Geet- A woman of today or from the 18th century? - Page 8

Originally posted by: dolphinUSA

@jyoti - good points. I'm all for believing both are at fault...but I do not understand one thing in your post. Why so much sympathy for Geet due to MC and none for Maan? Didn't he lose a baby too? Wasn't he a part of their life too? Sure the grief cannot be compared to that of Geet's....but giving her all benefit of doubt to act irrationally, is that right? I only feel...why does Maan have to go around begging for her forgiveness when both are at fault?

i agree dat MC is a big trauma in itself for a new mom(coz i m a new mom )...................i agree maan was wrong in uttering dose harsh words...............but now he is repenting as he alwz does.....................he sent a haert wrenching radio msg too...................but i have just 1 question dat why geet goes silent wen she is required to talk.................

let it b forgiving dev,let it b running away from her engagemnet,let it b walking out of home,let it b her new family asking her......................though its not her nature..................she stood against her family for saving her child though at dat time she was such a meek and submiissive gal.......,she dared to lock horns wid MSK and make him realise his follies time to time,she dared to voice out it to whole world through media den why she doesnt speak wen it comes to most crucial matters??????????

dats d only problem...................

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it's all been said, and this post has helped to bring out OUR perspective. otherwise, i was thinking that i'm the only one who gets Geet's character, and everyone else on the forum are happy-sandwich-makers, if u get what i mean. 😉
Pixie, u had the courage to make an amazing and sensible post. i agree with u SO MUCH that i feel guilty for not having made a post like this myself. 😆 *takes a deep breath and pipes up, cheerleader style*

YOU GO GIRL!!! 😃😃

Originally posted by: pooja83

i agree dat MC is a big trauma in itself for a new mom(coz i m a new mom )...................i agree maan was wrong in uttering dose harsh words...............but now he is repenting as he alwz does.....................he sent a haert wrenching radio msg too...................but i have just 1 question dat why geet goes silent wen she is required to talk.................

let it b forgiving dev,let it b running away from her engagemnet,let it b walking out of home,let it b her new family asking her......................though its not her nature..................she stood against her family for saving her child though at dat time she was such a meek and submiissive gal.......,she dared to lock horns wid MSK and make him realise his follies time to time,she dared to voice out it to whole world through media den why she doesnt speak wen it comes to most crucial matters??????????

dats d only problem...................

Originally posted by: AnuN

1. When she forgave Dev, she tried to tell Maan, but he did not listen and I agree she should have tried harder.

2. Running away during engagement, she did come to tell him, but she got a shock because she got to know Dev is Maan's bro. It was hard for her to tell Maan as there is a saying na blood is thicker than water..
agree blood is thicker den water ,,,,,,,,,,,so maan who is not ready to forgive his own blood coz of geet does dat person deserves dat gal leaving him 4 single harsh word???????????? so she was worried will he believe me and if he does what all pain he will have to face................wow so why didnt she thought after MC dat he is also feeling pain of losing a baby,why she didnt try to talk once to maan before forgiving dev?????????.........cant she understand now how much painful it will b for maan to see her playing holi wid dat devil?????????. in fact when she finally told him, you know how much pain Maan had to go through.................

Just apart from these reason, the third reason is meant to be a joke.. please dont take it otherwise.. -

GC was kind of responsible for both tracks.. once he was sick and second time he was on vaction na .. so cvs had to make Geet run away from eng and not bother to tell him about Dev forgiveness...

ha ha ha
it was now not her decision alone to take & only care to inform maan of it as her husband & Dev's bro he had right to know not only to be informed after its done given geet knows maan's feelings about it infact when she assumed maan forgave dev she blasted coz why dint he tell her before doing it then how can she get away same here

vacation isnt a good excuse by cv's to hide dere mistake...................😆😆😆😆

Originally posted by: AnuN

agree blood is thicker den water ,,,,,,,,,,,so maan who is not ready to forgive his own blood coz of geet does dat person deserves dat gal leaving him 4 single harsh word???????????? so she was worried will he believe me and if he does what all pain he will have to face................wow so why didnt she thought after MC dat he is also feeling pain of losing a baby,why she didnt try to talk once to maan before forgiving dev?????????.........cant she understand now how much painful it will b for maan to see her playing holi wid dat devil??????

I dont mean I agree with everything.. I think leaving house is a big step not in this case, but each case.. I still think she should have asked him why he is using such harsh words against her..

Regarding after MC, she was herself in so much pain, how can I expect her to feel Maans pain..

Regarding forgiveness tract, I have my own views.. I have talked about some.. but I dont agree to CVs nirvana theory... Infact, to me it appears making fun of Nirvana .. the highest level any soul can attain after re union with supreme power ie God. Actually, I did not know this whole Nirvana theory as I come less frequestly here.. Thanks to a friend who IM ed and I was shocked to read how cvs had used nirvana to cheat the viewers.

but i still firmly believe dat soul mates r dere to support each other in low times.............not think abt me and mine all d time..............its all abt US...................
cv's screwed up d so strong and eterna;l relation of maneet ............
d only time dey showed dere relation having dat US feel was during rasika rathod case...............which i love coz geet didnt think twice before endangering her life for maan and maan didnt back out supporting geet.............

we r entitled to diff. opinions...........so no issues..........and regarding forgiveness track d less said is better...............even wen cv's feel sorry as dey let dev touch geet so all ends dere itself.................

Originally posted by: pooja83

i agree dat MC is a big trauma in itself for a new mom(coz i m a new mom )...................i agree maan was wrong in uttering dose harsh words...............but now he is repenting as he alwz does.....................he sent a haert wrenching radio msg too...................but i have just 1 question dat why geet goes silent wen she is required to talk.................

let it b forgiving dev,let it b running away from her engagemnet,let it b walking out of home,let it b her new family asking her......................though its not her nature..................she stood against her family for saving her child though at dat time she was such a meek and submiissive gal.......,she dared to lock horns wid MSK and make him realise his follies time to time,she dared to voice out it to whole world through media den why she doesnt speak wen it comes to most crucial matters??????????

dats d only problem...................

I agree....that is my argument about Geet....not that she is bad or doesn't love Maan....but why has she become silent when she should talk....she voices her opinion when others are wrong...be it Dev (She told him off in the office in front of everyone), be it her family (She had the guts to send Brij to jail...u go girl!!!!), be it MSK when he used to hurt her and when he was wrong before....now when it comes time to talk it out and explain herself....she walks away quietly....why? She could have left the house...after grabbing MSK's collar and asking him how the hell he had the guts to say something like that about her without knowing why she forgave Dev.....now that would have been the Geet we all fell in love with.... One thing I do not understand though....when Maan got Dev out of jail for a few hours to see Dadi....Geet thought Maan got him out of jail...and she insulted him in front of the entire office and media...by saying that he wanted to marry her so he could save his brother....and that she would not marry him.....and she left him....

Oh thanx a zillion...i finally felt at peace after reading your post...if only i had the time n the inclination..or more than that.. the literary perfection of words to express something so beautifully n clearly n yet poignantly....you have understood n concisley explained my emotions over the past one week....

Originally posted by: Soapoperasrfun

One last thing. Geet lost everything in her life - her family, her innocence, her pride, everything because of Dev's actions. All she had left was her self-respect. And the one man who knew her best questioned it. I can understand her being hurt beyond anything. But my argument still is that this is not the first time he has attacked her self-respect and this time her reaction was a little too extreme as well.

Anyways, I know that it is leading to better times in their life's, so I have no complaints about anything. But I just wanted to put it across that I believe both of them to be wrong here and this whole situation could be avoided if they learnt to communicate. 😃

Well, my view is that (d bold words above) True dis is not d first time he has attackd her self respect, but at dat time dey werent so much in love & werent even in a relationship...............so it did not matter 2 geet den.........bcoz dat time she had lookd upon just as a random man .......not her OWN MAN......Thus, dis time she knows dat he is everything for her & thus, it hurt her d most........ 😃😃😃