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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

that where in the original EMon mentions how if he celebrated it infront of the family and Pakhi, she would have accepted it , celebrated it, feeling that this relationship is real.. However by planning to not let them know, he has turned this relationship as mithya(False). You see here you can relate her words with the incident that happened during ladakh kaand..She was ridiculed for going with her husband, Pakhi cancelled the trip because Sai was accompanying her and Virat.. And whether she speaks about it or not, its still there inside her, deep.. That pot that she keeps filling with such incidents..

Exactly. As usual the dialogue writer loses his mojo during critical scenes. She did relate hiding the anniversary trip with the Ladakh trip. She would've felt happy because he was acknowledging the relationship in front of his family.

Whereas for Virat it was all about surprising her with his confession.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Haan haan, thats why I said, he has these feelings and then he acted also that way... when he would jump into her room any given time, have teary eye locks with her while getting clicked with Sai..Lie to both women , agree to packing his saaman in her bag...the list is long yaar...

i think agreeing to pack his things in her bag was probably not out of residual feelings.....coz soon after he tells her he has no feelings for her. Par woh kya tha...god only knows....may be just his slow grey cells🤣

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Exactly. As usual the dialogue writer loses his mojo during critical scenes. She did relate hiding the anniversary trip with the Ladakh trip. She would've felt happy because he was acknowledging the relationship in front of his family.

Whereas for Virat it was all about surprising her with his confession.

Wo bhi nahi hua 🤣

https://twitter.com/sarvaji90286995/status/1427883375415599104?s=21

I would just like to draw everyone's attention to this amidst all of this discussion... 🤣

No analysis. I think this clip speaks for itself

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

i think agreeing to pack his things in her bag was probably not out of residual feelings.....coz soon after he tells her he has no feelings for her. Par woh kya tha...god only knows....may be just his slow grey cells🤣

residual nahi tha, wo ignorance tha , diplomacy thi...That was the perfect example of Virat standing on two boats emotionally.. 🤣 Idhar Sai ko bol diya, pack my stuffs in your bag, then is unable to deny Pakhi asking him to give his clothes to pack in her bag..😆 Wo scene hi best example hai...if not sailing at least trying to stand on two boats😆

I have combined everything rather than segregating the residual feelings, his actions and his hesitancy in talking clearly with pakhi...

I wrote it in the EDT today. Why did Virat look pained at Samrat's revelation?? How exactly did he expect him to react to his wife screaming her love to Virat on his wedding night??

I hope he gets more assertive with Samrat because Samrat deserves an explanation.

Which is what Sai was trying to explain yesterday.

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Exactly. As usual the dialogue writer loses his mojo during critical scenes. She did relate hiding the anniversary trip with the Ladakh trip. She would've felt happy because he was acknowledging the relationship in front of his family.

Whereas for Virat it was all about surprising her with his confession.

She would have felt happy, yes. But, the same questions about them celebrating a marriage that isn't real would have come up. Of course, the explosion would not have been nearly this big. But, she would have confused regardless...

In terms of her relating the anniversary trip to the Ladhak trip, this is spot on. I had brought this up when Sai was talking to the family, telling them that this was nothing more than an official trip...trying to convince them that it was okay for her to go on a trip with her own husband... this is because the Ladhak trip has left her so brutally traumatized.

Nethraa and I were discussing in another thread last week about Sai's emotional confusion and turmoil at this point in SaiRat's relationship. I had said that at this point, the two biggest contributing factors are Virat's lack of verbal clarity and Pakhi's bakwas behavior. Because, in terms of Virat's behavior, she has noticed how deeply it has changed- she has felt is love and affection and she has felt the reality of this relationship...that is why she is so lost to begin with, because she cannot reconcile this disconnect with his words (or lack there of). Nethraa had brought up everything that happened at the start of their relationship, and I had said that even though that is not what is bothering Sai most at this point, that is what forms the basis of all of her insecurities. And this Ladhak connection is just one example of that....

Originally posted by: scarlett22

I wrote it in the EDT today. Why did Virat look pained at Samrat's revelation?? How exactly did he expect him to react to his wife screaming her love to Virat on his wedding night??

I hope he gets more assertive with Samrat because Samrat deserves an explanation.

Which is what Sai was trying to explain yesterday.

You know like I mentioned in the above post, thats his nature, he makes it about himself at these times. Surrounds himself with hurt.. But then in his mind he thinks , I have moved on and no one is understanding it, infact the person who I have moved on to/with is also not understanding any of my emotions.. He has surrounded himself with all these emotions..Koi mujhe nahi samajh raha hai yaar...Remember that dialogue!!

Originally posted by: tptwi

I attribute Virat giving Pakhi explanations to his guilt. The other moments that you and others have mentioned on this thread such as walking into each other's rooms, phone calls, etc.... I believe that in his mind, he was acting as a friend with pure intentions...nothing more. Even though, as you have said, that was not the case. The entire reason that he did not understand that all of this was wrong, or perhaps more significantly, how it was impacting Sai, is because once again, he cannot look at things from other people's perspectives yaar. It is always all about what is in his own mind and heart....his natural state is being engulfed in his own emotions. That, to me, is not healthy. This is kind of like what we were discussing before regarding emotional quotient. You had said that Virat lacks the emotional strength to be able to confront Sai/Samrat about the past, and I had said that it is not that he lacks the emotional strength, but that he does not even realize that strength is necessary in the first place. He does not know how to control his feelings to the extent that it causes such turmoil in all aspects of his life....

I can understand if he became more tolerant of her tantrums or did not call her out due to his guilt.

But how will guilt compel him to give explanation for lipstick mark or that his marriage is a deal etc...we only feel guilty for these things on account of our romantic partner

Originally posted by: scarlett22

I wrote it in the EDT today. Why did Virat look pained at Samrat's revelation?? How exactly did he expect him to react to his wife screaming her love to Virat on his wedding night??

I hope he gets more assertive with Samrat because Samrat deserves an explanation.

Which is what Sai was trying to explain yesterday.

Virat looked pained because he is drowning in his own guilt. Again, he is engulfed within his own emotions. Think about the dialogue to Sunny- that those closest to him are misunderstanding him. It's all about him. He is not looking at anything from anyone else's POV. He did try to clarify to Samrat at the orphanage, but Samrat denied him the opportunity due to his own pain. I agree that Virat needs to get more assertive with Samrat and clarify everything, but I am not sure that is going to happen. Yes, Sai was trying to explain the same thing yesterday, but her accusatory tone and her outburst overtook all of the validity of her words and the possibility of them actually having a productive conversation.