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Posted: 14 years ago
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THIS time ido not want maan to appologing . GEET should apologise from maan being not understanding him . she is always ready to leave home remember once in past she saw dev in maan,s home and thought that maan helped his bro ,and she left .gone to india paints .she always puts him in critical situations and promises to babaji not doning it again but😭if destiny gave her respect (MAAN) she should not take it granted.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Agreed though Geet had herself admitted that he talks less but when he does he speaks it right.Yet its same Geet who takes his words at face value & never reflects to think their meaning or emotions that are bare to her to see & feel.

She could see Darji & Dev's redemption, she could see Arjun - Nt's brother having a clean heart...all she fails to see always is Maan's unconditional love for her.
His blind trust in her. Any man in Maan's shoes seeing his wife nearly always some how around the man who had once married her though fake, stripped her of her virginity...any man could have questioned Geet on her fidelity but not Maan.
He loves & trusts her unconditionally hence he in his mad rage too never doubted her but Dev's intentions.

Yet she failed to see his love, this trust & only took words on face value & by leaving not alone humiliated the man who gave her new life, family, respect & love but also the sacred bond of matrimony & their love.
I don't want Maan alone made to apologize when the greater fault here is Geet's (my pov)as she first totally on her own decided & forgive Dev, then celebrated holi with him & with few rude words from her husband turned around & walked out not reflecting for a moment what made Maan say those words to her, dint give him opportunity nor she herself confronted him with her now hurt feelings.

Both should say sorry not one.



Edited by nanditasingh - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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They both were rong BUT they were doing it out of their undying love for each other but unintentionally hurt each other,.,so now i think their reunion shud be thrice as passionate n this shud bring them closer than ever n make their bond unbreakable..both of them need to apologize to each other..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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No he shouldnt its creatives who should ask for apology for cheating viewers for 1 year. If you have so much divine solution is store for Fakr NRI marriage why they extended it so long. Why not geet forgive DEV right there and moved on. Its geet who should ask for forgiveness for playing holi with rapist and not remembering what he did to you. Geet you sure attain Nirvana but lost respect in my eyes.

For creatives my question

Creatives you dont understand difference of crime and mistake and..............preaching wrong message..

Mistake is error can be rectified

Crime is deviant behavior that violates social and cultural norms how human being should behave in society. Harmful to society

..There is no forgiveness for crime ,(until served punishment)..its for mistake,,,,,,,..Lets preach forgiveness......why to fight.....better forgive and move on.....because fighting for justice cant be easy............its require.....ur past to interfere into present again and again.......You joined the league...rather you topped the league in worst solution..............forgive the rapist and attain Nirvana..............Cve better tell Dev to better accept his crime....and have his punishment,...........and come back after 10 years and then lecture us........and we will wait for 10 years to hear your theory on.Nirvana. from his mouth....Cvs you made him sound like he did mistakes not crime nor sin.......

For Geet..

. MSK was insulted by Geet in front of media called as.........traitor, abuser, no self respect guy who is using her for Dev '.........for forgiving his brother for his sins'( when it was misconception not actual truth ).and ........But when same question asked from other side.............and this verbal spat was just in 3 of them. for actually forgiving sinner ( no misconception) . When he questions her self respect .He was declared as inhuman and other as God. My question is why not anyone ask same question when she questioned his self respect and integritiy in front of all not once not twice but thrice. Even in anger he used that statement only once. Unless geet answer his query this question about self respect was genuine from his side. So instead of packing bags shouldn't she be waiting for him in bedroom for one nice communication to fill the gap. When last time MSK tried his best even after media spat to tell him truth.

Why not she did same this time. .IF she really wanted a new life and move on applied this larger than life concept of forgive and forget to her own rapist for their new life. Why she didnt do same thing to MSK right there. Why she didn't forgive him and forget better right there. Afterall raping self respect if deserve forgiveness a statement on self respect definitely earn forgiveness right there would add to your greatness ?

WHY the girl who is doing all this for MSK sake and their new life. Took such big step of forgiving rapist for new life' didn't thought of twice of forgiving ur own husband. ( really bad one actually who stood by you in your lows, pampered you , gave you respect, accepted your child like his own, saved ur life innumerable times, gave you repect you always expected from your family, rapist your never got one)

Why not she think of forgiving MSK for same new life for which you gave pardon to your own rapist.?

Why forgiving rapist is divine forgiving your husband is question to self respect?

Why raping your self respect is forgivable and question on self respect is not?

Why you never expected Dev to go on knees to ask for apology for what he did but you all expect MSk to do that?

Why self respect is so delusional or fictional to all of you, that you change its inner meaning entirely to suit it for Geet?

Every action is equal and opposite reaction....Maan statement was reaction to GEEt action of playing holi............So why you always blame reaction why no blame for action that triggered that reaction?



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Posted: 14 years ago
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@ Kul - BRAVO! No mincing with words ...love it Kul.

Yes the Cvs & the Channel (since thanks to Barry we know it was their idea to make rapist & victim celebrate holi). All the fight & cause the show started with saw such a End....its shocking & revolting.

I know shows are not made as mode to preach but that does not give them liberty to glamorize that a mere redemption alone that too not having served the punishment as per law makes everything alright.

It doesn't.

One may cry in the name of religion & God ..divine & all...... but given what may a woman, a human can forgive a murderer..as I read few give examples of.

But no woman can forgive & accept any kind of relationship with the man who had raped her, forget a pure bond of devar & bhabhi...according to religion & custom its a bond compared to that of mother & son so pure it is

I no way can see this between a victim & her rapist, Geet & Dev.

Ah! don't want to talk about her anymore as already my long long comment speaks my heart clear & loud.
Yeah as a woman i respect her no more....again my pov if it bothers or hurts anyone too bad.

Edited by nanditasingh - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nanditasingh



@ Kul - BRAVO! No mincing with words ...love it Kul.

Yes the Cvs & the Channel (since thanks to Barry we know it was their idea to make rapist & victim celebrate holi). All the fight & cause the show started with saw such a End....its shocking & revolting.

I know shows are not made as mode to preach but that does not give them liberty to glamorize that a mere redemption alone that too not having served the punishment as per law makes everything alright.


It doesn't.

One may cry in the name of religion & God ..divine & all...... but given what may a woman, a human can forgive a murderer..as I read few give examples of.

But no woman can forgive & accept any kind of relationship with the man who had raped her, forget a pure bond of devar & bhabhi...according to religion & custom its a bond compared to that of mother & son so pure it is

I no way can see this between a victim & her rapist, Geet & Dev.

Ah! don't want to talk about her anymore as already my long long comment speaks my heart clear & loud.
Yeah as a woman i respect her no more....again my pov if it bothers or hurts anyone too bad.





No they dont have liberty to do that....IF they just wanted to stress on Love story drama.
....They should have started Dil mil gaye...not GEET stroy of girl..who is victim of FAKE NRI marriage...
.They should have started KMH....not GEET story of struggle of betrayed wife traumatized daughter

but When you make show on social issue you owe responsiblity to society.............Where GHSP failed miserably....
Edited by kuls11 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: kuls11


No they dont have liberty to do that....IF they just wanted to stress on Love story drama.
....They should have started Dil mil gaye...not GEET stroy of girl..who is victim of FAKE NRI marriage...
.They should have started KMH....not GEET story of struggle of betrayed wife traumatized daughter

but When you make show on social issue you owe responsiblity to society.............Where GHSP failed miserably....




I have nothing more to say but i made it bold & increased the size hoping if the creatives or representatives really do visit forums they don't miss it.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Agree!šŸ‘šŸ¼ I dun want one-sided apology! They better show both of them apologizing or none of them!! && I dun want Geet giving attitude to maan while he's trying to stop her cuz she's @ fault too && neither do I want Maan giving attitude[which I'm sure he won't cuz he's the one who's going to get her back]!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Don't think too much about sorry. Just watch out for lovely manneet moments that will come after this whole drama😳
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I am not with U
Maan didn't think before saying those harsh words




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