difference..

Virat is right now .. only thinking from below his belt .. it has to be his way or no way … he has decided that Sai will be his wife in full or he will go away from her life .. this aadha adhoora friendship deal wali Shadi .. he doesn’t want to get into ..

He’s also right .. it’s been one year .. and he’s getting frustrated with no action

so it’s better they stay away from each other .. once they are away .. then only they decide whether they can live apart … see virat will never get this .. that Sai has a problem with pakhi… he’s an idiot that ways .. Sunny has told him but he will not get it at all .. see he does not even get it that pakhi has a problem with Sai .. there’s something wrong in his emotional quotient ..

When Sai finally gets to sleep with him .. after that she will have to tell him every morning.. I have a problem with pakhi didi. You don’t talk with her.. then he will start saying ok ..

Why is he behaving aloofly with pakhi these days .. because samrat came back after a year and told him clearly without any jalebis .. you cheated me .. you had a past with pakhi …virat wanted to give jalebis type excuses .. but Sammy was having none of it ..

He would have hidden the cafe conversation too but since Shivani Bua heard it from Sai .. he had to tell samrat .. and give him his truth .. that he only considers pakhi a friend nothing else ..

Today this bro mance happened by chance both of them actually were doing nothing to earn it ..

maybe the family members ka prayers ..

Sai has understood pakhi didi ka hidden agenda .. maybe virat does too ( high hopes )

Sai has to decide whether she loves this pigheaded man .. if she does .. then she will have to tell him every morning what she expects … and he will do accordingly..a little bit of separation is necessary for Sai to get this message .. the problem is not that virat can’t do it .. there are some people who are not wired that way to take decisive actions in personal front .. Sai will have to take charge in the relationship.. she will enjoy it .. she can think for both in these home front .. one year of Cniwasis has made her a pro .. who can take on Kaku very well ..

I don’t know 🤷‍♀️ if I am making sense 😂😂

There is no point in analyzing anymore . It’s going in circles with no progression from either side . Though I feel both are stubborn and not ready to talk it out. I can understand why they are is behaving so .

As per Virat , he has cleared the Vaada , confessed his liking for her , he has asked for real marriage, Pakhi is no longer in their lives as she has moved on ( only we know the truth ) and he has moved on ( he doesn’t realize his ex might not have ) yet Sai disrespected their relationship by calling it as fake and accusing him of two timing . He feels she doesn’t desire him and the feelings ate strong . He is lacking self esteem and believes he is no good for her . Everytime he gets to hear Sai say she doesn’t love him he makes up his mind to go away as he has given up . He needs a small indication from her to open up without which he won’t confess

Sai just like her husband has made up her mind that Virat can never move on based on what he said before marriage . She is not ready to listen to anyone and I believe even if Virat himself confess she might not believe him . I remember there was a discussion where it was mentioned that Sai doesn’t have anyone to explain her and help her figure out things . I had said back then that even if she has someone she won’t believe anyone and that’s what happened today . She overlooked Sunny and Shivani’s words . I feel unless she herself realizes that Virat has moved on she won’t believe anyone including Virat . She needs to sit and analyze his actions only then she will realize . I agree with you separation is needed for both .

From what I remember, Virat never spoke to Pakhi properly after Sai’s birthday incident . I am not sure if I forgot any scene in between where he was normal with her . With Samrat in picture , he wants to extra careful to avoid any drama in the family .

That’s why I say pigheaded .. anybody saying anything will not help .. they have to take a call .. whether they want to live with each other or not ..

At this moment both are equally right or wrong 😑

I really enjoy reading your posts even though I rarely comment on them. You always try to balance both sides of SaiRat with their good points as well as their shortcomings. Your today's post drips with frustration and funnily enough, I could completely understand where all this is coming from! It is indeed getting tiring and the initial magic that SaiRat created has also started fading away. So... yeah you are not the only one who has peaked in their frustrations regarding SaiRats progress! These two dodo heads need a wake up call not by others but by themselves and each other. Also a dong on their heads too🤣🤣

I wish I could separate from the show 🤣

Even that’s not happening 🤣

Is pakhi the problem or virat not confessing love to sai is a problem or sai not being able the trust virat is the problem or sai can't see his love is the problem?

Coz she never mentioned explicitly that pakhi is the problem. She says virat takes care of her bec he promised ,she is zimmedari. Today shivani and sunny told her point blank that in 1 yr everything has changed and pakhi and vaadas r the past. Yet she doesnt believe them. Same thing virar tried to tell her , and he said it to samrat in front of family, yet she is stuck there..aaj toh shivani ne seedha bol diya ke virat loves you. Tomorrow if virat says this, will sai believe him?

Virat has given up on her and he really needs a break. I said this yest..a leap of 1 yr or 6.months would be good here..

Originally posted by: Dee10

I really enjoy reading your posts even though I rarely comment on them. You always try to balance both sides of SaiRat with their good points as well as their shortcomings. Your today's post drips with frustration and funnily enough, I could completely understand where all this is coming from! It is indeed getting tiring and the initial magic that SaiRat created has also started fading away. So... yeah you are not the only one who has peaked in their frustrations regarding SaiRats progress! These two dodo heads need a wake up call not by others but by themselves and each other. Also a dong on their heads too🤣🤣

So sweet …there’s no right or wrong …in falling in love .. frankly the day their hormones give up in frustration.. they will confess abd do it ..

Virat is at the end of his tether … Sai ka bhi start hoga .. the moment virat leaves

Originally posted by: _charu_

Is pakhi the problem or virat not confessing love to sai is a problem or sai not being able the trust virat is the problem or sai can't see his love is the problem?

Coz she never mentioned explicitly that pakhi is the problem. She says virat takes care of her bec he promised ,she is zimmedari. Today shivani and sunny told her point blank that in 1 yr everything has changed and pakhi and vaadas r the past. Yet she doesnt believe them. Same thing virar tried to tell her , and he said it to samrat in front of family, yet she is stuck there..aaj toh shivani ne seedha bol diya ke virat loves you. Tomorrow if virat says this, will sai believe him?

Virat has given up on her and he really needs a break. I said this yest..a leap of 1 yr or 6.months would be good here..

Sai ka ego is the problem… virat chose pakhi first that’s the problem ..

Originally posted by: laksh

I wish I could separate from the show 🤣

Even that’s not happening 🤣

we are not letting you go .. that’s the problem