Virat is the Victim... - Page 3

Originally posted by: Magnifique

Agree... I get irritated at the leeway he gives paapi. He stand aside watching the women argue between them due to the mess he created like he has nothing to do with it.

This is the most irritating part. He is the root cause of all these problems and yet he behaves as if he has nothing to do with it. I want to smack the guy when he gives that confused look when the two women keep fighting because of him. 🤪

Everyone feels they are being neutral and their perspectives aren't biased but that's not always true. When we are biased towards out fav characters then why blame others for their biasedness

Originally posted by: janecastle

Well Sai did leave when Virat "threw" her out and refused to come back to him when he tried to bring her back. Then Virat got shot and Sai is behaving like any normal wife would do. She also made it very clear that she will leave him once he recovers. So I really don't understand what you are trying to question here?

And what Virat and Pakhi do becomes her business when the latter taunts her for everything and the former remains a mute spectator most of the time.

Anyways this discussion is pointless because you clearly can't see Virat's faults and is dragging down Sai for no reason. As far as I am concerned, both Sai and Virat are flawed characters and has made their own set of mistakes, one more than the other. And both of them gets called out for their mistakes, except by a few who can't seem to see anything beyond their favorite.

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@Red - that is what I am saying that they are both flawed; and I personally would neevr drag down one to cover for the other's mistakes.

@Purple - I see Virat being called out more often TBH; and the "can't see beyond favourite" thing applies both ways does it not? However, it seems one is often called out a lot more than the other

Consistency with which people blame Sai here is remarkable. Isnt it tiring? Virat manhandled her/ threw her out onto streets/ denied her food but still Sai is the Villian here. She hasn’t done an even 0.00000001 atrocities of what Virat has committed till now.
Honestly ppl hype up your favs without nitpicking on Sai. Its so repulsive. Her faults is no were near to Virats. They are incomparable but still she gets bashed for the minutest flow. There’s no harm in accepting Virat is more flawed than Sai- that’s how thwy showed on on screen
He brought in a crazy ex girl friend package yo Sai. She endures abuse on daily basis. But again instead of clarifications he stays silent. Worse now he is a victim. Lol.

If Virat gets called out more often because thats how his actions are. He acts abusive. Had Sai done the same she would have been called out too. They are not equally flawed unless Sai behave in the same abusive way- manhandling/ throw Viray out of his house/ deny food etc. How are their actions comparable even. They are not written on equal base. Sai is shown as a better version obviously

Its not about taking Sai’s side- She was the victim and Virat was the abuser. I don’t understand why ppl call him the victim. Even the onscreen virat owned up to his mistakes and accepted. But here.......

Create a ruckus, when retaliated play victim

When Virat threw Sai out I don't remember a single so called Virat fans justifying his act. If you they did then please share the post details but I cannot say the same for other characters.

When Virat is bashed then it comes under constructive criticism but Sai’s mistakes are pointed out then people are called names and questioned about their PoV. If you truly believe both are flawed people won't be reacting this way when Sai’s fault is pointed out.

I can share my old posts where I have held Virat responsible for the mess he created but there is no point in doing so because I am categorized as someone blind fan then let it be I care a damn about such people’s opinion and I Dont need to justify myself

Originally posted by: janecastle

Well Sai did leave when Virat "threw" her out and refused to come back to him when he tried to bring her back. Then Virat got shot and Sai is behaving like any normal wife would do. She also made it very clear that she will leave him once he recovers. So I really don't understand what you are trying to question here?

And what Virat and Pakhi do becomes her business when the latter taunts her for everything and the former remains a mute spectator most of the time.

Anyways this discussion is pointless because you clearly can't see Virat's faults and is dragging down Sai for no reason. As far as I am concerned, both Sai and Virat are flawed characters and has made their own set of mistakes, one more than the other. And both of them gets called out for their mistakes, except by a few who can't seem to see anything beyond their favorite.

I dint wanted to discuss anythinh with u , so it's u who made it pointless coz some people can't stop glorifying sai , it was TM who asked d questions so I answered that

Sai is going to leave house song I m listening 4 very long & I know d reality behind it I saw how virat got ready to invite devkit.

If sai think virat is so much in love with pakhi then why she returned only & faught with pakhi , she would had let pakhi take care of virat . If not pakhi anyway Ashwani is very much alive to take care virat , virat still would had not died then why favouring virat .

If virat started d mess sai should end it once 4 all.

Originally posted by: Roseee12

Consistency with which people blame Sai here is remarkable. Isnt it tiring? Virat manhandled her/ threw her out onto streets/ denied her food but still Sai is the Villian here. She hasn’t done an even 0.00000001 atrocities of what Virat has committed till now.
Honestly ppl hype up your favs without nitpicking on Sai. Its so repulsive. Her faults is no were near to Virats. They are incomparable but still she gets bashed for the minutest flow. There’s no harm in accepting Virat is more flawed than Sai- that’s how thwy showed on on screen
He brought in a crazy ex girl friend package yo Sai. She endures abuse on daily basis. But again instead of clarifications he stays silent. Worse now he is a victim. Lol

If Virat gets called out more often because thats how his actions are. He acts abusive. Had Sai done the same she would have been called out too

I can only talk about myself and comment on what I analyse and respond to.

I find it upsetting that one post on Viru means that EVERYONE will generalize someone into some enemy of Sai's; i agree that she didn't get any food and was thrown out BUT nobody answers me when I ask WHY DID SHE NOT TELL HIM when she knew from her own dialogues at holi "you will never forgive me after you know what I am going to do". Did she not say this? Could she not have found proof BEFORE she got them married; or asked Virat to help her. Fine he would not have listened but where Pulkit waited for so long to marry Devi, could he not have waited for a bit longer until Virat investigated everything?

I am also asking why people forget everything Virat has said to Pakhi after he returned from GC? So he should manhandle Pakhi also so that she understands?

Asking questions does not mean that I am blaming Sai; it means I cannot understand some things and want clarity.

However, it seems that asking for other POVs mean attacks and being called repulsive;

Originally posted by: Stardust91

However, it seems one is often called out a lot more than the other

Because one has done more mistakes than the other. Sai's mistakes can never be compared to that of Virat's because his mistakes often border on domestic violence. Sai has not done anything wrong to that level. So it is quite obvious why Virat gets criticized more. But that doesn't mean Sai is not criticized. Even last week, she was called out by many for inviting DevKit and creating drama when Virat was still recovering. Today she was questioned for some of her words against Pakhi. So I don't really understand the narrative "Sai is never questioned" used by some.

Thank you for the post. Agree with everything you said. Sai is in a situation where she finds her husband’s EX in her room,at late hours for wierd reasons ,almost on regular basis. I wonder how could Sai still be talking patiently with that psycho who gets away with everything due to Virat’s inconsistent attitude. What happened to that Virat who sternly warned Pakhi to maintain the sacredness of their relationship and not come to his room at odd hours? Strangely he again turned too soft and cool with her,whose intentions are known to him by now.

Originally posted by: Stardust91

I can only talk about myself and comment on what I analyse and respond to.

I find it upsetting that one post on Viru means that EVERYONE will generalize someone into some enemy of Sai's; i agree that she didn't get any food and was thrown out BUT nobody answers me when I ask WHY DID SHE NOT TELL HIM when she knew from her own dialogues at holi "you will never forgive me after you know what I am going to do". Did she not say this? Could she not have found proof BEFORE she got them married; or asked Virat to help her. Fine he would not have listened but where Pulkit waited for so long to marry Devi, could he not have waited for a bit longer until Virat investigated everything?

I am also asking why people forget everything Virat has said to Pakhi after he returned from GC? So he should manhandle Pakhi also so that she understands?

Asking questions does not mean that I am blaming Sai; it means I cannot understand some things and want clarity.

However, it seems that asking for other POVs mean attacks and being called repulsive;

Hey

I didn’t generalise. I haven’t seen your post. So please don’t make assumptions & misquote. Who said she isn’t at fault? You assumed it. My post made no reference to it. She came back and was willing to explain her side. She was apologetic. But what did Virat do? Threw an 18 Yo onto streets. I want her to explain as well once Virat addresses her trauma because he crossed the limits. She did bring it up. He said he was feeling ashamed. I want her to explain devkit shaadi when he addresses his abusive actions. Weird how you bring up DevKit when I never mentioned it/ said anything about her being right.

Stop misquoting pls- Wheres Pakhi manhandling coming from? I said he has to be stern consistently in his words because he created the mess. He’s aware of her intentions now, so he should act accordingly. Virat when Sai was in GC gave right reactions to Pakhi but now he is soft. See today’s episode - how is pointing that out wrong

Bashing and nitpicking unnecessarily and keeping Sai & Virat on the same scale of judgment is repulsive for me because I don’t see them equally flawed. She is the victim fgs, how do we compare a victim and abuser? He’s apologetic- good that doesn’t mean his actions can be excused. Just like how he has good traits this also remains. I see no harm in accepting that hes more flawed. His actions shows that.


Also Sai gets called out equally too though her actions are not as grave. Go through forum or twitter. Ppl criticised her equally during DevKit shaadi and recent lunch. If Virat is criticised more that’s because of his abusive actions