Originally posted by: --Nargis--
Maan is made to be a demi GOD...but I don't know why. Believe me when i say that I love the character of Maan...but I am not blind to his faults..in fact i love him more for them, for he is more real to me this way. I see him as a PERFECTLY IMPERFECT Man...that I love, but there are many many fans who think that Maan can never be wrong...and just to play up to them, i think the CVs have started to portray his character as such too.
I agree with you that some people think like that, but i am sure that CV's do not think that way.....
I want the Maan that I fell in love with, the one that loves with everything and the one that fights with everything...the one that hates with a passion too. Where is the Maan jo toot ke pyaar karta tha, jo toot ke dushmani nibhata tha, jo toote ke ladta tha, who would say whatever came to his mind, just because he felt that was the TRUTH...not just his interpretation.
I think Maan is there, but we are over analysing him...He is the same Maan nags raani...He is the same, but now he has the responsibilities, he has concern of everything....And i think when you love someone so much, sometime you forget your ownself in so many things, and i am seeing that MSK....I adores him still, cause he changed himself for someone alot......His everything comes after Geet, accepted or not, even his ego, even his any type of attitude....
I want the Maan....who made mistakes, who was wrong too.....why should Geet have to continually apologize...and be lowered....what message are the CVs sending that the MAN is always right, and the the WOMAN must always concede?
Again Maan is human, he does mistakes, he also do wrong things, and that CV's showed that he even gone over board, but this is woman nature that she easily forgive the person who she loves alot...And specially when she found out the man proved his self wrong only for her sake....I don't blame CV's cause somehow they proves that how woman is born with the golden heart....
For I hope not, because I am a women of this Millennium....I do not cower to anyone, but when I am right, i expect to be priased, and when i am wrong (very infrequently ...of course..😉), I will aplogize, but I will not demean or lower my self for it!!
You are different Nags, we are different, we are grown up in normal atmosphere, whereas Geet hadn't, so when she found Maan in her life, who always gave her everything, who always thinks about her happiness before his, what do you expect, she would behave like us? No for her definitely Maan is her God, her life saver...Uski zindagi Maan hi ki amanat hai, so i think we are wrong who wants her to be like any one of us, no she will not gonna.....She has guts to stand for her self, she has guts to stand for truth, she has fighting spirit, but that doesnt mean that where she thinks she is wrong, she doesnt apologise?.....
I did not make this post to offend anyone, but lately, I feel that Maan's character is given all of the GREATNESS and GEET's character is left to fester in the apologies....why???
No, nothing is like that, i don't feel like this, cause they had proved himself wrong so many times, but its Geet who gives him the place of greatness....And i think for her he is great, and you can't change this fact at all....
Today's episode left this sour taste in my mouth, that I could not swallow!!! Why was Geet made to forget all those harsh words of Maan? I understand that Maan's intention was good....but the way he handled the situation was more than piss poor. Why was Maan not made to explain his behavior more than I was helpless!!
It's just the situation which calms her down...First after the fight they both hadn't come in front of eachother, cause Maan left for Chandigarh...And second before they would met, doctor told her the reason as to why he was keeping himself away from her...Those 2 situation's calm her down that when Maan came in front of her, she forgot everything, even she hadn't forgot, but she wiped that away from her memory, cause once again she has thought his love, his concern that she didn't even thought to ask anything to hurt him...If she would ask him that why he said those harsh words, do you think he wouldn't be more guilty...Aap ko toh yeh sochna chahiye ke Geet kitni achi patni hai jo apne pati ko uski nazron se girana nahin chahti...Seriously i loved Geet, good, she hadn't repeat the same rubbish and accepted her mistake...She did her duty, and i am happy for her....
Again in today's episode...i thought it was so illogical for her to go literally RUNNING to Maan....her Bhagwaan. When the doctor told her that she had asked Maan to maintain the distance for the safelty of the baby...Geet's only reaction was to humble herself yet again to Maan....but not once was it shown that she WORRIED for her baby. I mean it must be serous...her child's life must be in danger, yet GEET is shown only to be concerned with the sacrifice the Maan is making...not he potential DANGER that this baby who apparently is her first priority...supposedly over Maan...so what happened yet again. The CVs hyped Maan's sacrifice of a SR....not Geet's concern for her baby!!
I know she should has to be careful, and think about her condition, but the way she is pagal behind Maan, what you expect? She was waiting for him like a crazy lover, every minute was hard for her to wait, and when she sensed him near her, she had forgot everything, even her own condition....Nags yeh pagal pyaar hai, normal nahin, jo hum yahan normal sochey kuch bhi.....
What do you guys think.....please let me know. If you think I am wrong, then i am open to be convinced otherwise!!!
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