Why did sai married virat & why can't divorce him - Page 2

Such wonderful write ups. The forum has mostly decided whose fault it is without even watching the episode. What a nice way by the makers to sustain interest in the show!

End of the day no human is perfect & both Sai & Virat have flaws. How they better themselves will be an interesting journey to watch.

I’m also interested in Pakhis journey. Would if she will ever realize she’s been wrong about Sai.

I only feel the drama level by the chavan family isn’t going to drop no matter how Virat reacts. That is trp gold. The upside is we get unique points of view from different members of the forum.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Annulment of marriage is not available in this case. Annulment means declaring a marriage null and void. It is granted only when the marriage has not met legal requirements at the time of marriage --fraud, bigamy, blood relationship that amounts to incest, age of the bride or groom and mental incompetence where one of them is incapable of giving consent. The whole concept of non consummation of marriage as being a ground for annulment has been misinterpreted. It is possible only if the party can prove that the spouse suffers impotency and therefore cannot consummate the marriage or give the petitioner the 'joy' of being married. Not if they're in a brahmachaar wali Shaadi.

Also they can't file for a divorce until one year of marriage, as per law. Either by mutual consent or otherwise. The total separation time in any case would range from 18-24 months.

Marriage can be annulled if one of them never intended to consummate the marriage. Based on this their marriage can be annulled but we know that's not gonna happen.

Originally posted by: yyyy

Marriage can be annulles if one of them never intended to consummate the marriage. Based on this their marriage can be annulled but we know that's not gonna happen.

No. It can be ground for divorce as it is seen as "cruelty" to refuse consummation. Annulment is only for those marriages that are "voidable", which means they did not meet the requirements of a valid marriage as per the law, to begin with. If two consenting, mentally fit adults have entered into marriage without any previous undissolved marriage then there is no annulment granted. Conditions for a good marriage that cannot be annuled can be read in Section 11 of Hindu Marriage Act 1955, which is applicable in this case.

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

I have a different question- Why did Virat insist on marrying her when she gave him the option of running away? Pride. Duty. Farz.

Despite it being a deal marriage, she has grown very attached to Virat and its the same with Virat. Ever since she stepped into the house, she's been doing things for him because she knows he is a good person. She's listened to his family and their insults on the first day and answered only when Virat gave her the license to do so. She brought Pakhi back for his sake. She may not have romantic feelings for him, but there are very deep feelings for him. Feelings which developped post the marriage when he stood against his family for her, when he was more happy about her results than she was, and in all those times he goes out of his way for her. She knows it and recognises it ( touching the feet scene) and acknowledged it to herself that Virat is a very nice man. And it is for this very reason that she is wavering between going to a hostel or not.

During the reception they insulted her family and she was giving it back to them but she did a u-turn when Virat told her that Kaku is the pillar of the family. I knew at that moment that she would go to great lengths for Virat. She will never file a case because she knows that it will hurt Virat and Sai is not the type of person who'd hurt the person who tried to give her a family. At this point, he is her family. She may say words like "who are you to me?" But at the end of the day, she knows he'll be there for her. It's the same with Virat, no matter how angry he is, he wants to be a part of her dreams, and her life. He said it himself.

I don't understand why we are trying to point out flaws in only one when both of them have their share of issues. In any marriage there will be differences and ugly fights that happen. It's what you do about those differences that matter- how you tackle, eliminate or understand the point of view of the other that matters. Janki said it the other day, its what happens after the fight that matters and I agree with that.

I guess virat took zimmedari too seriously when he had already repaid kamal sir by saving Sai's life , usha mausi & other too start pressurising on zimmedari thing , his conscious scene & dream scene both time kamal sir along with ninad appeared stressing on zimmedari thing , he holded himself responsible for Sai's suicide made him agree for d wedding without all these things I mentioned virat said no for d wedding & left for nagpur. Why sai agreed for this marriage ? Kamal sir never took any promise from her where she has to stick with virat , she made it clear she will not marry virat if he is last person on this earth , she was socially pressurised so she asked virat to run away , my question stand still why dint she herself ran away when she knew GC no one willing to stand for her . There many girls who ran away from their wedding coz they don't want to marry any particular guy choose by their family.

I don't blame sai for grahpravesh & thali peeth scene coz she tried giving respect & cook for them but chavan kanjaro ko respect se allergy hain so they can't digest.

I m sorry 2 say she is not tolerating all this coz of virat but sadly she do consider d family her own only as I m sure she well aware of what marriage is all about she is not that naive as if u remember when after marriage virat said his family will have expectations from her ,she said aapko lagta hain mujhe itna bhi nhi aata . Her dialogue in cafe to Shivani family that family should she beyond pakhi tells she want them to appreciate her , again I don't blame her coz any girl who get married do desire to be d part of d family not coz of her husband but she consider them as their own , virat ki vajah se usse vo rishte mile , lekin ashwani, devi or Shivani se relationship usne khud banaya, or ye virat ke liye nhi hai. I know u may not agree but ye sach hain.

Virat ke liye she participated in that mahabhoj nataunki coz pakhi managed to trigger d wife sitting inside sai by questioning her relationship with virat .

Sai ki ek hi problem hai vo acceptance chahti hain lekin jaise vo hai vaise , she don't want to change , chavan kanjaro ki bhi yahi problem hain vo nhi badalne Wale chahe tum kuch bhi karlo .

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Originally posted by: preethik

Such wonderful write ups. The forum has mostly decided whose fault it is without even watching the episode. What a nice way by the makers to sustain interest in the show!

End of the day no human is perfect & both Sai & Virat have flaws. How they better themselves will be an interesting journey to watch.

I’m also interested in Pakhis journey. Would if she will ever realize she’s been wrong about Sai.

I only feel the drama level by the chavan family isn’t going to drop no matter how Virat reacts. That is trp gold. The upside is we get unique points of view from different members of the forum.

Even now I am more interested to watch pakhi and samrat love story over virat and Sai love story thanks to current track and too much bashing and negativity plus Sai is turning into social worker like other female lead 😆

I am looking forward how samrakhi story will move forward and I don't want sairat interference here. Samrat will be back and he will make pakhi fall in love with him

Life is not always about black and white. It has its Grey shade. We know we are good people but we know we have flow too. We are not always right same we are not always wrong. Seriously as a person we should stop being judgemental about each and every thing.

Sai is not white and virat is not black. They both have Grey shade of their character. Sai was also wrong many time still no one insulted or bashed like this virat.

Being women you are always right that is also misconception.

Being men you are always wrong that is also misconception

Marriage have 2 person and virat look at her as his duty Sai also don't look at him as her husband until last week

They both have baggage which they are coming through from that.

This is not always about only one person understands others but each other.

If Sai doesn't feel to stay in marriage she should leave and virat will also let her go. But don't blame virat for letting her go.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

My response would be same as above:

Only Adding::

Also, you actually don't leave a marriage after an ugly fight --- even after a million ugly fights --- so long as you know your spirit would leave you if you leave your other half. There is a Bible saying, "forgive each other “seventy times seven times” (18:22), a number that symbolises infinity. It is true for people who are joined in their souls and are convinced that the other has values of the same kind.

If Sai is so undeserving of Virat, it is also true the other way because I think the parameter used for pointing only one sided flaw is 'what has she given him?'. Well, he has given her a lot of 'things' that can be measured and seen and a lot that cannot be measured too. But Sai, she has so far only given him things that are intangible and invisible to eyes. The life she has breathed into him is one but bigger than that - she has given him her TRUST. A trust so deep that the only reason she needed the pillow wall between them was to ensure that she shouldn't be the one to cross over to his side. For a woman to do that, the man must be really, really special. Nothing else matters.

Sorry to say people only believe virat is undeserving one & finds flaws in him only without wanting to see d pov of virat Coz like sai & chavan kanjars virat don't scream on top of his lungs or start throwing tantrums in a flick of a moment . People hardly realise virat life is 10 time harder than sai .

I will clear this virat is not some one who silently follow others , he is 2 stubborn of a different kind, vo sunta sabki hain lekin vahi karta hai jo usse sahi lagta hain. If virat don't agree to anything u can't make him to that thing.

His way of handling things is way different than sai but his ways always manage to irk other party be it kaku or pattar didi , in last episode only he managed to shut up kaku mast gang in his own way . He speak less but his answers do make impact on others

Lekin I know d day silent virat will become violent nobody be it chavan or sai or pakhi will able to tolerate him .

because the makers wanted to give us headache in the name of chavan drama or 🤬

Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

I guess virat took zimmedari too seriously when he had already repaid kamal sir by saving Sai's life , usha mausi & other too start pressurising on zimmedari thing , his conscious scene & dream scene According to one school of thought, Freudian, dreams are repressed longings and wishes😆. I will abstain from commenting on that since there are many views of where dreams stem from😳

both time kamal sir along with ninad appeared stressing on zimmedari thing , he holded himself responsible for Sai's suicide made him agree for d wedding without all these things I mentioned virat said no for d wedding & left for nagpur. Why sai agreed for this marriage ?

Kamal sir never took any promise from her where she has to stick with virat , she made it clear she will not marry virat if he is last person on this earth , she was socially pressurised so she asked virat to run away , my question stand still why dint she herself ran away when she knew GC no one willing to stand for her . There many girls who ran away from their wedding coz they don't want to marry any particular guy choose by their family.

In that moment, the viable and dare I say logical option was Virat just going from there, he had a family in Nagpur, he had the means and the money. Sai did not, and she was emotionally not fine during that period. Plus, forget running away, he had the option of locking them away, but he didn't.

I'll again answer your title with a question ( sorry can't help it😆seedhe sawal ka ulta jawab I know, I know😆) why is Virat not considering divorcing her. Strictly assuming that she goes out of line tomorrow, causing Virat's outburst- Why does he not just divorce her. As far as his zimmedari is concerned, he can get her a hostel and keep a tab on her. Its mostly because just like her, she is family to him as well. Sai will become a Dr. with or without him, but he wants to be a part of her journey, he want to accompany her in achieving her dreams because it is his as well. The thing is both is not ready to let go of other - they'd fight each other, they'd fight against the odds together but they wouldn't want to part.

I don't blame sai for grahpravesh & thali peeth scene coz she tried giving respect & cook for them but chavan kanjaro ko respect se allergy hain so they can't digest.

They really are allergic to repect🤣

I m sorry 2 say she is not tolerating all this coz of virat but sadly she do consider d family her own only as I m sure she well aware of what marriage is all about she is not that naive as if u remember when after marriage virat said his family will have expectations from her ,she said aapko lagta hain mujhe itna bhi nhi aata . Her dialogue in cafe to Shivani family that family should she beyond pakhi tells she want them to appreciate her , again I don't blame her coz any girl who get married do desire to be d part of d family not coz of her husband but she consider them as their own , virat ki vajah se usse vo rishte mile , lekin ashwani, devi or Shivani se relationship usne khud banaya, or ye virat ke liye nhi hai. I know u may not agree but ye sach hain.

Good point. True she forged those relationships on her own and for her own self. But like you said, at the end of the day in her mind it boils down to her marriage with Virat. Had he gone from GC that day, she would have survived on her own, but she recognizes the fact that he tried to provide her with the thing she probably needed the most at that time - the warmth of a family in Ashwini, Devi and Shivani. It does not matter who it is, she will always associate family with Virat, and by extension, to Ashwini, Devi and Shivani.

Virat ke liye she participated in that mahabhoj nataunki coz pakhi managed to trigger d wife sitting inside sai by questioning her relationship with virat .

Sai ki ek hi problem hai vo acceptance chahti hain lekin jaise vo hai vaise , she don't want to change , chavan kanjaro ki bhi yahi problem hain vo nhi badalne Wale chahe tum kuch bhi karlo .

I don't believe in changing yourself to be accepted. She can grow, become a better version of herself, learn to win arguments with tact, but she shouldn't change the core of her being.

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

Life is not always about black and white. It has its Grey shade. We know we are good people but we know we have flow too. We are not always right same we are not always wrong. Seriously as a person we should stop being judgemental about each and every thing.

Sai is not white and virat is not black. They both have Grey shade of their character. Sai was also wrong many time still no one insulted or bashed like this virat.

Being women you are always right that is also misconception.

Being men you are always wrong that is also misconception

Marriage have 2 person and virat look at her as his duty Sai also don't look at him as her husband until last week

They both have baggage which they are coming through from that.

This is not always about only one person understands others but each other.

If Sai doesn't feel to stay in marriage she should leave and virat will also let her go. But don't blame virat for letting her go.

+1

Can't agree more .

U will see people justifying Sai's faults but never giving discount 2 virat as it really flaws only lies with virat as he is not human.

Kamal sir sacrificed his life for virat won't make virat give up his whole family . He still hold responsibilities towards them & he is not blind towards his family wrong doings , it was he who asked sai to stand for herself if someone insult her after seeing grahpravesh drama but only condition he laid for sai was watch ur words

It's not like virat dint objected his family for harming sai but his way don't sound insulting isiliye they choose ignore it .

Virat will always be on a receiving end be it chavans , sai or fans .