Geet- A woman of today or from the 18th century?

First Previous

Page

Next Last

Frequent Posters

Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

Alumni

+ 8

Posted: 14 years ago

#61

Wowww wowww woww what a fabulous post👏👏👏

After a long time,I felt like reading a post again and again as it gives u enough room for a healthy discussion about Geet's perspective👍🏼...

I feel both MSK and Geet r equally responsible for the separation....Any girl with a self-respect will leave the house after hearing words like "begairat and safed-khoon" coming from her husband's mouth and that too after she just suffered from a MC and was expecting love from her husband but instead gets only accusations.,..I m not saying Geet was right in forgiving Dev or playing holi with Dev (Like Shraddha said giving forgiveness to Dev was Geet's decision and she has the right to decide here since she is the victim here and not Maan)...yes she was wrong somewhere while playing holi with Dev with that smile on her face but her intension there was not wrong..she did it all thinking this will help her to start a new life with her husband if she cuts off all the strings of her past related to Dev and also she din't wanted to create any unwanted scene during holi when outsiders were also present there and she was representing herself as Mrs.Khurana in that place...she did it for MSK's happiness....Fine I agree she should hv given more efforts to tell MSK about why she has forgiven Dev here but did MSK ever bothered to ask Geet directly why she did it ??🤔...he as usual saw few things and jumped to conclusion and in his anger ended up speaking some really hurful words about his wife and that too post-MC....so for me both r equally at fault for not able to communicate in a proper manner...so its unfair to call one person wrong and make other look like god🤔...

Coming to yesterday's radio scene...MSK did ask for forgiveness and after that Geet cried her heart out hugging MSK ka photo...but again with that how can we judge Geet is selfish and has no feelings for MSK??😕...is the scene complete ??😕..do we know what decision Geet will ultimately take since its a daily soap where a female lead takes at least 3-4 episodes to decide to return back to her piya's home😆 ...or do we expect in one episode itself to see all of Geet's self-talks and end the show there and then ??😆...just like MSK ,we too r jumping to conclusion calling her selfish even without seeing what the future episodes will carry and what will b Geet's reaction whenm she meets MSK😳....

When Geet was leaving the house bidding goodbye to all the family members..what was MSK doing ??why din't he stop his wife that moment itself ??...it was only after Dev giving MSK a piece of mind,he realises his mistake,...why ??...so isn't there MSK too becomes a dumb guy who needs advice from a culprit to realise where he went wrong ??...

Like I said in a relationship ...taali ek haath se nahin bajti...either both r right or both r wrong..only then a relationship survives or goes kaput...😊...and in this case both MSK and Geet hv done mistakes and right now both r in realisation phase where we cannot pin point on one person and ask why...we need to wait and watch how the future episode unfolds before blaming anyone in particular...

Quote

311578

Suspended

Posted: 14 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: -pixie-
@Dolph- If you have the patience do read/skim through the 8-9 pages of this post- on why Geet left and did not fight and why she may not be forgiving of Maan so easily- different commentators have touched on all of the issues you raised!

Thanks for stopping by and commenting!

btw how was your trip to Milton?😉 Did you meet JT?

Reading 8-9 pages is beyond me....but I will definitely try it...... to find answers to my questions.
I'll be going to Milton in 3rd week of April...and I thought you and Tammie would accompany me. Don't you dash down my hopes....I was counting on you two :)

Quote

Looks like you are new here. Register for free, learn and contribute.

Anita Patel

@Anita1118

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: dolphinUSA
Oye....well written post...although I do not agree with it 100%. I only have one question - was Geet's leaving her home and walking out on her marriage justified? I say communication is important in any relationship. Why did she not shout back at him before even thinking about leaving the house? As for forgiving Maan after one radio song dedication being trivialized...all I can say is...the whole deal was blown out of proportion when she decided to walk out of the house. I have always believed in harmony begins at home. If you do not have the capacity to handle a relationship, don't get into it. And this I speak for both...because I know he is at fault for his anger and harsh words. But I respect him for confronting Geet and Dev rather than camping in the jungle as he otherwise would. Just my POV.....

I agree completely......i am not saying forgive Maan after one song dedication...but yaar use soch na tho chahiye....ke did i do right by leaving the house? She should have shouted back at him....asked him who gave him the right to say anything about her without first asking her why she forgave Dev.....

Maan should have asked Geet straight first...before confronting Dev and Geet, but when he went in the kitchen....he went to lash out at Dev....it ended up lashing out at Geet too....but that was not his original intent.....he was not mad at Geet for forgiving Dev....he was upset that she didn't tell him about it....and he wasn't blaming Geet, he was blaming Dev for the misunderstandings they were having.....again....not justifying what Maan said....cause his anger does always get the best of him.....

but i still think leaving the house was not justified...just my POV....

Quote

-pixie-

@-pixie-

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

#64

@Jyo: 🤗I agree both of them are wrong...no doubting that,....Just that Maan has way too many defenders on the forum and Geet was being accused for all that is wrong with the world- So I stepped up😆

@Dolphin: JT ke liye to kuch bhi karega 😉

Edited by -pixie- - 14 years ago

Quote

311578

Suspended

Posted: 14 years ago

#65

@jyoti - good points. I'm all for believing both are at fault...but I do not understand one thing in your post. Why so much sympathy for Geet due to MC and none for Maan? Didn't he lose a baby too? Wasn't he a part of their life too? Sure the grief cannot be compared to that of Geet's....but giving her all benefit of doubt to act irrationally, is that right? I only feel...why does Maan have to go around begging for her forgiveness when both are at fault?

Quote

Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

Alumni

+ 8

Posted: 14 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: dolphinUSA
@jyoti - good points. I'm all for believing both are at fault...but I do not understand one thing in your post. Why so much sympathy for Geet due to MC and none for Maan? Didn't he lose a baby too? Wasn't he a part of their life too? Sure the grief cannot be compared to that of Geet's....but giving her all benefit of doubt to act irrationally, is that right? I only feel...why does Maan have to go around begging for her forgiveness when both are at fault?

Well time and again I hv spoken for MSK😆 but since today there were posts putting all blame on Geet....so I thought of seeing things from Geet's perspective here for a change...thats the only reason I wrote it from Geet ka POV...😳...

Maan and Geet both hv gone through equal pain but the difference here is that Geet never used hurtful statements against Maan after the loss of their baby..when MSK shifted the nursery ,Geet was angry over him but she never spoke anything which would hurt him....right ?😳...and here MSK blurted out all his frustation related to Dev on Geet using those hurtful words

Quote

311578

Suspended

Posted: 14 years ago

#67

@jyoti - I don't know if you know, I've always seen the show from Geet's POV. But off late, things have changed. I understand where you have come from...but do know that silence can be a more dangerous thing than speaking hurtful words...for then, you don't know what's going on in the other person's mind. I believe Geet taunted him once and closed herself completely....this I feel is more serious than talking it out. And my understanding is, Maan pounced on Geet only after she tried defending Dev....his intent was to hurt Dev...never to hurt Geet.

To be honest I am only saying these from posts here and there. I have not read nor seen the episodes for a good amount of time now. But I do know what is happening. Of course all this can be hyped by the viewers..so I'm just posing what I make out of it...so please excuse my half knowledge.

Anyway we can go on and on and on on this...without taking this anywhere. Bottom line is...both Maan and Geet are at fault. they need to learn...and that was the whole point of my post too....but since the title is misleading...no one cares for it

Quote

Anita Patel

@Anita1118

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: dolphinUSA
@jyoti - good points. I'm all for believing both are at fault...but I do not understand one thing in your post. Why so much sympathy for Geet due to MC and none for Maan? Didn't he lose a baby too? Wasn't he a part of their life too? Sure the grief cannot be compared to that of Geet's....but giving her all benefit of doubt to act irrationally, is that right? I only feel...why does Maan have to go around begging for her forgiveness when both are at fault?

I agree...both are at fault....I am not against....Geet being upset with Maan....I am against....Geet leaving the house....I still think they should have had a talk before she decided to leave.....and as far as MC goes....I agree......Geet's pain is something no man can ever understand....and I am talking from experience.....so I have complete sympathy with Geet.....but Maan loved the baby as well.....we can't forget all he did for the baby too....Geet's initial reaction to Maan clearing out the baby room...I understand completely....but her reaction after he explained why he did what he did....that was wrong, in my eyes....he hid his pain for her.....but even after he explained himself...she was not willing to understand.....

Now in Geet's defense I will say...that finally after she forgave Dev, she did realize why Maan did what he did and even said to herself that she did not understand him and what he was doing....but again...we are back to square one....COMMUNICATION....in dono ko ek kamre me lock karke bithana chahiye.....and tell them jab tak tum saari misunderstandings clear nahin karte....darwaaza nahin khulega.....but yaar ye CV's ne bhi KC ka office hi badal diya hai....to ab to voh conference room bhi nahin hai jis ka lock atak jaata hai😉

Quote

Soapoperasrfun

@Soapoperasrfun

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

#69

I don't support Maan or Geet individually. Although I love Maan (😳), I am always for Maaneet. If either one of them is wrong, I will complain about it. Haan! Post hospital when Maan got angry and yelled at Geet I supported her. I gave a lot of galis to Maan. But this time, it is both of them. And I am quiet peeved that they are showing it to be only Maan's fault.

I suppose this is the reason maan has a lot of support this time around. Fans like me who are upset that all blame is being put on Maan. Not everyone knows to say taali ek haat se nahi bajti. Both of them are wrong and should regret their actions and make-up. To most it is easier to say Geet is wrong.

Quote

Anu

@AnuN

Navigator

Posted: 14 years ago

#70

Originally posted by: jyoti06
Well time and again I hv spoken for MSK😆 but since today there were posts putting all blame on Geet....so I thought of seeing things from Geet's perspective here for a change...thats the only reason I wrote it from Geet ka POV...😳...

Maan and Geet both hv gone through equal pain but the difference here is that Geet never used hurtful statements against Maan after the loss of their baby..when MSK shifted the nursery ,Geet was angry over him but she never spoke anything which would hurt him....right ?😳...and here MSK blurted out all his frustation related to Dev on Geet using those hurtful words

Very well said Jyoti.. I'd like to add one more thing. When Maan was upset before marriage and told her he had told docs to abort the baby, she did not over react, in fact, she told him she understands why he would have said so and also told him her only shikayat is he still does not think baby as his ansh.. And MSK said wrong words, but then we all know he did not mean it.. he was just angry. So I'm sure Maaneet will be together very soon.

Quote

1 ... 5 6 7 8 9 10

Geet- A woman of today or from the 18th century? - Page 7

Related Topics

Explore Topics