Ghum Hain kisikey Pyaar Mein WU and Daily discussion thread no 36. - Page 144

Originally posted by: Saichintalli

@ bold... Laksh you believe or not I was never attracted to anyone in my teenage life, I am just saying teenage is vulnerable and people find attracted to someone when they find peace in their company, here sai finds that peace with virat but virat don't know that... That's it...

And I am not supporting him bashing sai , even I don't want him to use bad words....or push her to suicide... That's why I am saying I wish they handle this track different with different dialogue which shows his hurt other than doubting her

@bold not something that I cannot believe 😀❤️

I too don’t want them to move towards that track, just don’t 😞.

Originally posted by: laksh

@bold you think so? It is just that the guy overreacts when he loses it, his emotions always overpowers him. So his jealousy and him losing control over his feelings might make him do it. Don’t you think so?

What I mean when I use patriarchal - I mean to say that even though he loses control when emotions overpower him, there may be a part of him that doesn't stop him (maybe male ego?) from going down the path? Lot of men in our country are brought up with a sense of entitlement. Ofcourse some women who are kind of spoilt may do the same thing?

Just my POV. Understanding relationships is not my strong point.😅

@lakh @sadiltl ....not able to tag

Originally posted by: sadiltl

yeah ego he doesn’t show much. See he is a nice guy.

One example: he was asking her not to dance during aniket track. Even yesterday he criticized her for not focusing on studies but during their dinner he was all up for her ticket selling and also pleased that Neighbours will come to see her dance! That is his true self. He is not someone who cages her. It is just his words out of jealousy

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

When I mean when I use patriarchal - I mean to say that even though he loses control when emotions overpower him, there may be a part of him that doesn't stop him (maybe male ego?) from going down the path? Lot of men in our country are brought up with a sense of entitlement. Ofcourse some women who are kind of spoilt may do the same thing?

Just my POV. Understanding relationships is not my strong point.😅

men and their ego are inseparable as sairat ( for the lack of better adjective) 😛

Originally posted by: sadiltl

No one can keep giving in a relationship all the time! There will be something called resentment. So that shows up in various forms. Some people show it by controlling the other and some other by acting it out like shouting, demeaning basically there are various ways to express resentment. So that’s what will happen eventually. They have to let it out at one point. The more they keep silent the more the breakdown will be… either sai or virat!

virat is insecure because obviously due to age matters. She is young going to college and meeting people. The inmates of CN is not helping him in this matter. He knows sai is upset with them. He is making sure she ’sees’ him and find a reason to be with him. Till now he has been patient but as I said in other comments, you can only hold your love and affection for someone only for some time. He has too much to give but is being pulled back hesitating that sai has not shown any indication in that direction. So he keeps showing his love in other ways .. and sometimes expects also. What happens when someone doesn’t return what you want? It hurts. It is real 😩. What do people do when they are hurt. ? Be nice? NO

Sai definitely loves him. More than what he is expecting from her. It is so evident in her care for him. The way she wanted him to assert his haq on her to stop her from leaving shows how much she wants to be with him. But she doesn’t see him romantically because she thinks she is not desirable for him. She has ‘pakhi’ block in her head. She doesn’t approach him in the fear of rejection. As Lakshmi pointed out here may be she is in denial.. she is attracted to him and she knows now there is no deal ( after he stopped her) so in a way she knows what’s going to happen but still afraid that she could get hurt. Till her mental block of pakhi doesn’t go away, she can’t see virat in the way virat wants her to see him… like a lover. In other areas she is so protective of Him. He too knows that she cares and respects him. He has to understand that she is just not there when it comes to intimacy. But will he?

Sorry it is hard to decipher what they are feeling . But I can feel the tension.

the analysis is up on the main forum if interested!

sorry if i forgot to tag someone!

Originally posted by: laksh

This is too annoying now. Sai’s dress today was still lot better than the aubegrine colour dress that she wore recently 🤦‍♀️.

It's ok if they want to give her salwaar kammez, but what's with the extra pleats on the top, looks so weird and makes Sai look plump while she is not. Look at Karishma dresses, so nice fitting.

P's saree and blouse were so good today, why can't they give such sarees to Sai. She gets the same gaudy sarees with same border🤦

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

What I mean when I use patriarchal - I mean to say that even though he loses control when emotions overpower him, there may be a part of him that doesn't stop him (maybe male ego?) from going down the path? Lot of men in our country are brought up with a sense of entitlement. Ofcourse some women who are kind of spoilt may do the same thing?

Just my POV. Understanding relationships is not my strong point.😅

@lakh @sadiltl ....not able to tag

I see what you mean but I don’t know. I feel that he is very possessive of her and just has no control over his emotions sometimes when he gets hurt. I don’t know if we can call it ego. If she tries to explain and even if he thinks that she is probably saying the truth but doesn’t accept it or doesn’t want to listen to her explanations, then his ego would also be playing a part.

Seriously, I am very bad at understanding egoistic actions or traits. I couldn’t really see ego in him even when he had ousted her for a long time 🙈, could only see it as his emotions that he felt, the betrayal he felt. This is not justifying his actions, of course no, but that day too, I couldn’t see his ego when many in the forum did feel that.

@last like if this is called you not being strong about relationships, then I wonder what strong is actually 😃.

@sadiltl, tagging you since Nethra couldn’t.

Originally posted by: Svt611

didi ka blouse purana hai! saree is new.... she has 4-5 blouses which are repeated...

Sai on the other hand has tailor-made costumes.. for didi the sarees are ready-made blouses are repeated!

Oh I did not even realize the blouse is old one. Her acting distracts me most of the time 😂. But her sarees are so beautiful. Wish Sai gets new pattern sarees in future 🤞

Aaj sai behavior is hurting yaar....

I can feel virat... Seriously my husband loves me so much and we don't have any problems but emotions Express Karne ke mamle Mei he is zero , to be frank in negative ithna ki sometimes his indifference hurt us.... His actions speaks a lot but his words never , I know it... Most of the time I am so happy but sometimes unknowingly it hurts and unknowingly several questions rises in your head , but our life is not daily serial so, his another next sweet move clears all my doubts... So, I really felt for virat today... I agree he had so many faults like pakhi still yaar, he love sai now alot and craving for her ....

I don't know why I shared this but just wanted to share🤣