Geet- clinically depressed ????

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@roseinbloom

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Mishh: I am not a Maan hater nor a Geet hater -- I am a Maaneetian .. who loves to look at a story from both POVs .. here I don't feel the need to defend Maan much because there's a lot of people already doing it .. I'd love to defend Geet for once too .. doesn't mean I don't understand Maan's POV and am saying he's the one at fault here. I've already said this before that both were at fault -- and their fault was micommunication; that's where it ends! Micommunication has gotten the better of them multiple times and I think now they will surely realize that.

So I am safe for now 😆

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_Invincible_

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Posted: 14 years ago

#22

whoa!
i agree wid all u said...............

nicely explained d whole thing clinically but buddy here cv's messed up big time by serving half baked symptoms..................................

as after MC dere is lot of physical pain,trauma, etc etc but dey never showed it effectively...............even daadi failed to make maan realise dat geet's withdrawl at dat moment was just a part of MC trauma so he should deal wid it carefully ................

after MC energy levels r drained but remember geet was up all d night after a couple of days of MC and was running here and dere to do preparations...........

uninterested in everything and people around dem but geet sternly told off dev not to interfere in dere life................she wanted to start afresh after couple of days only so dey messed up wid portrayal of her depression part big time.................

it could have been handled so beautifully like geet throwing tantrums and whole family giving in to her demands and it would have been beautiful to see d strength of dere relation during such a traumatic phase of dere life as soulmates............i would have loved to see maaneet being each others strength like dey did in rasika rathod's case......................(my pov)

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sush1

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Posted: 14 years ago

#23

@sanjh1234

I agree that CVs may have not thought so deep about the subject and have possibly messed it up royally. 😊

But with many viewers not empathizing with Geet, I thought the other side of the coin should be made visible to the viewers too. Maan is not all white and Geet is not all black, both have shades of grey and that is why they are humans and lovable too.😳

See you can only take a horse to the water but cannot make it drink. I hope with this post I hope I have managed to open up a few eyes/hearts (or a can of worms)

After all the majority of fans here are the gentler sex. 🤣🤣

Edited by sush1 - 14 years ago

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sush1

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Posted: 14 years ago

#24

@ Maaneet-is-best

Am counting on you as a part of my cavalry. Umbrellas, armors provided free of cost. 😆😆😆

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saanjh rathore

@saanjh11

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Posted: 14 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: sush1
@sanjh1234

I agree that CVs may have not thought so deep about the subject and have possibly messed it up royally. 😊

But with many viewers not empathizing with Geet, I thought the other side of the coin should be made visible to the viewers too. Maan is not all white and Geet is not all black, both have shades of grey and that is why they are humans and lovable too.😳

See you can only take a horse to the water but cannot make it drink. I hope with this post I hope I have managed to open up a few eyes/hearts (or a can of worms)

After all the majority of fans here are the gentler sex. 🤣

if u ask me iam never against geet or maan nor i take sides but i directly point my gun towards cv they are the culprit for all this restlessness 🤣par meri sunta kaun hai 🤣

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Mrunmayi Naik

@-Mayu-

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Posted: 14 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: Mk.Gh
Gosh I can't thank you enough for this logical and sensible post ! :)

I had made a post similar to this on FB which underlined that many people are overlooking the entire fact that she very recently suffered her miscarriage -- it wasn't a month ago that she had gone through it (serial time -- not real world time) and so we ought to think sensibly in this matter as well.

One thing which couldn't be truer is that Maan is the stronger of the two here: yes he is also deeply hurt from the MC but Geet went through double the pain because it affected her physically/physiologically as well. And so Maan was able to recover for her benefit -- no doubt the emotional affect came onto him as well. But when he was strong enough while she was still depressed .. his unexpected harsh words came crashing down on her .. completely shutting her down.

And now that Maan realizes this .. and he is here to win her back both emotionally and physically .. he is trying his best. And we have already seen signs of improvement from her -- only because of Maan! Only two encounters with him later .. she's turning back to her old self. I see this as signs of improvement while some are mistaking it as her neglect towards Maan and that she is unnecessarily being harsh to him.

I feel she hasn't realized herself how much affect the past encounters with Maan have had on her, while we are able to witness the affect clearly.

When the right time comes, and perhaps after her confrontation with Darji.. she will slowly regain her strength enough to talk about it with Maan.

Thankyou again, for this post :) Really sheds new light on her situation!

Z

Zeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee🤗

How have you been?😳

One thing which couldn't be truer is that Maan is the stronger of the two here: yes he is also deeply hurt from the MC but Geet went through double the pain because it affected her physically/physiologically as well. And so Maan was able to recover for her benefit -- no doubt the emotional affect came onto him as well. But when he was strong enough while she was still depressed .. his unexpected harsh words came crashing down on her .. completely shutting her down.

Bang on! So true! Maan was always the stronger between the two; she felt the blow more as she was physiologically/ psychologically attached to the baby! He was able to recover because he was only mentally with the baby!

Well she shut herself from the world; even Maan; and after his harsh words straight on her face; her world came tumbling down; to hear the Man speak against your self respect for whom he is everything! Her life support system! She went into seclusion; as I said in the earlier post; that she was showing signs of improvement after Maan gave her the much needed love; care; support but the Face Off broke her; physically as well as mentally.

And now that Maan realizes this .. and he is here to win her back both emotionally and physically .. he is trying his best. And we have already seen signs of improvement from her -- only because of Maan! Only two encounters with him later .. she's turning back to her old self. I see this as signs of improvement while some are mistaking it as her neglect towards Maan and that she is unnecessarily being harsh to him.

It was not too late to realize one's mistake; unless you dont! Maan came to know that without him; his Mishty is alone; she knows how to fight but when she earlier fought she fought for her baby; but today she had no motive; the one person she respected the most; loved him blindefoldedly; doubted her self respect. As he knows that he has tremendous effect on her; just a step closer and she submits; to the Man of her life!

I guess she is coming out of the trauma; you need a lot of time; and Maan being her husband is ready to take anything in return for his wife to be back; not only with him but to be his Misshty! I guess Daarji will put some brains in her; give her a counselling; And with maan there; I guess Geet will very soon overcome!

Lovely Z!

Love

Mayuuuuuuuu<3<3

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sush1

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Posted: 14 years ago

#27

@ pooja83

CVs itna dimag wale hote to MC tak ki naubat ati hi nahi thi. 🤣

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_Invincible_

@_Invincible_

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Posted: 14 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: sush1
@ pooja83

CVs itna dimag wale hote to MC tak ki naubat ati hi nahi thi. 🤣

yeah dats also true..............🤣

but dere silliness leads to world war here.................😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

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Mrunmayi Naik

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Posted: 14 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: Maaneet-is-best

Mayu - now I am worried for you, Mother Nature can be treacherous my baccha🤗

Mommyyyyyyyyy🤗

I dont need to worry; my Mommaa is here na😳

I love you Maa❤️

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@roseinbloom

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Posted: 14 years ago

#30

Mayuuuuuuuu meri Jaan! Thanx for replying!

Yes yes, Geet is slowly recovering ... some people are not giving her the time of day here to let her come out of the state of seclusion completely. Now that Maan is there -- watch her fly!