Sai Joshi is hurting, can someone help?? - Page 2

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

Before I used to support Sai and bash Virat for being the silent dude. Because back then he did a lot for her but just as a zimmedari. So a third person saying things and he keeping quiet used to make me go mad at him. He was wrong. But then things changed and he proved so many times that he genuinely wants this marriage to work. He even showed that Pakhi means nothing to him. So that's why I feel more for Virat now and less for Sai because now it's Sai who is a little wrong. The thing is that Sai doesn't want to see the things. Virat is at fault for that but she has brains too so why can't she see the things and compare the Virat from before and the Virat from now ? I just hope she starts questioning herself.

About the commitment thing, he cleared it before the wedding. Yet she agreed to marry him instead of telling everyone that she can't get married to a man who is already committed to someone else. Now she can't blame him entirely. She should blame herself first. Why didn't she run away ? Why expect him to run away ?

Sai is also at fault that at this point of time and age she doesn't want to invest her time in marriage which is from first day she wasn't able to accept...she can't accept the fact she married for namesake only. Why she was to scared to run away that day as her aba die she wasn't in herself to think where to run without anything she have. Her uncle aunty wasn't agree to take her responsibility due to googa that creep I may be forget his name as her dignity was in grave danger. That's why sai always made clear to everyone around her , her marriage is not a real marriage. That bothering her. Devar bhabhi angle pakhi drama virat silence little information all insecurities taking over her. She don't want to accept that she love virat n want to trust him because virat never actually told her what happened. She is scared like baby if I got attached to him and after 4 years when I have to leave him. How I will be able to cope up. Virat expecting maturity from his 19 years tomboyish and papa ki ladli wife to understand him seriously. He is 28 in serial still confused as teenager 😂😂😂😂😂

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

Before I used to support Sai and bash Virat for being the silent dude. Because back then he did a lot for her but just as a zimmedari. So a third person saying things and he keeping quiet used to make me go mad at him. He was wrong. But then things changed and he proved so many times that he genuinely wants this marriage to work. He even showed that Pakhi means nothing to him. So that's why I feel more for Virat now and less for Sai because now it's Sai who is a little wrong. The thing is that Sai doesn't want to see the things. Virat is at fault for that but she has brains too so why can't she see the things and compare the Virat from before and the Virat from now ? I just hope she starts questioning herself.

About the commitment thing, he cleared it before the wedding. Yet she agreed to marry him instead of telling everyone that she can't get married to a man who is already committed to someone else. Now she can't blame him entirely. She should blame herself first. Why didn't she run away ? Why expect him to run away ?

Yes, virat told her about the commitment and she agreed. But where would she have run away? A girl who just lost her only family, with no relatives and no money? Who couldn’t handle the grief of loosing her father that she tried to commit suicide. Where would she go leaving the only people who she knew or cared even a little about her? They are the only ones she had left. That’s the reason she asked virat to run away because she couldn’t.

Originally posted by: vimeo

@bold: pls watch episode 42. Virat agreed to.marry Sai but told her immediately that she cant expect anything else from the.marriage. Cvs have forgotten what they showed. Problem is earlier onced aired episodes to rewatch was impossible but these days its all available on the net. Pls Cvs go re watch ur episodes before writing ur dialogues!!

She meant while taking the 7 vachanas of the marriage that he wants to celebrate he also gave her another vachana of not loving anyone else other than that very woman and to not expect anything from him!

Originally posted by: amoaar

Yes, virat told her about the commitment and she agreed. But where would she have run away? A girl who just lost her only family, with no relatives and no money? Who couldn’t handle the grief of loosing her father that she tried to commit suicide. Where would she go leaving the only people who she knew or cared even a little about her? They are the only ones she had left. That’s the reason she asked virat to run away because she couldn’t.

When someone dies, in your family, one is not in a sane sense of mind..I remember a cousin of mine just wanted to get married because his fatehr was no more and so that his mother did not feel lonely..One does not take rational decisions. And here this one was lost her only family in this world and the others were making her feel like just a zimmedaari they had to get rid off...Too much expectations from someone who lost the zeal to live..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I have mentioned it before also, Sunny was there..to make him realize he is in love with Sai, when he denied to believe so, to make him realise Sai could be jealous of Pakhi , which Virat sadly was never never able to register.. and ofcourse it took Sunny to tell him Sai could be falling for him, which he at first instance blatantly refused even after the way she came running after his bullet shot and the way she took care of him.. But then Sai without anyone around her, without any one understanding her insecurities , without anyone telling her why she is so cconflicted has to not just understand Virat and his feelings , but also has to conclude that Virat is over Pakhi since he does not talk to Pakhi much and does not give her those looks.. The onus is on Sai to realise there is no love between them when Pakhi is always there outside her room to remind her how she took away her place in Virat's life and how Virat cheated her, with Virat never reprimanding her for the lies she comes up with , just making faces.. But Sai has to understand since he is making faces, he might just be over her..

Its sad that with no one around, not even Sunny or Mohit could understand her today..Virat I understand was not in a state of mind to understand and he is reeling under his own insecurities and the fear of rejection, but the other two as well gathered nothing, nothing about her hurt, her pain, her insecurities and her fear of rejection..And since Sai is brash she has to be blamed for this situation as well..

@ bold -ditto!

I agree - unknowingly sai is getting attached to virat.... in those intimate scenes... she was just influenced by... her heart....feeling... her brain did not register what was going on....

But at anniversary place, she is in her stat of mind.... she knows what relation she supposed to expect from her husband....

WHY virat not .giving these....two clarifications... ??? if he is not ready to confess yet... fine.

- pp and I met in yoga camp, got attracted and thought it was love... so I promised her place in my heart... I am not sure if it was love or not.... .. now the fact is......I do not love her or expect any relation/commitment from/to her.... anymore....I just respect her as a vahini!

- ...@ our wedding... I told you not to expect anything from me...I take that back . you have full rights on me and my family.... just like a normal wife would have.

Beautifully said and all valid points where Virat should have spoken up. These all could be the reasons she still think Pakhi is in his heart. Clearly she had been observing both Virat and Pakhi all along , when she asked why is she still waiting for you? Most recent incident, he never denied anything when she talked shit in front of Sai on the birthday night aswell. What is she supposed to make out of all these scenes which flashed in front of her which seemed to her like he still has a temple for Pakhi😢.

Originally posted by: Devikadish

Sai has no one to whom she can confide. She doesn't have a person like Virat's Sunny. I felt really bad that even Mohit couldn't understand her POV.

Makers should really bring up a person, a family or a friend, with whom Sai can share her deepest insecurities, fears and feelings.

More than Virat, I feel bad for Sai.😭 That girl only deserves love, care and sense of belongingness.❤️

I did feel bad for Virat too, but not as much as for Sai.

Just because Sai doesn't shed tears and speaks the truth right on his face, people are blaming her. 🤡

I did not sympathise with Sai .. she was caustic throughout the trip .. virat was giving her the best of the treatment but she was down right rude n abrasive ..

right from mahabaleswar entry .. in the car .. in the evening dinner .. to the shop ..

I have supported Sai many times when I see her working very hard in the house.. but she does not seem to care at all for virat .. like who keeps on harping it’s a deal marriage deal marriage to all and sundry ..

if u have so much problem calling him Hubby .. call him your mentor .. your guardian..

She can sympathise with pulkit and Devyani

This is the same pulkit who abandoned devi for 10 years .. did not even seek her out .. today Devyani has lost her mind it’s all well that he has accepted her but was it true love to let your love suffer ..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

She meant while taking the 7 vachanas of the marriage that he wants to celebrate he also gave her another vachana of not loving anyone else other than that very woman and to not expect anything from him!

Correct Asmi, that's what I meant! thanks!

Vimeo - I actually went and watched the wedding episode...and for a minute got distracted...what a beautiful episode! And their eye communication..❤️. So, Sai does overhear Virat talking to Pakhi, after the ceremony, about why he married Sai, and he tells her, voh mere liye sirf zimmedari hai.

Today was not Sai's day, am totally not fine with what she did to Virat. but if you think of what is going through her mind, there are enough reasons for her to feel the way she did. She responds to Virat's physical overtures very automatically. And that too, she has said it, during the pool confrontation, that she had forgotten certain truths. It keeps happening. Everytime she relaxes with Virat, something happens around her to remind her of her place in Virat's life. Today it was the yoga instructor who actually saw them together. So what she'd been hearing about, or what she suspected, someone who was privy to that situation actually mentioned in great detail. How can she respond to him positively, immediately after?

In the first year of marriage, whenever one of my husband's colleagues would talk of some incident and say, ohh you don't know how he is..I used to get very insulted. But very quickly, that feeling disappears once you get settled in the relationship, nothing affects you.

Here, this is not a normal marriage. Maybe she doesn't want to accept his affection because somewhere she feels he is resigned to his fate and therefore accepted her.. yesterday, when she said, mujhe chodke jaana hi padega, there was so much of pain on her face. To say that she got angry and left is unfair. But noone saw that.

But EOD, I also agree they need to stay away from each other for a very short period , not through any violent accident or anything, but it should happen by default. This will give both of them to think about each other without any life threatening sword over them..ha ha ha.

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Correct Asmi, that's what I meant! thanks!

Vimeo - I actually went and watched the wedding episode...and for a minute got distracted...what a beautiful episode! And their eye communication..❤️. So, Sai does overhear Virat talking to Pakhi, after the ceremony, about why he married Sai, and he tells her, voh mere liye sirf zimmedari hai.

Today was not Sai's day, am totally not fine with what she did to Virat. but if you think of what is going through her mind, there are enough reasons for her to feel the way she did. She responds to Virat's physical overtures very automatically. And that too, she has said it, during the pool confrontation, that she had forgotten certain truths. It keeps happening. Everytime she relaxes with Virat, something happens around her to remind her of her place in Virat's life. Today it was the yoga instructor who actually saw them together. So what she'd been hearing about, or what she suspected, someone who was privy to that situation actually mentioned in great detail. How can she respond to him positively, immediately after?

In the first year of marriage, whenever one of my husband's colleagues would talk of some incident and say, ohh you don't know how he is..I used to get very insulted. But very quickly, that feeling disappears once you get settled in the relationship, nothing affects you.

Here, this is not a normal marriage. Maybe she doesn't want to accept his affection because somewhere she feels he is resigned to his fate and therefore accepted her.. yesterday, when she said, mujhe chodke jaana hi padega, there was so much of pain on her face. To say that she got angry and left is unfair. But noone saw that.

But EOD, I also agree they need to stay away from each other for a very short period , not through any violent accident or anything, but it should happen by default. This will give both of them to think about each other without any life threatening sword over them..ha ha ha.

You know when the first time he told her about vaada vachan , leaving him and all, she did not say anything but to re-think on his decision..The first time she spoke about her leaving him was only when he daid those same words again , that dont have any expectations from me having a painful eyelock with Patralekha, do observe Sai did see it and its then she talked about leaving him..She could never get over that rejection , that hurt , that insult!

Beautiful post dear ❤️