Wasn’t she the same girl? What changed now? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Devikadish

You all have analysed Sai's behavioural changes so precisely and beautifully❤️

Sai is indeed, quite a misunderstood character. I soo wish she gets a person with whom she can share all of her feelings, insecurities and fears sans filter. These things getting bottled up within her will only result to further changes in Sai's behaviour.

I wish Virat gets to know how much important he is for her, the same way how he expects her to understand his feelings. This is two-way thing.

So trueee. She has a heart of gold but is misunderstood since she speaks her mind most of time. Sometimes I don't even know what her insecurities are since most of the times she questioned Virat inside their room he never gave her a clear answer. She just let it go and moved ahead. Wonder if she wraps all this in her brain or she truly let's it go .

Originally posted by: laksh

What happened to Sai? Wasn’t she the same girl who wanted to know from Virat if Pakhi would be okay if she accompanies them to Ladakh or not? Wasn’t she the same girl who tried to know if he wanted to take her with him or not? Wasn’t she the same girl who was excited while packing her things or not? She was sharing her excitement to travel by flight for the first time over phone. What changed now?

What happened that the same girl showed no interest even when she was taken by Virat on his own all alone? What happened that the same girl didn’t show interest in the trip or any of the conversation Virat tried to initiate?

I was just reminded about how excited this girl was when he had called her to accompany him and Pakhi to Ladakh. The girl acted possessive even back then when Pakhi offered to pack his clothes. When she was excited when she was joining Virat and Pakhi, why is she not excited when she had travelled alone with Virat? What has changed now?

What happened that a chirpy girl turned into a moody girl?

I couldn’t help but share how excited Sai was back then and how disinterested Sai is trying to act now. She was the same girl Virat had to ask to stop talking and go to sleep.

She would have loved to travel with him, would have been excited to go around all the places or talk to him like how she used to, would have loved to share what her favourite music was if she didn’t have to face certain things, if not for certain turn of events in their life.

It is sad to see that a girl who loved Naagnadi outing is not even able to enjoy an outstation trip. She was happy and was recollecting her day with Virat in her room after she heard Virat tell Pakhi after they returned from Naag nadi that people who are associated with him would live with him in the house. And now, the same girl is not happy with everything that’s happening. The girl has lost confidence in herself, she doesn’t even think that she has rights to travel with her husband, is made to feel guilty due to allegations that she faces every now and then that she has come in between two people who were supposed to be together, is made to feel that she is the reason that her husband is failing to fulfil his commitment, is not keeping his promise.

I really hope that Sai gets back her confidence, feels reassured of her position in her husband’s life so much that she fights for it and not give up due to someone’s manipulation, due to some false allegations and misunderstandings. I want to see the confident and chirpy Sai again.

True. Like I am excited to travel even a day before my exams😆

But, you have put out well how Sai has shown a change. Sai ki acchai , her morals, uski soch abhi bhi zinda hai, but shayad Sai Joshi marr rahi hai roz .😭

Okay, I have a vile another perception as well, You know, when you are always questioned for something ,even when lawfully you hold your right on it, then I guess a person naturally begins to get irritated with that thing and then question themselves that why on earth they have associated themselves with the thing. Maybe that is what might be happening with Sai now. She is not able to put it through in words, but everyday, she is definitely growing fond of the person, she is getting fond of Virat, but the fact that Virat is hers, yet she has no rights over him, is making her out of place, doubt herself, irritate her maybe🤔🤔 Yes, Sai is guilty for sure, but I want to know whether sometimes, like very few times, Sai also feels chained somewhere🤔🤔

A vile example, but it's like, when your parents deny you things saying you are too old or too young for that. We feel why can't we grow fast or why did we grow fast. Toh, yeh bhi hosakta hai kya. Okay I am blabbering and not making sense, but just came up my mind as a thought. 😆

Cuz, This is how I feel when I am in Sai's position when it comes to some things 🥺

You know Lakshmi , when the showed the video snap of the flight , followed by the car, I was actually expecting them to talk about their first flight together and Sai's flight as well.. This child woman was so excited when she was to go to Ladakh trip.. about her first flight , followed by her dreams of going to Mumbai together with her aaba..WHat has she turned into..

Thats why I mentioned yesterday Lakshmi that before she witnessed the confrontation between Virat and Pakhi on Harini's birthday , even though she knew they shared something in the past and even though then there was this deal and vaada between them , she always always claimed Virat her husband infront of everyone , his family ,Pakhi with full HAQ. She fought with them calling him her Pati.. And she stopped after the witnessing that confrontation.. We dont get what goes in her head, something that I always crib about, but what I understood from the minimal that I got was that she might have thought by this time that there is not more to Pakhi in Virat's heart and just wanted him to call the deal off or may be she did not know they shared dreams of love, marriage and togetherness. She knew they loved each other but to know that is one thing and to witness all that and more is another..This is when she realise however how many times she claims to be his wife, she is NOT is wife..And from then on she clearly stopped calling him so if you see the episodes.. Then when he stops her from going away with the right of a husband , she is overwhelmed, happy and speechless.. But still in dilemma..The final nail in the coffin was the Saree kaand after which, in her mind she gave up those rights thoroughly and stopped showing her haq as a wife on him infront of the family. She even called Virat's preparation for her birthday as something he did for an orphan.. Even when she felt like a wife at times she blocked those emotions and started trying to build a different relationship with.

SHe no more feels worth of it.. Her insecurity is so so strong that now she has accepted that insecurity and feels she does not deserve any of it.. You know you keep drinking and you know you need to stop since its detrimental for you and yet you cant , that's her case when it comes to Virat..

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

You are the one from whom I learnt so much about KD storyline. Your elaborate information helped a lot to know how it was in KD and how Vankar did copy paste or sometimes improvised by his creative skill. So please reconsider your decision to not refer KD. A genuine request...

I have fans too. see Pooja. This is the reason I go back to KD. (mauka mil gaya. na )

Thanks dear for your encouraging words. I liked KD, what to do. Will try to DM you when you have questions. :P I am not going to watch it anyways. Whatever I watched is stuck to my brain like glue 😡

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I have fans too. see Pooja. This is the reason I go back to KD. (mauka mil gaya. na )

Thanks dear for your encouraging words. I liked KD, what to do. Will try to DM you when you have questions. :P I am not going to watch it anyways. Whatever I watched is stuck to my brain like glue 😡

Areeyy yaar... I was just messing around with you 😊

I just feel as if writers are going to be changing this track & adding in their own touches so it might be better to focus on Ghum as it's own distinct show and not KD... even I, in the past, have eaten your brain about KD because I wanted to know what's upcoming 🤣

Yaar it is just that...you end up comparing and get confused.

Yeah better to stick to Ghum and enjoy this.

One thing I have to say yaar, there in KD not a single time i felt scene was cut or edited badly or I missed something...all this without understanding the languagee. I felt it complete. Here, embarrassment everyday.

see compared again..thats why 😒

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Yaar it is just that...you end up comparing and get confused.

Yeah better to stick to Ghum and enjoy this.

One thing I have to say yaar, there in KD not a single time i felt scene was cut or edited badly or I missed something...all this without understanding the languagee. I felt it complete. Here, embarrassment everyday.

see compared again..thats why 😒

I don't know anything about the show other than what you have told me.... so I don't compare... and I see Virat and Sai and the entire show entirely in its own context...

It's hard because you can't unsee KD na 🤣

Originally posted by: tptwi

I don't know anything about the show other than what you have told me.... so I don't compare... and I see Virat and Sai and the entire show entirely in its own context...

It's hard because you can't unsee KD na 🤣

And only one hooman in this forum who fell for Rono

Originally posted by: Nja91

Its sad that very few people understand how Sai has changed due to her pain/anguish, taunts....she really has no one to call her own except virat. Everytime she has a misunderstanding with him, Sai loses a part of herself. I really want virat to understand how much she values n cares for him. She is not very expressive all the time or rather her brashness, straightforwardness is often misconstrued as lack of affection. But on goid days, only virat sees past her facade. He sees her heart of gold, her generosity, her simplicity, innocence, how she enjoyed simple joys, Sai has never been materialistic and used to enjoy the little things, lives in the present....but she is losing herself a little due to the stress. Yes, it'd be good for her to mellow a little, mature but not at the cost of losing her confidence n vibrant self.

But he fails to see her pain/anguish in his own pain/anguish!

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

SHe no more feels worth of it.. Her insecurity is so so strong that now she has accepted that insecurity and feels she does not deserve any of it.. You know you keep drinking and you know you need to stop since its detrimental for you and yet you cant , that's her case when it comes to Virat..

@bold It looks like Virat is the one risking his heart, making himself vulnerable. But actually Sai is doing it too. It's just that Virat is doing it consciously while Sai is unknowingly walking into the same pain. Despite the fact that she has put a wall around her heart, which makes the pain of being made to feel like a third wheel bearable for her, when the time for separation comes, she will be as broken as Virat. She has been allowing herself to get sucked deeper and deeper into the relationship, whilst accepting that this relationship has no future - setting herself up for a heartbreak.