Virat is the Victim... - Page 4

Originally posted by: Stardust91

I can only talk about myself and comment on what I analyse and respond to.

I find it upsetting that one post on Viru means that EVERYONE will generalize someone into some enemy of Sai's; i agree that she didn't get any food and was thrown out BUT nobody answers me when I ask WHY DID SHE NOT TELL HIM when she knew from her own dialogues at holi "you will never forgive me after you know what I am going to do". Did she not say this? Could she not have found proof BEFORE she got them married; or asked Virat to help her. Fine he would not have listened but where Pulkit waited for so long to marry Devi, could he not have waited for a bit longer until Virat investigated everything?

I am also asking why people forget everything Virat has said to Pakhi after he returned from GC? So he should manhandle Pakhi also so that she understands?

Asking questions does not mean that I am blaming Sai; it means I cannot understand some things and want clarity.

However, it seems that asking for other POVs mean attacks and being called repulsive;

See u got d live example for what I wished u all d best . What happened with virat's fan , u will keep hearing sai & virat flawed song but only sai all karname will be hided behind virat & keep critizing him game will carry on.

Originally posted by: Stardust91

it seems to be people have genuinely forgotten when Virat asked Pakhi to not come into his room UNLESS she had some "kaam"; also people have forgotten how he told Pakhi he did not want her around; or how he told Pakhi he did not love her; or how he asked her to leave when he was in hospital.

So please explain to me how many times he needs to say this and how often he needs to say it so that people can give him a break

Also if this topic is in response to my topic then i welcome the discussions.

The thing is that in private he said one thing and in front of sai and family another. Remember, in hospital, he said pakhi to go home because she was nurse or doctor and he didn't need her?

Later on, he comes back and tell family he asked her to go hole because she was tired. Paapi told him of her feelings for him and what she expects her position to be in life, still he acts like he can't understand why she behaves likes that.

Even today, he sided with her telling sai not to do her bezzati. Like what even ?! Who is she even ? He has put on pakhi on a sort of pedestal infront of sai. It follows that sai will be uncertain about his current feelings for paapi.

He needs to be more stern of pakhi and stop mollycoddling her infront of sai. He is only encouraging both of them in a way and they keep on arguing because of him. He just needs to step his foot down.

Originally posted by: janecastle

So it is his duty to end things with her and also convey the same to Sai. I am sure once he tells her the complete truth, Sai would stand by him and stop questioning his relationship with Pakhi. As long he maintains the ambiguity, it is only natural for Sai to misunderstand him.

I don't think anyone is glorifying Sai here.

I m sorry but I can't help myself 🤣🤣🤣.

Nice thought , umeed pe duniya kayam hai

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

I m sorry but I can't help myself 🤣🤣🤣.

Nice thought , umeed pe duniya kayam hai

Well you seem to be quite confident about the goodness of a man who don't even think twice before manhandling his wife and is quite sure about his actions in hypothetical situations. So yeah, you can hope for anything.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Only question why topic name is virat is victim ? Why not virat is culprit ?

Is it to mock virat's fans ?

Let me answer regarding Sai's bf question.

Virat don't play double game like head or tail both r his, it was he who left pakhi once he knew about samrakhi , I can guarantee u virat would had left sai to get her reunite with her so called past lover or bf & never would had taunted her or keep bringing her past b/w them just to get back to sai.

No, because I feel Virat is a victim..but he is a victim of his own descisions ; not of Sai.

Originally posted by: janecastle

Because one has done more mistakes than the other. Sai's mistakes can never be compared to that of Virat's because his mistakes often border on domestic violence. Sai has not done anything wrong to that level. So it is quite obvious why Virat gets criticized more. But that doesn't mean Sai is not criticized. Even last week, she was called out by many for inviting DevKit and creating drama when Virat was still recovering. Today she was questioned for some of her words against Pakhi. So I don't really understand the narrative "Sai is never questioned" used by some.

My question as always is this -- why then does Sai not just walk away? That will be his undoing and he will break never to be put together again. He will never love again because what he has for Sai is now the LOVE of his life; it will be more than justice for the domestic violence that he has subjected Sai to when holding her hand; denying her food and throwing her out.

So i will just ignore the "IAM YOUR FAMILY" outburst; the apologies and the tears and sadness and all that was said to Pakhi.

Sai should not smile at him then; or blush; or fall for him because as per some opinions he does not deserve forgiveness or to repent or to understand how wrong he was.

PS. ITV mirrors life in India and there are many women in India who are treated even worse than Sai and yet go back to men who are real abusers because of the nature of patriarchy that is deeply rooted in Indian society. It is very easy to call Virat an abuser and Sai his victim BUT this is nothing compared to what millions of women in that country face every day. Therefore, perhaps I am watching the wrong show on a wrong channel and I should go back to Hulu, Netflix, prime and apple tv because in those shows Sai would never look back regardless of Virat being shot or not; so let us then not be selective and cancel one character over the other; let's cancel the entire show and watch logical shows.

Originally posted by: dairymilkanu

Surely he will leave sai if she have another lover.He will not force her into his relationship.He may not love anyone after her we know how deeply he is fallen for her but surely will unite her with her lover

Sai and virat are both flawed.But most of the time we analyse only sai's feelings not virat's. He is facing taunts in the family due to sai.She also yells at him.He also knows she doesn't love him but only cares him.Virat is a person who seems to be happy but he has internal conflict. He never had any pretty moments in past now he is ashamed of it and is neither sure of his future. He wasn't showered by unconditional love his mother's love was hindered by BK.so when a girl with unconditional love came to his life he doesn't want to share her love even to his mother it is obivous in his words.

I feel so annoyed when everyone criticizes virat but not sai.Both are equally wrong in every matter of their conflict

I have personally criticised Sai for giving another chance to Virat; as it is ,she is getting slapped virat says sorry and and after half an hour virat again slaps her and the loop continues.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Did I said that plz point out line I would like to see where I said that. I only stated how virat would had reacted . I never said virat will reunite , I said he will leave her , interferring in other's matter is Sai's fav hobby not virat.

If virat torturing sai so much why can't she leave virat on once 4 all, who is stopping her , vaise bhi she only do what she want to . What virat or pakhi do is none of her business

U tell me why can't sai leave virat ? Don't tell virat is not letting her do so or she is a abla naari that she can't apply 4 annulment without virat's help.

I agree with you on that; Sai should leave Virat and break this ongoing loop.

It is Sai's fault ; she should have not agreed to come to CN again.

Originally posted by: Stardust91

My question as always is this -- why then does Sai not just walk away? That will be his undoing and he will break never to be put together again. He will never love again because what he has for Sai is now the LOVE of his life; it will be more than justice for the domestic violence that he has subjected Sai to when holding her hand; denying her food and throwing her out.

So i will just ignore the "IAM YOUR FAMILY" outburst; the apologies and the tears and sadness and all that was said to Pakhi.

Sai should not smile at him then; or blush; or fall for him because as per some opinions he does not deserve forgiveness or to repent or to understand how wrong he was.

PS. ITV mirrors life in India and there are many women in India who are treated even worse than Sai and yet go back to men who are real abusers because of the nature of patriarchy that is deeply rooted in Indian society. It is very easy to call Virat an abuser and Sai his victim BUT this is nothing compared to what millions of women in that country face every day. Therefore, perhaps I am watching the wrong show on a wrong channel and I should go back to Hulu, Netflix, prime and apple tv because in those shows Sai would never look back regardless of Virat being shot or not; so let us then not be selective and cancel one character over the other; let's cancel the entire show and watch logical shows.

So just because there are worse things happening to women this shouldn’t be called out? It should be called out for the exact same reason. There’s nothing wrong in calling out character flaws and hoping for growth. I myself has in previous post said I want to see growth in Virat. Calling out flaws doesn’t mean cancelling the character. Nobody of spoke of cancelling here. They called out Virat for being the abuser and rightly said Sai is a victim. Thats what they showed. I hope for his growth. You are bringing in the cancelling part. Just because Sai endured less doesn’t mean its okay. Its still wrong

Who said any of it like- Sai shouldn’t blush or fall for him. You are twisting words. Ppl call him out and expects growth. That isn’t equal to hating the character. Yes his last apology, I am your family part remains but also see how he ended up throwing her out even after I am your family talk. I want to see growth in Viart. He can’t keep repeating the same mistakes. He should talk about it and soothe her trauma.

Calling out a character isn’t equal to hating the show. People watch the show coz they like it. But they will call out what they feel is wrong. Its their interpretation. That aint equal to cancelling. When someone says he’s at fault that means they want to see him grow and then progress as Sairat. I didn’t see anybody here talking about cancellation or Sairat separation. They hoped for a proper redemption

Originally posted by: Stardust91

I can only talk about myself and comment on what I analyse and respond to.

I find it upsetting that one post on Viru means that EVERYONE will generalize someone into some enemy of Sai's; i agree that she didn't get any food and was thrown out BUT nobody answers me when I ask WHY DID SHE NOT TELL HIM when she knew from her own dialogues at holi "you will never forgive me after you know what I am going to do". Did she not say this? Could she not have found proof BEFORE she got them married; or asked Virat to help her. Fine he would not have listened but where Pulkit waited for so long to marry Devi, could he not have waited for a bit longer until Virat investigated everything?

I am also asking why people forget everything Virat has said to Pakhi after he returned from GC? So he should manhandle Pakhi also so that she understands?

Asking questions does not mean that I am blaming Sai; it means I cannot understand some things and want clarity.

However, it seems that asking for other POVs mean attacks and being called repulsive;

@ bold : nobody said he should manhadle her.

He should stand up for his wife. Just one example, today, pakhi insulted sai, he should’ve been stern and said, “don’t disrespect my wife like this, she’s my wife disrespecting her means you’re disrespecting me, you’re my Bhabi and I respect that relationship out of the respect I have for my brother but if you insult my wife, I ask you to keep your distance from me and my wife, you’re doing her bezatti and I will absolutely not tolerate it”

Something along the lines when she’s demeaning her and calling her derogatory terms like gold digger or khudgarz.

And he doesn’t get cookie points for doing this. He’s her husband and every husband should stand up for his wife’s honour, and protect her from abuse.

His respect for his Bhabi should never overpower his concern for his wife’s mental health, specially when his wife is a victim of the mess these 2 created and is being targeted because his Bhabi is a perv and is in love with him and he knows this clearly.