As I Saw My Life Fade Away - Page 8

Originally posted by: rabia04ful

hi nandita..

well came back after reading some other comments..

as far as geet is concernced we hv seen tht geet doesnt understand maan the way he does..

n if u notice tht in real life this does happens...itw not always perfect blend from both sides in a relationship....one of the person put extra effort...n has the ability of listening the un said words thts Maan..

but u will not find this in geet...she never understood maan tht way...

she will take time..as when in holi epi he was slepping...she could sense something is wrong with him its not about headache or him being shy...

so bit more time is req...

Originally posted by: my_view

Thanks Nandita. Awesome post.!

I have lost count of the number of times she has run away from Maan.. In real life if anyone did that they would have less than sure shot chance of coming back but here she knows Maan will come running after her so the consequences of leaving home never bothers her.

If MSK has to learn what not to say when angry, Geet has to learn to deal with Maan's anger situation without running away. In others words both need to learn to communicate and understand each other better than they have been.

Originally posted by: 3020rubina

VERY WELL DONE😛👏

Question is not if would have forgive or forget what he did to geet........Point is if its right thing to do if you believe in it..........When he saw Geet being almost killed by her own parents'HE advised her to complain agsint her own family and given she was not guarded by him . Its personal belief what you believe what you follow. Sorry to say geet preach something else follow something else. Whereas Maan follow and preach same principles,

As everyone here has short term memory lets take aroute to past . MSK was insulted by Geet in front of media called as.........traitor, abuser, no self respect guy who is using her for Dev '.........for forgiving his brother for his sins'( when it was misconception not actual truth ).and ........But when same question asked from other side.............and this verbal spat was just in 3 of them. for actually forgiving sinner ( no misconception) . When he questions her self respect .He was declared as inhuman and other as God. My question is why not anyone ask same question when she questioned his self respect and integritiy in front of all not once not twice but thrice. Even in anger he used that statement only once. Unless geet answer his query this question about self respect was genuine from his side. So instead of packing bags shouldn't she be waiting for him in bedroom for one nice communication to fill the gap. When last time MSK tried his best even after media spat to tell him truth.

Why not she did same this time. .IF she really wanted a new life and move on applies that large than life concept of forgive and forget to her own rapist for their new life. Why she dint do same thing to MSK right there. Why she didn't forgive him and forget better right there. Afterall rapinf self respect if deserve forgiveness a statement on self respect definitely earn forgiveness right there. ?

WHY the girl who is doing all this for MSK sake and their new life. Took such big step of forgiving rapist for new life'didn't thought of twice of forgiving ur own husband. ( really bad one actually who stood by you in your lows, pampered you , gave you respect, accepted your child like his own, saved ur life innumerable times, gave you repect you always expected from your family, rapist your never got one)

Why not she think of forgiving MSK for same new life for which you give pardon to your own rapist.?

Why forgiving rapist is divine forgiving your husband is question to self respect?

Why raping your self respect is forgivable and question on self respect is not?

Why you never expected Dev to go on knees to ask for apology for what he did but you all expect MSk to do that?

Why self respect is so delusional or fictional to all of you, that you change its aspects and meaning entirely to suit it for Geet?

You hear one thing every action is equal and opposite reaction....Maan statement was reaction to GEEt action of playing holi............So why you always blame reaction why no blame for action that triggered that reaction?

Originally posted by: kuls11

Question is not if would have forgive or forget what he did to geet'''Point is if its right thing to do if you believe in it''When he saw Geet being almost killed by her own parents'HE advised her to complain agsint her own family and given she was not guarded by him . Its personal belief what you believe what you follow. Sorry to say geet preach something else follow something else. Whereas Maan follow and preach same principles,

As everyone here has short term memory lets take aroute to past . MSK was insulted by Geet in front of media called as'.traitor, abuser, no self respect guy who is using her for Dev '.'for forgiving his brother for his sins'( when it was misconception not actual truth ).and '' 'But when same question asked from other side'and this verbal spat was just in 3 of them. for actually forgiving sinner ( no misconception) . When he questions her self respect .He was declared as inhuman and other as God. My question is why not anyone ask same question when she questioned his self respect and integritiy in front of all not once not twice but thrice. Even in anger he used that statement only once. Unless geet answer his query this question about self respect was genuine from his side. So instead of packing bags shouldn't she be waiting for him in bedroom for one nice communication to fill the gap. When last time MSK tried his best even after media spat to tell him truth.

Why not she did same this time. .IF she really wanted a new life and move on applies that large than life concept of forgive and forget to her own rapist for their new life. Why she dint do same thing to MSK right there. Why she didn't forgive him and forget better right there. Afterall rapinf self respect if deserve forgiveness a statement on self respect definitely earn forgiveness right there. ?

WHY the girl who is doing all this for MSK sake and their new life. Took such big step of forgiving rapist for new life'didn't thought of twice of forgiving ur own husband. ( really bad one actually who stood by you in your lows, pampered you , gave you respect, accepted your child like his own, saved ur life innumerable times, gave you repect you always expected from your family, rapist your never got one)

Why not she think of forgiving MSK for same new life for which you give pardon to your own rapist.?

Why forgiving rapist is divine forgiving your husband is question to self respect?

Why raping your self respect is forgivable and question on self respect is not?

Why you never expected Dev to go on knees to ask for apology for what he did but you all expect MSk to do that?

Why self respect is so dilluisional or fictional to all of you to suit your need for geet you change expect of it totally entirely?

You hear one thing every action is equal and opposite reaction....Maan statement was reaction to GEEt action of playing holi............So why you always blame reaction why no blame for action that triggered that reaction?

Perfect is the only word i have ....

Originally posted by: nanditasingh

Its comments like this that makes me want to plead Vijay for a Love Button as Like Button does no justice to this

Perfect is the only word i have ....

Yes why is our concept of self respect so delusional & can be molded to suit our whim to be supporting a woman only coz we are woman...are we not humans first then why not look at things as that.

One thing that always shocked & amused me is when a woman's pride is hurt it is called self respect but when a man's pride is hurt its called bruised ego.

Thank you for bringing up such amazing points it makes it all more evident why Maan said what he did & is right in doing so..exactly why blame the reaction when its the action that triggered

Originally posted by: kuls11

I want to know same ..when you.question MSK self respect than you have strong shield of your dark past and when he questioned you about your self respect than also you are shielded because your are women with dark past and recent miscarriage....
Poor MSK nor Creatives show his past nor he can have MC.............

Originally posted by: kuls11

Question is not if would have forgive or forget what he did to geet........Point is if its right thing to do if you believe in it..........When he saw Geet being almost killed by her own parents'HE advised her to complain agsint her own family and given she was not guarded by him . Its personal belief what you believe what you follow. Sorry to say geet preach something else follow something else. Whereas Maan follow and preach same principles,

As everyone here has short term memory lets take aroute to past . MSK was insulted by Geet in front of media called as.........traitor, abuser, no self respect guy who is using her for Dev '.........for forgiving his brother for his sins'( when it was misconception not actual truth ).and ........But when same question asked from other side.............and this verbal spat was just in 3 of them. for actually forgiving sinner ( no misconception) . When he questions her self respect .He was declared as inhuman and other as God. My question is why not anyone ask same question when she questioned his self respect and integritiy in front of all not once not twice but thrice. Even in anger he used that statement only once. Unless geet answer his query this question about self respect was genuine from his side. So instead of packing bags shouldn't she be waiting for him in bedroom for one nice communication to fill the gap. When last time MSK tried his best even after media spat to tell him truth.

Why not she did same this time. .IF she really wanted a new life and move on applies that large than life concept of forgive and forget to her own rapist for their new life. Why she dint do same thing to MSK right there. Why she didn't forgive him and forget better right there. Afterall rapinf self respect if deserve forgiveness a statement on self respect definitely earn forgiveness right there. ?

WHY the girl who is doing all this for MSK sake and their new life. Took such big step of forgiving rapist for new life'didn't thought of twice of forgiving ur own husband. ( really bad one actually who stood by you in your lows, pampered you , gave you respect, accepted your child like his own, saved ur life innumerable times, gave you repect you always expected from your family, rapist your never got one)

Why not she think of forgiving MSK for same new life for which you give pardon to your own rapist.?

Why forgiving rapist is divine forgiving your husband is question to self respect?

Why raping your self respect is forgivable and question on self respect is not?

Why you never expected Dev to go on knees to ask for apology for what he did but you all expect MSk to do that?

Why self respect is so delusional or fictional to all of you, that you change its aspects and meaning entirely to suit it for Geet?

You hear one thing every action is equal and opposite reaction....Maan statement was reaction to GEEt action of playing holi............So why you always blame reaction why no blame for action that triggered that reaction?