Surprising - Page 7

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

This is my never ending question regarding Virat ....which I've been thinking over for a long time...and trying to hint at during our early morning discussion with laksh.

I think him not clearing the vaada is a bit different....not applicable to this discussion I think....

Here are my newly formulated thoughts. From what I have understood you to be saying, it is that Virat lacks the emotional quotient to be able to reveal the truth to Samrat about the past. So, instead, he kind of retreats into his emotions, thereby kind of "giving up." I disagree with this for reasons that I have outlined many times by now. Because, to me, Virat cannot "give up", since he does not realize that Samrat needs him to clear up the past in the first place. Why? Because, in his mind, it is so clear that Samrat's perception of the past is wrong. That he loves Sai, and there is nothing in between him and Pakhi. Once again, he is wrapped up in his own emotions and unable to look past that. He thinks that Samrat will be able to come home and just sense, through his actions, that everything is a misunderstanding. Again, his language of expression is actions over verbal communication...

This is exactly like the vaada situation to me. It is not that Virat lacks the emotional quotient to be able to tell Sai the vaada does not exist anymore. Rather, it is that he does not realize that Sai needs him to clear the vaada in the first place, because again, he is wrapped up in his own emotions- he has been moving past the vaada since quite frankly a few hours after their marriage. The only truth to him now is that this relationship is real. And, he thinks that Sai, too, should be able to see all of this via his actions...

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Is that the topic of discussion? I just read a couple of pots and started typing!y replies. What consensus has been reached...would Virat give up or keep trying. Vote now.

I find myself oscillating.

I think Virat will let Sai take over.. coz he knows she can do it.. moreover Sammy has decided to go to CN, confront Pakhi and serve her divorce.. so there is no more trying required.

Though one thing puzzled me was his final words in today’s episode asking Sammy to come and witness that everything has changed… he was speaking entirely from his perspective, he has changed and moved on.. but what about Pakhi, she is still stuck in yoga days. Won’t Sammy notice her attitude and behavior once he is back?

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

True.. I have not been able to understand his reasons.. But yeah to some extent I agree to Pooja...He fails to understand the need and thats what I pointed out in my previous post..He assumes things and fails to have an Emotional quotient w.r.t. other person and also is too negative.. He gets into self guilt mode, keeps berating himself, punishing himself but would not go and deal it hand on...after having tried once..

My answer Pooja

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

My answer Pooja

I have tagged you in my response Asmi. I seem to have an entirely different take on this than most people 🤣 I actually described my take in quite some detail 2 days ago and tagged you... not sure if you read it...but not worth repasting here 😆

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

True.. I have not been able to understand his reasons.. But yeah to some extent I agree to Pooja...He fails to understand the need and thats what I pointed out in my previous post..He assumes things and fails to have an Emotional quotient w.r.t. other person and also is too negative.. He gets into self guilt mode, keeps berating himself, punishing himself but would not go and deal it hand on...after having tried once..

Ummm...you know Virat not clearing the vaada to Sai may not fall under EQ. I think it has got to do with his ignorance - coming from his inexperience in relationships as well as him struggling with his own emotions. I think if he knows the reason for Sai's pain, he will pull at all stops to clear her MU. So in ..am I making sense?

His EQ fails him when he is has to confront big situations....like Samrat, Devyani etc.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Ummm...you know Virat not clearing the vaada to Sai may not fall under EQ. I think it has got to do with his ignorance - coming from his inexperience in relationships as well as him struggling with his own emotions. I think if he knows the reason for Sai's pain, he will pull at all stops to clear her MU. So in ..am I making sense?

His EQ fails him when he is has to confront big situations....like Samrat, Devyani etc.

I personally feel that the Sai and Samrat issues are nearly identical. Virat is driven by love, and he blindly loves both of these people. Therefore, he becomes engulfed in his own emotions towards them and cannot even comprehend things from their perspectives...thereby failing to clarify what they need him to. I have gone more in depth into this in my other post & I tagged you.

Not sure what exactly you are referring to when you bring up Devi...

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Ummm...you know Virat not clearing the vaada to Sai may not fall under EQ. I think it has got to do with his ignorance - coming from his inexperience in relationships as well as him struggling with his own emotions. I think if he knows the reason for Sai's pain, he will pull at all stops to clear her MU. So in ..am I making sense?

His EQ fails him when he is has to confront big situations....like Samrat, Devyani etc.

Yeah Yeah...saying the same thing!

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Ummm...you know Virat not clearing the vaada to Sai may not fall under EQ. I think it has got to do with his ignorance - coming from his inexperience in relationships as well as him struggling with his own emotions. I think if he knows the reason for Sai's pain, he will pull at all stops to clear her MU. So in ..am I making sense?

His EQ fails him when he is has to confront big situations....like Samrat, Devyani etc.

I find him as person with low EQ.. always.. which contradicts his professional traits.. IPS Officers have high EQ.. Virat however proved the opposite, not only in confrontations.. even in handling emotions like jealousy.. dealing with his insecurities.. etc

Once again I am not sure what the writers are trying to pull.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Yeah Yeah...saying the same thing!

Is Virat's Jalebi disease started affecting the FD too....this is happening to many times. People keep discussing...round and round they go ....only to conclude that they were saying the same thing...it's turning into an epidemic and I'm scared 😆

I think his chalo Sai and holding her hand to walk away had more to do with Samrat being rude to Sai. That was the reason there.

Talking about Yogi. He is below average as an actor and I don't see the potential in him like Ayesha

Thankfully Neil is singlehandedly carrying V-S scenes brilliantly well