Virat is the Victim... - Page 5

Originally posted by: Stardust91

My question as always is this -- why then does Sai not just walk away? That will be his undoing and he will break never to be put together again. He will never love again because what he has for Sai is now the LOVE of his life; it will be more than justice for the domestic violence that he has subjected Sai to when holding her hand; denying her food and throwing her out.

So i will just ignore the "IAM YOUR FAMILY" outburst; the apologies and the tears and sadness and all that was said to Pakhi.

Sai should not smile at him then; or blush; or fall for him because as per some opinions he does not deserve forgiveness or to repent or to understand how wrong he was.

PS. ITV mirrors life in India and there are many women in India who are treated even worse than Sai and yet go back to men who are real abusers because of the nature of patriarchy that is deeply rooted in Indian society. It is very easy to call Virat an abuser and Sai his victim BUT this is nothing compared to what millions of women in that country face every day. Therefore, perhaps I am watching the wrong show on a wrong channel and I should go back to Hulu, Netflix, prime and apple tv because in those shows Sai would never look back regardless of Virat being shot or not; so let us then not be selective and cancel one character over the other; let's cancel the entire show and watch logical shows.

Well the answer to your question is that this is a daily soap and they need to run this show for as long as possible. So despite all the wrongs, Sai will always come back to Virat because otherwise there won't be a show at all. I am sure many who watch this show are ardent SaiRat fans and don't want them to separate permanently. All they ask is for Virat to mend his ways and also put a distance from Pakhi and stop going soft on her.

If we start discussing on real life stuff it will get completely complicated. I don't expect reality in ITV. I just watch it for entertainment and take part in the discussions because that is fun.

Originally posted by: Roseee12

Hey

I didn’t generalise. I haven’t seen your post. So please don’t make assumptions & misquote. Who said she isn’t at fault? You assumed it. My post made no reference to it. She came back and was willing to explain her side. She was apologetic. But what did Virat do? Threw an 18 Yo onto streets. I want her to explain as well once Virat addresses her trauma because he crossed the limits. She did bring it up. He said he was feeling ashamed. I want her to explain devkit shaadi when he addresses his abusive actions. Weird how you bring up DevKit when I never mentioned it/ said anything about her being right.

Stop misquoting pls- Wheres Pakhi manhandling coming from? I said he has to be stern consistently in his words because he created the mess. He’s aware of her intentions now, so he should act accordingly. Virat when Sai was in GC gave right reactions to Pakhi but now he is soft. See today’s episode - how is pointing that out wrong

Bashing and nitpicking unnecessarily and keeping Sai & Virat on the same scale of judgment is repulsive for me because I don’t see them equally flawed. She is the victim fgs, how do we compare a victim and abuser? He’s apologetic- good that doesn’t mean his actions can be excused. Just like how he has good traits this also remains. I see no harm in accepting that hes more flawed. His actions shows that.


Also Sai gets called out equally too though her actions are not as grave. Go through forum or twitter. Ppl criticised her equally during DevKit shaadi and recent lunch. If Virat is criticised more that’s because of his abusive actions

Firstly, why are you being abrupt? I was very polite and friendly in my post. Your post however comes across as being VERY hostile.

I am very aware of what Virat did. So I cannot bring up DevKit when asking whether what Sai did was wrong? Right. Noted. Isn't Virat's reaction of throwing Sai out as a result of her action of getting DevKit married or have I missed the entire show here?

I asked a question again-- Do people want him to manhandle Pakhi because telling her to leave him alone and that he does not love her was not enough? Again, why the hostility?

I am not saying his actions should be excused; i am in fact saying why isn't Sai walking away because that will be the correct response to his behaviour then.

PLEASE just tone down on the hostility and let us discuss things in a friendly way. I am not here to be treated rudely.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

So it is his duty to end things with her and also convey the same to Sai. I am sure once he tells her the complete truth, Sai would stand by him and stop questioning his relationship with Pakhi. As long he maintains the ambiguity, it is only natural for Sai to misunderstand him.

I don't think anyone is glorifying Sai here.

I m sorry but I can't help myself 🤣🤣🤣.

Nice thought , umeed pe duniya kayam hai

That is what actually happens..once rono/virat cleared things with emon/sai.

When rupkotha accused Rono of impregnating her and none of his family sided with emon fought for him believing he was right.

He even did not had to convince her, even when samrat sccused virat of same..it was emon who stood by him.

Originally posted by: janecastle

Well you seem to be quite confident about the goodness of a man who don't even think twice before manhandling his wife and is quite sure about his actions in hypothetical situations. So yeah, you can hope for anything.

Na mera confidence sai pe who never think before doing anything nor care to see what her actions have impact on virat . Even kaku bets on sai only that she will make virat against her she has dialogue also to pakhi in Ladakh track

It always Sai's action who drive virat to take extreme level coz noone insult virat d way sai does.

Again & again mentioning virat mishandling will never make sai a saint . Yes virat was wrong in manhandling , throwing out but truth sai plays a good part in it only food denying sai has no fault which was completely wrong on virat's side .

Pointing finger will never stop other fingers pointing towards sai.

Originally posted by: Stardust91

Firstly, why are you being abrupt? I was very polite and friendly in my post. Your post however comes across as being VERY hostile.

I am very aware of what Virat did. So I cannot bring up DevKit when asking whether what Sai did was wrong? Right. Noted. Isn't Virat's reaction of throwing Sai out as a result of her action of getting DevKit married or have I missed the entire show here?

I asked a question again-- Do people want him to manhandle Pakhi because telling her to leave him alone and that he does not love her was not enough? Again, why the hostility?

I am not saying his actions should be excused; i am in fact saying why isn't Sai walking away because that will be the correct response to his behaviour then.

PLEASE just tone down on the hostility and let us discuss things in a friendly way. I am not here to be treated rudely.

I was abrupt because you twisted my words. You went on to assume I said Sai was right in DevKit. You should have asked instead of assumptions. Yes that was his reaction and thats wrong. None of her actions gives him to right to abuse her. That can’t be used as an excuse. She was apologetic and was going to apologise when he did the inhumane thing. That’s exactly my whole point is. I was not being hostile. I was putting across my point. I felt I was misquoted. But the point remains.

I judge the story for hows it shown. If left to me I would have said Virat and Sai are better off living separately. But again what they choose to show- I interpret that.

Also edit: I am sorry if you felt hostile. That was not my intention. I won’t want to be hostile to real ppl for fictional characters. I am sorry. I was explaining my point. I was a a bit upset with the way I was quoted. Anyway sorry and good vibes to you

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I have only one question. If Sai believes Virat loves Pakhi then why doesn't she bring this up when everything is normal. Why does she claim her rights on her husband when she believes he loves his SIL? Why does she only bring this up when she wants to hurt him and doesn't have a problem otherwise.

I am laughing at the way people justify her nature of creating scenes in public and expect everyone to turn a blind eye to her mistakes. Even if someone has done bigger mistakes how does it justifies her wrongdoings?

I would like to see the reactions when Virat will question her character. If Sai has reasons to believe Virat is two-timing and question him in public instead of private then Virat should be given the same privileges.

Have you forgotten the Amay incident??

And this was when she was his zimmedaari..I have never said Sai is not at fault.

But what you call tamasha ; i say it is calling a lemon a lemon.

That is my whole point; this could be avoided if he just tells the truth but he just goes and denies everything..like it never happened.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

That's what pisses me off about Virat and I keep mentioning in my posts. People might think I actually don't like him but it's because I love him that such things actually annoys me. Why the hell would he stop Sai and let Pakhi misbehave with her ? Either stop both from the catfight or don't at all. Had I been Sai it would have pissed me so much that I would have lashed out at Virat instead. 😆 If he felt like Sai was kind of insulting his brother then he needs to realize that Pakhi is insulting him more by coming in his room in the middle of the night and he too is insulting him by not stopping her. Now people will say he stops her because he doesn't want her to waste her time behind Pakhi's nonsensical taunting but how long can one keep quiet and not retort ? 😡

Exactly.. People say he is stuck between two women fighting for him..Has he not created the situation.. Sai insults Pakhi by talking about her not thinking about Samrat, but never does it come in his mind that Samrat is insulted the most, on a daily basis by Pakhi....He has not even ask her to to knock the door before entering and has given Sai looks for taunting Patralekha.. I understand there is no use to getting involved in an argument with Patralekha, but for how long does he expect Sai to not react to her verbal abuse..It has been just one and half day and how many times has this girl bee called khudgarz and that too when since the time this girl has entered this house , she has not done anything for herself, has not even studied.. And he listens to it all..

@ bold I so feel you darling..

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Na mera confidence sai pe who never think before doing anything nor care to see what her actions have impact on virat . Even kaku bets on sai only that she will make virat against her she has dialogue also to pakhi in Ladakh track

It always Sai's action who drive virat to take extreme level coz noone insult virat d way sai does.

Again & again mentioning virat mishandling will never make sai a saint . Yes virat was wrong in manhandling , throwing out but truth sai plays a good part in it only food denying sai has no fault which was completely wrong on virat's side .

Pointing finger will never stop other fingers pointing towards sai.

Oh god I can't even 🤣🤣 So it is Sai's fault that Virat manhandled her, refused her food and then threw her out. Well that says a lot about the great IPS Virat Chavan. 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Sairat

Have you forgotten the Amay incident??

And this was when she was his zimmedaari..I have never said Sai is not at fault.

But what you call tamasha ; i say it is calling a lemon a lemon.

That is my whole point; this could be avoided if he just tells the truth but he just goes and denies everything..like it never happened.

Exactly my point, why does she call lemon a lemon when it suits her not otherwise? Lemon a lemon should be called every time not only when it suits her or want to hurt someone.

Since calling lemon is accepted then we all agree Sai did wrong by hiding about Devkit from Virat so he should go to her college and call lemon a lemon in front of all the teachers and students. I wonder why people around Dont do it in public if that's acceptable. I guess they are educated and doesn't believe in washing dirty linen in public

I would never clarify my stand if someone is sarcastic and vindictive so I understand why he won't do it as well.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

When Virat threw Sai out I don't remember a single so called Virat fans justifying his act. If you they did then please share the post details but I cannot say the same for other characters.

When Virat is bashed then it comes under constructive criticism but Sai’s mistakes are pointed out then people are called names and questioned about their PoV. If you truly believe both are flawed people won't be reacting this way when Sai’s fault is pointed out.

I can share my old posts where I have held Virat responsible for the mess he created but there is no point in doing so because I am categorized as someone blind fan then let it be I care a damn about such people’s opinion and I Dont need to justify myself

Were you absent than, because i saw people justifying virat as he threw sai out as does not know the whole truth.

There were several articles on it.