Virat is the Victim... - Page 6

Originally posted by: Roseee12

So just because there are worse things happening to women this shouldn’t be called out? It should be called out for the exact same reason. There’s nothing wrong in calling out character flaws and hoping for growth. I myself has in previous post said I want to see growth in Virat. Calling out flaws doesn’t mean cancelling the character. Nobody of spoke of cancelling here. They called out Virat for being the abuser and rightly said Sai is a victim. Thats what they showed. I hope for his growth. You are bringing in the cancelling part. Just because Sai endured less doesn’t mean its okay. Its still wrong

Who said any of it like- Sai shouldn’t blush or fall for him. You are twisting words. Ppl call him out and expects growth. That isn’t equal to hating the character. Yes his last apology, I am your family part remains but also see how he ended up throwing her out even after I am your family talk. I want to see growth in Viart. He can’t keep repeating the same mistakes. He should talk about it and soothe her trauma.

Calling out a character isn’t equal to hating the show. People watch the show coz they like it. But they will call out what they feel is wrong. Its their interpretation. That aint equal to cancelling. When someone says he’s at fault that means they want to see him grow and then progress as Sairat. I didn’t see anybody here talking about cancellation or Sairat separation. They hoped for a proper redemption

Firstly, please, like i said previously. I do not know you and my first instinct when talking to someone I do not know is being polite. However, what i am feeling towards my posts from you is hostility. Secondly, I was talking of MYSELF. MYSELF. I said perhaps I should go back to watching something logical; me, myself and I. because Sai should NOT have returned. In a real world scenario, where Virat being the abuser and Sai being the victim, she would never have returned to him, regardless of his tears or him being in hospital. On a show produced outside of India in a country like Britain, Canada, or the United States, Sai would NOT have returned.

I would like both the characters I have invested in to grow; why must growth only be for Virat? Sai needs to learn some diplomacy too. I have never ever said that Sai is NOT mature but she is definitely not diplomatic and cannot sweet talk people for the sake of just getting along, something which in the real world is very essential. ESPECIALLY in a profession like medicine.

Also, I AM SAYING, so does this mean she should not respond; I was questioning my interpretation; not twisting anyone's words; least of all yours' for all the hostility you continue to show.

I think you are misunderstanding me because I come across as Virat;s supporter or fangirl or whatever; however I also see Sai's side and i am happy to be corrected and have discussions. However, i would like to be treated with respect and dignity as I am treating everyone here.

At the end of the day Sai and Virat are not real people, but peopel here are and I am not ready to be mean to anyone due to a difference in opinion. However, ther eis a lot of open hostility towards anyone who has a different POV

Originally posted by: janecastle

I feel like laughing when people make Virat into some sort of abla mard. 😆 That guy has done so many objectionable things and get rightfully called out for it. If anything, the backlash he is receiving is much less compared to his actions. So why in the world are people dragging Sai to justify Virat's wrongs. As far as I remember Sai has not done anything wrong to the level of Virat's actions. And yet she is made into the wrong one and Virat is the victim. What sort of rubbish is that. Bechara Virat is being tortured by two cruel women. Let's just conveniently forget that he is the one who kept encouraging one of them and insulting the other. 🤪

No clue.... Going by his actions..he has received nothing.. nothing at all..🤣

Sai's mistakes and Virat's crimes, I have no clue how can they be equated..

@red This is latest..A man who went on to clarify the woman who was his ex and now bhabhi, who had accepted his marriage , that this marriage is not for real..A man who went on to her ex to tutor his wife to become like her ..A man who never questioned his ex insulting his wife infront of his wife.. and suddenly tells her, he is not in love with her.. is now a bechara between two cruel women who do nothing but get involved in a cat fight for him..Bechara, phas gaya do ladkiyo k beech.. also eqauting those two women by saying this

Originally posted by: Sairat

Were you absent than, because i saw people justifying virat as he threw sai out as does not know the whole truth.

There were several articles on it.

Originally posted by: janecastle

Well the answer to your question is that this is a daily soap and they need to run this show for as long as possible. So despite all the wrongs, Sai will always come back to Virat because otherwise there won't be a show at all. I am sure many who watch this show are ardent SaiRat fans and don't want them to separate permanently. All they ask is for Virat to mend his ways and also put a distance from Pakhi and stop going soft on her.

If we start discussing on real life stuff it will get completely complicated. I don't expect reality in ITV. I just watch it for entertainment and take part in the discussions because that is fun.

Yes Jane, the discussions are fun; and i appreciate the fact that you chose to respond to me with respect.

What I have been saying is that I want growth in BOTH characters.

There needs to be a boundary that is drawn so that lines are not crossed by Pakhi; I do not know why Virat does not draw those lines; is he soft, well he was not soft with Sai but today I did realise that he was gentler when he told Sai to be less rude to Pakhi. Is he perhaps saddened that Pakhi is alone and Samrat is missing so he cannot be harsh with her -- maybe; is he guilty for breaking his promise and loving Sai - maybe. However, that remains to be analysed and seen.

I do feel that Sai is more than capable of responding to Pakhi and putting Pakhi rightfully in her place.

Originally posted by: Stardust91

Firstly, please, like i said previously. I do not know you and my first instinct when talking to someone I do not know is being polite. However, what i am feeling towards my posts from you is hostility. Secondly, I was talking of MYSELF. MYSELF. I said perhaps I should go back to watching something logical; me, myself and I. because Sai should NOT have returned. In a real world scenario, where Virat being the abuser and Sai being the victim, she would never have returned to him, regardless of his tears or him being in hospital. On a show produced outside of India in a country like Britain, Canada, or the United States, Sai would NOT have returned.

I would like both the characters I have invested in to grow; why must growth only be for Virat? Sai needs to learn some diplomacy too. I have never ever said that Sai is NOT mature but she is definitely not diplomatic and cannot sweet talk people for the sake of just getting along, something which in the real world is very essential. ESPECIALLY in a profession like medicine.

Also, I AM SAYING, so does this mean she should not respond; I was questioning my interpretation; not twisting anyone's words; least of all yours' for all the hostility you continue to show.

I think you are misunderstanding me because I come across as Virat;s supporter or fangirl or whatever; however I also see Sai's side and i am happy to be corrected and have discussions. However, i would like to be treated with respect and dignity as I am treating everyone here.

At the end of the day Sai and Virat are not real people, but peopel here are and I am not ready to be mean to anyone due to a difference in opinion. However, ther eis a lot of open hostility towards anyone who has a different POV

Hey!
I don’t see this going anywhere. But just a clarification when I say Virat needs growth that doesn’t mean Sai is perfect. It just means I was referring to Virat at that particular point of time. When you say why only ckt needs growth it feels like questioning something I never mentioned. I never said Only Virat. I said Virat needs to grow because I was discussing him. Ofc both needs growth but in diff quantity and diff aspects. Yes if it a western show obviously none of these tropes would have played out. I am sorry if I misinterpreted you. I don’t want you to feel hostility from real ppl for fictional characters. I apologised in the earlier post as well. My response was so only because I thought I was being misquoted. And No I didn’t judge you to be a Virat stan or whatever. You were polite and welcoming for discussion. I think we started off on a wrong foot because of wrong post probably lol.
what you said- I can’t be mean to real ppl for fiction. Hence the apology if you felt so.
peace out

Originally posted by: Stardust91

it seems to be people have genuinely forgotten when Virat asked Pakhi to not come into his room UNLESS she had some "kaam"; also people have forgotten how he told Pakhi he did not want her around; or how he told Pakhi he did not love her; or how he asked her to leave when he was in hospital.

So please explain to me how many times he needs to say this and how often he needs to say it so that people can give him a break

Also if this topic is in response to my topic then i welcome the discussions.

What Topic??

No , we have not forgotten but you may have forgotten that this was not the first time when virat tried to be strict with Patralekha..

Why would Patralekha take Virat's word seriously time and again he has proved to her ; that he will take a u-turn and stand with her.Take end number of examples :

Virat comes to fetch Sai after fight, Sai asks her to not interfere and Virat supports her.Patralekha understands her place leaves house knowing full well Virat cannot become his, than what..

He goes to fetch her back, if that is not enough and she refuses to return; Virat forces Sai by making her feel guilty as a third wheel; which makes Sai acknowledge that after being a wife she is actually a third wheel.

In amay scene he first supports Sai and later demeans her in front of Patralekha

Next comes chilli grinding scene he says Bas Pakhi..and than when Sai teaches her a lesson ..Virat comes and insults Sai by asking Sai to fetch Ice for Patralekha..

And thus the story continues..

It has been on a loop ; so why now when he asked her to stay in limit would she agree to that when this has been a pattern with Virat.

She knows very well; it is soon that Virat will find solace in her.

Originally posted by: janecastle

Because one has done more mistakes than the other. Sai's mistakes can never be compared to that of Virat's because his mistakes often border on domestic violence. Sai has not done anything wrong to that level. So it is quite obvious why Virat gets criticized more. But that doesn't mean Sai is not criticized. Even last week, she was called out by many for inviting DevKit and creating drama when Virat was still recovering. Today she was questioned for some of her words against Pakhi. So I don't really understand the narrative "Sai is never questioned" used by some.

Border kya, it was a clear case of domestic violence. The police officer in him would arrest a man if he gets a case registered against the man for the same set of things he did to Sai... The same ACP chose to forgive and forget when a crime was done by a family member.. And is allowing the same member to insult the victim(Pulkit) after being told to not do so, and his own wife as well..

Also when Virat is soft towards Pakhi, its his nature and when he is abusive towards Sai, its a plain case of copy paste KD👏👏

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

What about Amay’s incident? He was being protective of her not suspecting her having an affair.

Exactly my point, why does she call lemon a lemon when it suits her not otherwise? Lemon a lemon should be called every time not only when it suits her or want to hurt someone.

Since calling lemon is accepted then we all agree Sai did wrong by hiding about Devkit from Virat so he should go to her college and call lemon a lemon in front of all the teachers and students. I wonder why people around Dont do it in public if that's acceptable. I guess they are educated and doesn't believe in washing dirty linen in public

I would never clarify my stand if someone is sarcastic and vindictive so I understand why he won't do it as well.

Well than its your pov not mine..

I believe calling a lemon a lemon and yes he should go and explain all done by Sai infront of college.

But why he did not; oh maybe because his family has stopped the marriage of devkit because once pulkit was their servant and list of their misdoings is too long.

And what makes you think if given the opportunity virat would not have insulted her infront of college because he foes jt every time in front if his family.

Given his role...the character Virat is the weakest in this show. That's not how a male lead should be. He is so inconsistent that this might be the first show that I've watched where I don't feel anything for the lead couple.

I feel all the other characters in this show are mostly justified given their respective roles. But his character arch is plain disappointing.

Originally posted by: Sairat

Well than its your pov not mine..

I believe calling a lemon a lemon and yes he should go and explain all done by Sai infront of college.

But why he did not; oh maybe because his family has stopped the marriage of devkit because once pulkit was their servant and list of their misdoings is too long.

And what makes you think if given the opportunity virat would not have insulted her infront of college because he foes jt every time in front if his family.