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Posted: 14 years ago

#181

abt being valued

its not her arranged marriage where 1 rude word of her hubby makes her feel dat she is not respected due to lack of understanding each other............it was her love marriage and dat too wid d person who has been by her side throughout her journey...........even twice he was on d verge of losing his life to protect geet .........so 1 harsh word word from dat person doesnt entitle dat gal to think dat she is not respected..........NAH.......i refuse to buy it...........

why to go on d face value of words?.............did maan take her words during media fiasco by face value??????if so den he would have shunned dat lady den and dere 4ever.........a lady for whom he stood against d world and his family .......dat lady cant take his 1 rude word dat too came up wen his hubby was unaware of d fact abt her such a big decision of forgiving her rapist and enjoying wid her.............

i agree d words of our loved one hurt but is dat enough reason to walk out on dem?????????
geet was brought up in such a voilent background but did she ever walked on dem for being so harsh/rude to her???????
NO coz things dat happen sumtimes r not meant to b hyped..............
still she forgave her family who tried to kill her and baby...........
she forgave dev who turned her life upside down..........
den why not to give a chance of confronting ur hubby ???
if she would have confronted maan even once after maan said dose harsh words to her and den walked away i would have supported her decision.............
if she thought dat she was not respected by her husband den why not for once she gave him a piece of her mind before walking out?????
remaining silent is not geet which we loved..............
why she went silent?
she didnt even think of daadi who loved her as a mom before leaving?NO............
did she try to know how is daadi coping up?NO..........dis is not d geet i loved who cared even for a stranger not getting hurt coz of her................

maan has been wrong many times and i loved how geet at d time of rasika's case helped maan without fearing for her life ...........now dats d geet i loved ....................who responded to his love wid 10 times more intensity............

geet has changed and i dont connect wid dis geet at all...............geet i knew was much cuter and sensible den wat i see today

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Maddy

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Posted: 14 years ago

#182

@ pooja,

I absolutely agree with you, i loved geet when she pointed finger at rasika, in defense of Maan. Now, that was something geet should do ! It is so true, that i can not, anyhow, relate to this geet !

And, i just read few lines of geet from written updates, and its quite hurtful and disappointing, once again ! I did not like what she said to Maan ! 😔

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_Invincible_

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Posted: 14 years ago

#183

Originally posted by: maanddy
@ pooja,

I absolutely agree with you, i loved geet when she pointed finger at rasika, in defense of Maan. Now, that was something geet should do ! It is so true, that i can not, anyhow, relate to this geet !

And, i just read few lines of geet from written updates, and its quite hurtful and disappointing, once again ! I did not like what she said to Maan ! 😔

oh yeah
i dont understand dat if she did it 4 maan den why didnt she forgive dev wen devtara-maneet face off happened?
or why didnt she forgive him before her marriage to maan as dat time also she was going to start fresh married life.....????

just to show passion cv's r using a creepy storyline.....................

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Maddy

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Posted: 14 years ago

#184

Originally posted by: pooja83

oh yeah
i dont understand dat if she did it 4 maan den why didnt she forgive dev wen devtara-maneet face off happened?
or why didnt she forgive him before her marriage to maan as dat time also she was going to start fresh married life.....????

just to show passion cv's r using a creepy storyline.....................

Ha ! Pooja, don't ask such harsh and true question, which can really hurt CVs !!! 😊 What you asked is so true, even if CVs know the answer, they would not be able to answer it, but they know it in their self, their soul knows that, it is not the right thing, they made wrong move ! 😊

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nandita singh

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Posted: 14 years ago

#185

Originally posted by: pooja83
abt being valued
its not her arranged marriage where 1 rude word of her hubby makes her feel dat she is not respected due to lack of understanding each other............it was her love marriage and dat too wid d person who has been by her side throughout her journey...........even twice he was on d verge of losing his life to protect geet .........so 1 harsh word word from dat person doesnt entitle dat gal to think dat she is not respected..........NAH.......i refuse to buy it...........

why to go on d face value of words?.............did maan take her words during media fiasco by face value??????if so den he would have shunned dat lady den and dere 4ever.........a lady for whom he stood against d world and his family .......dat lady cant take his 1 rude word dat too came up wen his hubby was unaware of d fact abt her such a big decision of forgiving her rapist and enjoying wid her.............

i agree d words of our loved one hurt but is dat enough reason to walk out on dem?????????
geet was brought up in such a voilent background but did she ever walked on dem for being so harsh/rude to her???????
NO coz things dat happen sumtimes r not meant to b hyped..............
still she forgave her family who tried to kill her and baby...........
she forgave dev who turned her life upside down..........
den why not to give a chance of confronting ur hubby ???
if she would have confronted maan even once after maan said dose harsh words to her and den walked away i would have supported her decision.............
if she thought dat she was not respected by her husband den why not for once she gave him a piece of her mind before walking out?????
remaining silent is not geet which we loved..............
why she went silent?
she didnt even think of daadi who loved her as a mom before leaving?NO............
did she try to know how is daadi coping up?NO..........dis is not d geet i loved who cared even for a stranger not getting hurt coz of her................

maan has been wrong many times and i loved how geet at d time of rasika's case helped maan without fearing for her life ...........now dats d geet i loved ....................who responded to his love wid 10 times more intensity............

geet has changed and i dont connect wid dis geet at all...............geet i knew was much cuter and sensible den wat i see today

Love It Pooja .....

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_Invincible_

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Posted: 14 years ago

#186

Originally posted by: maanddy

Ha ! Pooja, don't ask such harsh and true question, which can really hurt CVs !!! 😊 What you asked is so true, even if CVs know the answer, they would not be able to answer it, but they know it in their self, their soul knows that, it is not the right thing, they made wrong move ! 😊

🤣 CV's picked up a saturday to go 4 long due MC wen dere was a crucial match of WC to escape d wrath ...........so dey dont want to answer d things coz dey r demselves messed up..........😆

dats d reason dey mocked all moon-star talk dat lead to a very strong bond of maneet

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311578

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Posted: 14 years ago

#187

18th century woman - naive, shy, quiet, always asked to keep her opinions to herself...kept from taking decision, kept from voicing her opinions.

No one liked her. So she changed!

21st century woman - she has started voicing her opinions but she has forgotten to forgive. In the name of being independent and modern day woman, does it give her the liberty to reduce husband to dust?

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DMKJ_VB

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Posted: 14 years ago

#188

Originally posted by: dolphinUSA
18th century woman - naive, shy, quiet, always asked to keep her opinions to herself...kept from taking decision, kept from voicing her opinions.

No one liked her. So she changed!

21st century woman - she has started voicing her opinions but she has forgotten to forgive. In the name of being independent and modern day woman, does it give her the liberty to reduce husband to dust?

loved what u wrote.....................sadly, self respect is a great virtue in any human being-man or woman until it turns into ego......................every human being has an ego to a certain extent and i believe that is necessary also but when ego begins to overshadow love,when one's own pains become more important than love,it is nothing short of an insult to the greatest virtue of all-love!

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311578

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Posted: 14 years ago

#189

Originally posted by: ria_sengupta
loved what u wrote.....................sadly, self respect is a great virtue in any human being-man or woman until it turns into ego......................every human being has an ego to a certain extent and i believe that is necessary also but when ego begins to overshadow love,when one's own pains become more important than love,it is nothing short of an insult to the greatest virtue of all-love!

To me.....
Love is a selfless act.
Self respect is a feeling of personal worth.
Harmony means agreement in action, opinion, feeling, etc; accord.

So clearly, if love is selfless, self respect will destroy the harmony in a relationship.

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Sri

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Posted: 14 years ago

#190

Dol & Poo, It has been a long time since I have seen your intense feelings through your words. Loved reading all your responses and of course I agree with them.

Looks like this thread is turning into a battle zone for Maan Vs Geet. When people start highlighting flaws in other characters in order to justify the acts of characters they love and support, it means that there is definitely something wrong. The very fact that people argue on Maan's side or Geet's side and NOT on Maaneet's side means that there is something wrong portrayed in their relationship. I can see that people are trying to find flaws somewhere to justify why a beautiful story got butchered, why the character sketch has changed so much for some of the most loved characters. I can see as many varied points of view about this as there are drops in an ocean. Just wanted to share my POV as well. No offense meant to anyone.

When we have certain expectations and they are not met, then we feel disappointed. Those that are waiting for SR immediately after wedding are disappointed because it did not happen. Those like me that are waiting for a strong social message to be sent out to the viewers are disappointed because the social message got butchered. I know that forgiveness is a virtue. But, the way Geet was shown to forgive Dev did not make an impact on me. I can't point out why, but it just seems not the right way to forgive him. Maybe they should have worded/shown it different. What if Dev in his remorse goes out of his way to help girls that are cheated the way Geet has been cheated by him. Then, she could have said that his crime remains a crime and she can never forgive or condone such an act, but she forgives him for her part owing to the true remorse that is reflected through his actions. Such forgiveness would have been noble and sent a positive message to the society at the same time. The reasons she gave out for forgiving him make her sound selfish and makes the forgiveness appear frivolous from my point of view.

I was personally looking for unselfish, pure and unconditional love that was shown in the pre-engagement fiasco days. That element is missing. I loved when Maan said love for him means trust and truth. I loved Geet's courage in telling him the truth about her pregnancy even when she is aware that it could cut her off from him. I loved each and every word Maan and Geet spoke when they met for their first date and talked heart to heart. Somewhere down the line that purity of love portrayed earlier got tainted. I can't put my finger on exactly when it happened. Probably it was gradual. That is the missing flame that I think makes most of us search for alternate reasons to keep watching the show, like some say they watch this show only for GC and DD.

There is no longer any point in fighting whether Maan is better than Geet or vice-versa. The very fact that such fight occurs means that their love got somehow tainted, and their relationship is no longer what it used to be. That is my POV. My friend Dol has summarized the changes in each character very well. Let us understand those changes and reset our expectations about the story if we want to continue watching it.

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