Just in time for a quickie😲 (don't let ur imagines run wild, i mean a short post😉)
My response to the thread was purely in context of MSK being made out to be a demi god. However, as is the wont, there are two sides to a coin and each of the facets needs be explored.
Therefore one needs to look at Geet's dimension too. That Geet considers Maan her guardian angel is known and rightfully so but the whole drama that unfolded last week resulted from Geet's lack of faith as well. In that context alone she too is partly to be blamed for the misunderstanding and the consequences.
In the episode where Maan finally mouths " I love you" amidst fake snow fall and the episode where Maan asks Geet to wear the taveez, she says, that every word uttered by MSK is the final word for her, acknowledging her trust implicitly.
At 18-19, she is young but her life experiences aren't what an average teenager would have been through. Just as she trusts blindly, marches on without thinking of the consequences and is ever ready to face come what may, she was hasty in jumping to conclusions as well. Maan did create a web of mistrust by his actions and unthoughtful words, inciting Geet to cast doubts on their relationship, but that alone doesn't absolve her of not rationalising Maan's behavior.
Maan has time and again proved the extent to which he could go for Geet's well being and happiness. What's the point of a relationship when you have to say -I love you, I trust you, I repsect you, I would go to the end of the world for you-every single day or each time there has been a disagreement.
Jaise jhoot ko chilla chillake sau baar bolne se woh sach nahi ho jata...vaise hi har baar apne pyaar ki duhai dena bhi zaroori nahi hai.
After all the PDA and not so PDA by MSK, Geet could have approached Maan with her concerns in a less aggressive way, instead of launching a verbal attack. Yes, she was incited by Maan but gauging from her understanding of Maan she could have shown some restraint.
During the sangeet episodes, Geet persists in questioning Maan and gently nudges him into a comfort zone and extricates the truth out of him about the baby vs mom dilemma.
The same approach would have been far better and the ugly turn that the argument did take eventually and the showdown could have been avoided.She let herself be influenced by external factors, like the TV show, and summed up 2 and 2 to be 5 and presumed a host of issues.
She wears stliettos to a date because Maan casually mentioned that he prefers girls in them. She takes Anni's advice and dresses up to seduce Maan the way its done on a tv show.
Woh kehte hai na, rishto mein kisi teesre ki jagah nahi hoti hai aur honi bhi nahi chahiye. Geet doesnt need a women, her self doubts and imagined grouses are enough to escalate things between them.
Only because the character is young, naive and gullible I forgive Geet for her hand in this mess. But CV can sure do better and not show such contradictions. On the other hand Maan compounded the misery by making stupid statements like..." Maine tumhe Khurana khandaan ki bahu banaya, ais o aaram diye...." which were spiteful to say the least.
One can't take back words just as one can't reverse time. MSK losing his temper is one thing and going overboard with his verbal backlash is quite the other.
Dont have time to read through another thread on the forum which speaks about saying and meaning sorry. And I do agree with the author of that post and have read the book she quotes therein.
Saying sorry helps but backing it up with excuses only ruins the effect and renders the apology tendered in vain.
Vaise sorry bolne se koi chota ya bada nahi ho jata. Geet ne apne behavior ke liye maafi maangi aur baat wahan par uski taraf se khatam hoti hai. Aagey se is baat ka khayal rakhe toh kaafi hai. Maan's apology however was too little too late and unjustified in proportion to his outburst. Mutual admiration ka toh suna tha aur dekha bhi hai lekin yeh toh mutual I am sorry forever club hai😆!
And yes, an angry Maan is very very delicious. Irresistible almost!😉
In conclusion, Geet could have not let her imagined worries get the better off her reasoning and prevented the needless drama. Maan could have handled the already sensitive issue a lot more tactfully than he did.
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