And the heartbreak, angst continue - Page 5

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Yaha main kiss ka mazak uda rahi hun..or tum dono mujhe majboor kar rahe ho dekhne k liye !!

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Honestly I found that kiss cute. That showed sai innocence. After lying on bed virat almost melted. When she asked him to sleep he said okay as obedient kid in a normal tone like how he usually talks with sai. So it made sai so happy, that for a moment he forget his anger & obliged to her talks. Out of happiness she kissed him & she is not even shy🤣. Because that kiss was platonic & her intentions behind it is to say 'thank u' for obeying her despite being angry 😂.

Kiss could be cute and platonic , if it was to be so short, why fake the kiss then..Cant they have normal real one..instead of faking it..

EVen it was real I dont relate with Sai suddenly kissing VIrat after being so angry on him for playing with emotions of two women...

Tbh, virat calling her by full name only to go back to calling her by the short version n then going on this coffee date is exactly the reason that Sai/Samrat dont think he has truly moved on or hold a grouse against him. Because its like he "forgets"that he is suppposed to maintain not only a physical but an emotional distance with pp. If he cant even show consistency in how he addresses the woman, then kya ummeed rakhe. Either he should never have called her pattharlekha because "whats in a name" and only called her pp because thats the name he has always used. It wasnt a pet name he gave her, it was the name she introduced herself as.... But if he has in a sense acknowledged that calling her pp makes his relationship with her informal and he made a conscious switch to pattharlekha then he should have continued to maintain that forever! Calling her pattharlekha twice only to go back to pp is exactly the attitude Sai/Samrat will not appreciate. lack of consistency, dishonest and kinda insensitive it comes across as. Its like telling Samrat- I'll call her pattharlekha for formality sake for you even though she will always be "pakhi" to me! 🙄😡

i feel like Sai probably deep down inside may even feel that if he could break one vaada to pp, maybe tomm he will break the promise made to her aabaa too. Its just a vaada.

Sai can trust him to save her life but cannot trust him with her heart.

Virat thought his feelings for pp were pure, earnest but he decided to bury his feelings for pp n now he supposedly has moved on. Now hes doing the same with Sai.l too. What's to say that Sai's position is different in his life than pp was. Has he ever considered that himself? Is Sai just a replacement. Ki ek insaan seh pyaar nahi mila toh dusra sahi....n now if she is not on the same page he will just get up n leave. He is doing the same thing that he did in pp's case here too. Infact atleast with pp he acknowledged feelings to pp and then buried it. But he told pp he'd always be there for her as "a friend" . But here he wont tell Sai because he is too hurt by her raising uncomfortable questions. And he is abandoning her in a sense. he hasnt sorted out Sai's alternate living arrangements yet. Does he really expect her to live in CN even when he isnt around. Is that fair to Sai....atleast as "guardian" doesnt he feel obliged to ensure she can get hostel/PG accommodation elsewhere....

And today He couldnt acknowledge his feelings for Sai to Samrat either but he still wants forgiveness. Samrat ran away and virat knows how that felt and now he wants to run away too.

These are the things people on the outside see. Virat needs to see it too.

I wish he would look at this problem objectively at some point atleast. He is a smart guy , a perceptive guy- why do they show him never use his head. When will he ask & answer the important questions. If he does not then the issues will never be resolved....

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Kiss could be cute and platonic , if it was to be so short, why fake the kiss then..Cant they have normal real one..instead of faking it..

EVen it was real I dont relate with Sai suddenly kissing VIrat after being so angry on him for playing with emotions of two women...

@bold If that's the case then she shouldn't be taking care of him too instead of being angry on him. She saw virat cold behavior for the first time, couldn't handle his indifference but when virat talked with her normally she was overwhelmed. She felt happy thinking atleast for a moment he listened to me. So that's why the impulsive kiss. That's what I understood after seeing the scene. And it was soo platonic. That is the reason she didn't felt awkward. I myself was against of the kiss after seeing precap but in episode it made sense to me.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Tbh, virat calling her by full name only to go back to calling her by the short version n then going on this coffee date is exactly the reason that Sai/Samrat dont think he has truly moved on or hold a grouse against him. Because its like he "forgets"that he is suppposed to maintain not only a physical but an emotional distance with pp. If he cant even show consistency in how he addresses the woman, then kya ummeed rakhe. Either he should never have called her pattharlekha because "whats in a name" and only called her pp because thats the name he has always used. It wasnt a pet name he gave her, it was the name she introduced herself as.... But if he has in a sense acknowledged that calling her pp makes his relationship with her informal and he made a conscious switch to pattharlekha then he should have continued to maintain that forever! Calling her pattharlekha twice only to go back to pp is exactly the attitude Sai/Samrat will not appreciate. lack of consistency, dishonest and kinda insensitive it comes across as. Its like telling Samrat- I'll call her pattharlekha for formality sake for you even though she will always be "pakhi" to me! 🙄😡

i feel like Sai probably deep down inside may even feel that if he could break one vaada to pp, maybe tomm he will break the promise made to her aabaa too. Its just a vaada.

Sai can trust him to save her life but cannot trust him with her heart.

Virat thought his feelings for pp were pure, earnest but he decided to bury his feelings for pp n now he supposedly has moved on. Now hes doing the same with Sai.l too. What's to say that Sai's position is different in his life than pp was. Has he ever considered that himself? Is Sai just a replacement. Ki ek insaan seh pyaar nahi mila toh dusra sahi....n now if she is not on the same page he will just get up n leave. He is doing the same thing that he did in pp's case here too. Infact atleast with pp he acknowledged feelings to pp and then buried it. But he told pp he'd always be there for her as "a friend" . But here he wont tell Sai because he is too hurt by her raising uncomfortable questions. And he is abandoning her in a sense. he hasnt sorted out Sai's alternate living arrangements yet. Does he really expect her to live in CN even when he isnt around. Is that fair to Sai....atleast as "guardian" doesnt he feel obliged to ensure she can get hostel/PG accommodation elsewhere....

And today He couldnt acknowledge his feelings for Sai to Samrat either but he still wants forgiveness. Samrat ran away and virat knows how that felt and now he wants to run away too.

These are the things people on the outside see. Virat needs to see it too.

I wish he would look at this problem objectively at some point atleast. He is a smart guy , a perceptive guy- why do they show him never use his head. When will he ask & answer the important questions. If he does not then the issues will never be resolved....

Exactly.. Well said.. Virat I feel is very inconsiderate towards anything and especially when he is consumed by his own feelings....his own hurts....The writers have shown him that way so many times.. He needs to get out that!! Especially when we know he is such a good man at heart!!

The kiss isnt the problem. The way it is executed is blah! Completely ramdom.

Either it should have been done better or scrapped. This was a lollipop. KD mein tha, toh here also we will give.

Originally posted by: Nja91

The kiss isnt the problem. The way it is executed is blah! Completely ramdom.

Either it should have been done better or scrapped. This was a lollipop. KD mein tha, toh here also we will give.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Loved your analysis so much. ❤️I felt pretty much the same way as you did and you have covered every little detail.

A truly good episode after a long time.

Agree 100% regarding Virat-Samrat conversation. I loved it too. And I love Samrat's intelligence, his ability to read people, his assertiveness and most importantly his straight talking. Samrat probably entered CN when he was 12 or 13. That has saved him from being a mess or lacking in intelligence..unlike the other sane Chavans. It has always been my grouse that nobody questions Virat on his friendship with Pakhi or put forth Sai's feelings regarding said friendship. So I'm rejoicing.

I was curious about one thing - how Virat refered to Pakhi as Patralekha when he was talking to Samrat. Where did this sudden lightbulb come from? So somwhere he knows that it is inappropriate? What prevented him from addressing her as such all these months - taking Sai's tolerance for granted? I agree he did not have any ill-intention, but he was very careless. He does slip into Pakhi again - aadat se majboor.

I will believe your prediction for my own sanity - that Virat will be triggered to introspect after this.

Also very telling was Virat's psychology during the conversation. Virat cannot bear rejection - a trait we see in his relationship with Sai too - and Samrat's coldness and anger is killing him. He was like a child begging to be forgiven. He did want to clear every MU between them and become buddies once again. This entire situation is too overwhelming for a man like Virat - he is simply feeling too helpless and therefore decided to shut himself off ..because he cannot bear it. Samrat explaining Sai's POV and advising him that running away from problems will not solve anything - he needs such gentle counsel. Unfortunately, the only person who can help him in his problems with Samrat is Sai and the only person who can help him with his situation with Sai is Samrat...and both of them are in a different emotional space. I do feel bad for him.

Thankfully, they are showing Sai to have an inkling that Virat's indifference may be related to the anniversary. But I felt so sad for her today. She is trying hard to remain stoic. Even before Virat entered the room, Sai was trying to be her usual chirpy self...as if forcibly trying to accept Virat's imminent departure from her life. Virat's indifference was breaking her inside...but she was controlling all her emotions...because her worry had overtaken her pain. To me, her self-deprecating dialogue seemed to be an earnest attempt at an apology...they are not speaking about it openly....this was her way if trying to accept her mistake. 😭. I didn't understand the purpose of her kiss though....what was she trying to convey?

Virat's mindset is becoming clearer - that his coldness is not ego but a defence mechanism to protect his heart. Two of his dialogues are evidence - him saying that he doesn't want to think what Sai feels for him and he wants to be left in peace - even at the cost of suppressing his feelings. And I also noticed that he registered Sai comparing him to her aaba. After the kiss...that yearning in his eyes.

Beautiful nethraa 💕💕. You should write more often, loved reading your thoughts 😛

Loved every one of Samrats dialogues and so true Virat is unable to face a no. But I am also glad he will have to work more harder on his relationship with Samrat. I always felt Sai forgave him too easily for all the mistakes and also didn't force him to clarify the deal and Vaada. I was so glad Samrat rightly pushed him about his vaada and deal. Someone had to do it

The Patralekha , Pakhi was so well written. Like you I always wondered too why no one calls him out or Pakhi since some of their scenes were quite inappropriate even for Devar bhabi and not to forget her constant declaration of love.

You described Sai's state so beautifully 💔. He even noticed how much she was effected by his indifference but then he is hurt too so both continue to hurt eachother

Thanks for tagging Pooja 🤗

Beautifully written for a beautiful episode 😍

Truth bombs😆, no one dared to question Virat so directly like Sammy boy did 🤣

Originally posted by: Nja91

Tbh, virat calling her by full name only to go back to calling her by the short version n then going on this coffee date is exactly the reason that Sai/Samrat dont think he has truly moved on or hold a grouse against him. Because its like he "forgets"that he is suppposed to maintain not only a physical but an emotional distance with pp. If he cant even show consistency in how he addresses the woman, then kya ummeed rakhe. Either he should never have called her pattharlekha because "whats in a name" and only called her pp because thats the name he has always used. It wasnt a pet name he gave her, it was the name she introduced herself as.... But if he has in a sense acknowledged that calling her pp makes his relationship with her informal and he made a conscious switch to pattharlekha then he should have continued to maintain that forever! Calling her pattharlekha twice only to go back to pp is exactly the attitude Sai/Samrat will not appreciate. lack of consistency, dishonest and kinda insensitive it comes across as. Its like telling Samrat- I'll call her pattharlekha for formality sake for you even though she will always be "pakhi" to me! 🙄😡

i feel like Sai probably deep down inside may even feel that if he could break one vaada to pp, maybe tomm he will break the promise made to her aabaa too. Its just a vaada.

Sai can trust him to save her life but cannot trust him with her heart.

Virat thought his feelings for pp were pure, earnest but he decided to bury his feelings for pp n now he supposedly has moved on. Now hes doing the same with Sai.l too. What's to say that Sai's position is different in his life than pp was. Has he ever considered that himself? Is Sai just a replacement. Ki ek insaan seh pyaar nahi mila toh dusra sahi....n now if she is not on the same page he will just get up n leave. He is doing the same thing that he did in pp's case here too. Infact atleast with pp he acknowledged feelings to pp and then buried it. But he told pp he'd always be there for her as "a friend" . But here he wont tell Sai because he is too hurt by her raising uncomfortable questions. And he is abandoning her in a sense. he hasnt sorted out Sai's alternate living arrangements yet. Does he really expect her to live in CN even when he isnt around. Is that fair to Sai....atleast as "guardian" doesnt he feel obliged to ensure she can get hostel/PG accommodation elsewhere....

And today He couldnt acknowledge his feelings for Sai to Samrat either but he still wants forgiveness. Samrat ran away and virat knows how that felt and now he wants to run away too.

These are the things people on the outside see. Virat needs to see it too.

I wish he would look at this problem objectively at some point atleast. He is a smart guy , a perceptive guy- why do they show him never use his head. When will he ask & answer the important questions. If he does not then the issues will never be resolved....

Agree with your each point.. No wonder he still couldn't convince Sai..

He has such a misconception about love.. Like patralekha was saying the other whether they had past at all or it's just a illusion..

Virat never cleared it to her or to Sai that they hardly shared such deep bonding..

Most importantly SaiRat had a journey together even before marriage.. They have together gone through a lots so they already had some mutual respect for each other.. Virat always used to put up with her brashness even before their marriage. So how does Virakhi matches with any of these to address them even lovers .🤢