Sai Joshi is hurting, can someone help??

So I begin my post with the usual disclaimer.

Disclaimer: When I watch a love story, I love both parts of the love, the male and female. So while this post is for Sai, I perfectly know what Virat went through today. No excuses. They writers could have toned down her dialogues a bit. I felt like Mohit today, wanting to apologise to Virat😆

I really hope Sai is forced to think about how she behaved today. I wish Vankar would give us original Sairat, scenes for these high points and the aftermath. he is really creative and gives us lovely emotions between them, not that he can't. Mr Vankar, if you're reading please use your own grey cells too.

Sai is hurting, can someone help her?

Though Sai's reactions were far too bitter and caustic, the words she spoke held a lot of meaning. I can somehow see where the writer was leading us to, with all those silences of Virat, during crucial scenes!

Scene 1 - The very first fight after Amey when Pakhi walked in, and she asked him, what have you got out of this marriage? he looked at Sai, his expression changed, he got Sai, he knew her worth, but he kept quiet. And Sai's face fell!

Scene 2 - Ladakh confrontation - Sai asked him, wasn't Pakhi the girl you met in the yoga camp? he kept quiet. And he told her, you have no right to talk about Pakhi and me. She swallowed her hurt.

Scene 3 - Worst one, the Devkit wedding - his How dare you when she spoke back to Pakhi, Virat keeping quiet while Pakhi threw some wild accusations, she looked to him, he knew Pakhi was wrong but he kept quiet.

Scene 4- Confrontation after Harinee's birthday, Pakhi called her a nurse and asked her to collect her fees. Virat kept quiet, when he knew the amount of sincere care Sai took. Again, she looked to him for support, he kept quiet.

Today she raised a few questions:

• Why does Pakhi wait for you?? Nobody knows. but yes, it is quite obvious in front of all that Pakhi is waiting for Virat. In front of the family, she told Virat, she stayed back not for Samrat. Everyone knows. Why can't Sai be affected by it, given the fact that she is Virat's wife??

• Her monologue - he married me in front of Bappa and right after he tells me, he is committed to someone else. The marriage was sacred for her, as it was for him. He made it clear she cannot expect anything, right after the ceremony, according to her!

• She is confused. She doesn't understand how he could forget Pakhi and want a life with her! She thinks he is being unfair to both, in her mixed up mind. And she also thinks it is wrong on her part to take away Pakhi's happiness, and maybe Virat's too.
• Why didn't Virat stop the yoga instructor immediately? She didn't want to hear all that crap about chemistry, very obviously. Why is she supposed to swallow all that and become all cheerful to celebrate her anniversary??

Who is the one person who can shake her out of this conundrum and explain to her? Does she have anyone? All along, she has swallowed all the humiliations from Pakhi and his family, putting down her status as Virat's wife.

• Sunny could have been more assertive today and explained the yoga episode.
• Aai could have asked Virat the night Sai was in hospital...when Pakhi has the right to walk into your room at odd hours, did you stop to think how Sai will feel as your wife?? and that was a grave mistake, Aai is never as explicit with Virat about Pakhi as she is to Sai about Virat's pyaar.
• Mohit doesn't know half the story, though he does know Virat loves Sai.

• Who is going to explain what actually happened between Virat and Pakhi? And that Virat considers it as 'waqt ka fitoor' not as his true love.

Bechari Sai. But today, everyone is on Virat's side, and rightly so. So I made an attempt to understand Sai's state of mind. The way she handled the anniversary celebrations was brutal and unnecessary.

This is actually a great track if only Vankar utilises the potential of Neilsha. We can get some wonderful scenes between them.

Originally posted by: scarlett22

• Her monologue - he married me in front of Bappa and right after he tells me, he is committed to someone else. The marriage was sacred for her, as it was for him. He made it clear she cannot expect anything, right after the ceremony, according to her

@bold: pls watch episode 42. Virat agreed to.marry Sai but told her immediately that she cant expect anything else from the.marriage. Cvs have forgotten what they showed. Problem is earlier onced aired episodes to rewatch was impossible but these days its all available on the net. Pls Cvs go re watch ur episodes before writing ur dialogues!!

Sudharies wrote a beautiful post there..

What a tearjerker episode it was...

I think I finally understood Sai better and I feel both are in their own assumptions and not willing to clarify. Especially Virat here is at more fault, imo. The guy simply said to Sai on their wedding day that I've given my word to another girl and don't expect anything from me as a husband and Sai has taken those words very very very seriously and she's trying to follow that too.

Now with this episode it's clear that She is not even sure what was that promise he made to Pakhi. What commitment he gave to her. Virat and only viewers know that his promise was that he won't marry anyone else and he'll never give the place in his heart which Pakhi had occupied. But the guy broke those promises easily coz his feelings for Pakhi was nothing more than an infatuation.

Since Sai doesn't know the actual truth and even duration of their puppy love alias infatuation alias attraction, Virat can't even confess his feelings for Sai at present. There's a high possibility of Sai doubting his feelings for her now. Like how can he be in love with one girl at one point of time, then fall out of love with her so easily and to trust that he has actually fallen in love with her and he's never gonna change from that either? If she asks this, Virat won't have an answer. So it's only plausible that he's never gonna try to express his feelings anymore, as he's understood only now the extent of how his promise and his association with Pakhi has hurt Sai and how she's never gonna see things differently anytime soon. And when he overhears her speaking to Samrat it's gonna be a final nail in the coffin for him to affirm that he's given nothing but pain to her which will make him leave her.

Only proper communication can solve things between a couple, but there's been too many misconceptions and unsaid assumptions that the web of their issues is just getting bigger and bigger. Let's see how it goes in the future.

Before I used to support Sai and bash Virat for being the silent dude. Because back then he did a lot for her but just as a zimmedari. So a third person saying things and he keeping quiet used to make me go mad at him. He was wrong. But then things changed and he proved so many times that he genuinely wants this marriage to work. He even showed that Pakhi means nothing to him. So that's why I feel more for Virat now and less for Sai because now it's Sai who is a little wrong. The thing is that Sai doesn't want to see the things. Virat is at fault for that but she has brains too so why can't she see the things and compare the Virat from before and the Virat from now ? I just hope she starts questioning herself.

About the commitment thing, he cleared it before the wedding. Yet she agreed to marry him instead of telling everyone that she can't get married to a man who is already committed to someone else. Now she can't blame him entirely. She should blame herself first. Why didn't she run away ? Why expect him to run away ?

Beautiful post ❤️.

I can understand Sai’s state of mind and I am with her even today for the reasons you have mentioned and a lot more. I have been with Virat too always since I could understand him. In this case, Sai’s turmoil is quite understandable.

Just watched a few clippings, yet to watch the entire episode, will watch and then reply 😊.

Even though Sai has asked about their marriage many a times, even though she has shown her hurt many a times, her bottled up emotions about their marriage not being real, their marriage mocked by Virat’s proposal has actually come out only now. She was hurt, felt insulted when he couldn’t even consider her as a bride for him and had said that he can never be her husband and now the same guy wants to celebrate their anniversary. Back then when she accepted it, she was under pressure. She didn’t have much of a choice since she was dependent on others, UM was also saying as if she doesn’t respect her or see her as her mom and that is why she wasn’t listening to her. Most importantly she didn’t have enough strength since it was all happening in just a few days or may be in 2 days time since her Aaba passed away. It is all very confusing for her now and Pakhi claiming Virat as hers and Virat not correcting the way he should be has become a big hurdle in their life.

He has done a lot of mistakes in the past and this is all the consequences of those. Had he acted the way he should have, she wouldn’t be having so many issues, doubts and confusion now. That is why many have always said that he should draw clear lines with Pakhi always, he should condemn Pakhi when she does a certain things, he shouldn’t encourage Pakhi indirectly too. He should be mindful of his behaviour, should atleast think that his behaviour could impact their relationship.

Its sad that so many people only see her brashness, rudeness but not her state of mind. Yes it doesn't excuse her brashness n yes Virat is immensely hurt.

Virat is the only one who sees past her facade to understand her but in this situation obviously he cant do that. He has also reached the wrong conclusion unfortunately about why Sai is upset.

Virat being emotional, hurt, upset is understandable but i was hoping sunny/mohit would Sai's state.

Sunny had been virats mirror in the past telling him how Sai must feel about hearing about pp, words like vaada/commitments etc in the context of another woman. he correctly said Sai is possessive about you but today when she was pouring her anguish , clearly spelt out her insecurities- how much pp bothers her, he didnt show any understanding.

Sai has no one to counsel to her, no one to listen to her.

Pulkit disappears as easily as he comes n aai is also not helpful to change the status quo. She shows pp the mirror but not virat. She is not counseling Sai either...

Kahaan jaaye voh.

She only had virat and because of the flux that their relationship status is in, she doesn't fully have him either.

And now Samrat coming with same misconceptions as her will only heighten her anguish.

Absolutely right everyone demand whatever happens with her step by step she should forgot and move on how ? There is no proper explaintions from Virat not clear stand. With very much difficulty she has build herself gather herself what she saw now everyone want she should let it go how?

You explained every points correctly I don't sympathies with virat only celebrating bday , fulfilling some happy movement but when she truly needed ,get insulated he only making faces it's not convey love . He is today because of his own actions and words.

I have mentioned it before also, Sunny was there..to make him realize he is in love with Sai, when he denied to believe so, to make him realise Sai could be jealous of Pakhi , which Virat sadly was never never able to register.. and ofcourse it took Sunny to tell him Sai could be falling for him, which he at first instance blatantly refused even after the way she came running after his bullet shot and the way she took care of him.. But then Sai without anyone around her, without any one understanding her insecurities , without anyone telling her why she is so cconflicted has to not just understand Virat and his feelings , but also has to conclude that Virat is over Pakhi since he does not talk to Pakhi much and does not give her those looks.. The onus is on Sai to realise there is no love between them when Pakhi is always there outside her room to remind her how she took away her place in Virat's life and how Virat cheated her, with Virat never reprimanding her for the lies she comes up with , just making faces.. But Sai has to understand since he is making faces, he might just be over her..

Its sad that with no one around, not even Sunny or Mohit could understand her today..Virat I understand was not in a state of mind to understand and he is reeling under his own insecurities and the fear of rejection, but the other two as well gathered nothing, nothing about her hurt, her pain, her insecurities and her fear of rejection..And since Sai is brash she has to be blamed for this situation as well..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I have mentioned it before also, Sunny was there..to make him realize he is in love with Sai, when he denied to believe so, to make him realise Sai could be jealous of Pakhi , which Virat sadly was never never able to register.. and ofcourse it took Sunny to tell him Sai could be falling for him, which he at first instance blatantly refused even after the way she came running after his bullet shot and the way she took care of him.. But then Sai without anyone around her, without any one understanding her insecurities , without anyone telling her why she is so cconflicted has to not just understand Virat and his feelings , but also has to conclude that Virat is over Pakhi since he does not talk to Pakhi much and does not give her those looks.. The onus is on Sai to realise there is no love between them when Pakhi is always there outside her room to remind her how she took away her place in Virat's life and how Virat cheated her, with Virat never reprimanding her for the lies she comes up with , just making faces.. But Sai has to understand since he is making faces, he might just be over her..

Its sad that with no one around, not even Sunny or Mohit could understand her today..Virat I understand was not in a state of mind to understand and he is reeling under his own insecurities and the fear of rejection, but the other two as well gathered nothing, nothing about her hurt, her pain, her insecurities and her fear of rejection..And since Sai is brash she has to be blamed for this situation as well..

Sai has no one to whom she can confide. She doesn't have a person like Virat's Sunny. I felt really bad that even Mohit couldn't understand her POV.

Makers should really bring up a person, a family or a friend, with whom Sai can share her deepest insecurities, fears and feelings.

More than Virat, I feel bad for Sai.😭 That girl only deserves love, care and sense of belongingness.❤️

I did feel bad for Virat too, but not as much as for Sai.

Just because Sai doesn't shed tears and speaks the truth right on his face, people are blaming her. 🤡

Originally posted by: scarlett22

So I begin my post with the usual disclaimer.

Disclaimer: When I watch a love story, I love both parts of the love, the male and female. So while this post is for Sai, I perfectly know what Virat went through today. No excuses. They writers could have toned down her dialogues a bit. I felt like Mohit today, wanting to apologise to Virat😆

I really hope Sai is forced to think about how she behaved today. I wish Vankar would give us original Sairat, scenes for these high points and the aftermath. he is really creative and gives us lovely emotions between them, not that he can't. Mr Vankar, if you're reading please use your own grey cells too.

Sai is hurting, can someone help her?

Though Sai's reactions were far too bitter and caustic, the words she spoke held a lot of meaning. I can somehow see where the writer was leading us to, with all those silences of Virat, during crucial scenes!

Scene 1 - The very first fight after Amey when Pakhi walked in, and she asked him, what have you got out of this marriage? he looked at Sai, his expression changed, he got Sai, he knew her worth, but he kept quiet. And Sai's face fell!

Scene 2 - Ladakh confrontation - Sai asked him, wasn't Pakhi the girl you met in the yoga camp? he kept quiet. And he told her, you have no right to talk about Pakhi and me. She swallowed her hurt.

Scene 3 - Worst one, the Devkit wedding - his How dare you when she spoke back to Pakhi, Virat keeping quiet while Pakhi threw some wild accusations, she looked to him, he knew Pakhi was wrong but he kept quiet.

Scene 4- Confrontation after Harinee's birthday, Pakhi called her a nurse and asked her to collect her fees. Virat kept quiet, when he knew the amount of sincere care Sai took. Again, she looked to him for support, he kept quiet.

Today she raised a few questions:

• Why does Pakhi wait for you?? Nobody knows. but yes, it is quite obvious in front of all that Pakhi is waiting for Virat. In front of the family, she told Virat, she stayed back not for Samrat. Everyone knows. Why can't Sai be affected by it, given the fact that she is Virat's wife??

• Her monologue - he married me in front of Bappa and right after he tells me, he is committed to someone else. The marriage was sacred for her, as it was for him. He made it clear she cannot expect anything, right after the ceremony, according to her!

• She is confused. She doesn't understand how he could forget Pakhi and want a life with her! She thinks he is being unfair to both, in her mixed up mind. And she also thinks it is wrong on her part to take away Pakhi's happiness, and maybe Virat's too.
• Why didn't Virat stop the yoga instructor immediately? She didn't want to hear all that crap about chemistry, very obviously. Why is she supposed to swallow all that and become all cheerful to celebrate her anniversary??

Who is the one person who can shake her out of this conundrum and explain to her? Does she have anyone? All along, she has swallowed all the humiliations from Pakhi and his family, putting down her status as Virat's wife.

• Sunny could have been more assertive today and explained the yoga episode.
• Aai could have asked Virat the night Sai was in hospital...when Pakhi has the right to walk into your room at odd hours, did you stop to think how Sai will feel as your wife?? and that was a grave mistake, Aai is never as explicit with Virat about Pakhi as she is to Sai about Virat's pyaar.
• Mohit doesn't know half the story, though he does know Virat loves Sai.

• Who is going to explain what actually happened between Virat and Pakhi? And that Virat considers it as 'waqt ka fitoor' not as his true love.

Bechari Sai. But today, everyone is on Virat's side, and rightly so. So I made an attempt to understand Sai's state of mind. The way she handled the anniversary celebrations was brutal and unnecessary.

This is actually a great track if only Vankar utilises the potential of Neilsha. We can get some wonderful scenes between them.

All theses points I wanted to say you covered well.👍👍👍👍 What virat think of himself. He can be on pakhi side because of his wada of friendship bhai ki Biwi family ki izzat which pakhi clearly thought as wada of EMA. She already informed virat about her feelings and what she wants. Virat sir only deny her when they r alone so pakhi devi status will always be intact. In this course whole family get a chance to came on sai. What sai said is right if he is so keen towards Pakhi why he is messing with her life. But still virat and his big silence 😂😂