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Posted: 14 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: riza792

Well..It was my first job, after I finished my Bachelors in Economics...in fact I joined the next day after my exams....and I got the job by fluke....i wasnt planning to work so soon. But one of our family friend's hubby is my hubby's best friend, and since my hubby [then Boss😆] was looking out for a candidate, she asked me to go for the interview, and I got through......LOL...I was soo surprised!!


Well I joined as Marketing & Administration Co-ordinator, so I was reporting directly to my hubby....
For about 7 to 8 months, things were normal.....I was pretty childish then too...and I used to be quite pampered by all my collegues, since I was the youngest there.
Then when workload increased, i was promoted and i used to leave office later than before...so my hubby would drop me halfway home.....since it was on the way home for him. We were only two girls in the office, but the other girl's husband would come to pick her up....and my bro would come sometimes to pick me....if not , my hubby would drop me, sometimes till home too, if it was later than 6.30 by the time we left. And my dad was OK with it, since he knew my Boss / hubby even before I joined the company..

So during those numerous trips home, we got talking and got to know each other better..and got closer....but still the Boss - employee distance was there, at least for me!😆
After about 3 - 4 months of that, i actually started looking forward to the trips home, and he would actually wait everyday till i finished up in office☺️...and started taking the longer route home or halfway home...😆..and driving slowly too...😆

Then One day he actually asked me out!😕..And I was scared out of my wits! I defintely could not go out in the evening...what do I tell my Dad and Bro?? That i'm going out with my Boss??🤔
he knew that too, so i guess thats why he asked me to take .alf a day off from office, so that we could go out for lunch...😳..
we left separately....and met at the junction😆..and he actually drove us to a place where there is a river and boatrides.........and took me boating!😆 And me...I was tongue tied and shivering all the way! I was soo scared!😆😆 I mean....whatever it is..this was my khadoos Saduu Boss, for heaven's sakes!!

Then in the boat...he said he loved me and wanted to marry me.......and all I could do was stare and stammer......😆😆...and he said we will have to face a lot of problems, so think about it. I said i'll reply in some time [how dumb!]..and we came back to the car.
And now that I think of it...he must have done it to lure me into giving a positive answer...but he kissed me in the car☺️☺️...and I guess that did it for me...😆
But I told him that i loved him only after I reached home , and on the phone! I didnt have the courage to tell him on the face...all this was quite new to me....

The most cutest and awkward and exciting moment was when we met in office the next morning! I was usually the first to reach office, and that day he was earlier than me...and we had some Maahii moments!☺️

oh my god Rosh....😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍...what a sweet story....i does have some Maaneet momenmts...wow u were scared...i thought ur sherni like Geet...oh ur volcano...explosed fast...as he made his quick move to have total control on ur answer...kissing u...he needs to teach it to Maan...did u get married soon after or u took time...y was there a lot of problems...family didn't agree?????????????
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Posted: 14 years ago
#22
Oh...and let me also mention that before marraige, i was a Hindu and my Hubby a Muslim.
So it was not easy for us...different cultures, and that was the least of our worries...but we had to convince our families....that was the most difficult part.
We managed to convince his family a bit...my family was a problem.
I managed to convince my brother, and then my Dad...My Mom passed away when I was 17.
And My hubby's dad passed away when he was in his teenage, and his Mom passed away just a month after we decided to get married. She never knew about me...she fell sick before he could tell her, and the the time was not right.

So the rest of his family was a difficult task too, but we managed. His cousin sis gave us a lot of support. We took almost 1 yr and 9 months after the proposal to actually get married. And no one from my family attended.

Even now, except for my brother and his family and my Dad and a few other relatives, many of my close relatives do not even talk to me.
And I just go once a year and visit my Dad and brother...i dont visit any other relatives of mine. I refuse to go where my Husband is not accepted wholeheartedly.

But my hubby's family has accepted me completely.....I was able to win them over in just about a year of marraige.....we did face some problems, but we have overcome all that now.😊

And also..as soon as we decided to get married, i quit the job in my hubby's company and joined elsewhere, since we did not want unecessary talks in office. But we had a wonderful courtship....long rides......lunches...stolen days away with friends..those were the days!😍..making all kinds of excuses to go out and meet him!!😆😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
#23
rosh i'll ask more detail after....i need to leave from work...so u later...thanx for sharing with us
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Posted: 14 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: Mk.Gh

OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG ROSHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

☺️
How ROMANTICCCCCCCCCCCCCC 😍😍
OMggg.. he took you boating? ☺️☺️ And said he LOVED YOU? 😲☺️☺️ .. and he kissed you in the car? 😲 ☺️☺️☺️
OH MY .. I think he fell head over heels for you huh?? ☺️
LOL Awwwwwwww you were scared and shy 😳
LOOOOOOOOOOL Maahi Moments? Like what .. you tripping .. him catching ... you dozing off .. him waking you up ... you tying the phone's cord around his hand .. him untying 😆??
One complaint: It wasn't detailed enough 😡 😆 .... oh wellz we'll gett more details out of you later ☺️
Z

Oh Z!! No incidents like that!🤣
Just some moments together to talk in his cabin...some hand-holding, quick hugs☺️......thats it.
But I quit soon after...in 2 months exactly....so not a very long office romance! I did not want any gossip in office, so i would be scared all the time. He is highly respected and feared among the staff...i did not want him to lose that!
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Posted: 14 years ago
#25
Wow, I come back and not only have you all left me behind with the thread, but also with Rosh's romantic ride👏👏👏👏👏👏

Rosh - I can understand how hard it must have been with the cast difference, but no need to think about all that now, as long as you both are happy - Congrats🤗🤗🤗

👏
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Posted: 14 years ago
#26
All that explanation has made me sleepy🥱

Mishu..where r u?
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Posted: 14 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: riza792

All that explanation has made me sleepy🥱


Mishu..where r u?



I couldn't believe you are still awake, did you already have your cold milk😉
Oh wait, I know why you are not in a rush to sleep🤣


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Posted: 14 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: Maaneet-is-best



I couldn't believe you are still awake, did you already have your cold milk😉
Oh wait, I know why you are not in a rush to sleep🤣


😆😆Hitler has gone to Mumbai this evening, he is back tomorrow afternoon. thats why i'm awake at this ungodly hour....and i didnt feel all that sleepy too!
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Posted: 14 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: Maaneet-is-best

Wow, I come back and not only have you all left me behind with the thread, but also with Rosh's romantic ride👏

Rosh - I can understand how hard it must have been with the cast difference, but no need to think about all that now, as long as you both are happy - Congrats🤗🤗🤗

👏

Yeah Mishu....now we are past all that, so its all ok.
And it was all worth it....so thats what is important.
Thanks!🤗
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Posted: 14 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: riza792

😆😆Hitler has gone to Mumbai this evening, he is back tomorrow afternoon. thats why i'm awake at this ungodly hour....and i didnt feel all that sleepy too!


See, I knew you had left out a minute detail😉
Even if he was there - it would have been a bit bumpy😉

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